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JULIANAS OPINION
Feeding Allowance
I overheard a woman complaining to her co traders on how she was given 1000 naira by her husband to use and cook soup, she said one could imagine buying both meat an dried fish from this same money. I was amazed at the amount given to her for soup, when the other women she was complaining to told her that she is lucky to even receive money at all from her husband. That she does not get any money at all, and that men are wicked and very tricky.
This left me wondering how such women cope, where will she start from with 1000 naira, with the high cost of food stuff. Why do some men do this, is it some kind of game to them or what?.
A dead head cannot be carried by any neck no matter how efficient, because it's the head that give life to the neck and other members of the body.
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JULIANAS OPINION
Feeding Allowance
I overheard a woman complaining to her co traders on how she was given 1000 naira by her husband to use and cook soup, she said one could imagine buying both meat an dried fish from this same money. I was amazed at the amount given to her for soup, when the other women she was complaining to told her that she is lucky to even receive money at all from her husband. That she does not get any money at all, and that men are wicked and very tricky.
This left me wondering how such women cope, where will she start from with 1000 naira, with the high cost of food stuff. Why do some men do this, is it some kind of game to them or what?.
How do you expect so much with so little amount, don't ask me if i know if the man have money to give?, because I know some so called rich men that do same. They won't allow their wives to work nor trade and will still not bring out money to take care of the home front.
These type of men pay huge amount of money at isi ewu joints and mama puts and do father Christmas to outsiders. But once it's for their home they say that there is no money. We call such men oka mma na iro (one who is only good to outsiders).
These type of men pay huge amount of money at isi ewu joints and mama puts and do father Christmas to outsiders. But once it's for their home they say that there is no money. We call such men oka mma na iro (one who is only good to outsiders).
In as much as some women do not mind shouldering the financial responsibilities in their homes, does not mean that the man should relax and leave everything to her. Being a man is not by mouth or by having good game in the bedroom, being a man entails much more.
A dead head cannot be carried by any neck no matter how efficient, because it's the head that give life to the neck and other members of the body.
Some men need to sit up and care for their homes and know that what they are looking for in Sokoto is in sokoto .....
Just two weeks ago, someone told me that she just got married and is shocked to find out the man is not contributing to the household or anything for the baby...she used up all her money for food (which he eats)for baby stuff and to maintain the house and she ran out of money, she asked him to give her some and the next day he told her that she did not tell him before they married that she would be asking him for money and that he needed space and that she should move to her parents
Imagine!!!
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Na wah for women wahala..
Some women are also premenopausal and do not even know....Maybe that is what you are going through......
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The BV with irregular mensuration or bleeding. Please visit a general hospital. Consultation fee is not upto 1k. Life is wealth. It might be infection or hormonal imbalance but please visit a gynaecologist or a qualified nurse. You can also do infection or hormonal test in one of these private laboratories.
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Hmmmn... I'm just here feeling sad, irresponsible, I will be 28 next month, no job no money no partner. Many lonely days. I can even contribute to bills at home, how I can't buy antibiotics every two weeks for my mum, can't get her to go the hospital because money no dey. Sighs! B.Sc Accounting graduate who just wants to practice accounting but nothing seems forthcoming. I'm hanging on a thread, walai. I am very tired. I need a change, I want to work, I want to help, I want not to depend on people, I want to take responsibility for other. Dear God...
ReplyDelete1000 for soup??na wa....o
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ReplyDeleteThat 1000k shock Me I no go lie, like how is that even possible considering the high cost of living.
ReplyDeleteThere was one my mum's neighbor shared around 2000 or 2001 that his customer gave his wife #200 to cook food for the family & the woman torn the money cos it's wasn't enough. The man beat the woman because of what she did to the money
ReplyDeleteSo we started suggesting maybe she would have bought Okro #50.00, then buy Maggi #50.00 then get vegetables from their farm & use #100.00 for Garri. Add plenty water to the soup. This happened in the village.
Note my mom's neighbor has a buka & I guess it was while he was there that he told my mom's neighbor (Da B). I guess the man should be an Okada rider.