This kind of behaviour from Ladies is not tribe or state specific,some women will not just let anything stand in their way to get to ''the top''
Thursday, May 07, 2020
Lady Marries Rich Businessman And Sends Boyfriend Of 4 Years One Million Naira To Says Sorry...
WOW.......This is crazy!!!!
This kind of behaviour from Ladies is not tribe or state specific,some women will not just let anything stand in their way to get to ''the top''
This kind of behaviour from Ladies is not tribe or state specific,some women will not just let anything stand in their way to get to ''the top''
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Oh well...
ReplyDelete"If you no get money for pocket, get better word for mouth"
DeleteIf a man knows he does not have money to buy his lady's love and loyalty, he should do many things at his disposal to win it.
I can't be managing the no money with you without you consolation prices here and there. But the case with poor guys is that their ego is so fragile that they need to put you through different stuff to assure themselves that they are the men. The rich ones on the other hand mostly won't bother toasting and being romantic to win you.
We have read of women who turned down rich suitors waiting and praying their childhood boyfriends makes it and marries them.
Hisssss. Na love I come chop for this life onwaya? Abegiiiii. 1m is too much 10k wld have been better. U kept me for 4yrs and was expecting me to say no to a billionaire or what? Aragbachikwa gi Anya there
DeleteI followed this tweet wella yesterday. Very very interesting and hilarious comments. When asked if the so called ex boyfriend is doing well now even with the 1 million, the narrator said NO.
DeleteSo, imagine??? It could have turned forever staying with a guy with no vision.
17.02 You are just a hungry individual. Did the guy tie your legs? Money hungry girls all over the place. Dem forbid you to be a billionaire? Na only man fit be billionaire?
DeleteHmmm
DeleteThis is the reason some guys ended up in beer parlors trying to drink away their frustration.
I wish una well.
'vexes outta post'
Food don land oh๐๐๐
ReplyDeleteMaybe to her, the 4 years relationship wasn't heading anywhere and to pay him off for his time.
DeleteHeartless though.
lol. it happens but not all igbo girls
ReplyDeleteBabe marry who is ready and financially stable. How does 4yrs relationship help. He was not ready. I wish I knew all these yrs back. Babes do not settle for motivational speaker brooke ass bf
DeleteI am Og o and was with the man while he finished PG school. We were rolling around town in lake napep. He finally got a job and a car and cancelled our wedding . . Go figure.
DeleteStella we r proudly IGBO. We r happy with it . Don’t judge us Biko ๐
DeleteThere's nothing heartless in that...Marrying poor is more heartless to your unborn children..Girls wake up, poor men cheat, rich men cheat why not go for the rich guy
ReplyDeleteLook into the mirror and anything you see there, tell it shame!
DeleteThey are here.
Delete๐๐๐13:19
Delete13:19 oh ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐๐๐
Delete@ anonymous 13.19 when I looked into the mirror, I see Grace of God around me. Chilling with my 2 beautiful kids in England enjoying the beautiful sunshine.
Delete@14:34
DeleteEngland is not heaven. And you sound quite childish.
Anonymous 14:32, money is not everything.
DeleteLuke 12:15, says the life of a man does not consist in the abundance he has. No.
You say grace...it is well. Life is a mystery. It is possible to be poor today and be massively rich tomorrow.
24 hrs, is too much for God to turn a persons life around. Selah
Anon ooooo ๐๐๐คฃ๐คฃ my belle o!
DeleteMadam marrying poor is unfair to your chikdren, is there any law that says a woman cannot be rich and thus not have to sell her future for money? It's not only men that can be rich ehn madam England.
England is not heaven but is far far better from where I came from...Dont know why you feel offended with my comments, just my humble opinion. I came from extremely poor background and I dont think it will be fair to say no to a rich guy .
DeleteAnon 13:19. Yiu the reply you wanted right, now you can relax.
DeleteThe anon up there gave his/her opnion why say shame on you...you guys are something mehn.
@15:36
Delete"Rich guy, rich guy". Yahoo guys, kidnappers of Evans species, ritualists are all included in this your "rich guys" o.
Wow, who says poverty does not affect mentality?
Or is someone cooking jollof rice without tomatoes here?
You don't think it will be fair to say to a rich guy... please can I ask, are you allergic to making YOUR own money?
DeleteI find it so shameful when people make statements like these in 2020. I know people who are from poor backgrounds but have made something out of their lives, rather than depending on a "rich man". What happens if his business runs down tomorrow??? What values and message are you passing on to your kids?
@Adanne
DeleteAnd I made my own opinion too, what do you have against that? Isn't there freedom of speech again?
@Madam "from a very poor background"
DeleteWhich girl will marry your brothers then?
Even your sisters, which man will marry them?
As poor as you are, a man agreed to marry you and
you have two kids in England and you can now make noise?
poverty has suddenly turned to a crime in your eyes?
Let me remind you that that God you are touting his name
said that you will always have poor people in your midst. Matthew 26:11
Just be careful what you say with your mouth.
@ Lady T and anon 17.21, God bless you both.
DeleteAt least, she said sorry and gave him something for the heartache. ๐ฉ๐คท๐ป♀️
ReplyDeleteWow sorry from the other side in **Adele's voice**
DeleteShes considerate ..they guy should take it and set himself up and maybe he too will get a nice girl
ReplyDeleteThis one still tried na. To drop the one million to cushion the effect. Others will just japa and you won't see them again even after spending money training them and their young ones.
ReplyDelete4 years! What a waste
ReplyDeleteWhat was the guy waiting for the whole 4 years?
Delete@ Adanne ๐๐๐ you are mean
DeleteOh well girl...it is what it is.
Delete@Adanne
DeleteYou attacked me up there saying that I am something else for replying 'shame".
Here you are attacking someone else for expressing her opinion? Do you want to be
the only commenter on the blog?
I am not surprised. Typical human behaviour. People always look out for their interest first. If the guy had met a rich business woman or a lady from an influential family with lots of perks he would have done the same.
ReplyDeleteNo pity in dating. Anyone in a reationship with you has something they value which you are offering be it money, love, good behaviour etc. No one is doing you a favour by dating you. They are actually okay with what you are offering that's why they are still there if not forget it๐ถ♂️๐♂️
Hmm....me I sha know that if the man I am dating sees a rich woman and tells me to take 1 million, I will sha collect and wish you good luck. At least. It shows he didn't have the right character to be married to.
DeleteHow is she sure dis boyfriend of 4yrs will marry her,dat is the question. If he had proposed and she said YES;maybe i will feel pity for him.
ReplyDeleteSome men come with marriage rite from d on-set they know what they want. If such girl takes dat opportunity,i wont blame her.
Some want to study a girl for 5yrs to know if shes wife material.
There are even some men even to define a rltshp with a woman is real problem for dem. They will say "we are talking". Then use 6months to analyse if they can date her.....no kidding,iv seen it.
... Or even insist you get pregnant before marriage.
Delete.. Or later tell you "mma anyแป si.. mpa anyแป si"
Hahahaha.
The list is endless.
Hmn madam, in the previous post you called men who go after rich women lazy and gold diggers and here you are supporting a woman that does the same thing...well done with your double standards o, well done
DeleteYou stated a fact.
DeleteAnon13.48 where did i mention money in my comment. Iv seen women who have left a rich time-waster for an average guy that is ready for marriage. Everythn isnt money.
DeleteDo rich men not waste a girls time,before u know it his family has found dere fellow rich family for him dat d girls family isnt on dere level.
Youre right. My female friend just ended a 12year long relationship that started from our university days. Her guy was delaying oooh so she saw his continued nonchalance to advance things and 'jokingly' broke it off. To our shock the guy seemed relieved and didn't try to make things right at all. So he was just a coward who didn't have the courage to break things off by himself. From her 18yrs to 30yrs.
Deletehe was even her boyfriend not fiance and probably the guy might still not be ready in more years to come. A ready person came along and she went for it. Was it not here i read people marry for different reasons
DeleteIt was the woman's choice to stay in a that relationship for 4 years. Have thought about that. Nobody forced her to stay. She wasn't so lucky finding a husband material so she had to manage boyfriend material.. It took her 4 years to find a husband material. She left. Simple as that.
Delete๐ฅ ๐ฅ๐ฅ And here's hoping all the guys that left me to goan immediately marry someone else can follow suit. I need to be placated for the heartaches.
ReplyDeleteThe girl that did this is greedy.
ReplyDeleteThe dude that receives such money is greedier
The two of them combined are the greediest. ๐๐๐๐
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DeleteI dont blame her at all.
ReplyDeleteHe's lucky to get a million bucks.
Some will say 'trust me, I have a plan for us'. What's the plan na, can't I know? I should just be following you blindly without knowing what's in stock. How do I know if you even know where you are going. Before you go lead me inside forest of no return.
ReplyDeleteI dated a guy post NYSC for 2 yrs. Somehow both of us moved to different cities. I met and fell for someone else. Uncomfortable with double dating and decided to call off the first.
DeleteHe cried foul.. he had good intentions.. bla..bla..
Well, I'm not one to ask a guy to define a relationship he didn't see need to.
Life is deep. Nobody knows what the future holds.
The most important is being happy and comfortable with our choices, no matter what.
No big deal. Do whatever makes you happy. Although happiness should be measured on a long term basis.
ReplyDeleteBUT common! Dating a girl for 4 years? Kilode! And I’m sure she didn’t see any proposal in sight! She even gave him 1Mill? Lol! If na Yoruba girl she go even insult u on top call u weyrey! Abeg, the girl did well Joor!.... if I date a girl for 4 years and she pulls this stunt I won’t feel hurt or angry!
ReplyDeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)
Honestly, the girl has a good heart
Delete4 years and what was the guy waiting for?
ReplyDeleteIs relationship now certificate?
I admire her guts.
She even tried, she gave him compensation fee.
She gave him 1 million compensation fee for helping her save face for 4 years WHILE she looks for a husband. That's what she paid for. So many women are looking for husband and have to settle for boyfriend till husband comes too... GOT IT. Nobody forced her to stay in that relationship. She is an adult and she made the decision to stay.
DeleteCan you blame her? She probably has sisters or aunties who dated a man for years only for the man to marry someone else.
ReplyDeleteBesides, what's the guarantee he would have married her? A friend of mine was dating a man for years when he was jobless. Job came, man change mouth.
Listen, the babe dont have to have siblings to do whatever the flip she wants to do....4years? #Getthefouttahere
DeleteWhen girls are seriously hassling so that their bress no go fess them settle down, abi rich marriage all the way biko
ReplyDelete4 wasted years,why didn't he marry her all those years??she even tried to send him something. Awon time wasters
ReplyDeleteDo you know when they started dating?
DeleteThat's my whole thing...sense they your head.
DeleteAnon 14:41, the post said she had a boyfriend if 4 years, for all we know it could have been more than 4years you know๐คท♀️
No be today!!!
ReplyDeleteThis is one major reason why today's marriages don't last. People marrying over wrong reasons.
ReplyDeleteEesah I dey your back
DeleteShe was not attracted to him( short and ugly). We don't know the context, but 4 years could be the man trying to find his feet..
See me see wahala ooo, chai I'm just all over this post....๐
DeleteMost marriages this days na for wrong reasons oo, believe it or not, so what difference does this one make?
4 years of trying to find your feet? Just kuku find the feet first before trying to tie a babe down in the name if r/ship.
See them up there making excuses for the girl.. if position is switched now, their new favorite word would be littered everywhere.. HE IS A NARCISSIST.. Na we dey here, we'll be here to smile when you all begin to get the rewards of this double standards behavior y'all stated, as you have chosen to self destruct
ReplyDeleteI am a woman and my position has always been the same. No pity in relationship. People put themselves first. I wrote it up there. A lady complained about her man leaving her I gave her the same advice. Everyone marries because it profits them one way or the other.
DeleteMehn, Are some of you naturally this dumb or you are putting special effort today.. before you start asking why he would date for 4years,you should find out first how old the started the relationship.. e.g the guy might be 20 and the lady 18 when the started.. in 4 years time he would be 24 and the girl 22.. how many guys in your family have by that time gotten the resources to settle down.. and how many girls do settle at 22 in this time? Una go just dey support rubbish thinking you're helping your gender.
DeleteThe number of dumb Nigerian youths is increasing exponentially, making the averagely intelligent Nigerian an endangered specie!
Dante its you men dat say must all relationships lead to marriage?
DeleteThis lady found the one that is leading to marriage and she shouldnt take it.
Hope you know some men date a lady of 30yrs and they still dont have plans of marriage with her.
Another man can come and he wants to marry her in 3months. It happened to me. I dated my boyfriend for 3yrs from 27-30 and no talk of marriage,everytime i ask he will say no one can force him,hes not ready.
My aunty introduced me to her friends son based abroad doing well and very eager to settle. And i took the chance. Mere seeing my picture he proposed on the phone. He visited once,we spent 2 weeks together and months later came to marry me.
Guys spend too time running around women and crawling under their dirty pants.
DeleteThe time and energy you waste on fucking those who will never appreciate you should be devoted on achieving successes. Some of you see pussy as compensation for your misery
Go out there and hustle, there are limitless opportunities for you to become a success. Even girls that can't wash their pants sing about poor men. Girls who are ravished by poverty talk down on men here.
Over 90 million Nigerians live below the poverty line, millions are underemployed. At the end most you here will marry a poor guy, no be curse.
Alexander
That’s some bitter sweet way of consoling dude.
ReplyDeleteAtleast she said sorry with one million naira ๐๐ how many guys say sorry
ReplyDeleteI don't blame her at all,My friend's boyfriend of 8years called the relationship off yesterday cos he is getting married to a girl he just met in the UK in order to get PR. She was just cursing him and crying over the phone i had to keep calming her. To think that Ibk travelled in February o,before lockdown. Hian!!!!
ReplyDeleteYou see.. I don't blame the guy too. He did what he got to do. To think that he was even lucky enough to travel before lockdown...such is life.
DeleteThat's life!
Deleteoh ho you see. and some fools make women feel guilty for having options. better spend those 8 yrs alone/dating platonically than spend with a goat that is not worth it in the end. sorry to your friend o
DeleteI think it is unfair to deliberately set out to hurt people. But when in a relationship/courtship, each party has the right to leave or call it off, but it should be done in the most kind and thoughtful manner. Besides, the boyfriend-girlfriend culture is a borrowed one. It is mostly sexually based and sometimes wouldn't lead to marriage. Usually the boyfriend is not anywhere ready for marriage, so it usually ends in heartbreak, pregnancy, prolonged dating, endless fornication etc.. The Igbo culture supports purposeful dating and courtship- so nobody wastes each other's time.
ReplyDeleteThat said, all adults should learn to accept rejection with dignity. When men rape women, or women try to jazz men into love & submission- it comes from a mindset of ownership and it's wrong, you cannot own another person. Unrequited love will happen to us all at some point. Be mature & responsible to let it go and let them go.
That's his pension. He should invest it.
ReplyDelete250k per year × 4yrs for time wasted.๐
ReplyDeleteLoooool.....I agree
DeleteGood girl sef. You even gave 1M. Me I just sent the mpa pictures in the evening after reception. Loool. Time adiro. Odiegwu!!!
ReplyDeleteMen marry women for what they can offer toooo......I am not saying that what she did is right but 4 years and that nigga did not think to pop the question....I am also a babe that advocates for women to have options and marry the best one because men do the same......I believe in being sharp ohhh before they play you for a fool.
ReplyDeleteShe did the right thing. But pop what question.....some women have bad market when it comes to finding a husband. If you can't find a husband, conventional wisdom may tell you to find a boyfriend that helps you save face for 4 years while you look for a husband too.... It took her 4 years to find a husband and she paid the boyfriend for helping her save face for 4 years... They had a mutual transactional relationship for 4 years hence the 1million transaction. She would have never preferred to marry the boyfriend, that was her last option if all fails. She was being a sharp girl...Having a boyfriend status with another guy hastened the husband's readiness to marry her....
DeleteWe all need to go back to our roots.
ReplyDeleteNot every modern ideology is right/wrong
And not every traditional/ancient ideology is right/wrong.
Let ppl marry for whatever reasons they want. Men do this too. The boyfriend could have offered to marry her at some point in the four years but didn't. It does not take four years to decide if you want to marry someone.
ReplyDeleteIt's called marriage ,not a poverty alleviation scheme
ReplyDelete๐๐ Later they start writing chronicles. Pls just lie on your beds after you lay it.
DeleteThank you! Girls need to change their minds about marriage. It's not for poverty alleviation.
Deleteanon 16:27 the ones that married poor men and are suffering and writing chronicles nko??. you people will never believe nigerian women deserve to marry rich men that ALSO treat them like queens lai lai. in your small minds, only rich men are bad husbands. poverty mindset. what a pity
Delete20.03 do you not believe that Nigerian women deserve to be rich??? Abi na only man fit be rich? ๐ what a pity
DeleteIf that was poor would she have married the man? U all supporting her because of the money una try no be small.just wat if the guy is trying to get on his feet husstle no pay today eh go pay tomorrow.how many of una brothers don make for life?
ReplyDeletethis thing we call relationship....na complicated matter...it no get formula
ReplyDeleteWay forward.
ReplyDeleteWay forward.
ReplyDeleteThe way some hungry nigerian men go on about insulting women online because they do not want to take care of financial responsibilities, I am sure they will glady take the 1 million and forget the girl
ReplyDeleteLoooool. I agree totally
DeleteMost Nigeria men like awoof no be small, they keep looking for readymade girls to marry hence the delay in getting married. If it were to be a man that sees a rich girl, sure he will abandon the girl sharply.
ReplyDeleteWhy do I feel like most of the people against this girl are guys.....now that I think about it, I dont see anything wrong with what she did....a lot of guys get away with marrying girls from Rich homes or marrying rich women and society is not against it and when women do same it becomes a big issue. Men need to understand that it is no longer their world and that women are ruling too.....ladies do whatever makes you happy because loyalty can bite you in the ass real bad......I have loved people and I have been called a gold digger even when I was not getting anything in return now I am pro get worshipped and get all you can. Period
ReplyDeleteI really don't blame women who do shit like marrying a guy for money, cheating on their husbands and partners e.t.c. cos some men are just problematic.....we don't even know the evil the guy was doing to her....he maybhave been cheating on her and giving her stis/STDs or other psycho shit....so I am team do whatever works for you or makes you happy.
ReplyDeleteTeam "do whatever makes you happy" abi? Just sha keep the same energy when a man leaves a woman after years for another because that is what will make him happy.
Delete