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Saturday, May 02, 2020

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative....

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
TRADITION CONCERNING FINANCIAL INVESTMENTS IN MARRIAGE


I feel so betrayed, I feel cheated. But I fear for the future because I’m very vindictive.

My marriage is less than a year old. My husband is someone you can call rich based on his salary but he doesn’t care about savings or investments, he earns more than me but he’d rather spend on his family where he would get praises and before the next pay check he’s already broke.

Honestly, he has always been like this right from when we started dating but I felt he would change once he sees someone that will point him in the right direction. So recently, an opportunity came up and I advised him to buy now and re sell later it as it will yield him a lot of money in less than 5 years. My husband refused so I told him I will buy it for myself, he said ok.

On the day I was supposed to finalize everything and make payments, I couldn’t go so I told him to go on my behalf.

My husband went with his brother and did everything in both their names.

Meanwhile, our agreement was that he will buy it in my name and put his name as a witness.

I was confused when I saw the papers, I confronted him immediately and he called his brother into our room to explain things to me.

The brother told me, in their family, it is forbidden for women to own properties that my husband has told him how I have a lot of investments, that i have to change the names on the papers to my husband’s and one of his brothers until I have a son, then i can remove the brother’s name and add our sons name.

I was stunned!

I asked my husband if he knew about this culture and why didn’t he tell me before marriage? He said he didn’t think it was necessary, that he feels it’s common sense for me to know that whatever belongs to a wife belongs to the husband.


Stella, I’ve been working since I was 17 years old, I took over my mum’s shop after my dad beat her to death and committed suicide in prison so I Put myself and younger siblings through school. All through hard work. I never slept with a man for a dime, In fact I married a virgin. I am 36years old now. I have only had one vacation my entire adult life and my siblings literally forced me to. All I do is work!! 


I do not even have up to 500k in my account because I invest a lot and these people think they can use one silly culture to steal everything I’ve worked for from me?


I calmly told my husband I know nothing neither am I interested in that culture, that he should quietly change the names on that document as I do not think he wants to have problems with me concerning this.

The brother flared up and called me a troublemaker, that I’m not submissive, I’m a bitter feminist, that I’m not ready to be married, I should just pack my things and leave his brother’s house etc (Please note that I built the home we currently live in years before I met my husband).

I didn’t exchange words with him as he was not the one I gave money to. I just told him to excuse my husband and I to have a conversation, my husband insisted that I can say whatever I want to say in his brother’s presence.

I just kept shut and the brother continued quarreling and my husband said it in clear terms that there won’t be peace in our marriage until I hand over all my documents to him, after a while, they left the house. My husband hasn’t been home in 3 days now. I’ve made my findings and I know the hotel he’s staying at and his room number. I am tempted to pull a gun on him to get him to change the names on the documents because I know he doesn’t have the cash to pay me back.

It has become clear to me that he married me because of what I have and I thank God we do not have any kids yet so moving on should be easy.

I witnessed what a bad marriage is in my early years and what it does to people and I will never put myself or children through it.




*Has it occurred to you that you may be in danger of being eliminated?he has probably moved to the hotel so that he can have an alibi when something happens to you...whatever else you are planning please make sure you have security around you and make sure he does not come back to the house until you both sort out the problem.....

As for that tradition stuff,thats just bullocks to rip you off....

252 comments:

  1. You have been scammed.
    I am so scared for you.
    He could eliminate you and take over those documents/house.

    Oh Lord please protect this poster.

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    1. No such thing as culture poster!!! I'm a property Lawyer so I know this. The law allows women to own properties in Nigeria and any custom that disallow women to own property will be repugnant and disregarded. Don't allow anyone to deceive you with any yeye cultureoooo. Meet a lawyer to explain more to you...your hubby is just a very selfish and greedy person. My hubby even put some of our properties in my name and he's a lawyer too...Don't be deceived. If you put your properties in their name, walayi it won't end well

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    2. This is problem with men who like pleasing family. I can swear your hubby is just acting up to please his brother. To show him he's the man...Want to rip from a woman's sweat. May thunder fire him. I'm just soooooo angry

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    3. Poster change the locks
      That man has no right coming back!

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    4. Hmmmmmm

      Poster, you walked right into trouble o!

      Don't be drastic with your decision so they won't harm you.

      Since you now know who he is, you have to take time to plan your exit.

      Yes you will loose some things (the price you pay for your life); but in the end you will be far gone from this wickedness.

      Play along with wisdom for this particular mistake.

      Then gradually start hiding stuffs and selling stuffs he is aware of. You are a woman. Dig deep inside you for wisdom.

      When you have hidden enough and still pampering his silly stupid ego while at it, create a reason for a divorce and go.

      You can plan relocation and claim one program to do abroad. Just figure things out and silently frustrate his life that he doesn't even want you metres around him again.

      I am giving you this advice because people have died for lesser things. They will just off you and silence your siblings too as you guys are orphans.

      May God help you. Pele dear!

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    5. Your life is in danger. Once you sign everything to them they will kill you and if you refused to sign it willingly they will use violence(hired killer or they themselves) and force you to sign it before killing you.

      Please run for your life go to the station file complaint, let them know nothing must happen to you make noise about this.

      Please rent out the apartment you are staying now out and get another unknown place to stay.

      Let all your siblings knows about this, SPEAK OUT. Everything has been planned from day one. I won't be surprised if he has another family somewhere else.

      Lastly that man dont want any children from you is your properties they need.

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    6. And please pray they can go diabolic on you.

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    7. Hmmmmm.... dear poster, I'm very sorry to read dis and I can't imagine how betrayed you feel.
      1st off, if you have evidence of cash transfer and the land documents with you, pls give them to a lawyer.

      2ndly, pls let him know he's not your next of kin in any of ur investment doc and even do a fake showing that the investments go to an orphanage in case of ur demise, so that he will know beforehand that ur death won't benefit him. His broda knows how to have his name in a land document dat he doesn't have a dime in and is coming to tell his sister inlaw bullcrap, thief!

      3rdly, change the fridging locks and domestic staffs in ur home and pls, inform the police in ur area, ur siblings and lawyer of what is going on

      4thly, leave him to exhaust his stay in the hotel and decide what he wants to do. That man is not ready to add to you, so pls protect yourself from him and whatever vices of cuture he wants to use against himself and not you.

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    8. Keep secrets in marriage, una no go hear. Why on earth did he even know about your investments? That house you're living in, you're supposed to be collecting rent from him through a lawyer.

      Please be very careful. I will advise you let this one go.

      If I'm you, I will put the house we live in for sale immediately and move somewhere else.

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    9. I SCREAMED after reading this evil chronicle

      Jesuuuuuus this lady is in a dangerous place


      Hungry mucheches husband and brother

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    10. This man is a gold digger. He wants to reap where he didn't sow...consider your loss for the investment you sent him to do on your behalf. Quietly get a lawyer and go your separate ways.
      He does not value you nor your marriage. If he had his own investment, he won't be claiming your sweat.

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    11. Poster, it's well with you. Please,calm down and do not react negatively. You have to apply wisdom and caution before this people will endanger your life.

      Kindly, involve your family and get security personnel to guard you.

      Involve a lawyer immediately.
      God protect you.

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    12. You are in a lion's den,don't allow your sweat to go down the drain. Those ppl are scammers, change the locks, look for a place to hide for now, file for a divorce and save yourself and remember you have your Siblings to take care of so no time for fake love

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    13. Poster be very very cautious. I don't trust your husband and his brother, they are up to no good...i doubt that culture exists. Be careful please.

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    14. Poster, first get a lawyer and quit you brother in-law from your house then sue your husband for fraud and get a restraining order against your husband and brother in-law so they don't come near you, your home or workplace.

      Lease out your house and rent a smaller place. Secure all your documents legally and inform your siblings of everything you are going through.

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    15. I hope this story is a nollywood script sha.....what in the Actual f**k is this???
      Where did u find a man with such mentality alongside an even more backward family. U shld have seen dey are slave drivers and users in dere family. That is how i read smwere someones prospective inlaw was always begging her for money and taxing her. From dere u will know such family are hungry and greedy and dont venture dere

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    16. There's no marriage here and be thankful no child so clean break.
      Forget your age,u can start again so far u have ur life and sanity. You have been through alot in life so not being married should not break you.
      Just move on. These people are devils agent dat has come to steal and destroy any woman they meet. GOD FORBID

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    17. What a chronicle. Madam call your siblings and let them know what’s up. Pack his things and move them to the outside gate for him. Go to police and make report.
      What a criminal opportunist you married. You made a big mistake marrying him but it’s not late if you wake up now. Do not disclose your investments to another man. You can rent this present house and move elsewhere.
      Tell your coworkers your marriage is over so he doesn’t cross the office. HE WILL KILL YOU!!!

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    18. Get a lawyer sharp sharp, change the key locks and remove every document you have to somewhere safe, also let your siblings know even pastor. This is not marriage dear, face your life and do not let these people kill you all because of marriage.

      May God protect and guide your ways. Amen

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    19. What did I just read? You married a crook, a fraudstar, scammer, 419, imposter, gold digger, bastard!!! I am so pissed reading this right now. You need to act up and get things done asap. He deceived you and that's bad of him. Get him arrested. OMG! I don't even know what to say. He needs serious beatings. I can imagine how you feel right now. He even has the right to leave the house after everything he did? Oh no! His brother is the real bitch in fact get both of them arrested, lock them up, sue them. Ah! What nonsense. Tradition my foot. Don't you have brothers too? What nonsense! They are all fools

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    20. Thank God for exposing them at this stage in your marriage and not years later. Go to the police station and make a report for threat to life and fraud. The police will arrest both of them and make them write a statement that they will be held responsible if anything happens to you. Then change the locks where you live, rent it out, and go rent somewhere or move in with a sibling for a while if you can. This is not marriage and God exposed their evil plan early so thank Him. Divorce him asap but make sure they write that undertaking at the police station. Don't keep quite o, let your siblings know. Let your workers know you are no longer married and he is not allowed near you. If you have domestic workers that can be giving him information about you, change them.

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  2. How on earth will you trust someone like your husband to finalize such thing for you in the first place? What were you doing that you couldn't suspend? You really fumbled for involving him and he also involved his brother.

    Forget that tradition, there's nothing like that, they just played you because they knew you're yet to learn your lesson




    *Larry was here*

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    1. Almost like yesterday's poster. Industrious women and leach husbands everywhere.

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    2. @Saphire yesterday's post got nothing to do with this.

      Lovelace

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    3. Poster as far as I am concerned you do not have a marriage. Get that man and his brother arrested ASAP. Get them to sign an undertaking that If you as much as have a flat tyre while driving or get bitten by a mosquitoe, he should be held responsible. They should be made to hand over your property back. Bloody thieves!

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    4. Madam please be very careful at this point, imagine what came out of their mouth, you should put your investments in your husbands name and one of the brother's name, why?

      What kind of nonsense talk is that one, your sweat, sha is you that fucked things up, you know the kind of man you were dating and you opened your mouth and told him about the things you have acquired, I'm really scared for you and I pray nothing will happen to you. Like some bv's said make sure you have yojrs siblings around you and security too. Imagine they are already saying you should leave the house, now imagine what will happen when you hand things over to him and he divorces you.

      This little experience has opened your eyes to the wicked greedy man you married, guard your sweat, and get a good lawyer to take back what is yours, I'm angry.

      I'm showing this chronicle to my fiance so I will know the kind of person he is.

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    5. I am livid, users all of them! Horrible horrible terrible people, it will never be well with them. I am so furious, e pain me well well.
      Now sis be very afraid because your life is in danger. This man have no atom of Love for you. Get them arrested, get a lawyer because they are to sign undertaken in case anything happens to you. Do not bother about your marriage sis, you are single. You need to act fast.

      Melancholy

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    6. Poster please be careful at this time. Call your siblings and report to them let them know what transpired so that if anything happens to you they know who to hold responsible.
      Please leave that sorry ass of a husband already because he is a sisi and his lich of a family will never let you be. I have faced a similar situation for the past 9years. I have worked and nothing to show for it, my husband has a good job yet we drive a rickety car with no investment because he had to train younger ones even after training them they won't let him be. Once it's pay day, they will start calling and asking for money for one thing or the other, or to borrow money that they will never return. I am feed up and sad all the time but my own is bad because I have two kids. You can still get yourself out of this situationship.

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    7. If there's any way you can meet those people to issue you another document or tell them to call your husband that they don't want to sell again, he should come and collect the money, then go with some officer and when your husband comes, collect the money, kwatakwata the marriage will end there with him signing an undertaking that no harm should befall you.

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    8. She did nothing wrong sending the man to sign it for her. He said he wasn't interested so why should he put it on his and his brother's name? If you live with a man you cannot send message and have no fear of him scamming you then OYO be your case because it shouldn't be so.

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  3. God bless you Stella,was surprised you deleted the comment this morning on morning post. Dear poster,don't allow anyone push you into war that may get you killed!!! Please let go.A man that had the nerves to swindle you alongside his family can as well kill you through diabolic means. If you are really up to the task as in well fortified spiritually,madam,go ahead and give them hell.

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  4. These ones can murder you. Set up an SOS alert on your phone first, put hidden cameras where possible then get you a lawyer.do everything secretly so that you are two steps ahead sounds like you he wanted you for what you had and he will listen to his brother if he ask him to wipe you out.Start planning yourself o

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    1. This Chronicle shook me,
      How can someone be this evil ,
      Madame to be very honest with you, your safety isn't guaranteed at all.

      I hope you've proof of the transaction and also proof of calls and negotiations for the property.

      Engage the services of a lawyer and also involve the police , do not reveal your plans else you'd be in more danger.

      This was never a marriage but a very deceitful route to defraud you of all your toils, be grateful you do not have a child(ren)

      Honestly it's not even safe to be under the same roof neither is it safe to just be at home cos you do not know their next move , I'd advise you don't keep silent make sure your family is aware but urge them to be calm that you've a plan .

      Please act fast so you don't lose your life and investment.

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  5. Please ma, don't change anything oh. What kind of culture is that? Don't do anything,you will regret tomorrow. How can a man pack his bags to live with a woman? Leave his brother to rant. I'm scared on your behalf, I pray they don't hurt you, cause the family looks greedy.

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    1. Please let go of that particular property. Change your locks and check out of that house for the meantime.
      Move then file for divorce.
      I dont think her husband is a gold digher.
      He is rich.
      He is just a village wicked man.

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    2. No she shouldn't let go
      She should involve the police and a lawyer this is plain evil .
      I hate wickedness.

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  6. See tradition ontop of a woman's hard earned money. Sorry to say that your husband and his brother are shameless.

    It is crystal clear now that he wants to inherit all your properties. Please, instead of killing him or having him kill you, just let him go with that property and if you have make up your mind to end the marriage, change all the locks in your house, change your security and engage the services of a good security outfit.

    I wish you all the best.

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  7. Wat kind of man is that, clear ur brother inlaw that you built the house with ur money and not his and he should change the name to urs , if not just report to the authority so they can trash everything out.

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  8. Really?
    What a "marriage!"
    What I just read here isn't even a business partnership because in business partnership, each partner contributes and receives profits according to the percentage contributed.
    It looks more like a slavish mafia gang ripping off the gullible and "uninformed".๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ
    Please holster that your gun before you end up in jail. He is not worth the troubles at all.
    And please seek/have the shelter that Jesus gives. For in him you will have peace. A person's life does not constitute in the abundance of ones possessions.

    I have always advocated on this blog, preparation for marriage, not just wedding. Please young ladies reading this, do courtship properly. I am not saying this poster did not do her properly. But most especially, be guided by God in your quest for the things of this life.

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  9. Yeye man, he had to bring in his brother to speak for him. Armed robbers hiding behind tradition.

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  10. Plz pull down heaven and earth to reverse it. I cannot as a human being sweat and toil and one person will want to make my labour go to waste for some stupid tradition! God abeg o. This chronicle has spoilt my day! Lawyers in the house plz what can this woman do legally. Jeeeeezzzz

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    1. I'm telling you. This chronicle spoilt my mood. I feel so upset on the woman's behalf.
      Poster i'm so sorry this happened. Involve as many people as you can NOW. Do Not Keep This Quiet.

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    2. As in ehn , it really made me sad. This is manipulation and intimidation.

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    3. I have read the post for the second time,and is really making me think so hard.

      Please madam, get a serious lawyer as soon as possible to help you out recover the landed documents and possibly save you your house, and bring members of your family into this issue,you can't lose all you have worked for.

      Some guys are looking for women to swindle of their hard earn money/investment.

      May God see you through.

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    4. Chai! Yesterday's Chronicle and today's own is too bad! Can make someone run mad!

      What kind f thing is this sef? How can someone suffer n anoda person wi come from no where n be playing James chukwudi bond?

      Poster pls stay safe oo
      Pack out from dat house, involve ur siblings let dem kno what's up.

      Haba?
      Which kind witchcraft man is dat?
      Thank God dey hav shown their true sef. Abeg start divorce process sharp sharp cos this type of person can kill without thinking twice!

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    5. exactly ๐Ÿ’ฏ
      Postor do not let this man reap you of your sweat

      Evil is Evil period !!!

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  11. I really pity you sis but anything you do now,please be smart about it.

    That marriage you are in is not marriage at all,kindly find a way of escape because they might want to even harm you. Above all be prayerful...
    I pray God will see you through all these

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  12. Oh goodness! Why are some men so greedy and selfish? His own common sense did not tell him to invest and do the right thing with his own future, right? Please poster get your properties back that's all I'll tell you. Some of this selfish men are in a woman's life to destroy their destiny. This one you married is a typical example of one of them. May God continue to keep me and mine from such.
    I sense his brother putting all this ideas in his head. I wonder why most men don't have a mind of their own. It's really pathetic

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  13. Heavens know no man born of a woman living under this sun will steal from me with tactics like this and the love won't clear from my eyes by now.

    I'm really pissed and shaking even as I read this. This is not marriage, please drag his silly ass to court, sue him for your money. Let him change the documents to your name and sue him for emotional torture and robbing you off your peace of mind. Two idiots looking to reap from where they did not sow.

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  14. This man is a con man. You should hand over everything to him? It is obvious what he is after.

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  15. Hmmm.. Please be extra-careful. if possible, leave the house and operate or fight from.there. How can he come and reap where he did not sow.

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  16. I don't think pulling up on him like that is a good move. You don't want to lose your money and still go to jail.

    Involve a lawyer asap and record conversations you have with your husband and inlaws. Hold on to a copy of the property paper because you will need it as alibi to get your money back. Then get security because your life might be in danger, girl.

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    1. @Perxiqn... and also get her bank statement printed out where she transferred the money for the property either the agent or her wicked husband.

      I was so livid reading her chronicle.

      Poster, please calm down and go the way of the Law.
      From natural human reaction, the first thoughts that would pop into one's mind would be a deadly revenge. Do not dwell on such.

      Take several deep breaths and deliberately make rational decisions.
      Pray to God for wisdom to overcome your enemies.

      That's how I took a troublesome person unawares using legal means to clip the wings.

      You will overtake and recover all in Jesus Christ name. Amen ❤️๐Ÿค—

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    2. Poster take this advice!!!

      Document EVERYTHING!!! Get a lawyer involved, change the locks of your house.. Sue him!!!!

      Don't think of anything irrational, use the law to get your property back!!

      Put up your house for rent and move..... In fact, Shock him!!!

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  17. I be guy and i will tell you now,quit that union now,go to court and make him to change the names in that document to your name,END that MARRIAGE now,na one chance you enter so,that family Na evil family.

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  18. Please, do all you can to protect your investments and what you have. What about the house? Do you still have the documents? Please, keep them safe and get your lawyer involved

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    1. Ya, poster hide your documents very well.

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  19. This chronicle made me really angry. How dare your husband add your brother’s name to that property? Is it their money?
    There are certain things you can do on your own, but out of trust, you let your husband handle it and now, see what he has done. Is this right?
    What kind of stupid culture is that? Your husband is an OPPORTUNIST.
    Just one thing you asked him to do, he flopped. That says a whole lot. Do you still trust that husband of yours?
    Now, my anger is with your brother in-law. I don’t get where he hor the guts to speak to you in that manner? Your own money?
    So, being submissive means you should give all that is yours to your husband? Everything you worked for? To an ungrateful man?
    What kind of oppressive culture is that? Words of a lazy man.
    You own the house you both live in, what else does your husband want?
    Real men don’t even care for their wife’s investments. They try to help manage and support her but your husband isn’t doing the exact opposite.
    Madam, fight for your right please. Sorry to say, that marriage of yours is a sham!!!!
    If he had used his name alone, I for nor mind. But putting his brother’s name is an insult that no woman should settle for. In as much as husband and wife are one, there are lines that should never be crossed.
    Be very careful madam, you are not safe. They are capable of assasinating or poisoning you.
    You see that brother in-law if yours, he is very dangerious.
    The poster of yesterday with twin girls, I hope you read and learn from this poster.
    Empower your girls like you would your male children.
    Be submissive but don’t be stupid.
    Be respectful but don’t let anyone take what belongs to you forcefully.

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    1. Madam you married an enemy who doesnt care about you and right now your life is at risk.Maybe you involve lawyer and maybe send his picture and everything to stella now and somebody like stella keeps checking on you o.or your family members so if anything happen to you they can shout out because as it is,This people are desperate and wicked .Make dem no go eliminate you or jujulize you

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    2. Slutty, I am reading o. It's stories like this that got me scared and doubting my husband even though he has never pulled this kind of stunt in our 6years of marriage.

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    3. Unfortunatly thats what happened to me but the culprits was My Mother and younger brother while i was abroad i felt like killing them to with a Gun the rage i had in me was too much but the lawyers adviced me to calm down so just go to court but be careful they will still atempt to kill spiritualy or phyisicaly you will get your property back just be 2 steps ahead of them. God Will punish them as it is now both My mum and brother have nothing today very broke they sold everything to eliminate me but I was too strong for them thru prayers and lawyers.

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    4. Madam please do not doubt your husband until you have discussed with him and see his reaction. No use your hand to spoil your marriage na God name I dey take beg you.

      Marriages are not the same,we learn from people's travails and victories and apply common sense in our homes.

      Your husband never give you cause to worry.

      Be wise.

      Lovelace.

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    5. My mum also put my property in her name in error ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ I will correct the error soon ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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    6. @anon 17:35 you're talking in the nonsense,madam poster don't listen to this one o,awon set I remain married or I die

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    7. Lovelace, She should not use her hand and spoil her marriage? Some comments leave you wondering is some people are sane.

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  20. Straighten hings out and have the name changed and please dump that man and his family, if you remain in that marriage, taut might be your end.
    Get your investment ack an walk away with your head on your neck.
    He married you to manipulate you.

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  21. Your hubby and his brother are shameless gold digger. Get him arrested ASAP and let the police force him to change everything on that documents back to your name. If he's no longer interested in the marriage let him get the f*** off your house. Pls don't hand over any of your documents to him all in the name of one useless tradition. He married you bcos of your wealth and knowing fully well you're an orphan he thinks he can cheat off your possession and go scot free. Hell no.

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  22. Poster, you made a mistake sending your husband to go help you pay for a property, especially one that is not disciplined with his finances.

    That your husband is not a good man, even if he wanted to his name to be on the papers, why add his brothers name... Why not add both your names, he instead connived with his brother.

    Just be very careful, don't even make any attempt to quarrel or fight him.

    They might decide to eliminate you and claim everything.

    Be careful, may God grant you more wisdom

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  23. Straighten hings out and have the name changed and please dump that man and his family, if you remain in that marriage, taut might be your end.
    Get your investment ack an walk away with your head on your neck.
    He married you to manipulate you.

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  24. Ladies please do not marry any man that has not left his father and mother, his people to form a family with you.
    No matter how "rich" he is.
    Any man that is still tied to his mother's apron strings is a bad news.
    ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

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    1. This man is a greedy man

      Nothing to do with being tied to his family

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  25. Wonderment! Is this a real life story? It feels like I just watched a movie.the things we read on stella's blog ehh.chiineke mu o!!!.poster from yesterday that married a Consultant come and see o,ogini bu ife nkea?

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  26. I am a man, a married man. I have a bsc degree so is my wife.. I forced her to get a master's degree. She did. One day she came home and said there is land and that we should buy, told her I didnt have money, she said she had and would buy in our names.. it didnt ring well to my ears so at night after I gave her real knacking on the bed, I told her to put land in her fucking name.

    She also came one day and said she wanted to buy a car in my name as the head of the family, I cooked the dinner that night and after eating well,right on the table I told her to buy the car in her name.
    Before the lockdown, she came again that there is a good land and I still told her, baby if you want to buy it, do it again in your name. But this one, there was money in my account so we bought good plots,side by side..

    She was like why are u always doing it in my name?

    I replied her jejely; NA bad thing for a woman to own properties ABI your body de forbid properties?

    Now, seeing my wife owns all these, does it remove the "mannes" in me? Does it reduce me? Does it make her the head of the home? Absolutely no..

    When a man decides to forcefully hijack his wife's hard work to his name, doesn't he feel ASHAmed? Or am I wired differently?


    My philosophy is when a man or a woman works or hustles for life, things in lifeh, or she should enjoy it...

    How old am I? Am 28 and my wife will be 30 by August. Am I a Nigerian? Yes I am...

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    1. I cried. God bless you. Shalom (the shortest and most powerful prayer in the world)

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    2. May Almighty God continue to bless you beyond your expectations. May he protect your family and bless you with all your have asked for.

      And yes you are wired differently.

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    3. Tiri gbosa for you! Na man you be! please raise your sons like you.

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    4. May heaven always be open to shower blessings all the days of your life dear .

      Poster pls involve your lawyer and bid that marriage good bye. God!! I am so Angry ๐Ÿ˜ก!!

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    5. ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘
      ๐Ÿ‘Š❣️๐Ÿ‘Š๐Ÿ‘Š๐Ÿ‘Š๐Ÿ‘Š๐Ÿ‘Š

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    6. Wow i like the knacking part haha. I hope.your wife appreciates you.

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    7. You are worth calling a man,God bless you and keep your home

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    8. What of women who will be insisting their names must also be on papers of properties acquired by their husbands? Let's be fair. What is good for the goose is good for the gander.

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    9. When a man loves a woman..
      That is exactly how one of my Uncles reason. He put their home (bought with his money) in his wife's name. Said he wants her to always feel secure. And that if he ever messes up, she is free to kick him out. That move strengthened their marriage.

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    10. Oga God must bless you. Chronicle poster please divorce that man. He is a thief, a big thief indeed. Only one year marriage he is fighting for properties and who is his brother to have his name on your own property.

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    11. Thank you poster,I have not lost hope that there are good men out there.

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    12. I bought a land at the age of 22 and its still in my name. Hubby check and follow up for me. The ones we have post wedding and building are in my name. He sold our car last year, travelled to Benin republic and came back with a jeep in my name. The moment we got married, all next of Kinshasa were changed. Work life insurance, house and car insurance in my name. Our 3 shops in my name, and our savings I my account. These we will change when the kids are of age. You see, if you lack trust and transparency in marriage, just negodu.

      Poster, take your documents to the bank. You see the own with issues now, get it and keep. If you paid for it directly worh evidence, talk with the seller, and sell it off!

      DO NOT GET PREGNANT FOR THIS MAN! He's your enemy! Sad but true.

      For your safety,leave the scam marriage, relocate if possible and sell the house.

      Those shameless men are desperate.

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    13. Wow! Anon 16:33
      God bless you, and He will continue to keep your marriage. You are full of wisdom. Your wife is so blessed to have you. Keep it up

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    14. Please manage this social distancing shake, God bless you

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    15. God bless you INDEED SIR. You're a man.

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    16. God bless you. God will definitely shower you with his blessings.
      Your mother raised you well.

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    17. God bless you sir
      Your kind is rare

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    18. With tears in my eyes come let me hug you. There is hope. You are blessed brother....

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    19. I had goosebumps reading this. So men like this still exist God why didn’t you give me a man like this ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ

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    20. You have spoken wisely. This is how a true man should behave and this is just me. Why should a man feel less than himself because his wife is rich? why should a man allow family sentiment guid his thinking against his wife? I wonder who raised some men up! Men with low self esteem!

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    21. this is how it should be!!!!
      It doesn't make you less a man seeing your wife succeed it rather adds feathers to your cap !!!

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    22. You are an example of what they call a real man,God bless you Sir.

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  27. Dear poster, your husband is a poser. He isn't rich but claims to be and unless you have seen his paycheck, he doesn't earn shit. It hasn't gotten as far as pulling as a gun. Tell him if he doesn't want to put the property in your name, he should give you back your money. If he refuses let him go. Tell him to leave your house. Don't bother about what people might say. It's better now than when kids are involved. It just one property than your life.

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    1. Don't take this advice he will kill you. If he feel threatened he will act before you.

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  28. Jesus!!! You married the wrongest person madam!
    Pls leave the marriage, while at it, get him to change the names of the documents then throw him out of your house!!!! Its better to be a feminist than being a slave to someone with such mentality

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  29. Poster at this point I will advice you to be very careful, and also get a good lawyer please. ...The way God blesses some women with riches eh..God when will I even own a property I can call my own...?

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  30. Madam...keep your documents safe and collect the ones he already has access took...where do you see this type of men...

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  31. This is so painful to read. I am so angry right now that I feel like torturing both men on your behalf...ahan... wicked and lazy siblings. This kind of people wont lift a finger to even take care of their kids. They live off women and murder them when the are done.

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  32. Poster, I fear for your life. See entitlement mentality on top your property o. I wish you didn't send him to acquire the property for him. Run away with your kids to save your life first, then look for how to deal with the idiot and his brother.

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  33. You are awake madam, which is a good thing. Now you have to find somewhere else to stay for a little while before that lock your house thoroughly whereby no one can get in. Whatever solution you decide with your husband dont ever think of deciding to stay in that marriage. You are a target and have married into a terrible family, The earlier you trace your steps the better

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  34. This is just terrible. Poster kindly get the police involved via a Lawyer to retrieve and change the names on the documents of purchase. I hope you transfered the said cash into his account as evidence. Get a restraining order for him and his family.

    For me ooo the marriage is over,your husband is a con artist in disguise.

    God is your strength.

    Lovelace.

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  35. Poster please be at alert cos anything can happen at any moment but first get a lawyer to make him sign an agreement.na person wey dey alive day drag property ooo*evil hoseband*

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  36. Your hubby married you for what he could gain from you. It's not too late to get what belongs to you. Quickly engage the services of a lawyer and take it from there.

    You should also start recording calls between the both of you as you need clear evidence that you gave him the money for that

    Fortunately for you, you don't have a kid for him yet.

    Dissolve the marriage and move on from him. But whatever you do, do not leave that property for him.

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  37. Your husband and his brother are liars from the pit of hell! There is no culture like that! This is a common trick that wicked husbands used to dispossess their wives of their hard earned properties back in the 60’s, 70’s and 80’s. No woman should fall for that again in 2020. You don’t need to have a son before you can own properties. Please go and report at the nearest police station!!!!!! Tell them you are in fear of your life as your husband and his brother threatened you! Make a statement at the police station that if anything happens to you, your husband and his brother should be held responsible. Involve the police in getting them to change the name on the documents! Use fire for them now so they will know you are equally ready for them and see them back down.

    Your husband most likely told his brother about the properties you own and the brother poisoned his mind. Both of them are after your wealth.

    You better change the locks on your house today today so if your husband comes back, he can’t get in without your permission.
    The devil has planted greed in his heart so you better be careful! Do not go begging him. In fact, consider that marriage dead!!! You are dealing with an enemy!!

    Get a lawyer now if you didn’t have any. Draft a will. If you had his name on any of your accounts or properties, remove his name now!!! He is a mad man!

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  38. The thing called marriage,This specie called men. Smh. Dear Madam,do whatever it takes to get that property back in your name! Lord knows I can't stand this kind of men.

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  39. Since no kids are involved yet,it will be wise to end the marriage. That family is out to rip you off leaving you with nothing...they are the type that claim properties when the man is no more.
    Not all men know what marriage is all about...

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  40. First thing first, your marriage is over and good riddance. File for divorce first and file a case of theft with the police against the 2 thieves. Do not take the law into your hands by pulling a gun on him.. Move one or two of your siblings into the house so you will not be alone and do not go anywhere alone. Write a will now to prevent your husband from laying claims to anything in case they succeed in eliminationg you which will be their last resort,God forbid. Lastly, move out of your house and rent it out, find another accommodation.

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  41. OMG, your mother's curse has come upon you. Plssssss do what u can to protect urself. It's a generation curse,if ur dad killed ur mom,the same evil is coming for u. Get security, go to court, take back all ur property, go into hiding, involve police, divorce him and then go for mfm deliverance.

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    1. You have a point there Sparkle.
      I see a generational pattern here.

      Poster, please embark on fasting and prayer to cancel this.

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  42. Dear poster,you saw the signs shebi you married him to see the wonders,my dear you walked into a marriage scam,by revealing your financial status to the wrong man,I won't tell you to leave,better start planning on gifting your properties to your siblings while alive as a gift intervivos,and for heaven sake do it codedly without your husband knowing,don't bother writing a will as it can easily be contested, make sure all your educational certificates and investment certificates are deposited in a bank for safe keeping,alert your siblings in case anything happens to you in future,learn to keep your investment ideas and money matters to yourself,seems your darling husband and his brother have a game up their sleeve,make sure all your businesses are properly insured including the house you live in, one day tell your husband that you ran into difficulties and the bank has foreclosed the house your living in and watch his reaction closely,you may be in for a big surprise...whatever you do, do not disclose your plans to anybody except your lawyer who must not be your husband friend or acquaintance, start acting broke and watch is behavior towards you.

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  43. Your husband is a thief and grade one love scammer...

    I would be the happiest man if my wife buys a property tomorrow on her name alone! Yea;cos she doesn't have a convenant with poverty..or did God forbid her from owning assets?

    You have been scammed and if you know what is good for you;end that Situationship cos I truly wanna believe it's not marriage..

    This is an old trick Madam;don't fall for this even if you are drunk..
    You think you found love but he is happy he jammed opportunity to dig enough gold..

    @MARTINS

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  44. My dear no matter what, don't ever put his name on any of your properties. His brother and your husband can kill you overnight after you do that and inherit your properties. Get a lawyer and police involved ASAP. Tell your siblings too, so they can be your support system. That marriage is a scam o. Be wise, there is no culture like that in Nigeria or anywhere, be guided o. They are scammers

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  45. Wow!!! What did I just read? This is bullish! Please report this to the police as soon as possible, get a lawyer and start the divorce process. Dont' give in to their demand. What nonsense. Forget about the man and the marriage, he should pay u back your money or change the name of the documents. His brother is stupid and foolish to think he can demean u with a stupid and outdated tradition. Stay on your right and dont give in to them. Dont pull a gun on him, instead call the police and tell him to leave your house. Yes its your house.

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  46. Greedy men looking for who to kill. My hatred for stingy men eeh. Imagine putting his names in documents that he did not pay for. Your mistake was telling him to help you with the deal.

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    1. his act is a very good ground for divorce if she can garner more evidence.

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  47. I'm sorry bout what you're going through. Please inform your siblings, his other family members (if you wish) and the police for your own safety

    This is why I advice women to marry men who level them up.

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  48. madam calm down
    be submissive.
    all my wife s properties are in my name.
    infact ,she transfer all her salary to me first before given her her share.
    virtuous woman.i love her die.

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    1. May God protect me from men like you in Jesus name

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    2. Ewu Gambia commenting everybody! A round of applause!

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    3. Eya, and you think you are a man in that little mind of yours?
      Scroll up and read what a MAN wrote up there ๐Ÿ‘†๐Ÿฟ

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    4. God go judge you! ๐Ÿ˜ค๐Ÿ˜ค๐Ÿ˜ค

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    5. Submissiveness is not foolishness. A man with no shame, no pride and selfish interest is not who a truly wise and virtuous woman should be submissive to! Submissiveness is not stupidity! She transfers her salary and you give her share of what she worked for? You collect as the he-goat and useless man that you are? You love her die? Because you are the type of man whose love can be bought! Real men are not bought,they are providers and will be insulted by this but then you are caused. This sounds fabricated but then there are are actually men who think this way! Expecting women to do what they as men should do, Bunch of morons whose parent wasted sperm and womb space for!

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    6. I actually know a marriage like the one 15:48 just discribed and I heard she has been like that since their long dating days and they continued into marriage. The man is my friend and he is good to her. Torh, he never asked her and she submits it with happiness just like that. 13years marriage pluses 6years dating! God be with them. Abi what is my own.

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    7. Yours is a different because you didn't force her. She gave it to you willingly

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    8. You should be ashamed of yourself 15:48. To collect your wife's salary then remove cash from there and give to her. Don't go and make your own money. Lazy ass man

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    9. Onye ori

      Onye origin

      Anini

      Onye oriiii

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    10. And you support it because your wife who I think is unexposed agreed to give yu all her sweat all in the name of religion and being a virtuous woman. Let her stop it today and see if u will love her die? Oga u should be ashamed for saying this. What share are u giving to her? For her own money again? Nothing I no go read for here. You dont love her but only living on her kindness.

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    11. Poster please I will be waiting patiently for an update. Follow your instincts.feel free to do whatever you like to those animals cos they won't be able to take the case anywhere. You have the upper hand here in any direction you choose to handle this matter.

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  49. Does tradition and culture know anything about investment and documentation?
    Which African!/Nigerian culture envisaged documentation? They've seen you as a foolish person.

    How did you send the money to him? Transfer or cash? If it was through a bank transfer,that means you have proof. Call the person that sold the property to you, (I'm sure you must have had prior negotiations and discussions) ask him questions that will make him admit both of you had an agreement and record the conversation.

    You have to get a lawyer involved, alert your siblings, and let your husband and his family know that your siblings are aware, tell them if anything happens to you, they should hold your horseband responsible.Makw a voice recording and send to your family, in case anything happens to you. Get a lawyer, the lawyer can apply to court for a rectification of the agreement, or for an injunction mandating a new agreement to be executed in your name. You can also simply get the lawyer to talk to the person you bought property from to execute a new agreement for you, still you must go to court to seek a declaration of ownership, that will establish you as the owner.
    Your horseband is evil, but his family is more evil..They gave him liver and ginger to do this great evil.
    Your husband has made it clear to you that he wants you to hand over all your property to him by changing the names, so that he can push you out penniless and hopeless. He believes you are desperate to make the marriage work so as to bear Mrs, since you are in your thirties.


    You need to let him know that you are willing to fight to finish to keep your investment and property.

    This man DOES NOT LOVE YOU. YOU ARE A MEANS TO AN END for him and his family.

    I think you should be unwilling to remain in a sham of a marriage that will still not stand, even if you give him all your money and your blood, he will still push you out. Better to get out alive, whole and with all your money intact.Imagine the fools asking you to leave a house you built before he learnt to wipe his ass!!!!!!! Change the locks and tell him to get out of your house. Throw out his belongings, let him go and make another woman his Mrs. Gold-digging hungry, discontent, greedy men masquerading as husbands. May God help you, Amen!!!!!!!

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  50. Virtuous woman2 May 2020 at 15:52

    Please pack all his load to the hotel room for him after changing the locks in your house,he wants to force you to beg him to come home,don't try it. Get a lawyer to write him about the properties,most greedy people dont like court cases,especially when they know they are wrong. He will hand over the properties back to you. Please leave that marriage because you are not safe at all. And if you can,get a donor,do IVF,have your child and move on with your life

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  51. This really touched me,I felt so bad and angry.
    Plz let this land go for your own safety.
    My mom would give my dad money to buy land.he would collect the money and say he did not remember where bought it.
    My mom gave him another,he ate it and my mom was an orphan.so many things she suffered.all these all on loan from her office .
    My mom bought a land without his knowledge and decided to show my dad.
    They got to the location,it was a government land and many people had not started doing anything so it was busy.
    My dad said my mom wants to kill him,he drove off and abandoned her.
    She said she cried trekking to the road which was far in the bush,it was at that junction she knew her dream of a fairy tale husband would never come to reality.she had to brace up for her kids.
    Guess what my mom built houses and stopped telling my dad's.
    We were living in my uncle house.
    My uncle one day came in and gave us one week notice,my mom begged for two weeks notice,nobody knew why not even we the children.
    Marriage can change people from soft to strong
    My mom evacuated a tenant and we were surprised and relived my mom had a well sophisticated.
    Now you know Ur hubby,even his brother living and interfering in your home at their age shows they have a backward way of reasoning.my dad was and still a squanderer and never wanted my mom to have anything.
    Please stop telling him anything.
    Bear kids like one or two.
    Stop and focus on your kids.
    Let that anger slid and know that your husband will never change.
    All these made me group with open eyes.
    If my mom had retailated in anger,she would not have been able to achieve what she has today.
    If you go with a gun,things may not go as planned.
    You can get the documents and sell it but I would advice you let it go for now ,people can change .it's who is alive that speaks of tomorrow

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    1. Your mother is strong dear
      Wow
      Wow


      KING XOXO MYSTERY

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    2. THIS YOUR REPLY IS EVEN MORE PAINFUL THAN THE POSTER. What your mum went through and you growing up in that environment have dealt with you seriously especially emotionally. you of your senses. Stay in which marriage? Haven't you learned thaty people don't change?You mean she should let herself be manipulate and trust him to the point of bearing a child or two for him? Are you okay? What type of desperationj is this?

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    3. Are you really saying she should stick with such a man and live a double life instead???! Nonsense!!!!

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    4. Bear children with who? Poster please don't try it for your safety and sanity

      Lovelace.

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  52. Am sure dis man never loved you he J's just after your money. Please leave that house immediately and go to your pastor or lawyer in fact start telling people bcos ur life is in danger oo.
    God will put them to shame.

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  53. Now that u know what u r dealing with...have d conversation again with ur husband but this time record it without their knowledge,because he might deny that u gave him money to purchase dat investment and it will be ur word against his,when u r sure u be what u need on record,involve d police and be him change d name to it's,then dissolve d marriage after making sure his family will be held responsible should anything happen to u...

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  54. Poster,I will advice that you let this one pass if you want to remain in the marriage. Then look for a way to get your money back. But if you don't want the marriage anymore, you can look for a way legally to get the documents of the property back. But do not change previous documents to your husband's name. Your husband has an evil intention because I don't see reasons he should want you to change all the documents to his name if he truly loves you and wants to remain in the marriage. After all if you both have children,the property you've acquired over the years will be willed to your children. I think he plans to marry another woman in the future. At same time, I fear for you because this people can poison your husband's mind against you. Henceforth,file a report to the Police that your Life is at risk. May God protect you. All the best madam

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  55. First of all, throw him out of the house. Get a lawyer and make the name change on the document happen ASap.
    I'm sorry you married a thief.
    I wish you the best.

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  56. The only important lesson I took from this chronicle is that women, train up your boy child(ren). Use the same energy you use in raising your girl child(ren) to raise your boy child(ren).
    Your husband is a thief. A shameless thief at that. I've no words for your brother in thief. Your mother in law raised infidels!
    Please leave that marriage because those shameless thieves will plot your death to inherit your property.

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  57. What about the house document?
    Are they also in your husband's name?
    It's like you want to die

    You couldn't do it then you asked your husband to do it
    Why couldn't you
    And then he did it in his name and brothers names
    Chai

    Go to a good lawyer now
    Go the police now
    Take your house document and deposit in the bank
    Take the police to the hotel , arrest your husband and his brother
    Charge them to court
    That man never loved you
    Never ever
    Tell them to change those document immediately

    African women have suffered in the name of marriage
    They are treated anyhow by in laws
    Disregarded like they don't have families
    Or where they come from

    They want to form annoyance and take your land
    They are gaslighting you
    So you will miss him and want him back so whatever he says, you will do

    Nne, you have lived your life for 30 something years without a man
    You will survive and meet the right man

    Culture gbakwa oku
    Culture of lazy users



    KING XOXO MYSTERY

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    1. This too..... Don't even quarrel with him or anything!!

      If you know by soldier, let him follow you to the police station, arrest the man and is brother, as they are changing the names on the document, give him divorce papers and get a restraining order!!


      Just fight him with the law, steadily.....

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  58. Madam please get a Lawyer. You never see husband o. God help you.
    I think Nigerian couples should start getting prenups. For everybody's well-being and safety.

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  59. Your husband and his brother are yahoo boys no laptop(scammers), pls be very careful while dealing with them, leave the marriage then get a very good lawyer to help you claim back what belongs to you. Useless man!

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  60. Madam poster you married a gold digger , a wicked man.
    You should try & see how you can get the property back. If you couldn't get it back dont fight him. Just leave and move on. Nemesis will catch up with him.

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  61. How come nobody is telling her to fight for her marriage tho? After all it’s not domestic violence no?
    This just boils to the fact that no matter what a man or woman do to their significant other, each should always have an option of opting out. Whether it’s violence or not because some marriages are scam and not worth it.
    Madam sorry for your plight. I’d advise you get the police involved and possibly your family members just Incase something happens. That man you married no be am at all.

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  62. How come nobody is telling her to fight for her marriage tho? After all it’s not domestic violence no?
    This just boils to the fact that no matter what a man or woman do to their significant other, each should always have an option of opting out. Whether it’s violence or not because some marriages are scam and not worth it.
    Madam sorry for your plight. I’d advise you get the police involved and possibly your family members just Incase something happens. That man you married no be am at all.

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    1. ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†@Anon 16.20.... ur first paragraph got me laughing hard

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    2. It’s true na.
      Awon fight for anything, as far as it’s marriage.

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    3. lmao ๐Ÿคฃ
      This just made me laugh ,
      Chale DV isn't the only thing one should be weary of .

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  63. I am really sorry about what you are going through considering how hard you have worked to get to where you are and your background. Now the best answer is to involve rational thinking people and professionals like good relatives,lawyers,pastors,police,even military e.t.c who will be aware of the loser of a husband you married and can bear witness if he tries anything funny. Tell them how you are the only investing with properties like your house to show, how you gave him money to purchase something and he diverted it to his name and brothers name without your permission. A criminal offense,Was there proof? Maybe through transfers or teller? If there is show them. Guard all your documents jealousy or give someone you can trust. Maybe a bank or lawyer as it is more safe. You will have established him as a thief who doesn’t have your best interest rather came for selfish reasons. He will be scared of trying anything funny as it can easily implicate him, leave him as killing him will be easily traced to you and don’t listen to anyone who ask you to forgive or forget. That man doesn’t love you and can kill to get your possessions. His brother is a bad person and all that talk is trash. Be careful next time and I hope you find someone better

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  64. Poster that 419ner you called a husband does not earn more than you 'he already planned out from day 1 with his family to scam you thereby putting you in audio marriage first so as to gain your trust'''who knows'maybe he already seen you as being desperate to get married.

    Please don't follow the route your late Dad followed cos since you said you are vindictive 'you may have gotten the traits from your Dad.This may cost your life if you decide to get back your property by all means by pulling a gun.

    Don't do this please cos being violent may lead someone to unexpected which may cost your life.Dont even go that way.

    Now the only option left for you is to involve a lawyer 'play along with your hubby as if you have changed your mind that he should forget changing the names to yours .

    While planning out 'get to discuss with him on phones concerning the issues 'ensure he talks about it on the phone'record and keep recording untill you gather enough evidence. Rememeber court case takes a while but it worth it.Patience is the key to get some things done.

    Then sue the 419ner in court and back out of the scam marriage and follow suit.

    Please don't be violent in dealing with this matter since you saus yiu still have other investments.
    The deed is already done'you made the mistake of letting him in with the buying of the land.

    A man that packed his bags to live with a woman and doesn't contribute anything 'you should have known that he isn't to be trusted unless you were blinded by marriage.

    Calm your nerves down and follow due process.

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  65. Please don’t go with a gun. Very wrong decision, you can’t for to jail and still give up that property for him, I understand how mad you’re. Instead, walk to the police station explain to them, your life is in danger now. Get the property team/ Office, you can also explain to them. Keep the original documents of other properties safely or with a trusted sibling. Also, change the locks of your home ASAP and contact your lawyer immediately.

    Your story gave me chills, your horseband is a Bastard!

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  66. I am terribly angry reading this...who raised such men!??????
    Poster you have to be strategic...do not work on impulse..forget about using gun or any weapon...These men will kill you and say its defence...
    Involve the police and your siblings
    You have to be careful...if possible get a restraining order...this union was dead on arrival...He is a shameless gold digger!!!!!
    Run....runaway poster...run!!!!!!
    Here in Nigeria....m-patriarchy is unimaginable!

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  67. Poster, pls get the police involve. Slam him a lawsuit. Hunt him down until you collect every dime or change the name on the documents.Culture my foot. He just wants to rip you off. I'm disgusted by his nerves.

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  68. Chai! My blood is hot. Please go to FIDA (Federation of Women Lawyers). Then petition AIG,write threat to life. I see your situation going south. Your husband and his family are leeches.

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  69. Madam you are not wise!
    You already know his bad attitude with money and you sent him to transact an investment on your behalf?

    You shouldn't have told him of your plans concerning that investment when he declined your suggestion, you would have just done everything quietly by yourself, no excuses!

    He has set sight on your properties and investments and once you make the mistake of handing anything over to him, he will take over everything and like Stella said, possibly eliminate you. His brother clearly, also instigated and put ideas in his head and you shouldn't have confronted him in his presence.

    Consider your marriage over because he's after your money, don't call him and if he moves out let him be! There's no nonsense tradition anywhere, don't allow yourself to be bullied by his family.
    Take that document he gave you to a lawyer and change it back to your name ASAP!

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  70. Why are some men this wicked, kilode

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  71. Yeye Man buy property you no buy.
    The brother sef is a wicked person.
    Some Men can be so wicked.

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  72. If he wants properties or investment in his name he should use his money.

    Please don't take this lightly. Get a good lawyer and be prayerful.
    Avoid every form of confrontation by yourself.

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  73. Please madam don kill him o. As soon work resumes on Monday go get a lawyer and go to the police station and report him Collect your property. If you let this slide he will do more horrible things. Please, make you no allow this one cold o. Please I think you should divorce this one so your story doesn't become like that of your mom.

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  74. Your husband must be crazy,even your brother in- law is also crazy. No man can try that with me. I will fight him tooth and nail. Poster you married into the wrong family

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  75. Dear poster, is your husband from Nsukka, Igboettiti side?. Na them have that kind culture. I was shocked when one of girlfriend told me that she can't give her mother money without her husband knowledge, that it's against their tradition

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  76. I love Perxian2 May 2020 at 16:56

    Poster please secure your life first then follow up with your properties. Let every one know that you fear for your life, get the police involved. That 'man' you call your husband should also know that he would be held responsible should anything happen to you. Why do I have a feeling that him and his scam of a brother are planning to eliminate you. Na who de alive de fight for property o!

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  77. Father lord!!! This is not right at all. Fancy him leaving the house and forming 'vex', when it should be the other way round. Who raised these kinds of people? The brother did not even have one iota of shame, scheming for another persons childs money.

    Thank God you have siblings. He brought his into the matter, bring yours too. First get a lawyer, as in right now, then change your locks, next alert the law enforcement. Stop seeing them as your husband and in- law but as scheming fraudsters. Like you said, thank God kids are not involved, this is a marriage that deceit has put together and it most definitely should be put asunder. My heart is breaking into many different pieces for you, looking at where you are coming from, you deserve nothing but the best...but it is not too late yet. Protect yourself (physically and spiritually), reclaim your possessions, annul this sham, grieve your loss and move on sis.

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  78. Haba poster who does that as in you tell ร  man of your investment in thรฉ Name of love or marriage

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  79. The main problem you will face in this your marriage is that brother in-law. Your husband seems to be a good man who could do anything to please his family members. Dear poster, sacrifice that piece of land to your husband. But as for putting your husband's name in your other properties, don't ever do that. Then be at alert and use your siblings as your next of kin.. I don't really think this your marriage will ever work with this kind of mindset from your in-laws side. Just pray and ask god for directions

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    1. Why should she sacrifice her investment to her husband while the man is a father Christmas? She must recover her property from those thieves.

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    2. Don't listen to this human being o. They cut from the same fabric just like your husband.

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  80. Poster i pray for wisdom from God for you, to direct you on how and what to do.

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  81. involve a lawyar madam, is either he change that documents to your name
    or he gives you back your money.

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  82. Your husband is a big theif.
    That your brother in-law is a devil.
    Wicked people from wicked family.

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  83. Madam, sorry about your situation. Get him arrested immediately, get a lawyer, get the papers reversed and call off the marriage. Practically, you are not married now.

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  84. I am a lawyer and madam , the first thing to do is to inform your lawyer, let them write him a letter, also your assignor (the person you bought the land from) would be written to . This is fraud, he wants to defraud but the hands of the law is wide open to help you. Please don't hold a gun against him.a whole lot to do but I can't write it here, just see your lawyer asap.

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  85. Dear poster, inform your siblings right now of what is going on.
    If possible, leave the house to a safe place today. Something tells me they have read this post.
    As work resumes on May 4th, go get a good lawyer, maybe through FIDA and start a Legal Process . Try to get a record of your conversation with your husband and brother in thief admitting that you provided the money with which they bought the land that was supposed to be in your name only. You can put up this particular house for sale and get another one.

    End marriage with this man, he is not worth it.
    Thanks.

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  86. Madam safety first o, i mean spiritually and otherwise cos these people you described in this story can harm you. You can change the names on the property by communicating the seller for change of name and swearing affidavit on top. At this juncture lawyer up and inform your siblings. This is not the time to sideline your family cos as e be so na war you enter now

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  87. Madam you know the type of man you married,why send him to finalize such deals for you???you should have postponed it instead,get a lawyer,involve the police on threat to life,get recorded evidence,you will get your property back.Don't let any man steal from you.This is so annoying,and why will they tell you to move out from your own house????Haha๐Ÿ˜ ๐Ÿ˜ ๐Ÿ˜ ๐Ÿ˜ ๐Ÿ˜ ๐Ÿ˜ 

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  88. OMG!! Poster, I'm really afraid for you and my heart bleeds. How can your hubby be so wicked and selfish. He is just fronting his brother but he's d snake.

    You made a very big mistake by not going to conclude d deal yourself yet it's better BC it's opened his real agenda to you earlier than necessary.

    I'll advice you forget d current investment you made that they already cornered for them, FOR YOUR SAFETY & LIFE.

    What I don't have an answer for now, is how you handle your young marriage. Pls be VERY careful and may God's grace guide you.

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  89. Please give us update so we could know how u went about it

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  90. I support what Stella said, but let me add my own. Please go and beg him to come back home, treat him very nicely while at that start looking for a buyer do not let anybody know about your plans, in fact tell him you will do change of name when you are pregnant and also start buying baby clothes small, small. When he doesn't expect anything sell him and the house and relocate for good.

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  91. Dear Poster,i'm afraid you're in danger. Get a good lawyer ASAP.Meanwhile move out,then come back and kick them out of your house. make sure you recover your investment from your husband. What will women not see all in the name of marriage? May God guide you and give you wisdom

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  92. What! First of make sure you record a conversation with him where he admitted taking the money from you and putting the property in his name and his brother.

    At this point, don't let emotions take over you because that man is not your husband. Change the locks in your house, get a lawyer, and report this to the police Asap.

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  93. Ur husband is the perfect description of John 10:10. He has come to kill and destroy you. Do not allow him get police, lawyer and bank statement involved.

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  94. What a story! I pray the Lord gives you wisdom. The husband may be under a spell too. I dont understand why he will work each month and give everything away and take his brother to sign docs for a property that belongs to you. Very odd!

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  95. OMG what's going on with our men?
    Such wickedness!

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  96. Poster, if i were in your shoes, I will let go of that particular investment and divorce the man. I am not ready to die because of an investment. But that man is surely a no-no for me.

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  97. Please report this issue to your immediate family members and a lawyer and. Explain the presentat situation to them.

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