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Friday, December 18, 2020

IHN -FRIDAY

 Hailings.............Fridays come so quick....*like an isoko man*









IN HOUSE MEMO

So because i posted the lady that was singled out for posting that she could not provide for her mum this Christmas period,now my inbox is full of the same format?Unu well done oooooooooooo.......I am still a mugu but a mugu with sense....


Thank you to the two people who reached out to her,one sent 5k and another sent me 10k to send to her,so i will add mine and send today.....Thank God and bless you both!!!!







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THE WIFE VERSUS THE SIDE CHIC BROUHAHA 

This incident happened in one of the big market in lagos. It happened that the wife of a rich man called Cynthia (fake name) confronted her husband's side chick Funke(fake name) who is a sales girl for one of the big ogas in the market.
 The confrontation did not go down well,cos Cynthia used razor blade to slash Funke from her shoulder down to her breast side, she was rushed to two hospitals immediately where she was rejected and finally to the last one in Ikeja where she was finally stitched up .. Cynthia was arrested by the police. 


The whole gist was finally out that funke has been a side chick for a very long time and Cynthia has always suspected them until the husband bought funke a phone,Cynthia found out and confronted her husband but the husband beat her up that night.

 The next morning with anger in her heart, Cynthia picked up a razor and entered the market to confront her "co-wife". 

Right now, gist has it that Cynthia is still detained in the police station for attempted murder while Funke is still in the hospital battling for her life,and the doctors told her that she cannot make use of one of her breasts again.




why did she have to go after the alleged side chic?I don't understand all these behaviours women now have..how many times did our mothers go and fight their husbands other wives?Live in peace with your kids and face front,one day he go tire to gallivant from woman to woman...if you fight one today,how many will you fight tomorrow?






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CHRONICLE OF MELODY THE RUNS GEH



We came back some days after, after our family members don taya for calls and text messages, a beautiful seed was planted during that three days honeymoon, today I am still crazy about this man even after 4 boys and two beautiful daughters including my Treasure (Sorry big sister, ba so she say make we de hail am now)

 We've growing from glory to glory, from grace to grace, holding God stronger than before, no better yesterday, I was lucky, you might not be as lucky as me, I survived it, you might not survive it, God gave me a chance to right my wrongs, you might not have that same opportunity, it doesn't make him a wicked God, he is still God, the I AM THAT I AM, nothing will steal his throne, so before you ever think of selling your virtue, remember my story...


 it hasn't been rosy, sometimes it feels as if my legs can't walk properly again, my waist hurts sometimes, I thank God for giving me an understanding man, those were the after effects of different men climbing my body, some will fuck you like say him de vex for the money he paid you and you must endure because you no get option, he paid!! 


Please learn from my story, don't jump in because I did, like I said, you might not be as lucky as me, today my kids complain that I monitor them too much, I wish they know why, God has blessed me with a wonderful home, none of my kids are anything like me, God did me well.... 


I hope my story has thought you a thing or two... It was never meant to entertain you but to teach you another side of life incase you are considering prostitution in the future, it has also thought you about the goodness of God and how much it pays to serve God and the interest of his kingdom, may my story bring you closer to God and may his grace keep you always in his presence, I will never lose any of you prematurely to the evil and wickedness of this Earth, Don't die an avoidable death, #SayNOtoprostitution for it pays NOTHING.... 

 MY NAME IS MELODY AND I WAS A RUNS-GEH... 
......THE END





Ewooooo,so many kids?Congratulations babe.


Please note that the story of Melody is real,she is a BV who decided to tell her story,her writing skills may have confused you into thinking its a Nollywood movie but it is not...I am sure we have active and retired runs gehs on this space too...

Well done melody....







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I JUST GOT BACK (IJGB)


Are they in town yet? Have you started hearing different phoney? Has the carrying around of big Eva bottle water started? Any IJGB around you yet?
This is a post for our abroad bvs that are coming back or are already in naija for the Christmas celebration. Hope you guys brought chocolate? Lol.


How easy was it at the airport, what measures are expected from travellers before entering Nigeria and on arrival ? If you are already in Nigeria do tell us and if you are still planning to ,read and take note.


Some are in town to find wives shine your eye ooo.







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THE LABOUR ROOM ADVICE



"Be in the labour room with her, do everything for her but one thing, DON'T LOOK". I didn't understand the depth of it. So, there I was in the labour room, doing everything for her (getting clawed and all) and my mind kept telling me " look, look, look" so, I did a 1 second peek, nothing happened, I survived...and that false courage pushed me to look well.... (I always say it, I discovered how amazing women are, that day). Luckily, I survived but months later, after the new baby excitement had calmed, I understood, why for many men, sex becomes difficult to enjoy after the first baby. 


A lot of the energy that drive men comes from their ability to feed an image to the mind, an image which has been associated with sex.


 A man goes in knowing that breast and that vagina to be associated with sex only, he comes out with a fresh image, the vagina has suddenly become a birth channel and the breast, a source of food....both thoughts, very anti - sex. Of course, it's not the fault of the woman, it's not a fault in fact but it still happens. Fast forward to when sex is supposed to resume and there you are, looking at the same body but the mind is confused, add that to a woman who has had to adapt for almost a year and a body just healing....not the best combination.



 Brother, enjoy the body you know before the first pregnancy but prepare and anticipate the body you'd have to learn to love and crave forever....the body that will on one hand be linked with sex and on the other hand with motherhood. It really is a challenge for many men, for example, to treat the breast the same way given the presence of milk.



 There's also the new penetration feel, depth and width to learn how to love and crave. A lot of men struggle genuinely and never speak of it for the fear of being blamed. What women go through to give birth cannot be imagined but many men truly struggle. I don't see any reason why the harsh realities of many homes need to be replicated and passed down. Couples need to get more active in sharing knowledge on this topic way before they have to go through it. Some of those discussions on sports, politics and religion need to start making space for things that affect our marriages and homes.



 I gained a lot from looking but not everyone can deal with the sight. If you are not absolutely sure of yourself, take the advice I was handed. Be in the labour room, do everything for her but one thing, DON'T LOOK!


COPIED FROM FRIDAY SPONTANEOUS POST.







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85 comments:

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    1. Hello Stella and all my lovelies, good afternoon to you all . Hope our day is going as expected, thank God.

      Melody , I'm so happy for you. Like you said, destinies are different. May we not end up in misery, Amen πŸ™

      May the good Lord continue to perfect our ways and all that concerns us , IJN, AMEN πŸ™

      UNA DOOOHHH ✊ ✊ ✊

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    2. Melody thank you for sharing. Ashawo no be work true true. Make God continue to guide us in the right part. This country self no dey help matter. It is well.

      Stella mesef dey fear to come your inbox. Make I kuku dey manage myself. May God continue to give you strength as you carry out your benevolence work.



      Lovelace

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    3. So so so happy for you Melody. God bless your home.

      Men should be in the labour rooms but dont look.
      My husband was in the labour room but suddenly disappeared... Lol

      God bless and protect us.

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  2. Firstlady blessing18 December 2020 at 14:01

    PRAYING IN THE SPIRIT πŸ”₯πŸ”₯πŸ”₯πŸ”₯

    It's very disheartening that our generation has reduced the phrase ''pray in the Spirit" to just being praying in tongues πŸ€”πŸ˜₯.

    Can I tell you that you might be praying in tongues and yet not be praying in the Spirit....after all there are people who pray in tongues just so others can see/think that they are SpiritualπŸ™„πŸ™„.

    Praying in the Spirit is simply allowing the HolySpirit to pray through you. It could be in tongues or the language familiar to you whether English,Yoruba, Swahili,French etc!!!

    Ephe6:18....Praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, and watching thereunto with all perseverance and supplication for all saints; (notice it said Spirit,it didn't tell you that the Spirit was tongues)

    There are times I have prayed in the Spirit and yet am simply speaking the English language not any tongues. At such moments, I can literally feel the HolySpirit Praying through me,and my lips are just uttering all manner of prayers and supplication that my mind never thought of!!....and yet in plain English!!πŸ€”.
    And there are times also that I've prayed in tongues and could also feel the HolySpirit Praying through me. Sometimes I get to know what exactly it is I am praying about,and other times I just know that I am travailing over a particular issue that I don't know of and I tell you these are prayers that I didn't even think of....but all of a suddenly I feel the HolySpirit Praying through me for those supplications!!.

    Don't let anybody deceive you that because you can't speak in tongues, you can't pray in the spirit.... that's a lie our generation has thought up all in the name of trying to form Spirituality πŸ™„.

    TRY TO CLEAR YOUR MIND OF ALL SIDE THOUGHTS and KEEP YOUR MIND FOCUSED ON THE HOLYSPIRIT HIMSELF...and you would be amazed how he takes over your prayer and begins to pray through you.... THAT IS PRAYING IN THE SPIRIT!!

    ##Xtiana Elias Cares##
    ##Spirit's Insight##

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    1. True @ first lady. A spirit led prayer is more edifying to the soul and brings peace of mind like a calm river. Knowing fully well the Lord is in charge..

      Lovelace

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    2. True @ first lady. A spirit led prayer is more edifying to the soul and brings peace of mind like a calm river. Knowing fully well the Lord is in charge..

      Lovelace

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    3. Firstlady blessing18 December 2020 at 14:41

      Thanks Lovelace

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    4. Thank you for this its is enlightening

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  3. HollaπŸ’–πŸ’žπŸ’œπŸ˜˜πŸ’❤πŸ’“πŸ’•πŸ’—πŸ’™πŸ’š

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  4. You meet a lady, talk to her about friendship and next thing is she has bills to pay. Were there no bills before your meeting? Yet , Nigerian girls will never agree they do sex for money. Is the sex not a two way thing? Women always believe they are doing men favor when sex happens.

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    1. Please just cancel her and move on..
      The ones wey gbedu for them no reach 10 for this country.πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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  5. Holla guys πŸ₯°πŸ€—

    Thanks to Mr steel food processor and yam pounder I can now enjoy eating pounded yam in peace with bothering about mothar πŸ’ƒπŸΌπŸ€Έ‍♂️πŸ’ƒπŸΌπŸ€Έ‍♂️πŸ’ƒπŸΌπŸ€Έ‍♂️

    @Eujiparv Boo πŸ’–πŸ’– thanks for the gratitude challenge..I have done mine alreadyyyyyyy

    Ciao πŸ’‹πŸ’‹

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    1. Ok love . How are you doing today ? keep keeping on dear. Remain blessed 😍 😍

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    2. 😁😁😁😁😁 Hi Paris dear. Been a minute.

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    3. His phone number please

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  6. Good day beautiful people,trust the day is going well ❤️πŸ₯°πŸ’‹❤️πŸ’ƒπŸ»πŸ’‹❤️πŸ’‹

    GRATITUDE CHALLENGE
    I’m thankful for life,grateful I I still have my job,thankful for the friends I have and grateful I’ve not lost anyoneπŸ™
    Most importantly thankful for Sugardaddy❤️I kid you not,he’s the youngest 70year old man.Friends were shocked when they saw his age,you’ll think he’s 60πŸ₯°
    The devil tried but failed; obi’ara late😊

    Thanks for the nomination sugargirl❤️
    Thank you for the incentive Phoenix❤️❤️
    Nominating Jessi,Buxomebony and Adire_classicπŸ’‹

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  7. Hiyaaa my lovelies😘😘😘. How una day dey go. May God bless all those who donated for the poster. And you too, StellaπŸ™‚πŸ™‚πŸ™‚❤❤❤. See eh. I hate reading stories where the wife goes after the side chicπŸ™„, FACE THE MAN. Leave the side chic o. How many do you want to beat up, eh? Now she's being detained, and Oga can waka as he wants. LR advice, thanks poster. When the time comes, i will tell bros not to look down o. Signout meme, πŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘Œ. Stay good, my darlings😘😘😘😘😘😘

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  8. Wow,what a happy ending at Melody! May God continue to bless your home...Amen

    That sign out meme,so so on point. May God give us the wisdom to train our children in the right path and may they be filled with the holy spirit...Amen

    Good day to us all!

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    1. More grace Melody.. Such a happy ending. What an experience. thanks for sharing your life story.

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  9. Wow,what a happy ending at Melody! May God continue to bless your home...Amen

    That sign out meme,so so on point. May God give us the wisdom to train our children in the right path and may they be filled with the holy spirit...Amen

    Good day to us all!

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  10. Melody❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
    God bless you more and more.
    Thanks for sharing your story.

    Good afternoon everyone.

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  11. GNC, you too much.
    I had such a good laugh going through the Paw paw post.

    That side chick vs wife post,hmmmmmm. Women should learn to do better. Why not hurt the man in stead. Sell off some of his properties and leave if you can't take him cheating on you. Now, who's in jail?

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    1. That's what jealousy & anger causes. So sad., I feel for her children & the side chick.

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  12. my son's school has officially closed today...... now the whole neighbourhood will know whatsup.. the shouting and spanking spree just started. lastweek he came back from school pacing upandan in the room, with a sad face he said, miss K (his class teacher is sad, and when i asked why, he said he needs to buy her a shoe, that she wore a very fine dress to school, but he doent have money to buy her a shoe. ewooooo a 5year old ooo, na so i just de look am. When everything set i may just gift her a nice pair of shoes. .... to be honest the class teacher is very very pretty o

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    1. Eayaaa πŸ˜† πŸ˜† πŸ˜†, thanks to that joor , your baby has eyes for good thing.

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    2. Awwww. Your son is a sweet child.

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    3. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    4. thank you blogmates😁😁😁😁😁

      awwwww melody the runs geh......such happy ending.... God bless your home.....

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  13. IJGB?
    They have started again; "I just wanna, gonner make you a gonner"
    All they are looking for is to part your legs like motor park gates.
    Greedy girls will suffer it! 😁😁😁😁

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    1. ...like motor park gates πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    2. Emeka from japan, Ehis from Malaysia....sola from south Africa etc.......awon slay queens be careful this season mbok oooo.... anon 14:11🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣

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  14. Sign out memo on point πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

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  15. Melody.. Well done!!! May God continue to keep you and your family.. Enjoy!!!

    The madam and side chick gist.. O lagbara o! They are both in trouble but Oga wey misbehave cause this wahala dey enjoy go..this life no balance o

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  16. Well, even if my man insist on entering the delivery room, I will refuse, dude, wait out at d reception. You can only come in if it's a CS.

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  17. The Peace of the lord be with you allπŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡

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  18. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚@Unu well done! Stella Stella I like the way you play with words, you're an interesting being. No dull moment with you.

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  19. Will all the runs girls here learn from Melody and listen to her sound advice?
    That's the question.

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  20. @melody,your story is one everybody should learn from,indeed God ways can never be understood.

    Hello IHN.

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  21. Lol @ has the carrying of big Eva bottle started yet? Na wa!

    Melody...God bless you for sharing your story. It is well.

    Good afternoon everyone.

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  22. Hello ihn

    Ma'am Stella the Lord is ur strength o,it is well with us all.

    Melo melo I'm so so happy for u,just as u wrote..ur story usnis for entertainment but to teach.i learnt from it.Enjoy ur home.

    Na wa for madam and sidechick,now madam dey detention while sidechick dey hospital and oga dey jolly dey go.

    IJGBπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ so funny but true,reminds me of Xmas season in my village,even the ones wey come back from Aba go dey form phoney.🀣🀣 One yr like dat na Malaysia boys dey reign..driving and blasting Loud music,babes doing every every to be noticed.some even became emergency housemaids to the mothers of the Malay boysπŸ˜‚ while some were lucky,some na chop and clean mouth tins🀣

    Bvs enjoy the rest of ur day.
    Things can only get better..e go be ✌️

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  23. Melody I am thankful to God for your life may His name be praised.

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  24. Hello everyone😍😍😍😍

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  25. Madam and side chic wey no get sense

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  26. Plz who knows how much that Big Blue and Yellow gerrican of Palm oil is sold presently?

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  27. Who's in need . so happy today cos its my birthday.I wanna play Santa in my own way.pls if u know u won't appreciate pls don't drop ur acct.
    Nw let's roll

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    1. I am oh as I have a full house of 4+3=7 children at home now, holiday mongers.

      Should I send my account number???

      Would really appreciate it oh

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  28. Good afternoon everyone,GCN you are a funny woman I was just reading your hilarious memes.
    I'm happy for you Melody, your home is safe and blessed

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  29. One keeps wondering how many times this issue of wife fighting side chick will end. Why can't madam fight her husband? Why fight the woman that your husband took time to talk to, woo even spend on? Even if the side chick seduced the man, was he forced? Can't he say no? Was Joseph in the Bible not seduced? Did Joseph give in? Madam, go and settle the scores with your Oga for having roving eyes and leave girls looking for families to destroy.

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  30. women treat your husband's BS silently, people don't need to hear about it. Going after the girl like that is all wrong

    Melody, your story is a lot to learn from. God indeed loves you, like you said, how it turned out for you might not be same for others.

    Oga that looked well done, God bless you for your understanding

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  31. Eujiparv Thank you so much for the shoutout this morning and thanks for the nomination..I am grateful for the gift of life and my beautiful people here..Mkpuru oma, Mystery Woman and Stella Maris please join the gratitude challenge..

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  32. I grew up in a prostitution concentrated area. I used to admire many of the ladies I always saw lining up for men on my street.. I wanted to be like them,and I always told everyone who cared to listen that I wanted to be a prostitute. But thank God I didn't tow that path. I saw many of them die, some were used for ritual purposes, some took off to get married but couldn't stay married.
    Ashewo no be work.
    Melody, I really thank God for your testimony and I hope ladies/ girls got the message

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    1. Wow! Thank God you didn’t turn out that way.

      😱😱😱😱

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    2. Thank God you didn't end up the way you wanted

      Pretty Patience

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  33. Great moral lesson there melody, well done, I enjoyed every bit of your story.

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  34. I enjoyed your story Melody. Your story was one I always looked forward to. Thank God it turned out well for you.

    Wife vs side chick: I have nothing to say about that, let those wives keep disgracing themselves and leave their randy husbands, na them know 🀷🏼‍♀️

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  35. Women versus side chick palaver

    A man had a beautiful wife and beautiful daughters. He also had an undergraduate side chick. His wife was aware but chose to look the other way, while developing herself and taking care of her girls.
    Many years later, the girls are grown, the man no longer has money and he is sick. She relocates abroad with her kids and denies him access to them. Now he is all alone in naija, homeless and sick.
    Women, start having a backup plan so you can have your revenge on a cheating husband, OR leave for your peace of mind.

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  36. Thank God for Melody. Your home is blessed

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  37. Good afternoon all and Happy weekend to you all. Melody thanks for sharing your story.

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    1. Happy weekend to you too. πŸ‘‹πŸ’‹πŸ˜˜πŸ€—

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  38. Good afternoon everyone,hap ha weekend to you all.

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  39. Good afternoon all.

    Thanks Eujiparv for the nomination.

    I'm grateful for life, love, peace, family, friends and everything.

    I can't thank God enough for all He has done for me and my family. May His name be highly exalted.
    I hereby nominate Sunshine (blog mate),Martins,Perxian, Choc Noir, Ms.A and Stella.


    Thank God for you Melody.

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  40. The labour room advice.. can't stand it.. can't go in.. I was even shaking outside and crying like a baby.. na mouth I get.. naaaaa!!

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    1. Lol.. See ya life na. 'man of the house, man of the house'.

      When you were slamming from lagos to Kampala you were feeling like james bond oo.. 😎 πŸ˜…πŸ˜…

      Happy weekend to you jare..

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  41. I really wish I was in Nigeria now. My brothers went back and I'm jealous...

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