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Dear Stella,
I need a little advise and i know you and BVs will be of help.
I'm in Nigeria, can i marry a man in the UK that is separated and not legally divorced? No kids from previous marriage.
I'm in Nigeria, can i marry a man in the UK that is separated and not legally divorced? No kids from previous marriage.
Will he been able to do court marriage and take me finally to the UK?
I dont want to make any mistake i will live to regret .
Thanks for your responses. GOD bless you
If he is not legally divorced, he cannot marry you legally... You sound like you are marrying him to enter the UK.. If that is your intention, it wont happen with his present status... If you marry him, the marriage will be fake on your part and he would have committed Bigamy which is a crime , especially in the UK where the law works.
So its either this man is lying to you that he will marry you or you dont understand what he explained to you.
You need to think well before you make any move oh...
Are you desperate?? Cause it's obvious this guy is lying to you.
ReplyDeleteLet him divorce properly then you can go over except you want to be a Nigerian wife.nne shine ya eyes oo
Aunty you sound desperate. No go enter one chance becos of long throat o
Delete😆🤣😆 My overzealous and green pastures loving Nigerian men(not all though),be calming down
ReplyDeleteDoesn't it even look wonky to you? Nawa oh!
Women**
DeleteMy dear sis, na one chance, if he is not divorced legally, he cannot apply for you as his wife in uk, if he wants to marry and apply for you in UK as his wife, he should divorce his wife first, dont let him sweet talk you into entering fake marriage. Until he is divorced, no way for you. No go become his Nigeria 2nd wife aka baby mama. No status for baby mama
ReplyDeleteExactly.
DeleteLet him do the needful, which is divorce the wife before starting something with you.
And also, are you sure, you actually listened carefully to what he said to? Are you sure he doesn't want you to be Nigeria 'wife' meanwhile you have already packed your bags and luggages waiting to head to the UK???
Please conduct investigation, make sure that what he's saying is actually true.
Here's wishing you wisdom, and may you not be a victim.
Man that is still living with his wife.
ReplyDeleteYou wrote he is "not legally divorced?"
ReplyDeleteSo why talk about another marriage; bigamy?
Are you this desperate to go to UK; is UK heaven?
Seek heaven and find it. Seek the narrow way and find it. Seek the Savior that died for you and find him
and every other thing will be added to you.
Shalom 🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺
Seperated but not legally divorced? Thats a whole married man right there. Seperation is not divorce. Go find another man.
ReplyDeleteThe handwriting is clearly written.. wise up dear
ReplyDeleteMY SISTER MY TAKE
ReplyDeleteAS LONG AS HE IS A MARRIED MAN RUN ..
GOD WILL BRING A FRESH MAN FOR YOU
GET CLOSE TO GOD.
You are his girlfriend...Till he has at least started the court proceedings, you're still his. Don't delude yourself. Be contented being his girlfriend till he finally does what he needs to do.
ReplyDeleteI don't understand much about the system over there but the little I know, would love any to prove me wrong where necessary.
ReplyDeleteThere is what will call ANNULMENT in marriage which means the two parties have never being married before that's after which they are not living together for 3years and above.(with this, he can still get married to u)
But you saying not legally divorced then it means, he is still much more in the marriage and every laws of the union is still bonding on him and any attempt or attempted attempt to deceive u into anything then it's a loss on ur part and to him cuz he will be commiting Bigamy
Lastly, u sound desperate and by any chance u get to Obodo Oyinbo, am sure u will leave this dude and run after bigger fish.
Check ursef and wait for the right time
Finally is all I see🤣
ReplyDeleteStella, your answer is A1+.
ReplyDeleteAbeg let him divorce properly before you agree to marrying him
ReplyDeleteI know Nigeria wahala no dey finish but please don't allow desperation allow you get into a mess that you will regret. Shine ya eye and listen deeply to what your heart is telling you.
ReplyDeleteEverything good will come eventually.
A man legally married in the US and separated can not bring you in to US legally,he can get you a visiting visa or student visa though,but he can't file your papers till he's properly divorced,and yes he can marry you,he can marry you in Nigeria in just a party ceremony/introduction,infact Nigeria being a lawless country can even wed both of you in a church/court marriage but that man will be in great trouble if his legal wife abroad in the US finds out cos it's against the law,the law works in the US the man would go to jail for bigamy,no US consular will ever grant you visa****** I'm not crazy oo,yes I typed US cos I know the poster's catch is from the US not UK as she said in her chronicle.👀👀👀
ReplyDeleteOshey🤣🤣... na wa oo
DeleteLol
DeleteNaija girls be warned so you won't turn Stella to agony aunt,our husband's are in Nigeria now for the holidays,they are all liars,don't believe anything that comes out of their mouths,all na lori irò,deceptive abroad married men frolicking all over Nigeria with innocent girls,most of them can't leave their wives,they would lose everything.Girls borrow sense don't let them impregnate you and turn you to their naija side-piece for when they come home,abroad men are great liars and most of the time they get away with these lies cos you girls are so far away and don't know the real stories,by the time your eyes will clear eeehnnn you go don turn baby mama,lose other potential men,mess up your life and eventually move on to the next victim.
ReplyDeleteWOW SEE MEMO!!!!
DeleteI was about to ask her if she can even cope with the "40% earnings" the man would have after a divorce from his wife suppose he's to settle her. Better shine your eyes, work hard and pray to take yourself where you'd love to be and give yourself opportunity to attract your match so that you won't have to settle for "leftovers".
DeleteAnon, read and digest this properly!
DeleteIt seems as if you know the right answer already.
ReplyDeleteOnly God knows when these girls will learn,obodo oyinbo men,fear them,and they can lie like kilode,I'm sure there is so much more that you don't know,you came to us with the lies he has feed you I don'tblame you,I just feel sorry for you.doh in advance you hear,better be collecting money from him and leave the fake marriage part
ReplyDeleteAfi "take me finally to the UK". LOL
ReplyDeleteLet him be divorced legally. Also, weigh the reasons you want to be with him. Stella is right. Check yourself
ReplyDeleteSis I understand majority of Nigerians will want to run to abroad if given the opportunity bcoz of insecurity and high cost of goods and services now, but why don't u look before u leap, pray very well, and left with me I wouldn't trust a divorcee. Check well babe before u make ur move.
ReplyDeleteBabe, he doesn't have children? He wants you to make babies for him! Can't you see? He'll marry you, bear children for him. He'll go back and tell you that he'll file for your papers and boom! Thirty years your children and you will still be here. Wen e don old, e go come back. Retirement things. Lol. Find husband hia.
ReplyDeleteHe simply wanna make u his baby mama and possibly a Nigerian based wife which can never enter UK as a legal wife so far he ain't divorced
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm,this reminds me of one lady I met here, the lady was scoped just like this man dey scope poster,got her pregnant while claiming he's working on her traveling,in fact he told her she'lo be giving birth in the US,the girl.was so happy, and for the fact that she's from a polygamous family,where everyone wants to do pepper dem, the mother has announced to every one that her daughter's husband to be is in the abroad and she's joining soon,I'm sure other wives would have been telling their daughters to see their step sis , anyway she eventually gave birth here,and she had to move to the guys brothers house, na the brother wife tell her the truth o, the guy is very married ,but the wife is still waiting on God, hmmmmm this girl suffer no be small,the man will not send money to her directly,he sends through his bro, she couldn't even go back to her family house cos of Shame,after much fight, the guy rented an apartment for her, trust igala girls, they are very hardworking,this babe dust herself up, and she's selling anything sellable ,hustling,thank God her hustling don dey pay her. Abroad husband ehn fear them o
ReplyDeleteIf not that you you said Igala, I would have sworn this is my cousins neighbor. Same modus. This man is very much married. Not even separated at all. Used this girl to make a baby, and messed her up. During the loving stage, he was telling her she would own their home in Texas with him. She was busy calling his wife to make jest of her. That one didnt even bother telling her she was still living with the man😂😂😂. She don give birth, her eyes don clear.
DeleteMy story....
ReplyDeleteI met him,told me he's separated from his wife..grew in a toxic environment, wanted to leave home by all means.i fell for him,got pregnant...got to know he never divorced his first wife n now I am also separated from him.....
Poster look before u leap!!!
This is exactly what anon 15:52, wrote in her memo up there!
DeleteSorry about your ordeal anon, hope other people read and take correction.
He may be saying the truth.Divorce in some countries take a very long time.You go through separation before divorce is finalized and because of certain reasons,it may take years before it is complete in some cases.
ReplyDeleteLet him divorce properly first
ReplyDeleteShine your face! The obvious answer is always staring us right in the face! Marriage no be beans ooo
ReplyDeleteNo way poster not because he was once married but because he hasn't done the needful which is to for him to be legally divorced. Just tell him to officially get a divorced in the right way and then you move.
ReplyDeleteAll I see is a greedy person. Waiting for the man to divorce his wife because he's abroad. So the wife is not good enough to remain married to her husband. Some of you deserve what you get.
ReplyDeleteWomen are their own enemies.
DeleteSomeone who is not legally divorced can't marry you legally. Please sit him down and ask him all you need to know about him and his marital status.
ReplyDeleteIf you want peace and you want to be Happily Married,do not marry a seperated man,he isnt legally divorced yet so there is absolutely no now you can be happy with him
ReplyDeleteSeems you are marrying him to enter Yanke
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