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Wednesday, August 19, 2020

Boredom Eliminating Post

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  1. I very much do, the stress can be overwhelming atimes.

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    2. There are days I miss being single not because I'm not happy in my marriage or not married to the right person or.......

      For instance, when I was single, if I miss my mum, I just pick up my bag and get on the next flight to her location. There are also days I wake up and don't feel like cooking or doing anything. There are also days I stay on bed till whatever time I like.

      Now before I travel, I will first think of where to dump my squad or if I will travel with them, I can't even sleep well without someone coming to knock my door.

      Some people will still come and say no on this post. Make una no lie.

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    3. I'm not married but I understand the stress part very well. Sometimes I feel like like going on a vacation without my daughter, just me, myself and I.

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    4. My husband is wonderful that at times i wonder what in heaven's name i ever did to deserve him. Man worships the ground I walk on but truth is eh I miss being single at-times...2 weeks ago I went to see my family, all of us were present including my other married sibling, we all gisted just like we used to before marriage, we gossiped as usual πŸ˜‚ abeg gisting is sweeter face to face than on phone, even my mom wanted us to sleep over..kai I sometimes miss my single days make I no lie, freedom to do whatever you want without discussing it

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    5. I'm married nd there are days I miss being single like right now. Got home now very tired,but heading to the kitchen.

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    6. I love my husband and my family but I sometimes miss being single

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  2. Hahhahha. Oya you all should come and answer .

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    1. Totally!
      I miss my single life!
      My parents spoilt me with love and attention!
      I miss my parents and siblings!
      It's like a hole(emptiness) in my heart when I think of those days with my siblings in our parents small flatπŸ˜ͺπŸ˜ͺπŸ˜ͺ
      Chatting on WhatsApp family group is not enough!

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  3. Hell yeah, i love my family but i reallllllllllllllly miss being single

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  4. Yes o.. Somebody canor be thinking of herself alone now, you have to be considerate in every way πŸ™„

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    1. Being a family woman comes with emotional stress ,I honestly miss being a spinster when it was always about me myself and i

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  5. Not exactly,just sometimes I can't have a me time because of my kids, but my husband gives me the freedom i need.

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  6. Hmmm. And some of us miss dating. In Jerusalem's words "this life no balance"

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    1. E no balance at all.
      I can't recount how many times I Lodge in the toilet in the name of pooing just to hide and take a breather.

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    2. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. For real?

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    3. Lmaooooo @ Lodge in the toilet πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    4. πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚.. You got me rolling with laughter @twinsquared this life no balance ooooo πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£

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    5. Lodge in the toilet??? 🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣

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    6. πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€

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  7. Lol yes. I miss being single sometimes cos we're in a long distance relationship and sometimes I just want to party and unwind but he's not there.

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    1. What are you saying

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    2. Lol I'm saying that there are certain things I'd like to do but I can't do them without him around. I miss being out on a date, looking into his eyes, gisting, laughing and just having a nice time.

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    3. Yeah I feel you!
      Once he's around,and you go on dates and bond,you will forget about this moment that you miss himπŸ€—πŸ€—

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  8. No, I don't miss being single.

    Life is a phase and it's a privilege to be where I am today. I'm grateful for everything. I prayed to be here and happy, God answered and I'm loving it!

    Plenty stories on top simple question abi? 😁

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    1. Cynthia eehhh πŸ™†, Na you biko πŸ‘

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    2. Me I'm still trying to adjust o.. Infact, saying "my husband" still sounds weird in my mouth πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ and I still dey forget say I don marry atimes

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    3. Cynthia ooo lolz you are funny. I quite agree with you about marriage.

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    4. So others saying yes are not happy where they are or they didn't pray for where they are?

      Miss being single doesn't mean one is not happy with where they are presently or the marriage is a bad one.

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  9. Sure. That me time. Sometimes you want to be alone or do stuff that need not explaining to your other partner. Sometimes, you would want to come back late for the sake of it without anyone calling you repeatedly to come home or they are scared of being alone. Or using the calls to monitor you while hiding under caring for your safety. Sure.

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  10. Anything is possible especially when you are not happy in that relationship or marriage you will miss singlehood.

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  11. Nooo. Been married for years now and i am enjoying it 101%. Our chemistry is still as strong as it was when we just met. So i don't miss being single, i am happy i'm in this journey with him and vice versa.
    Marriage is beautiful when you are in it with the right person.

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    1. It's not necessarily about having regrets being married to your partner, but the accompanying responsibilities of caring for your home can be wearying

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    2. Yes @ twins squared, i feel may be it is cause the kids are still small. Very stressful

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  12. No happily married woman or man would sometimes wish he or she was single.

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    1. Big lie sef. I'm happily married but sometimes I miss single life

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    2. Una Don come. Gang awon hypocrite. Missing being single doesn't translate to bad marriage or unhappiness. Make some of una dey use una brain.

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    3. You people can misunderstand and misinterpret na wa!
      Women sabi pretend sha.

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    4. Not true!
      My siblings are joy givers and I miss how we will talk for a whole day about movies we have watched or take a walk to the beach and buy ice cream 😍😍πŸ˜ͺ
      Recently have new tenants in my house,they do exactly same things I did with my siblings in my parent's house but my husband who didn't have that experience sees it as absurdπŸ˜…πŸ˜…
      How can three adults (siblings) be inside the house gisting all day without going outπŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ€£πŸ€£
      That's my story!!
      My father will chase us out every Sunday evenings to take a stroll at the beach that we have stayed inside too much!!
      I miss my siblings!!
      Once everyone goes back to school,I'm alone with my parents πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ˜…πŸ˜…

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  13. Yes o.. I really missed being single sometimes.. My kids eh, their wahala too much.. I can't sleep in peace without one of them interrupting my sweet sleep, I can't eat in peace.. Mba, they will come and disturb me dere.. Oya make I press my phone na, mba, the elder one will tell me " mummy why am I always pressing Stella's blood? Stella blood bawo😳😳.. Abeg na blog not blood o.. The list is endless o.. Sometimes I just needed to spend some time alone without any distractions.. School pls do and resume biko..

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    1. πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜„πŸ˜€πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ˜…

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    2. πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ˜…πŸ˜€πŸ˜„πŸ˜ƒ

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    3. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    4. Kuku kill me 🀣 πŸ˜‚ 🀣 πŸ˜‚ 🀣 πŸ˜‚ 🀣 πŸ˜‚

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    5. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚, i love you scatter this woman, you crack me up wella.

      Exactly my plight, they will pepper you with plenty questions repeatedly, keep reporting each other, fighting. E plenty abeg

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    6. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    7. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    8. Love u too gifty.. 😘😘😘.
      Tade love how are u?

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    9. 😁😁😁😁

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  14. I miss being single sometimes,when you want to have a peaceful sleep you hear mummy wake up i want to peepee

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    1. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. The peepee came when it was time for you to sleep.

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    2. Lol

      My second son comes to take permission before using his potty, i have told him countless times to go do his business but no he must tell me first, he drinks water a lot, so he is always urinating.

      But he will not take permission from me if he wants to turn the house upside down or fight or look for trouble.

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    3. Gift Liv the boy jorπŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ˜…
      Oya imagine, please mum can I scatter your room?😁πŸ₯΄

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  15. Yes
    There are things you do while single but can't do when you have a partner

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  16. I love my family but sometimes I miss those times I was so carefree and I can sleepover at friends place and travel whenever feel like, without having to discuss with hubby or think of how I will miss my kids

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  17. Singles are wishing to be married, married are missing their single days, last last everyone no balance

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    1. I don't wish to be single, God no go gree..we miss some of the highlights.Kids and responsibilities no gree us see road

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    2. Aswear🀣🀣
      Life go surely balance!!

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  18. Hmm, I have a good husband, but once he got me angry small like this, I will yabb him ,curse his mama and papa, abuse him very well, and he will also react, but he will be quick to beg me, this has been going on for 12 years, I need help, I think he's putting me in captive, though I'm a graduate, but no job,I think I'm sad about my joblessness and I'm blaming him

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    1. Plz stop insulting his parents. It's wrong. Why don't you try applying for jobs? There are a lot of job search groups you can join. However frustrated or angry you are, insulting his parents is a NONo

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    2. Naaaaa. Insulting his parents is a NO NO. Haba! They are not the cause of your joblessness na. You think he's putting you in captive, how? Did he tell you to quit your job? Has he hindered you from getting a job? Please, get rid of whatever bitterness and resentment you have towards him. It's NOT healthy.

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    3. You insult his parents? No wonder you're jobless

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    4. I really hate this sort of attitude. Please pour out your frustration on your hubby and leave his poor parents out of It. You will grow old one day, respect his parents.

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    5. Just stop okay, even if it means biting your tongue, when you feel like cussing.

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    6. Thanks all for your polite advice.

      Shoota whatever,I already see you, I know with this your irritating attitude, I can boldly say I'm better than you attitude wise,

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  19. Never.
    I have had over a decade of marital bliss, no quarrels.
    We complements each other and I do not wish I ever married another.
    The Lord makes all things beautiful in his time.
    I quiet empathize with all those ladies that do no have it as good as
    I do. But if you ever miss being single,
    you are either in the wrong
    boat or
    you married for something (money, "abroad," fame etc.) that is
    not love or
    you were joined together by someone else ("pastor," parent, or relatives), not God or,
    You are not in Christ, thus not working out the beauty in what God has given you. Yes,
    godly marriages involve a lot of work and sacrifice just like Christ and the Church.

    I am not saying you have to agree with me. But I speak from the Scriptures I know
    and from the experiences I have had. 😘 let me 🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️
    in peace.

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    1. You can actually miss something briefly without it meaning you are unhappy or going through storms where you currently are you know?

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    2. Eversince You grew into an adult, Do you sometimes miss being a Child?

      Now would You say that I should never miss being a child cos I became the wrong adult.
      Apparently, I could miss being a child (especially if I was one that always got pampered) because of some of the advantages I had as a Kid, and not necessary because I'm in the wrong adult boat.

      It shouldn't always be about negativity. Thankwiu

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    3. Thanks Ofada
      But I don't miss it one bit😊😊😊😊😊

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    4. @19:44
      I am pampered by my husband and my Lord Jesus, so why should I miss my life prior to meeting them?
      You will only understand me if you follow Jesus wholeheartedlyπŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜

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    5. To think that I hadn't read this before helping you answer the question!
      You are so, so predictable...

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  20. Not exactly, just as there's time for everything.

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  21. Yes o..marriage is not easy biko.Your sanity is constantly tested.

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  22. I miss being single .... The chores are killing and the lack of freedom to just sleep over or travel as you please...

    I sometimes miss those days when I say to my boyfriends, "got to hell, I no do again". You're stuck even when you want to say that to the husband when he drives you crazy....

    I can't even poo in peace cos its family poking time... The children will flood the bathroom even at bath times...

    I'm grateful for the gift of being a wife and a mother but, sometimes, I just want to run away....lol

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    1. It is well dear, with time, the stress will wane.

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    2. Lol.. Don't run away o πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£

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    3. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚@ go to hell, I no do again. Pele oo

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    4. Whenever i go to the bathroom, they wait for me by the door

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    5. @Gifty, your kids are something else oπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. By force bodyguards

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    6. Una thank you oh. Always wondered if standing by the door while I do my big job is peculiar to my children. I will ask, can't you smell anything? They wil laugh. Then I boldly ask "pls can I sh*t in peace? Then they will laugh and go away and then I rush to come out.

      So yes I miss sh**ng in peace and also my account balance misses my single days. I was such a huge saver then. But now......Lol!!

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    7. Thanks @Twinsquad


      @Rajabfoodfoodrepublic.... I will not run away. Few hours away from them I miss them like kilode... Its just a feeling and a wish

      @Candy... Wehdone ma

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  23. Yes I do.

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  24. Yes o. Sometimes I feel like going to my friends place for sleep over where we can gist into the night. But I can't cos I have husband man. So I miss being single sometimes

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  25. Single Me, reading every comments on this post thereby giving me consolations in my singlehood. What a relief and joy

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    1. Abeg, shift. I brought stuff to munch on, and drink. πŸ πŸ πŸ”πŸ”πŸ•πŸŸπŸ—πŸ₯‚πŸ·

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    2. Yes o. Singles that came to read comments gather here. There's burger pizza and guguru to munch

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  26. Very Yes o.i miss those days.
    I miss my sleep so much.

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  27. Wait o, where are the men na? Why are they not dropping their comments.

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    1. They are at the bar, drinking alcohol πŸ˜‚

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    2. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. You sef

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    3. They live both world(married and single) in marriage so they gat nothing to miss

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    4. We are here reading comments

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  28. Yes, I mis my sleep. I miss going to the loo without any toddler tagging along.
    I miss improptu travels.

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  29. Just when you lodge in the toilet to have a peaceful 'me' time, just then one of them yard people (kids) knocks on the toilet door to report his siblings wrong act of 33 hours ago.....
    Seriously I've been thinking , I think I will carry money lodge in a hotel just for 8 hours switch off phone throw away my bag ,just to have a wonderful peaceful alone time . Return home and tell them hubby and kids how one chance people got me and almost finish me off after robbery... But sha I must ' make believe ' the after effects makeup of fake bruises, that kind we watch on nollywood movies...

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  30. I have been married for 12 years but I miss being single sometimes. You know that feeling of having your own personal space. Like a bv up there, I hide in the toilet under the guise of pooping so my kids will let me breathe. I miss going out with my girlfriends and yes, actual dates with my hubby that will focus on us!

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  31. No hiding place.toilet ,kitchen they will follow you.its very stressful walahi

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  32. I really miss my single days,hmmmmmm😞😞😞😞

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  33. Lord when???😭😭😭😭😭😭

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  34. One of my aunties that i lived with, used to say those days how she wished she could leave her house and visit some people's houses for holiday. And i will say in my mind that, she doesn't value what she had.This is a woman that has a caring husband,a beautiful home with friends anf family that loves her. Years later,i understood what she meant by those words. Sometimes in our lives, we all need a Me time and space.

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  35. This is why I don't like posts like this. Some people feel everyone must have the same answer and if your answer is different from their own, is either you are lying or you are a hypocrite. Just because you miss being single at times doesn't mean all married women must feel the same way. Are you aware that some girls had a very miserable upbringing? Are you aware that some girls saw marriage as an escape from an overbearing family?
    So because someone doesn't miss being single it automatically means she is claiming that her marriage is better than those of you who miss being single? Why not own your issues without wanting everybody to be in your WhatsApp group? Not every woman enjoyed freedom when she was single. Not every woman grooved or had fun when she was single so not everyone missed that phase. Some of you miss being single because of your miserable marriages while some of you miss being single for other reasons. How will you feel if one of the miserable married women starts claiming that those of you who miss being single are in miserable marriages too? You see? Not everyone has a similar story. Allow people answer the way they want to, stop assuming everybody is like you.

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  36. I don't like being single abeg. I miss being in a relationship. I smile alot when I'm in a relationship especially when I have a good and caring partner. I always wish i'm in a relationship πŸ˜ͺ but i'm not desperate either.

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