Yeah I read this on Linkedin..Nigeria HR needs to do more..They need to add more ''Human'' in managing people.. Life no balance really sad part but it takes nothing to be nice and kind...
Not just HR in corporate Nigeria, bosses, teamleads and supervisors need to add that page #behuman in corporate character! The bullying, verbal and emotional abuse as well as victimization should stop❗
Most people/employees go through a lot in their personal/family lives. Some are depressed and on the brink of ending it all - by just a little shove.
Look out for people especially the junior staff and contract.
People are going through TOUGH TIMES!
A little kindness, a smile, a kind word, a gift (groceries , a tip, a chat, transport fare and even unused items you can give out).
Don't just drive out of your office or Estate in your big, flashy care. Stop by and show a little kindness to your security men.
Eyaaah, am happy for him and his family. He has a good wife who stood by him and the employer was a God sent with a golden ❤️ ❤️. May God come through for us in moments of trials....
I hope I’m not missing the point. And, I’m glad he got the job. But, a more serious candidate would have asked his wife to go for a walk with the kids. Sit outside in the garden. Anything to avoid losing this job interview to someone else after 3 years of searching. He’s lucky he got a compassionate interviewer.
What if it was raining or snowing,what if it was an impromptu interview without notice,what if the interview was at night,what if they lived in an unsafe neighborhood? There are so many questions we dont have the answer to. Pick the lesson of the story.
Kontinu with your JAMB queshion. Das why some people will strive and strive. God is not man and it pleased God to give him the job despite the imperfection of his circumstances. Oya take one tom tomπ
Maybe this is an ignorant question but let me ask.
Couldn't the wife have stepped out with the kids even for a walk during the time of this interview to avoid the kids making noise? I'm sorry but I think that's careless on their part. What if the interviewer didn't register his displeasure which gave him the opportunity to explain himself. He sure would have lost that opportunity I guess. Unless there is another explanation, to me, the man is just careless and didn't take the interview serious as he should have.
10:44 if God waited for you to get rid of your stony heart, He wouldn't have SENT His Son JESUS CHRIST to redeem you from your sins or answered ANY OF YOUR PRAYERS.π£
That's the difference between you and that employer.
Lol. By their statement you shall know them. Analyse all your analysis finish. The koko be say he got the job. When you interview your own candidate, pls determine the terms and condition. Shior!!
Thank God for his wife. How many ladies "loving this" will still support this man in his struggles after losing his job? His new name would have become "useless man, lazy man," That's what I've always read from most chronicles. Let's learn the main lesson. Life can change. Wherever you find yourself, be nice and content. πππππππππ
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This is so nice of him, not every potential employer will overlook that.
ReplyDeleteGod bless him for being considerate.
God abeg balance my own life too. πππ
very true, most employers look out for perfection
DeleteAwwwwwwwwwww thank God it ended in praise.
ReplyDeleteBe kind to people, I keep saying it as you don't know what they might be going through.
Yeah I read this on Linkedin..Nigeria HR needs to do more..They need to add more ''Human'' in managing people.. Life no balance really sad part but it takes nothing to be nice and kind...
ReplyDeleteYou are so spot on. Nigerian HR be acting like demi Gods
DeletePhoenix, you are RIGHT ON POINT❗π―%✔️
DeleteNot just HR in corporate Nigeria, bosses, teamleads and supervisors need to add that page #behuman in corporate character!
The bullying, verbal and emotional abuse as well as victimization should stop❗
Most people/employees go through a lot in their personal/family lives.
Some are depressed and on the brink of ending it all - by just a little shove.
Look out for people especially the junior staff and contract.
People are going through TOUGH TIMES!
A little kindness, a smile, a kind word, a gift (groceries , a tip, a chat, transport fare and even unused items you can give out).
Don't just drive out of your office or Estate in your big, flashy care. Stop by and show a little kindness to your security men.
BE KIND. IT HEALS!π ππ
If only our Nigerian interviewers will learn.
DeleteSo touchy
in your big, flashy *car*. (typo π)
DeleteMost Nigerian HR Departments need serious training on HR Management. Mostly feel they are semi gods.
DeleteEyaaah, am happy for him and his family. He has a good wife who stood by him and the employer was a God sent with a golden ❤️ ❤️. May God come through for us in moments of trials....
ReplyDeleteWow so nice of him.
ReplyDeleteEyah,so kind and thoughtful of him.Morale of the story,be kind,you never know what the other person is going through.
ReplyDeleteYou spoke my mind Phoenix. Nigerian HR be acting like Demi gods.
ReplyDeleteI hope I’m not missing the point. And, I’m glad he got the job. But, a more serious candidate would have asked his wife to go for a walk with the kids. Sit outside in the garden. Anything to avoid losing this job interview to someone else after 3 years of searching. He’s lucky he got a compassionate interviewer.
ReplyDeleteWhat if it was raining or snowing,what if it was an impromptu interview without notice,what if the interview was at night,what if they lived in an unsafe neighborhood? There are so many questions we dont have the answer to. Pick the lesson of the story.
Delete10:39 and if it's cold outside or one of the children isn't feeling well?
DeleteMr/Mrs prim and proper❗π
This your heart of stone needs a lesson in kindness and empathy.
See them!!
DeleteKontinu with your JAMB queshion. Das why some people will strive and strive. God is not man and it pleased God to give him the job despite the imperfection of his circumstances. Oya take one tom tomπ
DeleteGarden? In a one room apartment? Please be humane at least.
DeleteMaybe this is an ignorant question but let me ask.
ReplyDeleteCouldn't the wife have stepped out with the kids even for a walk during the time of this interview to avoid the kids making noise? I'm sorry but I think that's careless on their part. What if the interviewer didn't register his displeasure which gave him the opportunity to explain himself. He sure would have lost that opportunity I guess. Unless there is another explanation, to me, the man is just careless and didn't take the interview serious as he should have.
That is why you are a Nigerian and without human sympathy.
DeleteIn the middle of a pandemic, do you know what the lockdown restrictions were like in their country of residence
DeleteKinda true. He could have been professional. Let's take it easy on ourselves.
DeleteShola thank you for that rejoinder.
Delete10:44 if God waited for you to get rid of your stony heart, He wouldn't have SENT His Son JESUS CHRIST to redeem you from your sins or answered ANY OF YOUR PRAYERS.π£
That's the difference between you and that employer.
You've forgotten about the restrictions due to COVID-19?
DeleteLol. By their statement you shall know them. Analyse all your analysis finish. The koko be say he got the job. When you interview your own candidate, pls determine the terms and condition. Shior!!
DeleteLook at u..hard hearted anonymous without human sympathy.
DeletePerfect human...mtchew.
I love his last paragraph
ReplyDelete☺
ReplyDeleteThank God it ended in praise.
ReplyDeleteThis brought tears to my eyes, I am happy you gave him the job. Not all employers are empathic.
ReplyDeleteI loove the happy ending. If you can make someone smile, do it.
ReplyDeleteWow! That's nice of the employer!
ReplyDeleteLove it!
Thank God for his wife.
ReplyDeleteHow many ladies "loving this" will still support this
man in his struggles after losing his job?
His new name would have become "useless man, lazy man,"
That's what I've always read from most chronicles.
Let's learn the main lesson. Life can change. Wherever you
find yourself, be nice and content. πππππππππ
ANG you and OP (Out of Point) are inseparable. I bet your lecturers simply cross out your answers sheets without bothering to read it.
DeleteIs the man's post about wives' attitude towards husbands OR A LESSON ON KINDNESS?
ANG see a shrink. Your apathy towards women is distorting your psyche❗
I am so happy that it ended well.
ReplyDeleteI am so glad,he got the job
ReplyDeleteThis story is so sweet. God bless the interviewer for being humane
ReplyDeleteWe must always try to be humane to one another in every situation
ReplyDeleteThank you Mr. Interviewer for your kind heart.. I need favour Lord!
ReplyDelete