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    1. You echoed my thoughts!

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    2. That he takes Loans from these silly micro finance apps and takes other loans from other apps to repay. What a man!

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  2. Look ladies stop checking his chats with other girls; if you want to know your guy's true character and plans for you, please check his chats with his buddies, especially his really really close buddies.

    I once checked and saw that he always told his close friend about our every disagreement/fights, like the littlest of the littlest, he told that guy. One time I saw 'i dey even find another babe'

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  3. That he invested in crypto without telling me ๐Ÿคท‍♀️

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    1. Nothing bad about crypto. You just want to give the young man headache.

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    2. Oponu. Where did I say it was bad?

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    3. Eka joy or whatever ur name is,you’re the oponu because it means you didn’t read or understand what was asked.stop displaying your stupidity here pls,

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    4. Secrets already...not good my sister

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    5. Eka, be nice. That Anon meant no harm. Why the name-calling? ๐Ÿคท‍♀️

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    6. Eka is naturally rude, just leave her, she can't change.

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    7. Adanne I fear your type o. What is the big secret in crypto? So a man can't hustle quietly again? It is Eka talkative I blame

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    8. This girl calm down, you are still this bitter. The anon didn't warrant to be called an oponu

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    9. Yea, saying I want to give my husband headache means that I am a nag. Y'all can miss me with that bullshit. If u insult me, I will insult u.

      Adanne, it wasn't really a secret as he wasn't hiding it, he just didn't know it was something I would like to know and he apologised for it.

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    10. You haven't still changed...You're too bitter biko..

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  4. Asking a lady on Facebook to send her accct.no.and that was same period I was asking him to send money for us ni oh he said,he doesn't have.

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    1. You can imagine. Did you confront him?

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    2. That's his money and he can give it to who he want.

      Check it this way, what if you are the sidechick and she is the main girlfriend.

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    3. U c that shyt no mean anything, he may have placed u on a budget of 50k and above, him not giving u but giving to her maybe because he is expecting a better money, what if na 2k he give d girl, d day I found this out, me I stopped worrying my head. He no wan embarrass me with 5k he gave a girl cos my 100k was gonna b ready soon. Look at it that way pls

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    4. My ex husband did that also. He sent her money and celebrated her birthday

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    1. Good for your health.

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    2. Na your type them de carry another man pikin dash to train

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    1. keyword is partner not only married people.if you are in a commited relationship then this question applies to u

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  7. Ex partner. Impregnated a girl he was having a fling with.

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    1. That must have hurt terribly.

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    2. Move on or stay on. Both ways someone lost

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  8. Checking his phone is not my thing but the few times I've checked while he was there, I found absolutely nothing except his contacts and chats with friends.

    To be honest, it's not necessary.

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  9. Never checked it. Thank goodness I left mine unlocked but never put my true intentions there, I keep it in my heart. E shock am when I port.

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    1. What are you even saying?

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    2. @anonymous 19:51....only the wise will understand. And you are not wise

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    3. Cissy you nailed it!

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  10. I've found nothing....thst guy is too clean,, l don even dey suspect d cleanines

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    1. Women wahala... Your gender likes quarrel but will never accept it.

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    2. what exactly do you want,you confused never satisfied human?

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    3. Men delete chats, sms and phone records before getting home and do a no contact policy during weekends. They leave for home immediately after work but do the do during work hours

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  11. That he has loads of money and he will be telling me he doesn't have. Oh well! It's not my money. Na my own I dey after.

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  12. Please snoop if you can handle it, lets you know your stance.
    Snooping helped me find out that my husband was giving out details of my every move to his jealous siblings, dreams I share with him etc.
    I also found out all their sinister plans for myself and Kids so I don arrange myself keep de watch them. My only problem is self control cos I got angry once and said things that made him know I was aware.....I regret am sha.
    Anyways, my findings made me install cameras and have them activated when inlaws visit and I have seen alot first hand.... story long sha. All I can say is that the devil lives in our midst as inlaws, friends and families

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    1. O ga o. Please share your story with us so we learn.

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    2. And this nonsense is marriage?

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    3. Gabrous d Nnewi billionare sent his new wife of about 1 yr back home for this Rubbish. Them no dey play like this with Billionares o. Mk una be careful,some of una husband's may send una home just for snooping

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    4. His Gabros wife is clearly beneath his social class so he can hire and fire her at will.
      Before you " send me " home I move.

      My family is NOT HUNGRY.

      NONSENSE AND SEND PACKING

      MSCHEEEEEW

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  13. I respect him enough not to interfere with his privacy.
    Having been with mature gentle men makes me understand what respect is all about.

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  14. * found out he was in a whatsapp group where they exchanged nudes and meet up for knacks.

    * Found out he was chatting with my friends on social media, even stole numbers from my phone too.

    * Found out he was in the inbox of every of his fb friends both home and abroad begging for numbers, was even inviting one from cameroon to naija, while I was looking for money to start business e say 'i don't have'.

    * He was still in contact with his ex gf that refused to marry him coz he was broke then.. they chat & call like everyday for 30 mins upward.

    *After we both agreed to leave one dating site like that since we weren't searching, I Snoop to find out that he went back to open another profile soliciting for sex from babes with big bum & boobs.. men anya'm fulu Ife tot biaty

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    1. I hope u aren't still married to him o.

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    2. The foundation of ur marriage is questionable,if u can take it, stay on, if u can't HIV is real

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    3. Hand sanitizer that one na president Association of Amu Nko!

      Saaai

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    4. Na palliative organ
      General use man

      No self respect or dignity

      Tufai

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  15. I don't have time for such o. I don't bother myself o jare.
    Oya queenAmy come and tell us what u saw when u snooped oo.

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  16. I trusted him with my life, became suspicious after he began guarding his phone even though we have a rule of no password.
    Cropped his WhatsApp with a barcode and realized he was arranging to travel to an occasion which I knew,BUT I never knew he arranged for a married woman to be with him. It almost broke our marriage,trust is buried, the lady apologized he begged, but trust is dead.
    What Hurts the most was that even with the messages he lied to me because I was not patient for the full chat before bursting into his room to confront him,I called the lady after two days who told me the whole truth, before he opened up that he was guilty of some and not guilty of the others.
    It's been two months now, I suspect his every move and stopped carrying him like gala on my head.

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    1. Omooooooo๐Ÿค๐Ÿค๐Ÿค๐Ÿค

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    2. No continue to carry am

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    3. 20.53 what's wrong with you? Some of you are just so insensitive.

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    4. There's a lot more where that came from

      I wish you were strong enough to get to the root of it all

      Truth is confrontation and fighting them wont change anything especially if dude is a chronic womanizer

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  17. Once saw his chat where he called a girl a pet name he has been calling me even before we got married. She sells ladies wears. From the chat he was trying to buy clothes for me but I kept wandering why he was calling her that name, of all names. I was so pissed. There was nothing unusual about the chat just the name. So i didn’t say anything to him yet. I kept following up on the chat till they concluded the sales and she sent her account details, I saw the “pet name” was actually her real name. I was so embarrassed.
    Thank God I didn’t say anything

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    1. Wise lady you are. Self control and not reacting instantly is part of wisdom.

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    2. I guess her name is Treasure or Cherish๐Ÿ˜‰

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    3. Eeyah! I can imagine how that stressed you. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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    4. That meme about how women jump into conclusion just flashed in my mind after reading this ๐Ÿคฃ

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    5. Nkem ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

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    6. you know nothing John snow.kikikiki

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    7. @Chisom stress no be small, I didn’t sleep well for 2days eh, ๐Ÿ˜…
      @khalessi very close๐Ÿ˜€

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    8. Chai ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜‚

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    9. Hahahaha almost same thing happened to me, I wasn't patient enough to conclude the chat, I nearly harmed my hubby for the first time, where this jealousy came from I couldn't explain, it took a week after to put everything back in place.

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  18. Naming ceremony pictures of him and a lady. That was when I found that my husband had a baby with somebody. After 10 years and 3 children. Child was 2 years old then.

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    1. This is not nice at all, why???

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    2. Welcome to the ' Woke' generation

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    3. Chai so sad. This is why when people say don’t snoop,I just laugh. Just imagine u didn’t snoop how would you have known this.

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    4. Things are happening sha๐Ÿ˜ฎ

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    5. Welcome to the club!!

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    6. And someone will say, don't stop.

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  19. Sending three different girls photos I snapped him๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ
    Using a pickup line he never used on me while we were dating ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ
    Omoh๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚naija is mean!

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    1. Why are you blaming naija for your community prick???

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  20. It is good to snoop, only if you can withstand whatever u see....sometimes snooping resets the brain

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  21. Dante, you're needed here, come read and see the height of secrecy and hurt your gender is causing the women they claim to love.

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    1. He is washing pant at the back of house

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  22. I don't even check. No energy for unnecessary things ๐Ÿ˜œ

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  23. Found out he was having an affair with a girl doing NYSC in his office. The chat he forgot to delete that night, she was calling him babe and asking him what she should wear the next day and he asked her to send pics. This is someone that used to get impatient with me when I would ask him to help me pick something out to iron for me because I was busy prepping for us and our daughter's day.
    I trusted him with my life, and kept believing his lies - because he kept lying. But my instinct no gree and I kept checking. Found a way to get back deleted messages, found photos he deleted and saw sultry photos she sent to him, plus a video of her taking her bath and him watching. I was 8 months pregnant for our 2nd child then and he would leave me and go to our daughter's room (because she still liked to sleep in our bed) and be video calling her every night. It's been 8 months and it still hurts even though he has begged and quite frankly is a much better man to me now. Forgiveness is such a harrrrd process

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    1. That's hard. I feel your pain. Hugs

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    2. I'm sorry about your ugly experience and I hope your love is restored and he really repents of his stupidity.

      Please don't let your daughter sleep in your room anymore. I'm not saying this is the cause of your husband's infidelity but your room should be an adult sanctuary. Many couples make this mistake of parenting without boundaries and it isn't wise. You want to continue to be lovers as well as friends, not just parents. It's not just about sex. It's about that mental intimacy. There are things you don't want to say or do around children and when no room in the house is child-free, those things won't be said and done in your marriage. No matter how young the child, they should sleep and n their room unless they are ill.

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    3. I'm sorry about your ugly experience and I hope your love is restored and he really repents of his stupidity.

      Please don't let your daughter sleep in your room anymore. I'm not saying this is the cause of your husband's infidelity but your room should be an adult sanctuary. Many couples make this mistake of parenting without boundaries and it isn't wise. You want to continue to be lovers as well as friends, not just parents. It's not just about sex. It's about that mental intimacy. There are things you don't want to say or do around children and when no room in the house is child-free, those things won't be said and done in your marriage. No matter how young the child, they should sleep and n their room unless they are ill.

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    4. It's a very very hard thing to do. No matter how you forgive, just guard your emotions.

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    5. Awwww. So sorry you had to go through this. May God continue to heal your heart. E-hugs

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  24. Found out my horseband was furking a man i thought was a family friend , they even furking on our matrimonial bed. Snooping helped me oh ! I cursed him, the bastard went from feeding people to begging friends for money . I have told him i divorced him the day i found out he was sleepng with another man. Our two kids are young just at a crossroad , i am financially okay. The sight of tge bastard irritates me . I will send a chronicle soon .

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    1. the shock would've made me fall to my knees.

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    2. My dear, you need to share your experience so that others can learn from it. In the meantime, please ensure he uses a condom and then decide if you want to leave him or stay for the sake of your children. If you choose to stay, ensure you have your own money, your own savings/properties and make your selfself happy! I wish you all the best. Make the Lord be with you.

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  25. Not a "team snop". So I'll read comments

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  26. Hmmmm you see this marry your friend na big scam ooooh, how many people marry their enemy.My marriage was just 3months...i sent him a video on WhatsApp, and wanted to make reference to the video while holding his phone a chat came in " are you home?...i decided to check...my people see booking of appointment for chat...i heart broke to pieces, after 6months in the marriage, had a dream about my wedding ring dropping off my finger, picked it from the ground and I slipped it back to my fingers, that night carry phone to check chats....oh my Lord, my husband was chatting a student, telling her how he loves her, that their meeting was divine, see love talk, he keeps up with her, morning,afternoon, night, while I am on the bed with him, he even encouraged the Lady to leave her boyfriend that is based in US, The lady fell in love , deeply. I copied her number, chatted her up, told her not to leave her boyfriend that na married man dey deceive her.She started apologising, I made her know that I don't have issue with her but with my husband,I just did not want her to loose her relationship for his lies, called her up the next day, she was so so sad,I made her know...say no be only her him dey chat..she was shocked, I only contacted because he kept prescribing her to leave her guy for him,,,,she was just thanking me for saving her from the deceit. This guy begged and begged before I married him,,God used me to help me, when he was coming he did not have #1, lives with elder sister,,,he got connected through me...started making money and the real character surfaced...i am so pained, bitter and angry...Uptil now still chats with women while l am beside him no regard...i am pretty, tall, lovely curves, lovely legs, beautiful skin and I make good money...infact men dey chase me everyday...i don tire...this is not what I prayed for...i feel like running away

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    1. Oh, now I'm scared. So if I marry the person I'm dating now, he might change? This is one of my greatest fear about marriage, cheating and lies. I do neither and won't tolerate it. Oh God!

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    2. You 'feel' like running away???
      You mean you still tanda there with ceremonial rubbish???

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    3. Nawa oo. Nne take heart biko.

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    4. The key thing for every woman to take away from your story is that you can have it all and be as attractive as can be and still get cheated on. Is not beauty do this thing, it's respect and value. And even being friends before still made no difference.

      Let us put God first in our matters of love, only God knows the hearts of all and only God can spare us from those who have evil intentions for us.

      All the best to you. But you deserve better than what you have

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  27. I check his phone casually and I see nothing suspicious in his phone. Dude is clean af.

    Ps: we aint married yet.

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  28. I used to snoop but it wasn't healthy for me mentally or emotionally. My husband and his family of origin are deeply enmeshed. Some chats I found between him and his older sister referenced why his parents and siblings didn't like me. Hubby didn't defend me but promised them to resolve the issues. I stopped snooping after that. I can't be stressing over stupid crap that they say or having hate pent up inside. I will protect my peace at all costs. No more snooping for me. I don't even touch his phone anymore. If he has a problem with me, let him face me and discuss it.

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