A young man's girlfriend got pregnant, he told her that he doesn't want a baby but she chose to keep the baby. Now he is asking her to deal with the consequences and leave him alone...
Imagine!!!!
You dont want a baby but you didnt use protection!
Ladies please forget love and insist on a condom if you must...Even if he begs with his life that it ''JUST THE TIPS'' dont agree!
Lol just the tip kwakwa butbits the truth o no condom no sex or abstinence
ReplyDeleteTo solve all dis nonsense begging buy condom keep urself,carry when going to his house so u dont hear stories dat touch; if ur bold enuf to have sex be bold enuf to buy condoms or morning after pills if mistake happen.
DeleteBegging a man dis way is demeaning to me.
If u cant do all this,den abstain. Being a single mum aint easy.
But he told you earlier he didn't want it. Why not check your pocket first before carrying it to term?
DeleteI don't do bandwagon ish and personally don't see using pills to flush first two months when it's still blood as abortion. If it was, why advise people to use condom and take postinor? Is it not the same sperm and egg those things are washing off?
When the baby has started developing is where I say no to abortion. But that very early stage when it's still blood is nothing different from what your condom and postinor does in my own opinion.
When it's two months, baby already has a heartbeat,hands and legs, destiny. Which one is that itsi just blood?😤😤😤
DeleteWomen close your legs. You bear the largest part of the consequences but you won't hear.
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Are we still on this matter? 😠😠😠
DeleteAbi nau, this life no balance........
DeleteYes Jerusalem, we should be on that matter so we won't be on this other matter stella posted.
DeleteYesterday chronicle and this one up here should tell you something.
It's better to keep hammering on this issue than to continue seeing our ladies being disgraced like this.
DeleteNo wahala, his loss
ReplyDeleteBoy wey she go light candle ontop him head,after fucking her raw.....Stupid guy
DeleteThe guy is heartless.
ReplyDeleteVery heartless being but his actions now will come back to haunt him later....
DeleteThis is so sad, when will ladies learn.
ReplyDeleteHmmm..
ReplyDeleteHe's not heartless. She is wrong to force this responsibility on him when he made it clear from the start that he was not ready. Raising a child is not a joke. From the chat you tell how low minded she is. Asking him to buy clothes. Women your body is responsibility. And no he probably won't regret it in the future.
DeleteAnon you are so right. He made his intentions known front he beginning. She had the option to walk from then but chose to stay thinking he will change his mind. She probably was listening to people saying, he will change his mind when he sees the baby. She just has to deal with the consequences.
DeleteAnother loser, raising a child alone is not easy ohhh I pray she finds a helper or he changes his mind. Ladies use protection or after pills, see one chance that could have been avoided.
ReplyDeleteBringing in a child to suffer so unfair 🦋
To avoid stories like this just use a condom.
ReplyDeleteFoolishness! He doesn't want a baby but tomorrow he might come looking for the woman and baby if God decides to punish him and not give him kids when he wants them.
ReplyDeleteLadies, close your legs until you are married before giving the cookie to avoid rubbish like this. If you know marriage is never in your agenda, then be working so you can fend for you and your baby.
Some Women! Forever messing themselves up especially with an unworthy unfortunate mistake of a man. Imagine!! You don't have money to cater for a baby but you opened your legs for a stupid human like yourself, She's even broke to the point of not being able to buy baby clothes?? And we want to eradicate the level of poverty in our country?? Why bring innocent children into this already stressful world to suffer unnecessary poverty they didn't bargain?? What's all these rubbish bikonu?? You are broke, you have no means of livelihood but you're pregnant?? Lord have mercy💔😡.
ReplyDeleteYou like cussing too much. Must you cuss out on every post? Please, don't cuss me. I just stated out the obvious.
DeleteDear Stella, how u take sabi sey him no use protection? We u fit dey right sha. But what if na she ask for no protection? What if dem use protection, but e burst? What if she no gree drink emergency pill? What if, what if, what if....so how we go know which of the what ifs
ReplyDeleteNawa oo
ReplyDeleteFunny...funny,when a guy wants the baby, but the girl doesn't, she gets rid of it. The guy has no say. If a guys doesn't want a baby, he still has no say if she wants it. Her body her decision. His money, his decision too. A child in the middle needing both parents. Solution, stop having irresponsible sex
ReplyDeleteYou got it. The female gender is designed to be entitled and self centred. Keeping it against his will is signing up to walking it all alone
DeleteMore oil on your head anon11:32
Will they hear??SAY NO TO PREMARITAL SEX!!!!!
ReplyDeleteNa so my ex boyfriend told me that if I dare carry belle come him house,he go deny it. Hmmmm, someone that has been begging me to get pregnant so that we can fasten the wedding. I quickly bought 2pc of postinor the next day and ghost him, only for him to come begging me to forgive him the next month. But I don't go back to my vomit
DeleteThat have my baby they say is Audio in the heat of passion.
DeleteThank God u give urself brain. Having a baby isnt cheap. Is it dere food dat finished withn 3days,is it d diapers,hospital visits,baby things,ur sleepless nights of breastfeeding.
Doing it all alone is tasking.
She made the right decision by keeping the baby. I pray she gets help. The man will come begging in the future. .
ReplyDeleteReally sad, if that lady lays a curse on him, it would follow him forever.
ReplyDeleteIt will not follow him anything.
DeleteFirst of, She sinned against God and herself by fornicating, to crown it all up, She did it carelessly without protection.
Secondly, She's inconsiderate by increasing the poverty rate in her family by creating another liability for them. The law of Karma will deal with the man shaa. They are both reckless adults.
Nobi today dem dey curse. Nothing will happen.
DeleteLets as women take responsibility for our bodies....never get carried away. Men will shame u.
The guy is right. Good that she stood her ground but the baby is her responsibility now. She just has to hunker down and work hard. Good luck!
ReplyDeleteAnyone having sex should be ready to deal with whatever comes with it.
ReplyDeleteWhat was he expecting?
Dear ladies please note that when the chips are down you're the one that would feel the heat the most !!!
See how loosely he's suggesting an abortion without even thinking of the impact simply cos he's not the one involved !!!
Its best to be Chaste . Condom sometimes is no guarantee.
A medal. Dude was expecting a medal 🏅
Delete😂😂😂😂😂😂 O so di ya 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteYesterday one was planting a Fertile seed , today one is rejecting his germinated seed .
Life truly no balance
Nawa o
ReplyDeleteBut some ladies sef!you knw you can't even cloth yourself properly and you're having sex with one yeye boy without a condom,what were you expecting?a time machine?now it is the innocent child that will come and suffer your stupidity!!
ReplyDeleteThe girl too is yeye.
DeleteQuite sad. If you must, use CD or pills o. To avoid stories like this.
ReplyDeleteBroke woman from a broke family is bringing a child into their broke proverty world to suffer. Poor child, this woman is heartless. Shame on her.
ReplyDeleteA big shame on her!! Disgracing women up and down. May God in heaven come through for the innocent child.
DeleteIf we want to tell ourselves the truth,
ReplyDeletein the heat of passion, lust, very few people
ever remember that there is a condom.
God says, flee sexual immorality.
Obey him and have peace.
21st century babes are coming for you in anon mode.
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😂😂😂😂 Gates
DeleteIf you dont remember....use pills. Its cheaper than SMA and pampers.
DeleteChocolate noir🤗😂🤣
DeleteAbstinence would have worked well for her...
ReplyDeletePpl are always quick to say the guy is evil and stuff.
ReplyDelete1. Sex mustn’t always lead to having a kid
2. Some ladies do not like using condom and when you tell them to take pills after sex, they tell you things like it messes with their period and stuff (I think this is them say them say, they’ve never tried it)
3. If the guy had made it clear before the act that he doesn’t want kids, the lady should know what that means if the sex leads to pregnancy.
4. If she had collected money for abortion and didn’t do so, There’s high chances she will bear sole responsibility for the child.
5. Life isn’t nollywood biko. The guy may actually go on and live a good life. It’s not everytime ppl end up regretting an action
6. If you can’t get him to wear a condom, you self get your own protection, take the pills or spermicide.
7. Sometimes, I feel in this part of the world, women/ladies are awful in initiating sex or controlling it. She’s more concerned about what the chemist will say/judge than buying the protection. If you plan to have sex with a guy, get your protection first. A lady buying condoms or pills isn’t because she likes sex so much but because she is wise. Don’t always wait for the guy to buy condoms first.
7. Again, her body, her choice. Have sex with ppl who will be willing to take responsibility. Some ppl have plans to accomplish and don’t see a baby in such plans.
8. You are free to bash me. Na my opinion, not yours and I’m entitled to it.
In the near future now, he'll start begging for the baby and failure to let him have his way, he'll start crying all over the place, to everyone that cares to listen on how the lady has treated him unfairly, by shutting him out of his baby's life, forgetting it's the same baby he never wanted to come into existence. God is not man, He will make a way for mother and unborn child and give the man the reason to regret his action, I only hope it won't be too late for him by then.
ReplyDeleteNollywood script. All the single mothers are laughing at the nonsense you typed.
DeleteFOR GUYS- if you must fuck, use CONDOM, if you don't, use WITHDRAWAL method, if you can't withdraw, provide money for after sex PILLS.
ReplyDeleteFOR LADIES- if you must fuck, insist on PROTECTION, if you don't like protection, make sure you do it on your SAFE days, if not, use after sex PILLS. After sex pills should be a last resort because so much of it causes HORMONE IMBALANCE. It also messes up your Menstrual Cycle.
But please don't decide on your OWN to bring a child into these world without the SUPPORT of his father and EXPECT to somehow force or coax him to take RESPONSIBILITIES. It would end in PREMIUM TEARS. If you decide alone, be ready to bear the consequences alone. You can't go alone to sign an agreement on behalf of the both of us after I told you I wasn't interested in it, and now try to bully me to accept the TERMS you PERSONALLY signed up for.
Argue all you want, but that's the REALITY on ground. You either accept of learn the hard way. Them no dey force person put..
Weekend Blessings
You are quite in all the points and almost right when it comes to the pills. Like all drugs, there’s the cheaper ones like the mini pills that have some side effects and high end ones with little effects. Many ladies are not sexually intelligent and do not research these things. Mini pills or the everyday pills contains only one hormone (progestin) and does not contain estrogen which the other products have. It is the absence of estrogen that leads to spotting/bleeding between periods. This side effect will usually go away after 2 or 3 months. Pills if used correctly are 95% effective.
DeleteIf the brand you use makes you sick, there are other brands.
Claiming the pills will seriously mess up your cycle is false. It is based on dem say dem say without ever trying it. If it was that bad, why do you think it is being recommended in developed countries.
Nne, the moment you decided to have the child when the guy says "No", the child is YOUR responsibility o. We don't live in the western world where their laws would favor you. If you take the guy to court in Nigeria, they will favor the guy and he will make sure you have no access to the child.
ReplyDeleteSomething like this happened to me.
ReplyDeleteWe met in the UK, dated for 5 years. Got engaged. He met someone else and left me even though I was pregnant. Told me to abort and he didn’t want to have anything to do with the baby. Called the baby a bastard and told me never to contact him again. Even his mum And his sisters told me I was useless and an ashawo. A man I was with for 7 years. All because he met an oyinbo woman and thought she was going to solve all his problems.
I made sure I kept all the messages and voice mails. Everything!!
After I gave birth, him and his family sent me messages taunting me for having a daughter. Told me she was useless. That if it was a son, he probably would have considered being in his life. But that the daughter would end up being as useless as me and he didn’t want to be a part of it.
Fast forward 3 years later. I met and married my husband. He adopted my daughter and we had a son, with a another son on the way.
My Ex’s Student visa Expired.
He then started contacting me, trying to use my daugther to stay back in the UK. Saying being sent back to Nigeria would separate him from his daughter. Blah blah. My husband and I fought him hard! With everything we had and we had all the proof we needed.
Long story short.... it’s been 5 years Since then and he’s back in Nigeria. Jobless and trying all sorts of get rich quick schemes. Still trying to get back to the UK or go to Canada.
Now that he knows we wouldn’t let him use my daughter to get a Visa to come back to the Uk, he’s back to his old self... telling everyone my daughter doesn’t even look like him.
Waoh!!!
DeleteThe heart of man.
God bless u for keeping the baby and God bless your husband for adopting your Princess.
God saved you from that one chance of a man. Thank God for your husband, may God reward him.
DeleteI'm so glad it ended in praise for you. I salute your courage in keeping the child and thank God for the very good man you married. Some men have no conscience, they are scum.
DeleteThank God! Well done for keeping the baby. God bless your husband for doing right by you.
DeleteReal end time boyfriend. When the child grows up now, he will start looking for how to claim him. God help that woman
ReplyDeleteHow can we locate this woman please? I feel so saddd. It’s not easy raising a child especially in our tough country! I want to bless 10 people. So far, I’ve blessed two. I need 8 more. Stella if you know her please let me know. Some women have sex with men due to lack of fatherly love and some just have it because they’re horny and just wants sex. Women let’s be wise please!
ReplyDeleteAnon, pls bless me. Thank you.
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