Na wah oh........
THE QUICK CUMMER...
Good day Stella, pls can you help me post this on your blog, please I'm really confused and I will like to hear blog visitors opinion and advice.
I'm a 31 years old lady, so I started dating someone last year Nov. He's 35, a really nice guy, infact we've been friends since our teenage years and recently just started dating. Between December and January we tried to get intimate(s#x) and he couldn't gain penetration like he cums just as he is trying to enter me. We've tried for about 5 times now.
Good day Stella, pls can you help me post this on your blog, please I'm really confused and I will like to hear blog visitors opinion and advice.
I'm a 31 years old lady, so I started dating someone last year Nov. He's 35, a really nice guy, infact we've been friends since our teenage years and recently just started dating. Between December and January we tried to get intimate(s#x) and he couldn't gain penetration like he cums just as he is trying to enter me. We've tried for about 5 times now.
The first night we spent together we tried 3 times straight it was same thing. Infact it got worse as we kept trying, he blamed it on stress and I let it slide but its happened twice again weeks after the first time and honestly I felt kinda angry, he noticed and called me about 2 days later telling me that he went to see his doctor and the doctor said its because of alcohol intake and carbs in his diet.
Now, I have heard of premature ejaculation but I didn't know it could be this bad.
Now, I have heard of premature ejaculation but I didn't know it could be this bad.
In March he came to see me and was supposed to sleep over but I told him he couldn't because I got anxiety from just thinking about what could happen again. Ever since then I have been feeling kinda stuck. I feel like I cannot make progress with this relationship until I'm sure this s#x thing will not be a problem because I am not going to manage 2 seconds s#x life after waiting for this long to settle down. Him on the other hand carries on like everything is perfect between us, anytime I ask what he has eaten its always bread or rice, or one carbohydrate food, no exercise etc nothing!
Like he is so relaxed and doesn't ever bring up any topic about s#x. I know s#x isn't everything in a relationship but for someone that wants a future with me I think it's very important.
One time I asked him if he has googled this issue to see any lifestyle changes he can make to help his situation and his response was NO! A part of me feels that this isn't something that just started happening to him, like he knows he has a problem that's why it doesn't seem to bother him. It has made me kinda resentful towards him that I even had to tell him two days back to stop chatting with me and reduce the way he calls me.
I want to have a serious talk with him about this but I do not know how to go about this without bruising his ego and blog visitors please do you think this condition can be treated? Or should I port now before it gets too far??
Pls I need your honest advice because I don't have anyone to share this with.
Thank you
One time I asked him if he has googled this issue to see any lifestyle changes he can make to help his situation and his response was NO! A part of me feels that this isn't something that just started happening to him, like he knows he has a problem that's why it doesn't seem to bother him. It has made me kinda resentful towards him that I even had to tell him two days back to stop chatting with me and reduce the way he calls me.
I want to have a serious talk with him about this but I do not know how to go about this without bruising his ego and blog visitors please do you think this condition can be treated? Or should I port now before it gets too far??
Pls I need your honest advice because I don't have anyone to share this with.
Thank you
It is already obvious he has a problem and knows it but he cannot talk about it with you because your reaction is a put off.....
Please port if you want but leave him and dont dent his already dented ego.....even if you are not dating him,can you not walk through this with him as a friend?imagine asking him to reduce calls and stop chatting with you...The s#x that you are after sef,are you an expert?were you not just going to lie down and wide your legs?or can you ride the seven horse styles?
Please leave him alone before this leads to a bitter break up....
Dnt ever say sex is not everything. Me I dump one guy as a result of this similar issue. Pls if u cnt move. I really do not know if there is cure for it.
ReplyDeleteStella you funny ooo. Ride the 7 horses style. Lmao
DeletePoster it is obvious you are already irritated and lack the patience to go through this issue with him, so yeah you can port.
Yes,there is a cure for it.
DeleteYou have to be there for him emotionally and make him feel like you're not mocking his situation but to help him get better.
Your attitude towards this issue is what is making him feel like not talking about it with you.
You're not encouraging and you just want to know that it's okay to gbensh.
If he were your brother and you know this about him,will you give him such an attitude.
Herbs can help as well as medication.
Lifestyle changes too can help to permanent the cure.
Which style is 7 horses style? Finny and Blackberry any idea?
DeleteStella this your advise get k-leg. People want what they want Ma. If someone says something is important in a relationship to them, I don't think it fair for you tj condem their need like it's worthless. Perhaps you've had so much sex in life and think sex is overrated, well she hasn't and she wants what she wants so calm down with your judgements and condemnation. Sex isn't bad to want!
DeleteThis story reminds me of what I did;I had plans to be celibate and it was easy because we were not in the same town. One of his visit I decided to snoop through his phone then I saw a conversation with his EX(who was maried) as regards him having late erection omo within a sec I changed my mind he was even surprised and was asking me "are u sure u really want to do this?" I had d knack to my satisfaction then continued with celibacy. I later told him why I changed my mind all of a sudden and we both laughed about it. It is not easy o but u can help him work things out.
Delete23.29 you people should continue satisfying yourself in iniquity, it's for our own good Hod gives us rules.
Delete@Stella ..Ur response obviously portrays that u feel the poster is being insensitive or wicked.But I have a contrary opinion.Yes..The Man did not make himself like that but Oh Yes it is a weakness that she cannot withstand.Sex might not be everything but then if she cheats on him in the nearest future na another chronicle be that...Abeg Poster,Move on jejely especially if u notice he is carefree about it.Now to my story,I married a 2 MINUTE MAN as a VIRGIN,DATED for 7 YEARS discovered it after the wedding and after 6YEARS of MARRIAGE..Total of 13YEARS I discovered he has AZOSPERMIA (No Sperm Cell).hence No hope medically to have a child with him When i complained about his 2mins performance he told our pastor,church members and everyone that cared to listen that I must be watching blue film and Messing around that's the reason I can tell that he is not performing well.I was angry about the waste of 13whole years of my life and went ahead to do all that he insinuated and had a baby for another.We parted on that basis.
DeletePremarital sex is a sin against God and it’s wrong ! Stop sinning and pray to God to send u his perfect will of a man . Yal b sinning and asking God to fix it ... like how
ReplyDeletepreacher weldon.
DeleteAmy.
DeleteSo refreshing reading from another girl telling the truth without coating it.
That is exactly it. 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
God does not fix your sins, he forgives them when you confess them and repents from
them. As long as you are immersed in a mire of sin, you are at variance with the Holy God.
Jesus loves all, but he hates sin.
so how does it get fixed for women who married as virgins who are in the same predicament ?
DeleteAnon 15:40 the truth must always b told. Anon 15:41 this question requires a whole lot to answer . But I know with God and the right medicines any man in this situation can be cured.
Delete@15:41
DeleteMarriage as "virgins" is not a guarantee to security or hassle-free marriage.
Being in Christ is foremost for eternal security. Nothing will you gain if you
gain all the world and lose your soul.
Even for the person in Christ, it does not mean that there won't be issues.
But, you apply the principles in the Scriptures to overcome.
"In me you will have peace. In the world you will have troubles but be of good cheer,
I have overcome the world".John 16:33
15:41 are you speaking from experience? If not please stop the sweeping comment. Btw If they find themselves in such they will pull through. Even married men who gave all those sex styles before marriage at some point go through that after marriage. So she would fight the husband due to that or divorce? If she isn't okay with it she should leave him alone but that doesn't change the fact that she wants to fornicate. If you are so proud of what you engage in why get upset if the name of your act is being mentioned? You are the one who judge yourself
DeleteGod bless you Amy. If they refuse to listen to the gospel truth ignore them please.
DeleteGo and sit down somewhere.
DeleteYou A mere mortal @Don😂😂😂😂
DeleteWhen you create your own humans in your image and likeness then you can come back and spew the thrash you wrote up there. They are only repeating what God said those words up there are not their own words so telling them to shut up or go and sit down is like you are you are saying that to the one who created them . Please receive sense🙏
Unusual Amy will you shut up and stop putting everything on God
DeleteGlad to see we still have people who would stand for what God says is right, even in the face of being called assistant Jesus. The devil has lost the war, we cannot be cowed from speaking what even they know is TRUTH.
DeletePele anon 18.36, it's not too late for you to stop. What exactly has Unusual Amy said that is paining you?
DeleteI stand with Amy. This is nothing but the truth.
DeleteUnusual Amy you are right. I know a married couple who had this erectile dysfunction ish. Theirs was worst because he couldn't even get it up. They tried English medicine, native medicine, unorthodox methods, still nothing worked. Then they turned to God in fasting and prayer. Within one month it was over! This is something that they struggled with for almost a year. God is indeed wonderful but when we seek him, we must do so with a clean heart.
DeletePort now snd leave him alone. He knew long before now that he has a weak erection but was nonchalant about it.
ReplyDeleteSince you want a man to satif8yiu sexually, that guy's not the right man for you, just end it now.
No even need discussing anything with him, he will end up guilt tripping you into continuing the relationship.
Awon deputy Jesus who is seated at the left hand side of God will come and preach on fornication now😏😏😏
ReplyDeleteLeft hand side? 😩😂😂
Deletecheck above your comment.
Delete@Aproko
DeleteFornication can never be a virtue.
As for preaching against it, do not bother, we must preach against it.
Those that know their God will never support iniquity no matter the names
you call us.
Left hand side of God🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 stop it abeg
DeleteYou think you are mocking those who says what God applauds but you mock yourself while God watches.
DeleteAproko queen whether u want to accept it or not, what the "assistant Jesus" says is the truth! Fornication has not stopped being a sin against oneself and God.
DeleteSee them everywhere 😂😂😂
DeleteAnon 16:31. 1st Corinthians 1:18, 'The message of the Cross is foolishness to those who are perishing'.
DeleteThere is a way that seems right to man but the end of it is destruction.
Let him that has ears,hear the truth which is the Word of God that gives wisdom and Peace.
#proudlyassistantJesus.
15: 42 😘😘😘
DeleteLade dear God bless you.its better to be foliage before God.
Delete15.42, Lade, Anon and God'sGrace - God sees. Bless you all 👌👌
DeleteA person who can 'profit' from a friend's errand already speaks volumes about their values.
DeleteYou guys kindly take it easy on aproko Queen. She isn't laughing at the word of God, she is just laughing at people who follow and obey it
Delete18.53 please explain that your sentence.. so laughing at those who follow the Word of God and obey it, how is it different from mocking that very Word?
DeleteGod bless you anonymous 15:42.... Heaven and earth shall pass away, not a single word from God will change... The society we leave in now sees fornication as normal, to the extent that you get condemned and called names just by talking against it..... Indeed, Gods greatest attribute is MERCY!
DeleteIt’s okay if you choose not to believe but it is very unwise if you openly condemn those who talk about it....
Btw, I am a filthy sinner....
19:19 you didn't get the sarcasm behind what I wrote ba? I wonder sometimes if those who laugh and call others assistant Jesus have an idea if what they are really doing. They think and act like they are mocking you but they are actually mocking....
DeleteIf only they know who they are actually mocking.
May God forgive them.
Meant to write Noir, not Anon.
DeleteIt refreshing to see that there are people that stand for the truth (the word of God) unashamedly and boldly. Lade, God'sgrace and the other anonymouses, God sees all and he has taken record of your efforts. May God give you the strength to continue his work. May you never falter and on the last day, may you never be found wanting. Amen.
Delete20.11, I get you now.
DeleteInstead of aproko to make her own comment in peace, she decided to take shots at others, now e don backfire 😂
#proudlydeputyJesus ...shall we continue in sin that grace may abound ????
DeleteAwwn... i'm very much proud of y'all for speaking the TRUTH and i'm sure CHRIST himself is proud... it is better to be called names than to burn in hell... God bless and keep y'all
DeleteHe's got a problem he's running away from.. Sit him down and talk to him. He knows but you need to get him to open up. Like Stella said be a friend. He'll never forget you for it.
ReplyDeleteWith her attitude, he may never open up or even admit that he has a problem.
DeleteSo poster,change your attitude first and watch how he will want to look for solution to his problem.
He doesn't need her to find solutions o his problem.
DeleteHe's not a baby
It appears she cares a lot more about herself than the guy. She's upset the guy doesn't seem to be bothered about the issue.
DeleteShould he kill himself?
I think she should just walk away. She's already beginning to lose respect for the guy.
Of course it can be treated. With medicine and good diet and abstinence of certain foods and drinks.
ReplyDeleteWhat if this happened after marriage? Would you leave him without even trying to make him seek solution?
I don’t think you love him enough though.
Go to him, open up and let him know how sad you feel about it.
Make him go with you to see a doctor to know what the problem is.
If it’s his diet causing it, you can plan his diet and try to force him to adhere strictly to the diet plan.
If you have tried all that and he doesn’t seem to care, then you can leave.
Don’t leave without trying please.
*abstinence from.
DeletePoster pls try and help him cos that shitt is so painful.you can decide to take a walk later..you seems you aren't inlove with him
ReplyDeleteOf she was in love wi6him,she will be looking for solution and making sure he changes some things.
DeleteI don't see how her reaction as a put off, he has a serious issue and is not making any move to remedy it. Sex is not everything but it is extremely important, poster continue to encourage him with love as you would to a close friend but don't feel obliged to be with him so we don't read another chronicles of complaints after marriage.
ReplyDeleteThank you very much Omolord, the person with the problem is so reluctant about it, so why should the onus be on her to find a solution for him? Poster please leave if you can’t take it, I certainly won’t stay. This reminds me of the book stay with me, has a similar storyline
DeleteStella, which one is seven horse style? Stella? Poster so because of gbola,na make you say make reduce how he dey call and chat? Please, don't discuss anything with him, you have made up your mind,leave him and move on.
ReplyDeleteA 35yr old man with premature ejaculations? Thats not good.
ReplyDeleteThere are several factors that causes premature ejaculations, the psychological aspect is the hard nut to crack, almost impossible to treat, cus its a thing of the mind, same goes for erectile dysfucnction. Either way you need to sit him down and pick his brain, so you know which way forward, North or South.
Stella, which is seven horse style?
ReplyDeleteLet him sit up for an exercise and cut that intake of that beer Good 4 months You go carry another chronicles come give Stella how you dey use fan blow under after
ReplyDeleteYea but is he ready to do all that? You can’t force a grown man to do what he’s not ready to do. Only him can change himself. Poster can’t do anything about it than to advise him. Poster please leave that relationship. If you enjoy sex, that’s a deal breaker for you. Heck it’ll be a deal breaker for me as I enjoy that thick warm d***ck inside of me. Left my ex because of this same predicament.
Deletepenetration is not everything na. let him make you cum before he cums in 2 secs.
ReplyDeleteBut penetration for some women alone makes them cum especially if they enjoy a penis thrusting them.
DeleteI will pass on this, not an expert.
ReplyDeleteNawa ooo, team taste before you buy where are you. Encourage the guy to go for treatment, there is medical and orthodox solution to it
ReplyDeleteYou're right.
DeleteMarried as a virgin without testing and still regretting it till date. I have never enjoyed sex. Sometimes we stay 1 year without it. He cums just by seeing you take off your undies and it is getting worse everyday. Right now, I hate sex so much.poster, take off your shoes and run please, it doesn't really worth it. Unless you want to be frustrated.
Were you just a virgin or were you also godly and chaste with a strong prayer life? I strongly believe God speaks with his children and show them things through dreams visions and other ways possiblee.
DeleteAnonymous 23.26. your ways are not God's ways, from abraham with the maid to Solomon and david. Stories of fornication and adultery are rife in the bible and guess what? It didn't bring condemnation upon them. If God wanted us all perfect he would have made us so but he didn't. The bible says ALL have sinned so there's not one fully righteous person before God. You think your lying or anger is a lesser sin or makes you more holy then think again. I hope God even shows you malaria cos if not then your analogy is flawed. Everything you people call God, why don't you fly from work to your office or ask for a house to fall from heaven. Does it?? We are put on this planet and we must follow the rules of existence.
DeletePlease poster leave the guy he already irritates you. It's a different case if he knows he has a problem and needs you to help him become better in this case he hasn't even recognised his problem so how can you fix him?
DeleteThe same society will judge you tomorrow for cheating. Sex is not everything then why did God give us private parts? It's soo annoying when people try to downplay it. It's like saying we don't have to use our mouths to eat or our ears to hear. Are u kidding me???
8:59 No I pray God shows you malaria and it shall be to you like you wish me in Jesus name Amen. I don't know what your problem is and why you have to go writing epistle because I asked her a simple question because I was confused . yes I was confused because naturally when you are close to God and have a healthy prayer life and you table your life, relationship, career or friendship to him before embarking on it in prayer he shows you things, secrets in dark places he reveals to you. Even as a virgin without test driving the man he will sort that aspect out for you by telling you in your dream or creating situation that would make him confess to you about his condition without you breaking a sweat and you would never have to go the sinful way of fornication before finding out on your own( talking from experience). It's not about being a virgin alone It is also about living a godly life and having a strong prayer life. I cringe when I read comments from women like" I married as a virgin but ended up with a cheating man, an abusive man or 5seconds man" Like a non-virgin who knows christ and now lives for him in spirit and In truth won't get a better man. It has never been about thee state of your hymen but more about how attuned with God you are. Virginity Is not chastity.
DeleteAbraham with the maid was the handiwork of Sarah due to her lack of faith and patience, we could put that action of sarah in the same basket as the advice of the lady above I responded to, who suggested test driving your man just like Sarah suggested anraham teat drive hagai for a baby due to lack of faith. God did not send Abraham to do that. His faithlessness did. Just the way some ladies inability to rely on God by being chaste and leaving everything In his hands concerning their men sexual capability has pushed them to take the bull by the horn themselves to solve their predicament just Like Sarah encouraged abraham doesn't end well. Lack of faith In itself is a sin, do you know that?
Do you also know the price Abraham and sarah's generation paid and are still paying for that action? When God asks you to do things his way It is for your own good not to put you in trouble.
You say God didn't find condemn Abraham and Solomon Yes because they wasn't necessary anymore ,there already condemned themselves with their actions. Read up on It the repercussions.
You would bever have added David to the mix if you knew how his life turned around for the worse due to fornication and adultery.
please Read your Bible in and out and stop picking just a
few verses and running with It.
This your comment just made me realise a lot of people fornicate because they don't understand the word of God. May God open your eyes. I am sayingg it again "YOU NEED TO READ YOUR BIBLE".
Anon 8:58 No I pray God shows you malaria and it shall be to you like you wish me in Jesus name Amen. I don't know what your problem is and why you have to go writing epistle because I asked her a simple question because I was confused . yes I was confused because naturally when you are close to God and have a healthy prayer life and you table your life, relationship, career or friendship to him before embarking on it in prayer he shows you things, secrets in dark places he reveals to you. Even as a virgin without test driving the man he will sort that aspect out for you by telling you in your dream or creating situation that would make him confess to you about his condition without you breaking a sweat and you would never have to go the sinful way of fornication before finding out on your own( talking from experience). It's not about being a virgin alone It is also about living a godly life and having a strong prayer life. I cringe when I read comments from women like" I married as a virgin but ended up with a cheating man, an abusive man or 5seconds man" Like a non-virgin who knows christ and now lives for him in spirit and In truth won't get a better man. It has never been about thee state of your hymen but more about how attuned with God you are. Virginity Is not chastity.
DeleteAbraham with the maid was the handiwork of Sarah due to her lack of faith and patience, we could put that action of sarah in the same basket as the advice of the lady above I responded to, who suggested test driving your man just like Sarah suggested anraham teat drive hagai for a baby due to lack of faith. God did not send Abraham to do that. His faithlessness did. Just the way some ladies inability to rely on God by being chaste and leaving everything In his hands concerning their men sexual capability has pushed them to take the bull by the horn themselves to solve their predicament just Like Sarah encouraged abraham doesn't end well. Lack of faith In itself is a sin, do you know that?
Do you also know the price Abraham and sarah's generation paid and are still paying for that action? When God asks you to do things his way It is for your own good not to put you in trouble.
You say God didn't find condemn Abraham and Solomon Yes because they wasn't necessary anymore ,there already condemned themselves with their actions. Read up on It the repercussions.
You would bever have added David to the mix if you knew how his life turned around for the worse due to fornication and adultery.
please Read your Bible in and out and stop picking just a
few verses and running with It.
This your comment just made me realise a lot of people fornicate because they don't understand the word of God. May God open your eyes. I am sayingg it again "YOU NEED TO READ YOUR BIBLE".
8.58 still can't see how your comment relates to anon's to the point comment.
DeleteMy Girlfriend come and see your mate now I will last for 50mints but you dnt appreciate always telling me you are nt a xxx machine crying just for 20 minutes laps last night
ReplyDelete"Last for 50 minutes" doing what, fornicating -demeaning yourself before your creator???
DeleteFind some preoccupation.
😳😳😳 😳
Delete50 mins of mindless thrusting without finding out what pleases her I’m sure.
DeleteIf she’s truly enjoying the ride, even that 50 mins will not be enough.
Guys. If your wife cums and still complains that you last too long, check her well. She might just be pretending.
Kill her oo. Mr sex machine
Delete50 mins doing what? Hian
DeleteIf you were barren, he for Don run o. Now he acting like a man. At least u r sure he can't cheat. Nothing to cheat with.
ReplyDeleteMost erectile dysfunction are caused by excessive stds from womanising. Once the preek wants to park, they propose to a good girl. If any man tries that with me, he will wake up without balls🕯️🗡️⚰️
Says who? They cheat more, embarrassing their women.
DeleteHe will wake up without balls as in you will mutilate him?? Na wa, all kinds of comments.
DeleteStella, this guy would flee if this poster had just one breast lol God forbid. He would even dump this poster if she didn’t like sex, and is boring. Poster, stay only if u can cope, if not leave.
ReplyDeleteThese "sexual debris" are gathered by premarital sexual experimentation.
ReplyDeleteGod created everything and said seven times, "they are good". He set rules, and one of those rules is, sex should be in marriage.
So if you decide to do it before marriage, you are bound to break a hedge and another rule is that the Serpent will bite you. Eccl. 10:8
So the way back to "factory setting" is defined by another rule -repentance, being born again (being made new).
In as much as you may not like this rules, just like certain rules in the home where you grew up, they aren't going to go away.
Think and choose one.
So happy to see people rising up to the challenge of saying the truth about sexual immorality.
DeleteThanks.
Love your comment👏👏👏👏
DeleteThe way they they try to silence one Is so pathetic. When you do something take it with your chest and be proud instead of drawing your claws at people who say the bitter truth you don't want to hear by calling them names. Calling you names like assistant Jesus is a cloak of pride I would gladly wear.
DeleteAnon 15:22 : 👍👍👍👍👍
DeleteWell said ,
DeleteSexual purity is key ,
I learnt some churches ask couples getting married to conduct all manner of tests these days ,
Most importantly there is nothing prayer cannot solve in a marriage ,but people believe they should 'test drive ' before marriage .
Leave them ooo@noir. Was It not here we read that a man was a 2hours man before marriage. The lady was so happy she went ahead to marry oga after marriage he had the same issue she Is complaining about up here. She said her husband wast like that before they got married. So you see Testing before marriage is no guarantee for anything but they act like they don't know.
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DeleteThere are problems we saw ourselves into, we don't choice what we will encounter. Please women if you see someone passing through nature made or man-made situation and the person let you in into the situation please try and heal with the person. Sometimes lie with positive vibes how Mr d got healed from it. If na slay queen saw her total package , she will step up. But you are meant to be wife. So if you can't help please withdraw
ReplyDeleteMadam Stella your response was harsh. All the same, it's a big issue. Most guys don't know that sex needs to be prepared for just the way you prepare for an exam. I used to have the same problem until I understand preparation for sex. Your bf should understand this and you should be ready to work with him if you really Love him and if he is ready to learn because it takes two to tango. He should understand he has a problem. Premature ejaculation is a problem. All the Best.
ReplyDeleteHe need to see a Doctor
ReplyDeleteStella please permit me to laugh a bit with what you said up there about she going to lay down and wide her legs hahhahahhahahahah.
ReplyDeleteposter you are not helping matters with your actions towards him, he has a problem which he knows about it but the approach you are using is terrible and that could cause him suicide if care is not taken.
Please do not finish the remaining ego that he has because you want to help him. Have a heart to heart talk with him by sieving your words so that you will not hurt his feelings. Talk things over with him, give him the strength he needs to fight this battle, you must not help me because you want to stay forever with him but help him to become a better man as a friend.
stop the threat of he should not call you or text you like before. Oga may go into depression if time is not taken. Talk to him to visit a good doctor to run some test and find solution to his problem Is curable.
Maybe you can suggest you follow him to go see a doctor, then make sure he sticks to whatever advice he gets from his doc. Look at it as you helping a friend, don't get short with him because of that.
ReplyDeleteStella dont blame her or her reaction towards this situation.
ReplyDeleteThe thing is the guy probably knows he had a problem but did he mention it to her,no i guess. Men has ego when it comes to things like this and would never say a thing,acting like theres no problem meanwhile there is one.Imagine the case is reversed,they wont even stick around to know what the problem is
Sex is everything especially if this person is sm1 you want to spend d rest of your life with
Cutting him off is what i dont subscribed too
Tell him your concerns and work towards finding a solution to the problem with him,try your own bit.its well
Stella and her takes sometimes. smh.
ReplyDeleteYes sex IS food! good sex is so important to any relationship. lack of it would leave you frustrated and angry all the time ! don't let anyone tell you otherwise oo.
and really its about his attitude to the whole situation, he ain't ready to fix so please keep it moving.
Hmmm Stella this your advice harsh o but sadly na the bitter truth you tell am.
ReplyDeletePoster you are being too forward. You need to calm down & take it slow. If not just leave now.
She should leave him the heck alone and move on,with this her attitude, she might drive him crazy.
DeleteI am in this boat..... Met dis guy 2018,sex with him was good den, but I complained to him den with just a round of sex, all he said was that he would change.... Fast forward to after marriage, husband man has suddenly changed... He doesn't talk to me anymore, always on his own.... Lovemaking is now a chore, he goes soft even before penetration. I feel he is suffering from ED. He did a sperm count analysis some weeks ago, result came back as 65million, but he didn't say d motility rate.... Am helpless now. Yet he doesn't want to talk about it @ all...... I need help plssssssssssssssssss
ReplyDeleteIf you really like this guy and wants to help him then i can suggest a few tips.
ReplyDelete- Nervousness will worsen PE, try to calm and relax him with lots of foreplay before getting to action.
- Try being on top during sex. It's a sure way to make him last. FACT
- Gently cupping and tugging on his scrotum during sex will assist in abating PE.
- Morning sex helps to control PE because it usually without preparedness.
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You have scattered everything...... what if he cums during foreplay?
Delete16:11 Then help him get his shlong back up by stroking it gently.
DeleteScattered how?
My Able Prof. Perxian, did you just advise her to try a lot of foreplay?
DeleteNne, he will cum before she will pull her pant.
He should stop taking alcohol and avoid carbs.
He should start eating a lot of fruits and veggies.
He should also do exercise, especially kegel exercise.
Taaaaaaaaa stela biko good sex is the koko o, hubby made love to me last night, i was literaliry begging this man to stop😁i mean good 20 minutes doggy. since today , have just been smiling up and down in the house even hubby is laughing at me. Poster. if you love food sex like me, biko look somewhere else. sex is food o en en
ReplyDeleteStella pls let her be! Poster I’m in your shoes and it’s not funny it keeps you frustrated and angry. The sad thing is he knows he needs to change his diet and exercise often, which will help him last longer but they are ever so headstrong. If he’s not trying pls move on now before it’s late. Thanks
ReplyDeletePoster japa if you can't deal
ReplyDeleteWhen they see devotionals posted here, they'll read and be claiming. Typing amen. Yet they'll be supporting premarital sex. I don't know who you people think God is. Are you for God or not? Because His Word says whosoever nameth the name of God should depart from iniquity. You can not be everywhere.
ReplyDeleteThey'll come and call me holy holy or Judgina now. I have sha talk my own😔.
Honestly it's so tiring. Most would come to stella to complain about one issue or the other when the source of their problem could even be the fact that they done spiritual exchange In the spirital realm through premarital sex. They have shared their glory with everyone they slept with. They keep acting like they don't know iniquity obstruct blessings. Some would say I am blessed but do you know hiw blessed you would have gotten compared to the tiny blessings you are braggingg about now? Or who has been blessed through deceitful means by using your glory for themselves when you opened your up and let them into your core? I have a lot to say but stella just help post this little comment abeg. You don't know who will receive sense and God will
Deletethank you and I for it.
People want to have their cake and eat it but life doesn't work that way. Typing amen in the morning on SP and then going ahead to support immorality in the afternoon is a joke on you.
DeleteStella sex is very important!! Married, my husband is rarely around because of the nature of his job,yet he cheated. might have sex once a month, so i,m sexually starved, don't love him anymore, seriously thinking of leaving. Because I can never cheat, It's so demeaning to me.make Conji no kill me for this marriage lol
ReplyDeleteThis Stella sounds like somebody that likes to stroke men’s ego. Poster Abeg leave the guy. If you marry him and endure horrible sex, you’ll be tempted to cheat and we the readers will not be enduring rubbish sex with you. Sex is not everything but it means a lot. And the guy isn’t even willing to do something about it. So..... don’t waste your time boo
ReplyDeleteStella have come again o, which one is "quick cummer" bikonu?🤣🤣🤣🤣 You must be fun to be with.
ReplyDeleteMelancholy
Flee fornication!!! Anyway, talk to him about it and make sure he follows up.
ReplyDeleteWow! This is a serious matter, please sit him down and make him understand how you feel.
ReplyDeleteAt times eh,we women don't know how to talk.We may have good intentions but fail to pass it across in a logical and respectful way without bruising the man's ego.Ermm poster,if you can't deal with it,now is the perfect time to jakpa.
ReplyDelete@Stellakoko red pen 😱😱😱😱😱😱😱
ReplyDeleteFornication is bad.
ReplyDeleteHowever, please note that if you were the one with issues, he will dump you without thinking twice.
The first time I had sex with my then fiance, he malfunctioned, he blamed it on stress and jet lag, same second time, I helped him massage and stroke and we managed to get it up. I asked that he loose weight and do exercise. He did, he got more confident with his toned body and himself and the problems disappeared even though he was in his late forties.but another problems appeared though. He became more attractive to his exes even though we got married.when I look at his non chalfant attitude sometimes, I can't believe it was same man that was anxiously fumbling with his perfect size dick and couldn't keep it up, was continously apologizing.Now he feels he is God's gift to women.I should have left him like all his exes. Why do some ladies still hang around men they couldn't marry, if you can't marry him due to one thing or other, why don't you just leave other women home alone.
ReplyDeleteA man that sleeps with you before marriage has no moral ground (nor discipline) not to sleep with other women after marriage.
Delete18:47 Don't mind her. Someone who isn't faithful to God the Almighty, All powerful who sees all things and can do anything is the one you expect to be faithful to you? Like who are you by the way?
DeleteStella that your red pen dikwa behuge🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteMeanwhile @Poster,what are you both looking for in your privates?
If you are a Follower of Christ,that remember God's Word is THE STANDARD for every of our thoughts,words,actions and decisions. I will encourage to come into Christ if you are not.
It's amazing to see some BVs dance to their left and to their right when it comes to their belief in Christ. Who has sold this lie to us bikonu.
When it comes to blessings,receiving good things, divine provision etc as our legal rghts in Christ everybody will be louding "Amen" and calling "God" "God" up and down but once it comes to the part that requires us to act in line with The One we profess... we become bias and start persecuting fellow brethren "Judge not" "Assistant Jesus" "Na them" etc
Some say "how could she have been able to discover this if she had
tried to or tested. It's a pity... Agbasia Oso aguo mile
Courtship is not for discovering sexual prowess and what not. It is for knowing, building, planning,communicating etc
#LOVE
God bless you immensely. 🙏
DeletePoster you haven't even started courting. Your relationship was just a month old. It was barely kicking off and you introduced immorality into it. Why put the cart before the horse?.
Thank you. Well said.
DeleteI have seen people try it and it worked for them...this is what all these big men use when they are old and want to feel young down there.
ReplyDeleteGod i am tired of these pastors here. Pls not everyone believe in your jesus and silly western religion.
ReplyDeleteWho stopped you from preaching whatever you believe in instead of attacking those preaching Jesus?
DeletePoster let me teach you a trick, am talking from experience,tell your guy to put on double condom when ever you want to have sex, I promise you he will last longer
ReplyDelete😳😳😳😳 another angle 😪
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