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TIPS NEEDED FROM MEN AND OLDER WOMEN



Stella and blog visitors I have to ask this important question....


 I have been married for some time now, ok, me and my husband was discussing and i saw a proposal of a colleague on WhatsApp status, i looked at the lady pics he proposed to and she looked advanced (older).

 I showed my husband and he was like maybe she is not really old and Its just the pics and immediately i remembered how this same guy used to tell us that he is not attracted to young ladies but older women. 

He should probably be in his early 30s. 

Guess my husband's response???? He was like ''Well nice decision. Of course older women treat men better than young ladies like you''. I was like have you been with one? He said yes In the past though she had a teenager daughter.

Please those of you men in the house can you share what older women do that we the younger ladies dont. I am still trying to find out these things.

 I asked him though! I also asked him if I am not treating him good enough and He said i am. So what is special about older women?? Older women please how do you treat men special?. Help a sister pls. 

Thanks a lot.



Na wah........ You are looking for tips even when your hubby confirmed that you are doing it well? Remember that one mans meat may directly be another's poison. Follow your way and not the bandwagon approach!

58 comments:

  1. πŸ˜†πŸ€£ Na real wa o and i have nothing to say on this particular one

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    1. Why now..me want to learn from u ooo

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    2. I am a lady and I am attracted to older men but myopic Nigerians will term is sugar something or being with these men for money. Anyways, I married a man who is 7 years older but to God, I love them older.

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    3. Poster stop worrying unnecessarily.

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  2. You will get older too... you learn as you go.

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    1. Blackberry, I thought this phone is outdated nowπŸ€“

      Anyway, please gist us,we want to learn

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    2. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    3. It's an antique phone 😁

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  3. Don't mind him, he's only trying to buy you emotionally. Just do everything you know it's right and leave the rest to God. Some men will always manipulate with the statement that there are more women outside looking for husbands and that you're not doing enough, whereas, they're not reciprocating half of what you're doing to them for you too





    *Larry was here*

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  4. I will love to learn anyway but as for me, the few older women I have gotten to meet are more focused,reliable and has been tested with time,trust, challenges and so on to have given them the necessary experience which they used in solving day to day relationship brohaha.

    Experience they say is the best teacher which I bow for..

    Another way round is,,Some young women tend to be more good,caring, respectful,trust worthy,calm and industrious and also make their men happy than older women due to their experiencees.


    Don't get it twisted,either older or younger, all boils down on experience...

    How do you want to know how to cook without having an experience?

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    1. Sooo uncle which one are you marrying, young or old?

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  5. You sound very insecure.

    FYI - Older people deserve love too. I don't understand this kind of close minded thinking of linking age and love. We are all humans and deserve to love and be loved.

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    1. Me sef just looking at poster like πŸ™„ So older ladies don't deserve love and happiness, abi?

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    2. My dear thank you. People sometimes behave as if the weak, the poor and the 'ugly' are undeserving of love or anything good. They will awww for picture perfect couples, and eeew when they feel the couple are not fine. Aww for society weddings and eww for simple weddings. No be life, abi we don see am... many picture perfect marriages are crashing. It has nothing to do with beauty and physical. Now it's a bit shocking to her that her hubby admires older women. pls Allow the older women get married too and don't judge them.

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  6. They knack well. That’s what men are always looking for. Most of them at least. Mtchew

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  7. Experience,simple.

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  8. Younger Ladies are still lost in fantasy.. they think they're goddess, so they put less effort into pleasing a man. They feel the world should revolve around them.

    Older Ladies are more in turn with reality. They know that no partner is more important than the other and every one love to relax and be taken care of..

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    1. Story
      Older women are more secure and will ignore foolishness

      You know where you stand with het

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  9. Instead of you to focus on building your self esteem and yourself, you’re worried about how you’re not doing enough in marriage. This is why men take you people for granted. You’ll lose yourself and become a shadow of yourself all in the name of marriage. I don’t get it honestly. I just don’t get it. Smh

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    1. πŸ‘ŒπŸ‘Œ

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    2. God bless you. I just don't get it only a comment have sent this one esteem out the window if you like allow your husband get into your head you will just loose yourself in the process,be yourself and enjoy your marriage. They are some things only experience teaches you.

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  10. You too will soon become and "older lady"
    There is no war between older and younger ladies.
    Wars exists in the hearts of those who are not at peace with themselves; who do not
    have the Prince of Peace in their lives.
    Nne build your character around Christ's teachings and stop looking for trouble where there is none.
    Treat your husband well and he will return the gesture.
    😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁🌺🌺

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  11. So what was your concern with whom a man married, how old or young?
    Don't you see that you were out demeaning another lady until it backfired?
    Check yourself well and remove the log in your own eyes first before
    seeking to take off the speck in your husband's eyes.

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  12. Older ladies don't nag. They are just easy-going, loving, and thoughtful. They tend not to argue unnecessarily and they know how to treat a man right in the other room.

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    1. Says who? My aunty is a nag and age didn't and will not change that except she decides to change.. And I've seen older women and spinsters who are nothing to write home about, experience didn't do much to them.

      Young or old it all boils down to their personality and who they are.

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  13. Your husband responded, "nice decision..." because he's not the type of man that will bash a fellow man just to make his feel better.
    He is married to you right? You are his decision.
    Now, don't let this make you feel unsecured, Else, Everytime your husband says hi to an older lady, you'll feel threatened and start calling them old hags yen yen yen

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    1. To be honest, I love how men have each others backs all the time. Women are always seeking to judge and shame, but see him saying another man's decision is cool. phew!

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  14. Please, what's special about A Generation Women ?
    Asking for my husband's friend

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  15. Please what's special about Z Generation Women.
    Asking for my husband's friend

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  16. Hmmm! Of all the wahala for Naija na older women be your problem. Continue asking yeye question you hear,she even put question mark after the older,ati awon younger women🀣🀣🀣. Dude has chosen his Spouse wether na aunty gwegwe he marry,e no concern you. Older women deserve to be loved too!!! @Dante you can not say it any better than this,I see you jare!!!

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  17. Dear Poster, let me sum it up for you... As the day goes by,you are getting older. Focus on your self yo keep getting better. No magic there. Learn from your past, present and project it in the "your Future". Chikena... Smile

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  18. Dear Poster, let me sum it up for you... As the day goes by,you are getting older. Focus on your self yo keep getting better. No magic there. Learn from your past, present and project it in the "your Future". Chikena... Smile

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  19. Older women take their sh!t but us young women don’t

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    1. Exactly, πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£

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  20. Most of you got it wrong! some older women act like babies while some younger ones axt way older.its just rhat some young fellows find themselves attracted to older ladies.could be they initial sexual experience was with an older lady or stuff like that.nothing deep.

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  21. Very silly chronicle. It's your kind that look down on older single ladies. That you found your husband at a younger aged doesn't make you better than them. Thank God for your blessings and focus on your marriage.

    Imagine talking down on another woman because she looks older than her fiance. Reminds me of the Chronicle of a married man where he and his wife finished an innocent mature lady.

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    1. As in. Very irritating chronicle. I can't stand people who are judgmental.

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  22. In my own opinion,
    Once dated an older lady and I'd admit there's something about the way they show care and attention. Whenever there's an issue she's more like the let's fix it or we fix it kinda lady. They have this fashioned way of showing care in a
    supercalifragilisticexpialidocious way and its awesome. Oh I don't want to talk about when I was sick, I wasn't just pampered I was spoilt. I remember calling her one night saying I was sick she drove down to my place at 3am just to see to it that I am properly cared for.
    Not saying younger girls aren't like this but common older ladies are top notch when it comes to caring.

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    1. Did you reciprocate the level of care?

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    2. You were most likely her sugar boy because I dont know any adult that will be using 'supercalifragilisticexpialidocious' loll even my children stopped using that term on kindergarten.

      Lolll you sound like all those tatas looking for who will spoil/pamper you and put feeding bottle in your mouth.

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    3. 21.44 but why e dey pain you?

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  23. Mtcheeewwwwe. This one is just looking for problem where there is none. Please work on your self esteem issues

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  24. Your husband wasn’t nice to you by saying that and you want to treat him nicer! Sis wake up.

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    1. Her husband wasn't nice by not bringing your fellow woman down. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ because poster thinks older ladies dont deserve love.
      Women tufiakwa. That reply was perfect she wanted to shame her colleagues fiance so she can feel good but her husband didn't indulge her now she is asking stupid questions. Poster you will also get older don't worry

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  25. Poster you are doing well

    Work on your self-esteem

    Stop being so easily perturbed

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  26. This chronicle is irritating me. A married woman with children probably is calling herself young woman. I'm Sorry for you. You thing old age is by age. I see your ego, that's why your husband prefers older women. Continue...

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  27. Poster how old are you to call yourself younger woman and how old is the older woman in question or you're assuming she's old cos of her looks. Your attitude stinks poster. Go and fix yourself.

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  28. The answer you are looking for is here, older women ignore things like this. They mind their marriages and business than having sleepless night over nothing.

    Focus on your marriage and stop looking at those who are married to older women. That you married young doesn't mean those nit young shouldn't marry.

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  29. Stop looking down at people,work on your self esteem and mind your business

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  30. Poster, you are behaving exactly like a younger lady would . Grow up already .... remember, you are an older lady to those younger than you now.

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  31. I feel the weapon older women have are life experiences they've been through various things and most times have a clear view and approach to things and people, so I guess this gives them an extra edge, I've met some older ladies and I must say I was impressed with most of em, but regardless doesn't mean younger ones aren't relevant, they very much are

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