OMG,this is deep!!!!
Please read it and you will understand!!!
A crisis may be painful but there are priceless lessons in it. You will begin to understand and classify the different people in your life. I have narrowed them down to 4;
1. Chop life geng: these set of people are for the good times; they help you spend money in a very creative way. They know the best boutiques, the best hotels, the best spas, they know who you can reach to plan a seamless party, they will plan vacations with you but when difficult times come, they won’t lift a finger to help you but they will call to encourage you. They are not bad people it’s just who they are.
2. Broadcasters; these are friends who are close to you but talk about you behind your back. If you get called out on blogs they will share it to others and link up with other friends to gossip about you. They won’t say a good word in your defense but they will grab their popcorn and read all the comments but they will also call you to say “Stay strong o? Everything will be fine”
3. Haters; the only satisfaction these ones get out of life is for them to hear you have a challenge. Anytime you are happy and doing well they get depressed but bad news makes them feel like they are not the only one going through a wretched life. Don’t worry about these set of people they live permanently in unfortunate avenue, you simply hit a bum in the road. Make sure they see you bounce back.
4. Helpers: Your help will come from the strangest people, many of them will be people you least expect, they will not be the people you have moved mountains for or even helped in the past. God will simply put it in their hearts to favor you. Some will help ease your struggle and some will put money in your hands. These set of people are totally priceless and unforgettable, don’t joke with them.
Pay attention to these set of people you will never know who is who till you face challenges''.
Motivational speaker of life......
ReplyDeleteHe is absolutely right.
DeleteLol at haters living in unfortunate avenue😀😀😀
DeleteHe's very correct about his analysis. One of my friend never called nor congratulate me when I got married. Even on fb,WhatsApp, SMS for where? But she was the first to call when she heard I lost my father. She even brought team of people along when coming to pay condolence visit. So some people can't handle your success story but they're always happy when something bad happens to you.
Maybe she was angry you didn't invite her.
DeleteWhen your father died, she felt your pain and forgave you.
Everything no be haters
Naso life be.
ReplyDeleteWell... he said some truth but before we nod our heads to concur, we should check what we are to others!
ReplyDeleteExactly
DeleteWell said Prettiest Rosie, most of us are good and quick at being the victims while forgetting we do same to others
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DeleteOn point @prettiest. U know all of us on this blog are 'saint obi'
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DeleteThis is deep!
ReplyDeleteRiches has so many relatives while poverty is an orphan
Nnem ooo, poverty is truly an orphan.
Deletethat's true
ReplyDeleteWell said! And really deep.
ReplyDeleteWow...really deep.
ReplyDeleteHis analysis is very apt! I know many don't like him as a person, but take the message. I have been in little trouble before and I know God made me go through that to see who my real friends/people are. I have avoided so many people after that episode. Before then, I was a centre point and convergence centre. People were always around me without me asking. I received phone calls like Mr Buhari, but immediately SMALL katakata bust, they all ran away like fools and cowards that they are.
ReplyDeleteI am in a far better place than I was before the incident and I have truly learned a lot of lessons. I heard a lot of hurtful gossip, plus people even wishing me dead! These are people who were supposedly my crew!
Lesson learned: Keep your inner circle VERY small. As I am, I don't even entertain any unnecessary calls or chats from those old friends. I've moved on and my life is much better. I also learned that your family is your strongest support system - never neglect your parents and siblings. I used to place so much value on friends before sometimes to the detriment of family. But you see parents, they will never abandon you even if you are the worst child. Even as the world is calling for hushpuppi's blood, his mother is probably somewhere praying for him even though he mightt have neglected her.
I have truly been able to save money and make something out of my life, unlike before when I was spending for those fools.
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DeleteThank God you have learnt your lesson.
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DeleteYou've said nothing but the truth. Nothing like bff's in life. People are friends with you simply bcos of what they wanna get from you.
Not all families biko.some will make you question your existence.
DeleteI wish I could like your comment👌
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DeleteYou are right
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DeleteChop Life Geng And broadcaster they are the Lucifer...May Almighty God Delivers us from Chop life geng and broadcaster.....And Reconnect us to Our Destiny Helpers...
ReplyDeleteOne of the things I noticed is that for some, you see those friends that helped out when they were down...they tend to forget them and get back with the chop life geng when all gets rosy again.
ReplyDeleteIf you're a good friend, keep being one regardless.
I can relate with this. Some of them never learn.
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ReplyDeleteWords on Diamonds! Very true..May God give us a discerning spirit..
ReplyDeleteThey do exist
ReplyDeleteMotivational Monday epistle.if by now you don't know about these things,you might be living under a rock.
ReplyDeleteThank you. All he wrote up there is common knowledge except if you choose to be negligent.
DeleteHonestly.
DeleteThis is something we hear and see almost all the time. i guess it coming from a celebrity makes it make more sense.
True it's common, but doesn't hurt to hear/read it again.
DeleteThat been said.. only way i'm reading this book is if it's free.🙄
It's only from experience that you will correctly detect these groups. I have been there. And I will bounce back.
ReplyDeleteAlso take the message and don't worry about the messenger.
All these points can never be overemphasize 👌👌👌 lessons learnt a long time ago
ReplyDeleteI read this because Stella screamed "deep."
ReplyDeleteWhat he wrote is good experience he has had perhaps.
But I don't really see what is deep about this. If you study
the Scriptures especially the book of Proverbs and Psalms and the teachings of Christ, you will see
these things. .. there is a friend that sticks closer than a brother Prov. 18:24
There are friends whose words are smooth as butter but there is war in their hearts Psalms 55:21.
And then of course, there are Judases -the betrayers with a kiss like it happened to Jesus.
I get my words of wisdom from the Scriptures and I analyse people's behaviors from what I read there.
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ReplyDeleteYes the last one,God bless you C.O.N
ReplyDeleteThe last one got me, you never know where help will come from, most times help never comes from people you have helped or hope on. Why I like God is that he raises helpers for you in ways you cannot even imagine, even your enemies😂, your enemies while helping will be like, i don't even know why I am doing This, i can't stand you. Of course they don't understand that their hearts including the hearts of everyone is in God's hand and he will make you do as he pleases🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteI love God, guys stop looking down on people.
Okay...
ReplyDeleteNothing is balance in this life ooo.
ReplyDeleteHuman beings will always be, well, humans. The irony is that one person can be all. Your helper may be neglecting his family. Your good friend may be a shitty friend to someone else, and so on.
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