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Thursday, August 12, 2021

Boredom Eliminating Post

 

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  1. Please 30 & above spill, I'm genuinely interested in this topic.

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    1. Don't date around just yet, your husband is in front. Chase your dreams with your legs sealed.

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    2. 1) Don't carry man matter on your head

      2) Have fun

      3) Don't lose guard having fun. You fit mess with somebody that knows somebody and it will come to bite you

      4) Chase your dream and gain plenty experience

      5) Save money

      6) chose your company wisely

      7) Be yourself, the world will adjust

      8) Don't be too desperate for marriage. Nothing dey inside head of fish like that

      9) Travel around & explore

      10) Love yourself. Don't let trends depress you. All the people that tried anorexia 10yrs ago are doing surgery for bumbum now.

      11) Whatever you do with a man, don't forget yourself

      12) Just be happy o. Youth fades!

      13) Snap plenty pictures for remembrance

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    3. Keep your virginity
      Marry early if possible
      Have all your children early b4 30/35
      Be financially stable(even rich men respects a woman who has her own money)
      Look back @ 50yrs later and thank me

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    4. 20.41 thank you because you are God? Do you realise life happens and many followed all your steps above and ended up in a different way?

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  2. Sexual immorality is a killer of destiny and a destroyer of lives.

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    1. Next time, write it in capital letters and put exclamation marks. Thanks.

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    2. Yes Jechix, she needs to loud it,shout it,cry it,yell it for the younger ones.
      πŸ“’πŸ“’πŸ“’πŸ“’πŸ“’πŸ“’πŸ“’πŸ“’πŸ“’

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    3. πŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘πŸ‘

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  3. Close your legs like mermaid. No matter what, ...Until marriage

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  4. Work hard,make your own money but That feminist shit is really shit.

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    1. You don't know what Feminism is.

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    2. I do,just not the one that’s practiced by naive Nigerian women..

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  5. Don't joke with your relationship with God, have a source of income and saveeeeee!

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  6. All that glitters ain’t gold

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  7. Abeg she should go ahead and marry him no matter how broke he is so long they two both of them love each other. My one cent

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  8. Set positive goals (this include skill) for yourself and make every effort to achieve them.

    You will be glad you did on the long run.

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  9. Build your self, job, business. Don't let any man tell you to take of the kids first, it gets frustrating with time.

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  10. Flex your life. It's not that serious

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    1. Please define flex o. Na so every body dey shout hustle o hustle o, shebi na hustle Hushpuppi and Abba Kyari dey hustle too abi??? Please ma kindly define this FLEX you are talking about o. E get why!

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    2. My own definition of flexing is to make sure you do everything, in moderation tho. Make friends, go out, party if you want to, love God, make money, learn to be independent and responsible. Stop playing over hard to get. If you like a guy, and he get sense, gree abeg. E nor too hard. And don't be judgmental. Everybody nor fit be like you.

      Life's too short to coman kill yourself

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    3. Flex can be interpreted to mean different things.

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  11. Work Hard and Smart during the 'day' to enjoy at night...Keep learning and developing yourself..Your gift keeps giving no matter the place, time or situation...Don't depend on anyone...There are no super heros, you are your super hero..

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  12. Never ever depend on anyone for your happiness and wellbeing

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  13. Don't chase your suitors away nor mock any of them. If they are not in your "class", just tell them you will think about it. And if you like any of your suitors but his height is the only thing you don't like about him, don't shut him out because of that.

    Be wise because I've come to realize that when you turn a man down and you later see him with a finer and well educated lady that respects and loves him, you will automatically see the man in a different way you viewed him before and have yourself to blame.

    Ladies, be wise!

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    1. Most valuable, the problem is that many women don't know what they want in a man.

      They follow what their friends say and chitchat about. They use it as a yardstick for cherry picking men.

      This is the reason many confused girls find married men more desirable. This man on a good day looks like Okon to them. The moment they see him with a lady that loves him, they will shook head & start fighting.

      There was this old neighbour we used to have that whenever she sees me & my husband, she will be misbehaving. Always seeking his notice. The thing was paining me die.

      I took that matter to God & started ignoring her. My child had a Scholarship exam and we flew down to Lagos for one week for it. I was afraid of my hubby falling. I prayed to God & forgot about her.

      We came back & when hubby was gisting all that happened, strangely she didn't pull any strings in my absence. My hubby said he was surprised the way that woman disappeared in seconds immediately I left.

      I even heard another neighbour asking her if she travelled that she's been scarce. I knew it was God and the fact that ME she was aiming to pepper & drag my man with; jejely travelled and left him there. Meaning there isn't much to him.

      The message here is for women to learn to have a mind of their own. Go after their own things and stop looking for a woman to add value in a man's life and they come to steal where they didn't plant!

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    2. Women generally want men that other women want. It's the inate animal instinct in them.

      If you like...tell this from now till heaven comes...a lot of women will ignore their potential suitor because most men don't come in the package they expect.

      Ladies...know this....that guy who is your age mate you are ignoring right now....will be at his prime ten yrs later when you are at the start of decline of your sexual market value.

      Most men don't reach their prime in Nigeria until age 35 or thereabout.

      The fact that you are 25 now and already have a car because you are getting favours from other older men does not mean that that 25yr old guy who is your age mate chasing you will not make it in life.

      My ex of 13yrs ago is still regretting not marrying me simply because she saw some of my pic on social media where I travel the world with my madam.

      She reached out trying to form familiarity and I politely declined any form of talks. She married someone older then and turned me down because in her words' I can't take care of her as I am not in her class'

      Well...life and times happen to us all.

      Young ladies....don't turn your future husband into guys you ignore. It's ok to be friends and wait till they become better

      Also....stop depending on men for everything. Please hustle for yourself too

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  14. Ensure you are educated to the level of 1st degree (least). Learn a skill if you are not educated.
    Ensure you are working and earning ur own income.
    Invest wisely and work on having other streams of income.
    Love urself to bits and consistently Work on ur self to be a better person.
    Keep fit.
    Network with better correct people.
    Individuals that are on the upward move.
    Define your boundaries from day one & most importantly have an intimate relationship with God.

    You go girl, others will fall in.

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    1. Wish I had someone to give me all this lecture during my early twenties.πŸ˜₯

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  15. Be focused
    Be smart
    Love sensibly (no go dey do mumu love Kon forget to add value to yourself)
    Achieve anything you're able to achieve if the opportunity is there.
    Enjoy your youthfulness.

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  16. Don't ever give e yourself high BP because of a man. They are not worth. Never give a man your all. Its always not enough for them and they will cheat on you no matter your dedication to them.

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    1. Anon 18:16 I recently found that line "never give a man your all, its never enough " to be so true and I'm in my 40s! After the last year and half, I've realised in life, just look after number one, and that's YOU

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    2. This advise is coming from someone who potentially made the wrong choice of men.

      You can't date the wrong man and expect good result.

      The advice should be....find a man that is good. They are out there. Don't let sex. Woke culture. Shine shine bobo type. Cloud your sense of judgement .

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  17. Say no to abortion..

    Concentrate on your books, get a job, learn a skill, start a business, make sure you secure the bag, travel the world, avoid married men, have enough savings before thinking marriage.

    Lastly don't joke with your relationship with God.

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  18. Never ever take care of financial responsibilities because once you start, they won't lift a finger again

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    1. This!!!

      My current problem. I am praying for a good friend that genuinely cares that will come and teach me how to wriggle out of this mess!

      I started from a place of love. But this man wan turn me to mumu.

      How he comfortably hoards his money shocks me. We have to starve like 2days b4 he will truly believe I am broke. If not; he will be waiting on me.

      Tell me, should I starve my kids just for money to come out of him? If you hide and give them. My parrot mouth daughter will give her Dada load down once he arrives and I don't want them to grow with seed of hatred for anyone through me.

      He's great. But this money issue ehn. Now I feel like relaxing and being cared for. I miss it so much.

      Thank God I even have to support well. What would I have done if I didn't? This thing is paining me so much

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  19. Have your own money before getting married

    Self love and development is important.

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  20. Be financially independent no matter what

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  21. Put God first in all you do, don't go sleeping with bfs all in the name of been woke and develop yourself educationally and skillfully

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  22. Stay away from married men,it backfires,!
    Acquire a skill.
    Go to school.do business alongside your work, it's called side hustle. Dont leave your job to raise kids.if you must, make sure your business is booming.above all,develop your relationship with God.

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  23. Close your legs

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  24. A female in her early 20s is not a girl. She is a lady/ woman. Though a younger lady/woman.

    My advice would be
    1) Put God first.
    2) Believe in yourself.
    3) Never lower your standards.

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  25. Enjoy your life

    Have girls night out, party with the girls

    Be an entrepreneur most importantly learn a skill

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  26. Don't ever get pregnant for a guy and think he would take u to the alter. If he is not ready,he isn't and sometime/most when he his. He ends up not marrying you.

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  27. Lay a foundation for a solid relationship with God.
    Acquire a skill.
    Read broadly...try to know something about everything. Develop yourself.
    If you can continue your education.

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    1. Thanks Sis❤️❤️ you've said it all

      Have a solid relationship with God and always involve Him all in all you doπŸ‘πŸ‘

      Be knowledgeable, work smart,be focused,be intentional about your life, visions and goals

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  28. Love God and keep great family bond with your loved ones. Be focused, pick a career path and build yourself up. Take on professional certifications to grow your career. Have fun but please be intuitive in what you get into. Be financially independent and when love finds you, make the decision that gives you peace. Enjoy your youth, enjoy it I say because soon enough only memories will remain🌺

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  29. Have source of income bfor thinking of marriage e get y.

    Bv Chi

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  30. Build that carrer and don't relent. Don't ever stop your carrer for any man. The man who loves you will support your dream.

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  31. Avoid pre Marital sex at all cost

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  32. Have a relationship with God

    Set goals for yourself

    Be focused in achieving them

    Youth is fleeting so be focused

    The grass is not greener at the other side( marry a man that you know loves you and not be too choosey

    Be focused, Be focused

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  33. Stella you said one. Can we increase? Thanks.

    1. Always start and end the day with God.

    2. NEVER have sex. NEVER! Till you get married. Purity has absolute power.

    3. Invest every penny you make. You can slay later. Invest wisely. Go to banks and ask for investment opportunities. Investment is life!

    4. Move to the circle of people who live the kind of life you envisage. Don't deceive yourself; if you are looking to be with decent and honest folks, don't move in the opposite circle and try to perform miracles.

    5. If you can't marry him, don't date him and don't take gifts from him.

    6. When God blesses you, first go home and bless your folks.

    7. (My favourite) Be a giver, endlessly. Pa Adeboye once said, "how far you go in life is determined by how much you give".

    8. Drench yourself endlessly in prayers.

    9. If you can conceive it, you can achieve it.

    10. Believe in yourself and NEVER give up. No matter what comes.


    Extra sheet...! Lol.

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    1. Also, eat healthy, exercise and drink lots of water. Only a healthy person can achieve anything.

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    2. Please increase the volume πŸ“’πŸ“’

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    3. Very good advice. πŸ‘ I love your number 5 as the Holy Spirit has told me that before.

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    4. This your number 5 is what I do not agree with.

      I believe it is okay to say, "if you will not marry him do not accept anything from him than saying if you will not marry do no date him".

      But saying what you said up there is like enforcing the false belief that all relationships must lead to marriage which is not always so even though marriage should be the main motive behind dating.

      Besides How do you know if want to marry someone if do not date them considering this is no longer an era of arranged marriage. You can't know someone until you get close to them to decide if they are worthy of being married to you. And i think that is what dating is about. Not a time to be collecting gifts, committing fornication but a time to study yourselves better to know if you are compatible with someone. If yes? you stay, if no? Then you leave and keep searching till you find your match. It is not a do or die thing or a must that you date someone so you must marry them.
      You cannot know who you should marry from the get go even if you have them as friends till you date them because the dynamics will change.

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    5. Enter your reply... The number 5 you said is wrong is part of what leads to the Chronicles we read on this blog.

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  34. Learn a skill it's worth it
    Be confident
    Trust ONLY GOD

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  35. You see that thing called sex,delayed gratification is your best bet.
    Get a degree and learn a skill
    Use your youthful days to serve God cause a time is coming where the responsibilities of kids, husband and extended family at large won't let you...
    Chai chai chai
    So laidis I don dey old oπŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†

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  36. Learn a handwork, don't depend on white collar jobs.

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  37. Set your goals first,before a man,and keep your leg closed,all men are Mr wrong until he married you

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    1. Then they'll still marry mr. wrong

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  38. Dating your University lover with the agreement of settling down later on doesn't always work out at the end... really if I had known, I would have been more open minded and explored more

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    1. Girl, you didn't miss out on anything.

      If you wanna explore; start where you are. There is no age limit to exploring life. The older the merrier sef. At least you are not sneaking. You do everything with your full chest!

      That relationship will help you know what is right or wrong for you in marriage. Stop regretting it!

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  39. As you make your plans in life involve God in all you do.

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  40. 1. Pursue God with all diligence.
    2. Believe in your self, you are way
    stronger than you think.
    3. That still small voice you keep
    running from. Listen that is God
    speaking to you.
    4. Never settle for less.
    5. Do not cast your pearl before swines.

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  41. When falling in love, shine your eyes, never do anything (permanent)to keep a (temporal) boyfriend.

    Be on the look-out for investment opportunities.

    Explore opportunities, at the end of the day, you will regret opportunities missed.

    Build your network of friends.

    Do not marry because your mates are getting married, take your time to pick a life partner.

    Never ever settle for less than you deserve.

    Have lots and lots of fun while you are young.

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  42. Dear, invest in yourself, not as in shoes and bags.

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  43. Dont just get educated, make you have something doing at hands before you tie the knots!!!! Dont , i repeat dont totally dependent on a man . E get reason why oooo...

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  44. Stay away from married men cos u will waste ur time dating dem wit no marriage by d time u realise all d single men r gone

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  45. Please, INVEST IN YOURSELF before investing into marriage and childbirth. Have a life of your own and please don't forget to involve God as you build your life.

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  46. Work and earn money for yourself, go out with your friends and party, catch fun, wear clothes, shoes, hairs or bags that are in Vogue, fall in love and be loved, be open to relationship, don't be scared of heartbreak, if it works out fine, if it doesn't, move on, just enjoy being in love and being loved. All these are necessary so you wont miss anything in future.

    Also get more certifications or skills that you can earn with apart from degree, this is because marriage or pregnancy/childbirth can take away your present job and another job may not come again.

    I did all of the first part and now I don't miss anything. The second paragraph is what I should have done that I did not do and it's affecting me today.

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  47. Enjoy ur life now. Look out for urself. Invest in urself in every way. Choose ur man very wisely.

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  48. 1) Don't base your worth on someone else.
    2) Know your strengths and weaknesses.
    3) Don't let other people decide your choices for you.
    4) Don't always be practical- take chances.
    5) Above all put God first in all you do.

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  49. Dear younger folks flee sin completely for a better tomorrow e.g lies, fornication, greed, fraud, envy, backbiting etc for it cripple the joy that await you at the front.

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  50. I wish somebody told me just half of all these

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    1. I agree with you,I wish I had genuine people around me to tell me this,now I'm in my 40's,still believing God because he's my last hopeπŸ˜₯

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  51. Zip up! Face your studies/career and be close to God

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  52. Be wise
    Don't inherit anyone's enemy
    Don't take what doesn't rightly belong to you
    Please away from fetish things
    Always think positively

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  53. Please avoid postinor 2

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  54. Don't joke with your relationship with God,because you cannot do with out him.
    Work hard,be focused
    Do not marry because your friends are getting married
    Study and also learn skill,
    Never depend totally on a man
    Believe in yourself

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  55. bvs thanks for the advice ooo.. make I shine my eyes Wella.

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  56. Thank you all for the advice.

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  57. Don't compete, get busy making legit money, don't pretend, don't keep malice for your sanity sake, forgive easily and above all, have the fear of God in you.

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  58. Don't sleep around it doesn't pay if possible remain a virgin till marriage.

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  59. Once above 21, marry as soon as possible. Years dey fly before you know it 30 don come and next na Shiloh. If you stay single too long, the beautiful ones are not yet born and you will turn to evening newspaper at 30. It will be hard to compete with young 20 year olds at that age and the frustration will bring varicose veins to your face, hands and legs making matter worse.

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  60. 1. Avoid sex. It may work for some but it is a way the devil uses to make you have unhealthy bonds to people. Spirit transfer is real.
    2. You have ZERO friends. It is all fun and games until life begins to sieve you all. Then you will know that even your close friend was your day1 enemy. Don't trust anyone with any secret. Keep your private life private. It will hurt to carry some things but carry them to the grave alone.
    3. This life, na you and God. Don't think that doing for others will make them remember you. Do what you can and if you can't say a firm: NO. Because all man for himself. Not even family is worth the drama.
    4. If you make money early, invest in your future.
    5. Invest in self development. Go for therapy, get a life coach, read books. These things come out later, if you don't deal with them early. Trash them from the root and have a life of peace.
    6. Pray ceaselessly.

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  61. Chase money, don't waste your time running after love. Love will find you at appropriate time. Thank you!

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  62. The 3Cs of life..CONSCIENCE, CHOICE, CONTROL..Work with your conscience. Make the right choice. Control your actions and inactions..In all fear and serve God. These are the things that will lead you through this life otherwise you will now learn to adapt and dwell with regrets. Shalom.

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