Hmmmm...........
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
SINGLE;PREGNANT AND CONFUSED
I can't hide this from him, we meet often at conferences and workshop.
I am suspecting that guy,cos that day after we finished making love, he said "I just planted a very fertile seed now" with a very mischievous smile. I am suspecting that was when I took in.
Now I don't know if to abort or relocate back to Cameroon where I came from.
I can't marry him, and I am not ready to be a mother and I am already dreaming about this baby. I have seen her, yes a girl, 4 times in my dream.
Ahhh I can't even tell anyone.
I can surely take care of her alone but if he ever finds out, I know he will raise hell.
Dilemma.
*If you want to relocate to your Country,please do but don't touch that baby oh...She is revealing herself to you for a reason....You don't have to marry if you don't want to...
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ReplyDeleteYou don vex😂
DeleteOkay o and it be nice you do what you deem fit
DeletePoster even if you don't wanna marry your baby daddy pls I beg you in God's holy name don't abort that glorious child. You don't know if she's the only child you will ever conceive or if aborting her might lead to untimely death or damage to your reproductive organs that can cause infertility in the future. I was in your shoes last year January. I took in for a guy I wasn't 100% sure I wanna settle down with. I thought about alot of things at the end I decided to get married to her father and have my baby in a legitimate family setting. That decision was the best decision I've ever taken In my whole life. My hubby worship the ground I walk on. My Mother in-law loves me like her own daughter. Everything just fall into the right places for me. You need to see my daughter. She's so beautiful that people can't believe she's mine. She over fine. I can't imagine aborting such a beautiful angel. In fact even heaven won't forgive me if I had done that. I can stare at her all day long without getting tired. She's so beautiful and the best thing that has happened to me. My daughter made me believe no child conceived should be aborted. Even if you don't want the child have her and give her out to childless couple or orphanage home.
DeleteAll the best poster.
Why didn’t you take precaution after the statement
DeletePoster please, listen to Anon 15:44. The dreams are signs already
DeleteWhy sleep with him?
DeleteDid you tell him he is the only man you are sleeping with? How will he find out since its only sparingly you meet him at functions? Since you guys are not dating or seeing regularly it's very easy to birth and raise your daughter without him suspecting sef. It's even easier that you are going back to your country.
DeleteYou can't marry him but you open legs for him and without protection too......~Mtcheeeew.
ReplyDeleteWhy una dey vex nau 😂
DeleteMy sentiments too
DeleteYou must not marry him If you don't want to. However, take responsibility for the role you played. Keep the pregnancy and let the man know you are pregnant.It is not fair that you will shut him off from his child's life. He has a right to be in his child's life. If you don't want marriage, simply tell the man and stop dilly dallying.
DeletePlease that child have come to stay.
ReplyDeleteSorry if I sound harsh. But you see this babies that reveal themselves. If you try to abort the baby. You will die. So i advice to relocate n give birth or you compromise n marry the guy. Why do you even fuck a man you don't like for marriage without protection?
DeleteHe’ll raise hell but failed to use a condom . If he likes let him raise fire born your child
ReplyDeletehe wanted the seed
DeleteYou had sex, sperm came out and you expected the sperm to turn to water of Galilee abi? Go and marry Him.
DeleteKeep the baby o. Do not abort. Please, next time if you must use a condom o. It's not just to prevent pregnancies o, there are LOTS of diseases out there.
ReplyDeleteYou musnt merry him just to keep the baby.
ReplyDeleteJust relocate. If he finds, out It's still his child too and has a right to see her. But don't marry him if you are not convinced and don't kill that child. She deserves to live
Gbam 👌
DeleteThank you for this wise advice..
DeleteYou don't want to marry him but you are sleeping with him. You don't trust him yet you are a fucking with him skin to skin.
ReplyDeleteDo not abort that pregnancy before something terrible happens to you.
Go back to your country without him finding out you are pregnant. Please never prevent your child from knowing who her father is and make sure that child enjoys fatherly love from him.
Very confused being,you dont have any interest yet you opened your legs wide like express,you committed fornication already and yet you planning to commit murder,worse thing you will do it's to abort that child,good you can cater for yourself and the unborn child,you can run to Cameroon,it's your choice to involve the man in the child's life which is necessary but marriage is already a NO GO AREA from your disgust towards the man
ReplyDeleteThis post dey trigger bvs o😂
DeleteMake una sorry nau and be calming down.
L😂😂😂L
DeleteAnon you're cruising on this post
Not every sex requires opening legs though. I personally don't open legs for sex. Take it from the back for me. Enough of open legs like motorway abeg
DeleteAnon Huh?? Wow!!
DeleteHi Cameroonian woman,you better not commit abortion o. God has a reason for everything. What if that's the only child God has for you? I have said my own. Go to your country if you have to: birth the child and give to your mum to look after if she's still alive.
ReplyDeletechai, ada biara ije, nnoo!!
ReplyDeleteThe fact that you "suspect him for planting a very fertile seed..." means that you have other sex partners.
ReplyDeleteThis is risky, both for your health and
spiritual well being -talking about eternity.
Do you know that God loves you, Jesus died for you and he did not go to the
cross so that you will live this way.
You are already seeing this child in your dreams because she is an innocent
living soul and God will not take it
kindly with you if you murder this
innocent baby girl (Prov. 6:16-17), the Lord hates hands that shed innocent blood, but he loves you.
It pays to belong to Christ and obey his teachings; you have peace. 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
ANG, the best comment you've posted so far - (softened by godly love).
DeleteI wish you the best.
ReplyDeleteKeep the baby, inform the father, but tell him you don't want marriage.
You dont want to marry him but u collected preek unprotected..what if he planted syphilis join? Tell him, both of u can be coparents.
ReplyDeleteDear poster,
ReplyDeleteNever abort that beautiful and innocent soul you have in there. Is not a must you marry the baby daddy but please let him be in the know of the child. Relocate if that would make you happy.
DON'T ABORT THAT BABY. You have unprotected sex with someone you don't want to marry and you didn't even use preventive contraceptive, and you are not ready to be a mother. What do you expect?Now the deed has been done. I'm not here to judge you though. Tell the dude responsible, you may not marry him but KEEP THE BABY. Start working on your psyche now. Congratulations!
ReplyDeleteUr heart don't have interest on him but ur pussy have😃😃😄😲😲😜😜🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteU are funny
After enjoying his dick abi
OK oooo
Welcome to mother hood in advance
I wish u save delivery oooo
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My friend married a guy that said the same thing but guess what after the marriage, she had the baby and he started acting like he never wanted a child with her
ReplyDeleteSaying I want a child is never the same as actually wanting a child. If you’re not sure you love him, don’t let his so called love for you sway you
Consider everything and if you want to marry him go ahead. If not be sure to get to your country before you tell him about the baby. Nigeria can be tough on custody. If the child is born in Nigeria and he refuses to let you tak her to Cameroon, the government may refuse too
We need to Normalize Abortion and stop making it sound like something horrible.
ReplyDeleteDON'T KEEP THE BABY IF YOU DON'T WANT To.
Don't bring to this world a child you don't love or want his father
In this situation, do what is best for you and only you.
LEP 😊
Normalize abortion means what? So the Fetus is not a living being abi? It is a sin whether you like it or not
DeleteThank you LEP. Why bring a child you can't love or don't have the psychological strength to cater for. This is so wrong. The child is better off where it came from. Money is never enough. This why we have miscreants roaming the streets.
DeleteYou made all the decisions alone until pregnancy came, now you suddenly don't know what to do. Well I am of the opinion that you should let him know what's up, not for him to decide on what path to take but for him to be fully aware of the situation to avoid future ish
ReplyDeleteSis, believe me such babies are hard to abort sef,just keep that baby,she has come to stay for a reason
ReplyDeleteWell Poster as the music group FUN sang in their song ''The most amazing things can come from some terrible nights''..Both of you are involved and so please don't abort that child..You sound like a child yourself..Please and please abstain from sex but if you can't..Always use a CONDOM..Not just for HIV but for STDs..Watch who you open your legs for? God forbid if you have syphilis or gonorrhea do you know you can give birth to blind child? Please be careful and don't make yourself the egungun that crossed the expressway..All the best..
ReplyDeleteWishing you a healthy pregnancy 🤰
ReplyDeleteWhy date someone you can't marry, not to talk of sleep with him?
ReplyDeletePlease, don't touch that baby so you don't regret it later. I wish you a safe delivery.
Please keep the baby,dont abort .
ReplyDelete"I just planted a very fertile seed now"
ReplyDeleteThis line off me.
do what on your mind
ReplyDeleteam sure u wil be alright
at last
Keep the baby.anytime one feels like aborting a baby,it's likely such baby is God s sent.i told my wife to abort our second born last year and as we were trying to,I got a message we should leave it that he comes with luck.we gave birth to him this january.i won bet of 10.5 Milla . February before coro,I got a Fed govt job.indeed ,na real blessing.
ReplyDelete😊
DeleteMy only concern is that the man in question sounds like a wizard. Well, the deed has already been done. I think you should sit him down and tell him the truth. Keep your baby, he can't drag you to the altar.
ReplyDeleteWhich wizard? Did he bang her via Xender or bluetooth?
DeleteBlackberry what does he mean by I just planted a very fertile seed.
DeleteMen say that all the tile
DeleteIt means nothing
Please keep the baby🤗🤗🤗
ReplyDeleteEvery child is from God and a blessing. Oga 10.5 milla and fed govt job, stop talking nonsense.
ReplyDeleteOmg.. 😂
DeletePlease leave your daughter. She loves you and I know you love her also. Do not abort that pregnancy please
ReplyDeleteAt last! A woman who doesn't want the man. We're too used to seeing stories of women who deliberately get pregnant to force the man into their lives. Now we're seeing a different scenario.
ReplyDeletePlease, don't abort the child. Make sure you're financially and emotionally able to care for the child. If you are not and the father wants the child, give the child to him if you still don't want to marry the man.
If you want the child, I advise you relocate back to your country before telling the man. The Nigerian law favours the man so you may end up losing your child.
I'm suspecting that man blablabla.. Nonsense talk. Ladies should learn to accept they're at fault when they mess up.
ReplyDelete1. Did he know your ovulation dates for him to be sure of his 'seed planting'..
2. If he doesn't use protection what stops you from requesting for it or refusing to fuck..
3. Did he force himself on you?
I wonder the kind of man that wants to have a baby with such a dumb lady sef, he must be a dumb man himself. You better don't make another dumb move by killing the baby, before you'll start suspecting the innocent baby when misfortune comes your way.. "I am suspecting the baby cos the way she way appearing and looking at me ehn blablabla" would then make up the follow up chronicle.
Madam suspicious
Dont mind her..she is sounding as if she was compelled to collect raw sperm.
DeleteLol.. BB honey, do you say these things the way you type them??
DeletePoster, please keep that baby, you might not survive it if you take it out or there might dire consequences afterwards....
ReplyDeleteMy Friend Born The Baby Jaweee...
ReplyDeleteDear poster...biko don't kill that innocent baby.
ReplyDeleteIf you murder your baby, that guilt will hunt you whether you like it or not.
Close leg if you know you ain't ready to start a family....it's not that hard....jeez.
Close leg kwá??
DeleteHell no ooooooh,' they are both adults and sex is a normal thing' this is one of the many defence that some Blog visitors always come up especially in BBN.
I personally don't have any suggestions for you poster, I am just imagining what IF it weren't a baby what IF na one serious STD or STI???
Okay ooooooh.
My Victory Dance is loading 💃💃💃💃
You mustn't marry the guy just let him no that you are pregnant just for the record.
ReplyDeleteSo you knew all of this about yourself and still allowed him to impregnate you? You didn't even take morning after pill after he revealed his seed planting mission to you?
ReplyDeleteMarriage is not a must, but there is a reason the spirit of the child keep showing up in your dreams especially so early on in the pregnancy. Have your baby and relocate, since you are financially fit then there is little to worry about. Nobody is ever truly prepared to be a parent, but you adjust yourself just like anything else in life. Perhaps being around your own people will help you enjoy the process better.
Dear ladies who are unable to abstain from having sex and yet do not want babies/std, there’s a lot of options to save yourself stress.
ReplyDelete1. Go on Regular hormonal contraception or get an Intrauterine device so you can have sex and not have to worry till the start of your next period (if regular sex is your thing
2. If for any reason you are averse to regular contraception, there is something called POSTINOR (LEVONORGESTREL). It is so cheap and convenient and will prevent a lot of stress and abortions and putting your health at risk. Wouldn’t advice it for people who have regular sex though.
3. There’s also this thing called CONDOM. It prevents a lot heartache, stress, unplanned pregnancy, some STDs, hospital visits for abortion or treatment STD. I think it’s N50 for a box of 3. They also have the ones that are so thin, it feels like skin. Those are slightly more expensive but they still save you a lot of money in the long run.
This comment is for the next lady blog visitor who is thinking of having sex with a man she isn’t committed to. Hopefully this will prevent you from writing another unwanted pregnancy chronicle. I don’t know why we women put our bodies and whole lives at risk. When you know you aren’t ready for a baby, what’s so hard about making sure you don’t get pregnant? Why do we like to stress and worry ourselves instead of taking care of things early? I don’t understand women at all