Hmmmm...
NARRATIVE ONE
THE VIRGIN VERSUS NON VIRGIN
My fiancée has never asked if I was a virgin since our almost two years of dating and I think he automatically thinks I'm a virgin, me sef Haven't said anything since he hasn't asked and I'll leave it that way till the wedding night.
Let him take what's ever he sees, although I'm naturally tight and have been celibate since 2017 ,I don't even know how that place is right now, but local girl won't find out till the wedding night.
He has been saying he is a virgin and every time he talks about it I just nod head, I have never told him I'm a virgin o, so let it not be that he will feel deceived on the D day, because like this my body count is ,3. I don't know gan sef.
how can a Virgin man know the difference aside the blood ? Because like this I tight kpa and i don't want to say anything since he didn't ask,if on that day it is so tight and he feels like I'm a virgin,then fine, I'll leave it that way case closed.
He brings the topic up because he wants you to say something and you are not. My dear, please have that conversation before your worst nightmare plays out..
He brings the topic up because he wants you to say something and you are not. My dear, please have that conversation before your worst nightmare plays out..
I know someone whose marriage became dead on arrival after the wedding night...The guy claims she deceived him and she insists he never asked her..
The Marriage ended on the wedding night :: They live together alright but as enemies and he has not touched her since that night.. She said he tells her that he finds pleasure with HOs outside
Have that conversation with him..
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NARRATIVE TWO
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NARRATIVE TWO
CONFUSED
I met a guy recently and I’m confused on what to do. He has been separated from wife for almost 3 years and I visited him to confirm this. He has 3 kids who come on weekends and I have also met them and all his friends.
I am a medical doctor and I have a daughter as well. He is so loving and caring and talking marriage. Kindly advice:
Why did you add that you are a Medical Doctor? what does that have to do with this? Anyway that one nah you sabi, you dey seek advice dey pose on top.
You said he is SEPARATED? why is he not divorced? Since you are a doctor, that means you are smart ,please dont do anything with him until he is officially divorced ...
@Posternumber1,do try and have a heart to heart conversation with him as pertaining the whole thing and not dodgingly leave it till your wedding night o
ReplyDelete@Posternumber2,follow your heart and let him love you to the fullest if you are truly convinced that he's the right person for yo
No 1 reminds me of a WNB I read sometime ago where a woman claimed she was a virgin till the wedding night.The man who wrote in said he fell into a bottomless pit and was struggling to hold on to something,he had to retreat and attacked again but was swallowed hook,line and sinker😅😅😁.I don't know why that came to my mind but please poster tell him.He needs to know,you can maybe reduce the body count so he doesn't get scared but please tell him because you don't know how it is down there.
DeletePoster 2:Follow your heart but do it right
I remember the gist😁😁😁. He was a good storyteller. Wonder if he went for the V restructuring he mentioned.
DeletePoster 1 - The truth is you want him to think you are a Virgin so it’s still deceitful and may burn you badly if you don’t set the record straight.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 - Until you see his divorced papers signed, he’s still married. Y’all can be together but just know that he’s not completely yours.
That's how I nearly fell victim of one. They'll be separated never divorced!! Men hardly make move to divorce they just move on from girl to girl. Divorced men hardly want another marriage,just flexing.
DeletePoster 1, have that conversation with him least you turn to the wife of Aymii' friend. Guess you've been following up with recent posts here.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, a sperated man is not a divorced. Take Helen Prest and Late Dr Ajayi's matter as a case study.
Poster 1 plz have that conversation. 2 years? Nah.
ReplyDeletePoster 2. He is separated but still married. Leave that very married man alone!
Poster 2. Amy woman who did not learn from the recent saga of the former beauty queen (lawyer) who stayed with a supposed separated doctor for 25years before he died is on a long thing.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 Dante is coming for you. For you to even be in a no sex relationship with someone who always says he's a virgin should tell you where he's driving at. Either you own up and tell him you are not one though you have being celibate since or you shush it and wait for the drama that will unfold on your wedding night.
ReplyDelete"Being celibate since 2017, place being tight, body count being 3 . . ."
ReplyDeleteThat is not virginity. Virginity is that you have not WILLINGLY given yourself
to a man for sex (fornication).
You know in your mind that you are not free and that is why you wrote this
chronicle. Like Stella said, your marriage could be dead same night it is contracted.
Open up and discuss it. Let him know what is in there!
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Who told you her body counts is 3.. she said 3, then said "I don't know gan sef".. meaning she has actually lost count.
DeleteThat 3 is just the default number she tells all her sex partner.. you know how they do it now-
After sex:
Him: *nothing*
She: shey you know you're the 3rd guy I'm actually having sex with. The first guy was my first boyfriend who forced himself on me, that made me break up with him, the 2nd guy left me after always complaining because I don't like sex.. I don't know why I enjoyed it so much with you.. maybe it's cos I like you, please don't break my heart...
*yimu*
@dante 😂you no de carry last for this kind of matter
DeleteWhy is it so hard to believe that her body count is 3 ,I av been watching your comments and you like acting like your comment is the ultimate.
DeleteYou too like over sabi and throwing insult at people,I pity the people around you.
This Dante is funny. I wonder why y'all don't see that..🤣🤣🤣 he even ends it with *yimu*.🤣🤣
DeleteHonestly Anon17:21, I really pity the women who'll have anything to do with him.
DeleteHis head is so messed up!!!
Dante oo 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
DeleteDante, because all ur girlfriends are liars and promiscuous beings no mean say all girls are like that. I know say it's a novelty for your but use that thing in your head for once
DeleteDante Dante..lol...u are an expert in this ministry o..😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteDante my guy! You know their way. No woman ever tells the truth about their body count!
DeleteThe lady up there in her chronicles is extremely deceptive! Machiavellian and wanting to justify her behaviour by getting "thumbs up" from fellow sisters.
She is trying to get the herds approval that she is right. Women!
It is men that will honestly tell you their body count. Yeah, right! Double standards as always. Continue with the gender wars nau. But for real some of you guys can't take a little of what you dish out in spades. You whore yourselves around with different women then expect to marry a saint after disvirgining and sleeping with various females. Some of you raped and seduced and hounded females until they gave in, yet want to marry virgin angels. Karma is always around the corner waiting to knock at your doors at the appropriate time. Wanting to have your cake and eat it as well. I greet all the few good men out there. God will bless you indeed. Please if you are lucky to have a good man, cherish him my sisters.
Delete@21:16
DeleteAren't the women the ones spreading legs for any and every man?
Why not close your legs until you marry
In the end, you know that before these so called "men" you've got
the shorter end of the stick.
2:29 so it is only women that will close leg and men can be sleeping around abi? They will sleep around and expect to marry the one that will close leg abi? Abeg you don't know me so don't presume to tell me to close my legs or not. Go look into your own whorish life and do the needful, instead of projecting your mumu life on me. FYI both males and females should be responsible. Mtchew
DeleteWe all know that virginity is a virtue but most time, we argue against that right here.
ReplyDelete🙄🙄🙄
Poster 1..
ReplyDeleteHope you know that he'll feel you have been sleeping around all through the relationship, while he kept himself for you, if he finds out about this on the wedding night. I don't know how some of you women think sef. You'll open your eyes and cause wahala and then start claiming victims when the consequences of your actions hit you.
Look at you asking of other ways a man can find out you're not a virgin order then bleeding.. you think say we go give you advise weh you go use deceive innocent man.. no be only 3 body counts..
Please take the secret to your grave ok.. take it.. na here we go dey when another chronicle go hit us..
Na so I read one story that year weh the babe lie say she be virgin.. on wedding night, oga jam borehole, babe dey with blade, come cut near her kpekus so blood go dey come out, she come dey roll for bed dey cry in pain.. na so oga jump up dey shout 'I will not agree' 😄😄.. the length some of you go to deceive ehn.. we go advice una to live right, una go insult us, later una go dey look for ways to deceive person.. if you know something is that bad, to the extent you never would want your future partner to know about it, then why engage in it at all,..
Abeg na una get una wahala
Dante....where u go hear this kind torey😂
DeleteShe use blade cut near her kpekus? Inukwa!!!🤣🤣🤣
DeleteI think it's time I said this. I am a BIG fan of yours Dante.✊
It's the cut near her kpekus...she come dey roll for bed dey cry in pain for me🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteDante o! You no well rara. Jeez!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Dante, i love you.
DeletePat.
Dante, i love you.
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Dante, i love you.
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DeleteDante with the sauce.Hehehehehe. You make this our blog so interesting. keep it up.
DeleteAunty 1st poster, your conscience is judging you. See the way youre running commentary when you should have come out clean to your guy when he brought up the topic.
ReplyDeleteDon't worry now, your eyes go clear.
Don is here. Woah!!😲😲
DeleteJubilee, I have been very busy but I still want to try and be popping in and out sometimes like this.
DeleteThanks.
Hey Don, to think I thought of you today
DeleteWow...
Welcome back again
Aunty 2nd poster, separation is not divorce, you're educated,use your brain.
ReplyDeleteOmo! This one loud,my dear,just talk to him about the whole issue,if he really likes you,he won't leave you.
ReplyDeleteSometimes I wonder wetin guys want, do u want a virgin or a good woman? Just tell him with your full chest that you've had sex and damn! Anything that comes with it. I understand what you mean by being tight down there, because I was celebate for about two years and God the day I had sex I was hell! Because I was so tight and and dry,oga bruised me,so an inexperienced guy could swear it was my first time,I know this is not the point but even if you're tight like that,just tell him make ur mind rest. Leave shame my dear.
Doctor, you forgot to tell us the more important things; how did
ReplyDeleteyour daughter come about? Are you also "separated but not divorced?"
Have you asked questions about why this man is separated from the
current wife; is he, a womanizer, a wife beater? Or at best, reach out
to hear from the wife's side, there may be no separation at all.
It is not one you hear "mar..." before even the "..riage" is added,
you begin to gasp in ecstasy and salivate? There is more to life than
marriage! 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
Hehehehehe.Stella's bvs na elele.
DeleteInvestigate Dokita
DeleteTo avoid stories that touch, try to have such a discussion with him and know his reservation about virgins and non virgins. Better make marriage no hold than say e hold and come scatter becos of non disclosure.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, that man will show u shege, ndi separated/ divorced hmmm the day u will see the wife with baby no 4, ur tears will be premium. Stay away, don't think as a doctor he will choose u over the wife, when that thing that caused the separation clears, madam go return and u will be in misery, better clear from that man, he is using u as a rebound. There is no solid prove that he is done with the wife. Don't go and cause high BP for urself.
ReplyDeleteshe did nothing wrong by stating that she is a doctor. That's not all she said in that sentence, she also said that she has a daughter. Meaning she can take care of her baby. Why didn't you pick on that too? Just asking?
ReplyDeleteThanks Ace jare
DeletePoster 1, your silence shows that u are just being crafty and deceitful. Just tell him u ain't no Vee but fem on ur body count, that 3 is always suspicious. We dnt want another Mark chronicle here.
ReplyDeleteMadam Doctor,pls be a mermaid and very much single till u sight and touch the divorce papers. Matter of fact,I wouldn't be too comfortable wit that man if I were u, remember how one eyes opened after marrying the second wife. Let ppl not see u as a home wrecker when they eventually come back together.
Virgin Chronicle I dnt even know the reason for u, sending it to stella, since u are the judge and everything na gi nwe ikpe, na gi nwe ibi, babe u don decide on what to do, why send it to stella, chronicle is for those that are yet to decide or those seeking for advice. But as I read and re-read urs, nothing like that,u have already decided that u will not say anything, he will be the one to find out,so I have no advice for u.i wish u Goodluck
ReplyDeletePoster 2 talk to him about it.. kini big deal.. virginity no mean say the woman go dey faithful after being disvirgened...
ReplyDeletePoster1 face your fear tell him,you are already afraid he might leave you,it is better than him getting to know on that night ,been virgin doesn't mean he doesn't know what a virgin bleed is after first sex,and most first time only recognise bleeding from vagina as the sign of a virgin ,so face your fear men are scum they don't forgive things like that especially if they have been singing it in your ears for long
ReplyDeletePoster one since your man has been talking about he is a virgin and all that I will suggest you bring up the topic and let him understand you are not a virgin. Whatever he says never you agree to sleeping to more than one guy. Your body count should be 1 before you create more problems.
ReplyDeleteAny man that loves you will stick to you weather you are a virgin or not.
Poster 2 you are a smart woman so why are you acting like you are dull? A man is separated from his wife for three year and is not ready to divorce her but is asking you to marry him. You better shine your eyes before you will enter one chance marriage, if he want to have something with you please tell him to get his divorce papers and show you evidence else keep moving.
Poster one the only reason why he has gone through the trouble of telling you he is a virgin(, not just once sef) is because he wants to know how far with you and you have refused to open up. He loves and respects dats why he hasn’t asked you hoha-he expects you to offer the info same way he did without being asked. Don’t be afraid ....my husband was a virgin I wasn’t. He told him he was and I told him I wasn’t.....he didn’t judge me. We have been happily married for 10 years now. The dude is awesome. Wouldn’t you rather tell him now than wait till you exchange vows? That thing you think is a small thing can break trust
ReplyDeleteStella which kind mumu trying to pose are u talking about again? Hian! Take ur meds pls
ReplyDeleteMen are ALWAYS virginal, with no proof. Its only women that have to prove theirs. Tueh!
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