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Thursday, September 09, 2021

Wednesday In House News

 Hailings.......










IN HOUSE MEMO


How is everyone doing? Hmmmmm so we have rich people on this Blog who have over 100 million in their accounts and they cant even use 10 million to epp fellow Naijas?  LOL

Just kidding though but i saw a comment that made me go cold!

No giveaway?


Anyway i have a giveaway and will pick someone from SP in the morning....Its just a weekend giveaway for money to buy minerals and eat Jollof rice...lol

Enjoy the rest of ya day...







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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD.

What is it with the shaming culture? I see people who shame other people as people who are insecure and feel inadequate.

When I was thin as in skinny, I was called all manner from “pankere" to “bonga fish". Then I gained weight, some people still complained saying nasty things. Before I used to keep quiet but now I have a sharp retort for anyone who dares to open their mouth and body shame me.

Thinking about it, I am also guilty and I am working on it. I used to call one of my sister “two left legs" because of the way her legs tend to go in different directions and another friend “headboy”. I might have been joking but I was contributing to lowering their self esteem but now I know better.

Recently I had the opportunity of meeting women struggling with obesity caused by medical conditions such as PCOS , thyroid issues and the side effects of the drugs used in the treatments, also the side effects of anti depressants, the struggle is real. Its very difficult to keep the weight off.

I am learning to be more sympathetic to people and keep shut when I have nothing to say. I had two experiences in the last few months that shocked me.

I went to greet my hubby at work with the kids and an elderly man approached me, he greeted me first and asked if I was “the wife”. I said yes, and he went on to say that hope I was planning to have more kids, that until I have a girl I don’t have kids yet, he asked who do I think would follow me to the kitchen.

He warned strongly that I should not spoil my boys by domesticating them. He said boys have no business doing house chores. Sincerely I was too shocked to reply, someone else said the same thing to me few weeks ago , he was the boss of a boss so I couldn’t reply but I was fuming.

Nothing you do can ever satisfy people. I am more determined to say kind words to people and be kind too.

 


Nice one!..... We are guilty of shaming either consciously or unconsciously







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GIST FROM COMMENT SECTION:


Good afternoon everyone. 

Stellz Ma'am, I don't know if you'd post this here, anywhere else or as a chronicle. The bv that lost her relationship due to genotype issue, you're a brave.

 I didn't say you shouldn't love someone oo, but don't let your selfish interest and over loving cloud your sense of reasoning. So this guy and his girlfriend came into the pharmacy with their lab result.

 They've undergone a genotype test and it was found out that both are AS. He's our very good and close customer so he thought he could come and show us their results. He handed the results over to the doctor and told him to go through it.


 After cross examining the results, the doc asked him if he's aware that they CANNOT get married, cos he is planning to marry the girl. He said yes, they've gone to several laboratories and they all showed the same thing, but he must marry the girl.


 His reasons were that, both of them are so much in love with each other and that they can't cope without each other. 

Doc went on in trying to make him understand the harm it'd cause them in future, how they'd birth mentally derailed kids and so on but this guy gave us a shocker of our lives.................. He said he was going to kill those kids!!!!!.

 He said if his wife gets pregnant and he finds out that the child won't be healthy through scan, he'd tell the doctor to get rid of it!!!! 

And if they didn't find out on time, he'll kill the child once it's brought forth in the world!!!. 

My brethrens, we were shocked and dumbfounded at once. Non of us said anything again. Even the doctor became short of words. To actually even think that both of them were laughing and shouting 'no time to waste' while he was saying it.

 I just pray for them cause I know they're just wallowing in their ignorance. Sometimes, love is not just enough. May God help us in this life.






So sad.. I dont think they both really Understand...
Their love will not last ...






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134 comments:

  1. Help, in house news is finally hereπŸ’ƒπŸΌπŸ’ƒπŸΌπŸ’ƒπŸΌπŸ’ƒπŸΌπŸ’ƒπŸΌ

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    1. Yes ooo. What a hot day..

      On my way back home from oshodi.

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    2. God bless the givers

      @poster about AS
      If the guy kill d baby, d woman might leave d marriage.

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    3. This genotype issue will continue to be an issue, and it has destroyed a lot of hearts.

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  2. Good day to everyone. May baba God bless our hustles in this present day naija...Amen

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  3. Memories remind us that nothing last forever, you can be happy today and sad tomorrow. Time is precious and should not be wasted. Enjoy life.

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    1. So true

      Hello IHN ❣️πŸ’•

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    2. All I see in today's IHN is 100 milla.
      A quarter of the tithe of that sum would do me good at the moment.

      Good afternoon BeeVees

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    3. @ebony oge
      0.01 of that 100m is more than enough
      Good afternoon bv

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    4. This is so true.

      Hello IHN, how is the day going?

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    5. hahahaha... ebony oge i sight youuuuuu... No be small thing. every body eye dey chooke eeeehhhnnn.. E go reach us by Gods grace. 100 milla no be 100 naira abeg. Baba God bless our hustle

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    6. 100million is a lot of cash. Hope dreams will come true.

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  4. What determines a person's luck?

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  5. One day it’s going to look like it happened overnight. Don’t you dare give up!!_RealTalkKim.

    AIDS IS REAL,USE CONDOM. SUICIDE IS NEVER AN OPTION

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  6. Spot on at sign out meme

    Be very conscious about it because nobody send you o

    God afternoon people

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  7. Good afternoon to y'all on here and what's popping?

    Thanks are in order to those of you that wished my sister well on this auspicious day of her birthday..

    It's a throwback Thursday and πŸ‘‹ stay nostalgic...

    A reply to Anon 09:41 via Annie and 2baba's post

    I am neither a 'tramp' nor a 'bum',Anon..Pun intended! I sure will make hay when the sun shines and you needn't remind me,Itk..F9 in English? πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜† Get at the senate building for my result and see for yourself that i always bodied my GST course with good grades without any form of cheating,salty one..

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    2. Have** Y'all shouldn't mind all of them errors and of course,i am literally tired of typing

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    3. This guy you be bolo. Complete bolo. 🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣

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    4. Happy birthday to your sister, may God bless her new age.

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    5. Real bolo. Serious dumbskull who thinks he's smart. If only he knows how stupid he is when he types. Tufiakwa.

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    6. πŸ˜†πŸ€£πŸ˜‚ Na me fit una for this blog and of course,i unapologetically love to see y'all cry me some river from time to time..E pain them! Thanks @AnneK and bless up

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    7. I think this guy just wants to be popular by been ridiculous. We know how Stella usually reward popular and some times ridiculous pple na.i really don't blame him.

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    8. varry B it's possible. Guy is a major clown in an extremely 'unfunny' way. In a few screws loose kind of way.

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    9. Amarachi with C you say? 🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣 una no go kii pesin on this blog.

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  8. Has a, see my.mouth hanging open at the thought of the couple boldly saying they will kill their babies if they're AS. Hmmm that's too wicked, instead of that let then do IUI borrowed sperm and IVf with another egg, that way both will have biological children. I dont.even.kmow.how I sound to myself but it's better than killing innocent children in cold blood. They're mean.
    Body shaming is so bad and.most.of us unknowingly or knowingly engage in it, na Hod go help is with.wisdom to stop
    Good afternoon all.

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    1. They are not worthy to be tag parents in the making...

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    2. Haaaa* Na God will help us with wisdom to stop

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    1. Hehehehe don't worry our time will come😁 the sound of 100million is giving me orgasm πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    2. 🀣🀣🀣@God when ooo

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    3. Lols Aboki. God when...


      Pretty Patience

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  10. Please how will you know that your pussy is loose abi wide? Thanks

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    1. When the prick of the guy is tiny.

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    2. πŸ™„πŸšΆπŸ½‍♀️

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  12. So I bought that snack bbn housemates are always munching in the house. I said let me enjoy small too. abeg laff wan finish me.
    I bought 2.

    If you see the air that rushed me when I opened the 1st one ehn, then come and see the snacks at the bottom like say na remnant. I poured the 2nd one into the 1st pack, e still no full.

    Can you see why I dont like buying anything in satchet???? Na konkolum you dey buy. Iz better you sell in my hand let me just go. 😑

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    1. I think I know the snack, I can eat 15 of it in a day

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    2. I don't like the taste of that snack una dey try to eat am.

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    3. 🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣 that snack na scam now! The air inside is much more than the content inside

      I buy in rolls,it doesn't even last one week😌😌

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    4. 🀣🀣🀣

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    5. Giftmoesha The Glutamate is too much..I use to like in 2019 but it started irritating my guts..

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  13. Where on earth did AS and AS genotype start to beget children who are mentally derailed?
    Is sickle cell genotype now a mental illness?
    Let's try as much as possible to be sensitive with our comments.
    People with sickle cell disease are not in anyway mentally derailed please.

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    1. πŸ‘ŒπŸ‘Œ

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    2. Same thing I asked. Well not every story is real.

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  14. The day I heard Diamond was dead, cos of sickle cell was the day I knew, no one should be so wicked to a point of marrying themselves if their genotype is not compatible. Cos it's wickedness to that child coming to the earth to suffer

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    1. Anon which Diamond..the musician?

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    2. I remember this your Diamond story. The day you shared it I had tears in my eyes from how you described the late girl. May she keep resting in peace.

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  15. Pls bvs I really need your help. I've a little function tomorrow and I need to prepare a paint of rice. But my problem is that I don't know the quantity of ingredients to buy...... and even how to prepare that sweet party jollof. Thank you.

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    1. Supernova so one paint of rice is equivalent to 5 - 6 Dericas...for ingredients...You buy tomatoes-pepper-tataste-shobo combination everything should be like 1,000Naira.Blend them with enough onions..Then you can add medium sized tin-tomatoes...Seasoning I prefer you mix maggi star and knorr cubes..Like 10 cubes in total is ok..Boil your meat with garlic and ginger...

      Cook your rice with bayleaves like 5 pieces is ok...Chop some carrots, green peas and spring onions (optional) to your rice..

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    2. Please how much is a paint of rice?

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    3. Wish I was close,I for come help u cook am😁

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    4. St. Elsewhere thank you very much for this, I'll definitely go with it. Bv Osundi who knows, you might even be close to me and we wouldn't know.

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  16. Martin pls help...

    I use Samsung A31 and i can't seem to find any app on play store that can record calls. There's no inbuilt call recorder too. Do you have an idea of the call recorder i can download that actually works for Samsung A series.
    Thank you.

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    1. Helo @14:32

      1) Use a family or friends Android phone and search for "Auto call recorder" on PLAYSTORE then download and install..

      2) Download Xender(if that phone doesnt have,same as yours) then use it to send the Auto call recorder to your own device..

      That way;you get it and also install

      Another option is go to Google and search this way

      "Auto Call recorder.apk" then download and install on your device..

      Hope this helps

      @MARTINS

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    2. Thank you so so much Martins.. I will do just that.

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  17. Una doh ooo. Hope guys are enjoying your day.

    Positive vibes only.

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  18. The Word of God says that LOVE NEVER FAILS
    Humans say that LOVE is not enough?😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳
    I choose The Word of God

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    1. Kindly check the word FANATIC. How do you guys misconstrue God's words. How, for goodness sake.


      Lovelace

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  19. My parents are both AS,My younger brother was SS

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    1. Awww... So so sorry about that... It's well... My parents are also both AS but none of us is SS... We are five children in number...

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  20. Lagos Food shopper080802861799 September 2021 at 14:43

    Hello wonderful BV's of the most high may God bless our hustle. Weekend is here let me help you buy tomatoes and pepper. A beg i go chop o school wan resume. Thank you

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  21. We Don dey cruise into hot weather small small. The sun wey descend upon me yesterday no be beans.

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  22. Welcome IHN
    I just want to get married on Saturday and Sleep!!!
    I am tired
    Please am searching for a 2bedroom flat around DLA Axis or preferably outskirts of Asaba( okpamma

    Agents have chop us die

    Goes back to baking my wedding cake😩

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    1. Sorry for the stress
      You will be fine

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    2. Don't worry dear, everything will turn out well.wishing u a blessed union.

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    3. Congratulations dear, may God bless your union.

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    4. Congratulations. God bless your day...

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    5. Congrats,your marriage shall be blessed

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    6. Awww sweetie all the best babe, happy married life in advance . Please endeavour to send our invites and cake.

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  23. Same way we have people that have 100k but cannot drop 10k out of it. May God provide for everyone.πŸ™πŸ»

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  24. It's well with me πŸ™πŸ™

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  25. You think they don't have sense, share N10m to these one kind people here, they'll buy Android phones to abuse you well well or disappear with the giveaway.
    🀭🀭🀭🀭🀫🀫🀫🀫🀫🀫🀫🀫🀫

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    1. Lolz. Be nice. We're not that bad here.

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    2. I promise not to abuse and disappear πŸ€—


      Pretty Patience

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  26. Hmmmmm,I can't advice any AS and AS to marry themselves,a friend is suffering from high bp because she just got to know her only son is SS at age 6, it so sad, she and her hubby didnt really date talk less of knowing their genotype, and she lost her only brother too to the condition, but I've seen people who live long with it, someone I know is in his late 60s now, his only regret is that he lived his early years with the fear of dying soon, so he didnt really pursue any of his dream,

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  27. Mehn everybody saying different things about SS.. it has never been a mental issues... Esther blood and genotype

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  28. Stella, I pray I get luck ,and im pickedπŸ˜‰, trolls stay away from my comment biko,na me know where e dey pinch me

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  29. They won't ask appropriate questions during first date o , everyone is running after sex . When they finally want to settle down genotype issue would be sounding like breaking news to them.

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    1. So you the amebos were inside her stomach to know the baby was unhealthy. Very crass statement.

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  31. Good afternoon people. IHN is here. The couple with AS genotype don't know what they are in for. They think is just easy to kill your own child. We are all guilty of body shaming our friends unconsciously thinking we were joking and playing around.

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  32. I pity those ignorant couples...when lab made a mistake about my parents genotypes, imagine my mom being a doctor giving birth to sickle cell!she was broken !!! Infact she became extremely conscious of everything. Love clear from my parents eyes!!reality set in. Is the the sleepless night,drugs, affection, food,precautions, emotional trauma, finace,psychological trauma.....my dere those couples will be traumatised when reality set in especially the woman. It got to a day my dad was wishing us death indirectly. My mum was so strong will to the finish that she will do all it takes.... I pity them and if I am to judge they should be locked up in prison for planning to bring innocent souls to SUFFER I SAY AGAIN SUFFER .please to everyone reading I am one and that doctors lies of when they get to 23 years that they will outgrow it! Na lie.big lies...the difference is that you will be able to manage it more because of your childhood experience, take your routine drugs, supplement,and good balanced meal daily .then AVIOD STRESS(BE IT EMOTIONAL,psychological, WORK ETC) MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY and live with people that loves you.then most importantly BELIEVE IN GOD FOR LONGITIVITY

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  33. Hmmm that last gist off me o.
    But I think I might have been guilty of such thought, like I once saw mothers with imbecile baby and I'm like oh why don't they just kill this child rather than go through this troubles, like uts not their fault they gave birth to problematic baby.... but then going into such union with both eyes clearly open and sense intact is a no no.
    Some of us are guilty of body shaming consciously & unconsciously, I'm always trying to avoid such talks so I don't body shame.
    Ndi Angels we need business giveaway o,make God bless us ehh.
    Nice day everyone!

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  34. I can relate with the woman going through motherhood post,people are always hair shaming my daughter,I always give it to them hot,she has a curly hair,I get tired of people asking me is she dada? It crazy and annoying,we should be sensitive when we don't have anything to say,just keep quiet,not cool

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  35. Story from the comment section, IF ONLY THEY KNOW.

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  36. Hello ihn 😘.
    Good afternoon everyone,hope ur day is going on well.

    Motherhood poster,just as the saying goes "you can never please everyone" me I'm even looking for what to make me add some weight,I want this my neck bone to cover up😫😫 I just want fat o,anybody can bidyshame me I no care.

    What if in the process of killing the unwanted babies,the wife loose her life,what will she tells God. Let them be there and be testing God.

    Bvs una dooh oo πŸ‘‹.
    E go surely be ✌️.

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  37. Biko is today Wednesday or Thursday?

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  38. When they start having SS children,then they will understand love is never enough.
    A friend of mine always wish herself death when she's having crises,why birth children to come and suffer? That's pure wickedness.


    😲😲😲😲@100milla, papa God abeg answer my call o.

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  39. Good afternoon people of God, be addicted to bettering yourself, that's my priority now

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  40. Always the sign out meme for me though... good afternoon people

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  41. Good afternoon.

    A grateful heartπŸ™

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  42. sickle cell anaemia carrier dont get over it at any age, it's just pure luck. I lost my friend last year at the age of 45 when I thought she cannot die again. i still miss her badly.

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  43. Chai so some people have 100 million sitting in their accounts while I'm here desperately looking for 1 million for something important. Well, this genotype issue, some people get mind o, my brother in law and his wife are both AS, the would always check the genotype of the foetus before it matures if it's SS, they take it out. I can't imagine going through such a torture and stress

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  44. I have a cousin that got married last year he is AS and the wife is also AS.they said they arr in love that they can't live without each other.

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  45. Good afternoon everyoneπŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’šπŸ’šπŸ’žπŸ’žπŸ’™πŸ’™πŸ’–πŸ’–

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  46. Please how do I create a blog name?please help

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  47. Hi pple.life is a gift,enjoy it.

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  48. Pls pple with plenty moni and do t know wat to do with it.i just nid 100k dats all to be happy

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  49. The AS couple most times when reality sets in the will divorce

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  50. Me with all the family stress n struggles am still very fat I keep telling hubby it's stress accumulated fat and it's so unhealthy.
    Seriously the way most people body shame you eh without knowing your pain n struggle ,they just open dia mouth to talk you into,unending depression, tears daily n discomfort join .its do annoying but am strong coz am still here.
    AS couples abeg make una fear God,sometimes love is not enough oooo.

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