Are you a single mother with a baby daddy that does not care and you are also trying to be a slay queen on the social media?
This post is for you...Read and act!!!
Are you a single mother with a baby daddy that does not care and you are also trying to be a slay queen on the social media?
This post is for you...Read and act!!!
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Balance both. None should come before the other. As important as your child is, you are too. That's the way to back that morning you child looks up to with pride and aspire to be like. You are your child's first role model. Don't become the another your child grows to be ashamed to present.
ReplyDeleteRead again . Maybe you'll understand better.
DeleteBalance both. None should come before the other. As important as your child is, you are too. That's the way to become that mother your child looks up to with pride and aspire to be like. You are your child's first role model. Don't become the mother your child grows to be ashamed to present.
ReplyDeleteWahala for who use their extra cash buy gold oo
DeleteBalance which both? That innocent child knows nothing and parents should be responsible enough.tomorrow now the child joins hoodlums and be blaming guvenrment not knowing that his or her parents failed the first time when they are to use a condol they refused and they had no plans for kids.be responsible for once!i support her! If you can't take of kids please and please don't give birth ! That's wickedness! Don't give birth! You can adopt kids and take good care of them if you want to manage !dont give birth please if you can't take good care of kids! Please I am begging this things are just sad !
DeleteLmao. Wahala for who their mama carry their school fees book flight
DeleteDefinitely your child comes first to laulau. Your child can't be hungry while you pay for asheobi to goan parry. I understand her very well. Esp if your funds are limited you have to be careful and wise.
ReplyDeleteEven for married couples.. it's a general advice for a parent once you become a parent your child needs should come first..
ReplyDeleteIf for whatever reason(covid example) you're not so bouyant you can't say you want to go and buy expensive hair or clothes when your childs needs haven't been met.
I’m a single mum and yes no laulau for me till my son started primary school age 4. Uk Nursery fees wanted to finish me but I always looked presentable I no dey buy designer even now as designer is not my thing. But my makeup, cloths(including my child’s cloths)and hair na slay o no time.
ReplyDeleteNow I can travel, I drive a brand new car, I have savings but still I no dey do laulau never even did laulau before I had my child. My child is very well looked after. My story changed when my child started primary school but I saw sege after baby daddy and his family walked away when my child was 1 and I did not beg will never beg people and someone I didn’t offend. Now they are sending emails begging to know if we are ok pahahahaha I will never ever respond they can meet me when my son is a man and face him then but for me they should leave me alone I don’t need them or care. When they told me to leave their house I told them one last thing that is I don’t need anything from them that I will look after my child and I am doing just that by Gods grace.
Nobody should type anything insensitive under my comment because you don’t know my story and the lies the idiot told to trap me yes he trapped me!
You're a strong woman with so much weight on your shoulders. You'll be fine
DeleteIt is well with you and your boy. Keep your head up.
DeleteYou vacation and drive a brand new car? I love that. And that also means your son wouldn't be lacking cos you are doing well and balancing your resources between you and your boy and none is suffering.
DeleteYou are a strong woman
DeleteThank you anon donor; I gave the weight to Jesus He alone carries my weight.
DeleteThank you my fellow abroadian.
Saphire my blog crush yes o 2020 Mercedes gang gang and flew my son out for his 5th bday last august but 2020 august I no get liver to travel but we had a big party at home and he loved it because coro said no to travelling. My son lacks nothing and he is not spoilt neither does he demand for anything. He is a good boy and I’m so proud of him.
Marvel I’m doing my best only by Gods grace.
To my fellow single mums regardless of your story hang in there better days ahead I promised because I have been through it all and worse but I serve a living God.
SDK my love for you na copied assignment I just can’t explain it but I will send my story once God has completed the good work He started.
@single mum, I know it must have been hell when your baby daddy and his family behaved like jerks but for your sanity, allow your baby dad in to your sons life. This does not mean you have forgotten the pain but how do you want to PEPPER him and make him regret his life. Btw, if you eventually allow him in his sons life, pls don't play independent woman. That boy is his son too. Let him pay the child's bills too.
DeleteThe wickedness he and his family did and are doing spiritually is not worth the bills. No bills in UK is worse than nursery fees till age 4 when they start primary school. My son is now in primary school so no point.
DeleteThey are not asking to be in his life they are sending emails and sending people to send me emails to know how are we doing can you see that doesn’t make sense you know you messed up why not send emails apologising instead they are looking for status update to know if we are ok so they can continue to do evil right. 2 years ago he rang my family begging to be in the child’s life I told him no problem after a few weeks he disappeared again please not he made zero contribution to anything and I never asked now he is back after 2 years sending his brother to send emails and sending people to send emails asking how are we to basically check if we are still alive is that not wickedness. I will never ever allow a man to be doing one leg in one leg out over my child a child needs stability which is what I give my son case closed
Not all single mums care about bills to share or pay because we can pay it all because of Gods grace. When they child is older and rejects you as his father no pain is worse than that in this world.
Hmmmm,my story is almost similar, the guy and his family walked out after I gave birth,I pray God remembers me soon,its not easy esp without a job.God has been helping us and I won't take that for granted
DeleteIt is well, the sacrifices alone.
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