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TRUSTING ONES SIXTH SENSE

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I’m a lady in my late twenties, I’m a contractor, I have my own company and execute contracts.

 I’m a very hardworking lady, extremely hardworking I wonder if I was poor in my former life. I don’t really have time for men but there’s this guy who has been on my case for the past six years, yes he’s been disturbing me for the past six years.

 he’s based in Italy, we exchanged contacts at first but something seems “off” about him, we’ve never met in all these six years we only talk via watsapp and Instagram. 

He had this very calm look like someone who can’t hurt a fly, in fact when speaking on phone I always strain my ears to hear him, he speaks very softly , even when the conversation becomes exciting and our voices goes high he drinks water frequently meaning he’s not use to talking on High voice.


What made me to stop talking to him at first was because when I went through his page I noticed all his friends in the picture with him has this kind of “hardened look” , he’s the only one who has this soft look among them and I kept wondering what’s this guy doing with this kind of peeps?, that’s what I meant by something seems off about him. And I just ghosted him, but he won’t stop messaging almost everyday for six years now...

 he’s been to Nigeria several times within that period but I never met with him since I wasn’t interested, but just few weeks ago I decided to give him a chance again since I now see his message everyday on Instagram. We started talking again and he asked me out AGAIN and I accepted, he was very happy and continued to express himself “saying I love you “ , “you complete me” e.t.c it was too much that it was now sounding fake so I told him to calm down, I understand he’s very happy after many years that I agreed to date him but he shouldn’t overdo the thing so it doesn’t look or Sound fake.


I asked him if he didn’t date anyone within those years , and he said he dated two but currently he’s single , he said he broke up with the first one because they weren’t compatible, the lady was complaining about his dressing and that he can’t change that because in his words “HE BELONGS TO THE STREET” , I was surprised that statement doesn’t match his looks and voice, I asked what about the second lady he said it was the lady who was disturbing him , and she even wanted to send him money , his friend told him to take the money and block the lady but he didn’t do it because he’s not that kind of person , but what is he doing with such a friend? 

I asked and he said he’s also very careful about the type of friends he mingles with and I said okay. 

Just after one week of starting to talk again , this guy during one of our video calls asked me to show him my breast because I’m a very busty lady, I told him no , he pleaded and pleaded saying I should trust him and he will delete it immediately I insisted and said no!

 Then he said what of the down part I also said no, and told him I’ve never done such in my life, sharing nude pics and videos and that I’m even surprised he’s asking me for such, I warned him never to ask me for such again, he apologized, the most sickening part was after telling him no he kept insisting saying I can trust him, which means he doesn’t respect boundaries.


He said he’s coming home to know my people and all that , and after marriage I’ll be relocating with him abroad, I asked him what I’ll be doing there and he said he’ll get a job for me, I’m not sure I want to leave this my company behind cause I don’t know which job he wants to find for me that can give me this money I’m getting here though I didn’t tell him that , I only thought about it in my mind.

 What happened now is that few days ago after warning him before he started asking me for nudes again, saying I can trust him and he’s going to delete immediately, because we are far from each other and he doesn’t cheat on anyone he’s dating so we should do that to ease tension, he’s the only one asking for this I’ve never asked him to show me his privates before.

 I felt irritated I just told him we are not compatible he should go and look for another girl who can be doing all that, he’s been begging since, even posting stuffs on his status, I know I’m the one he’s shading but I didn’t respond. Talking about looking for a romantic partner who will not stress him bla bla bla who cares?! He messaged me again wishing me a blessed day I just replied out of courtesy, I think I will ghost this guy again.

*Please before you ghost him, block all his numbers and his social media handles....You are very lucky you didn't send him any nude photos, 

he would have used them to blackmail you when you say you are no longer interested...

Something is really off about him my dear, please follow your instincts....