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Monday, May 18, 2020

Media Personality Toke Makinwa Says She Trolled For Being Divorced And Giving Relationship Advice..



In an Instagram live chat with Reality star (former BBA housemate) Uti Nwachukwu, Toke Makinwa opened up about how she was trolled for giving relationship advice after her divorce became final...






In her words;


''Take out the stigma of divorce and take out the shame that comes with this whole divorce thing.

People still troll me about the fact that "you talk about relationships, but you couldn't keep your marriage" I'm like what do you people want from me? If I stay in that situation I would have been called names as well. So I don't know which one people want to pass so many opinions that this happened in my marriage.


You were not in my marriage, but at that time that this happened, every news outlet had a version ,every radio station had a version, everything I read had a version how "She was so dumb", "He didn't love her" "She could have done this, she could have done that".

And it's so frustrating how people have remedy to what they think your life should be like ,but their lives are not even close to being perfect''.




Hmmmmm...........

46 comments:

  1. Whatever works for you Toke, whatever!

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    1. Yes Toke, if you have the manual of how to grab the perfect husband and live passionately happy forever after, then why couldn't you apply your nuggets of wisdom in choosing a spouse? Or remedying your marriage before it got to breaking point!!! I personally cannot take relationship advice from a divorcee. I can listen if they accept they want to share their experience so I can learn a few things from it.

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    2. So it’s only one party responsible for making a marriage work. Maybe she should have tied him to prevent him from getting more than one woman pregnant. But when a woman drops such a chronicle here she gets insulted

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  2. I don't really believe that she was trolled for giving relationship advice, she was most likely trolled because Toke speaks from both sides of her mouth.

    In 2020 people still troll others for taking the most difficult route out😩😩😩😩

    Toke, you already grow a thick skin, nothing can get to you, except you allow it

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    1. Sincerely I dont believe her. With this worldwide pandemic, I doubt people still have time for frivoilities.

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    2. Exactly!!! She's not the only divorced person Nah!!

      She even wrote a book on the marriage, giving people the license to have an opinion!!

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    3. “And it's so frustrating how people have remedy to what they think your life should be like ,but their lives are not even close to being perfect''.
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    4. Anon09:28
      You direct your message to Toke, it's her that you described, not the people trolling her.

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  3. Toke you still hurt.
    People are so judgemental and sanctimonious in this part of the globe.
    Focus on yourself and your reaction to these situations since you cannot control how they behave.

    Sending you ehugs

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  4. People will always talk..just live your life to the fullest,be in right standing with God(righteousness) is all that matters

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  5. Online minions will troll you like they know so much about you forgetting that it affects ones mental health.
    All the same, don't put out so much to the media so you can have your peace when things don't go well.

    Take the case of Blossom and Red, who do they troll more. The wife right? Cos she's all in their faces with lovey-dovey pictures and relationship advice daily; even their bedroom pictures was shoved at them.
    In the case of Ubi and Lilian they trolled Ubi.
    People will hardly troll what they don't know. Mind what you post online if you can't stand it when the trolls come around.

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    1. Word!!! After sharing so much on SM, you complain when trolls come to buy market. Simple solution is to stop sharing.

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  6. Remove the plank in your eyes before u can see clearly to remove d speck of dust in another's... Just saying

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  7. Love me some TokStar always. I Tnk God for ur life for being ds strong , focused & doing u without listening to those trolls ,who do same stuff they accuse u of, but differently. Since they can’t be u, d only way out of consolation is to try & see if they can bring u down . Same thing they do to other relevant celebs like u. They do not want to see others happy. Is that not envy?

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    1. Be there lying to her.
      Praise singers are the most evil people, they see the truth but won't say it.

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    2. @ Don...Yeah I can imagine how EVIL you are since you keep singing praises of this govt. even when you see the truth right?… your words not mine

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  8. That's life and humans for you especially when your life is an open book for all to read...

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  9. I just like her

    Omoslin

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  10. You shouldn't be giving people relationship advice especially on how to keep a man because yours didn't work. If you knew how to keep a man, you wouldn't be a divorcee and besides you talk nonsense most times.

    The only advice you should give on relationships matters is to tell young girls out there not to bleach in order to keep a man because it won't work. A man that loves you for real won't make feel insecure.

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    1. BBC your IQ is low ooh. Jesus H Christ!!!!!! Just look at the rubbish you wrote!!

      I don't even have strength to lecture you because you are definitely closed-minded and unexposed;so it's a lost cause.
      Bye!

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    2. BBC only stated her opinion a d I agree with her except for the last paragraph which is a dig on Toke's physical attribute.
      I cannot take hairstyling advice from someone with a clearly bad hair, simple!

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    3. Poor mentality. She was unfortunate to fall in love with someone who never was in love with her.

      Society are quick to blame women who want to really love and be loved back but some end up with rubbish men and society will keep saying a woman builds her home. What if the head of the home is terrible?? How do you build that kind of home?? But the blame goes to the woman. Reason many wanna die inside it.

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    4. Anonymous 9:26, you are the one with low IQ. You are senseless with all your exposure.

      Anonymous 9:49, πŸ€—πŸ˜

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    5. @BBC Sometimes divorced people give good advice on marriage. They teach you what NOT to do, what NOT to tolerate, etc.

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  11. I dont hate Toke and neither do I like her.
    I feel so indifferent about her and cant explain it.
    I try to see the good in her but still,it doesn't make me like or hate her. My people,how do I explain this?

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  12. Thought she was not bothered..
    Just stick to your business and forget trolls

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  13. You were trolled for being a hypocrite because when you washed your dirty linen in public and everybody found out that you haven't been practicing what you preach!!
    I will rather listen to you giving business advice than watching you talk about relationship or marriage..
    I am happy that you are now in a better place financially, physically, career wise, etc...
    Chizzy j

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    1. Thank you Chizzy. You nailed it.
      She made her world seem perfect, dishing feminist advice online but acted traditional wife in her marriage.
      She was a clear case of do as I say, not as I do.
      Hypocrisy at its peak. I can't deal!

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    2. How was her advice feminist? She used to give advice like how to bag a rich man etc. If she wasn’t feminist she’d stay at home and depend on Maje and never leave him. Easy to point fingers at the ones we see in public while we nurse our private mistakes

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  14. What you serve your visitors to eat from your kitchen,is what they will eat.Me think like that.

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  15. She talks too much and think of herself to be perfect.
    You can't advice people in an area where you failed woefully.
    Stop confusing your gender because you're completely confused.

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  16. Good or bad people will always say
    That is world people for you.

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  17. And one of those relationship advice?
    *Buy sex toys of various types
    *If a lady does not want a pregnancy, she should abort it?
    Who are those listening to this clown and pathological hypocrite?
    😏😏😏😏

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  18. Toke move the hell on! You wrote a book tried to pull Maje down and you have refused to move on. You have dated others, what of the man you were dating but left you to marry another girl? Search yourself! Nigerians have other things to worry about than talk about you, you just want to always be in our faces. Maje did not love you and never will, he doesn't even talk about the 6 months marriage. TOKE MOVE ON!

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    1. Nigerians have other things to worry about than talk about you... πŸ‘Œ please help us tell her ooo!πŸ™„

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  19. No one will troll you so much if you keep things real tho.
    The thing with toke is that she’s two faced. She dsnt know if she should be a bad bitch or a good good. Thing is I think she wants to be a bad bitch, but her community is not accepting lol....so sometimes she tries to bend for people, that’s why trolling gets to her. But she should know if you put yourself out there, people will talk. People must talk. She likes the attention tho.

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  20. Awon feminist gang gang18 May 2020 at 18:24

    Bittered-in divorce syndrome is an abnormal recurrent phenomenon where there are alternate mood of happiness/sadness, loss of memory of bad times/remembrance of good times, depression/elevated mood, ventilating the deep thoughts/storing the deep thoughts, it goes on and on. More common in women because they are weaker vessels that love more with their hearts. Dont judge or say anything bad to a woman who has been divorced, because you may not be able to carry that weight the divorce Carries. Sympathize with them because they wished they could have and remain in a peaceful marriage.
    God hates divorce. When it happens trolls blame both imperfect couples who came from different background to become one. The aim of the devil is to destroy and dmhe schemes through a 3rd party or both or one of the couples,financial challenges,he schemes through communications, lack of love, your weaknesses you name it. God hates divorce.
    Peace and healing to the world.

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