Midweek shoutout and hailings....
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WEDNESDAY MEMO
How una dey?wetin dey happen? Those of you disturbing people you think went anon to hype themselves, what is your business? At least they are not trolling anyone and its not toxic content....Self hype is allowed with ID or as anon...I don't have a problem with that you should not as well...You can join in if you want.
You seem to have a problem with any kind of comment and that aint cool...
Abeg leave them alone, I love the hypes.....
Maybe I should join sef? or can someone hype me under anon?LMAO!!!
Enjoy your day....Stress no go find you if you no find wetin go make am find you..
Be happy and do things that bring sunshine to your day...Stop monitoring how other people choose to smile...form your own smile...
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Celebrating Non‑Toxic, Positive‑Minded Women… And the Men Who Inspire Them
Today we celebrate the women who choose peace over drama, growth over bitterness, and kindness over chaos ,the women who carry themselves with grace, strength, and quiet confidence.
Today we celebrate the women who choose peace over drama, growth over bitterness, and kindness over chaos ,the women who carry themselves with grace, strength, and quiet confidence.
And we honour the men who inspire them, support them, and stand beside them with genuine love, respect, and encouragement.
It’s a reminder that healthy people build healthy relationships, and healthy relationships build beautiful lives and they spread it on Blogs and where their footprints touch......
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FREE ADVERTS
Dont forget that i am back to empowering my BVs with free adverts slots...
This week will be all adverts and next week there will be no adverts at all....On the weekends, you can post the adverts in a stylish way inside the spontaneous morning posts for Saturday and Sunday this week alone oh.....
You can also send me advert memes to post inside in house news or SP for you...I will doing a test run of advert inside SP on Saturday if i remember.....
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CHANGING OF IDs.
I dont know if this is asking too much but if anyone wants to change ID, please just do a small writeup informing us so that it doesnt look fishy that it was changed overnight.....
My guy BV Excesscode (whom they allege that is my new fave and that i love him too much) is now to be known as BV PAPA Chucky.......
Papa Chucky abeg as dem don pin you top me so by force abeg no stain my white the way some of my former faves here do oh....LOL
Tight hugs
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DIVORCE IS CLEAN CUT: STOP LIVING A LIE FOR THE KIDS
When couples divorce, people are quick to say the child needs both parents to grow up right. That is a massive lie.
Millions of people believe this nonsense and end up destroying whatever peace they have left after escaping a toxic partner.
My parents are dead. Do I still need them today? No. Nobody actually needs you. You only need yourself. You are only relevant to people when you are useful to yourself and when others can use you. That is the cold, raw reality of human existence.
THE TRAP OF PARENTAL ATTACHMENT
Many people stay glued to their toxic exes under the foolish excuse of doing it for the children. Cut the garbage out. If a person was bad for you as a spouse, they have no business hanging around your life as an ex.
Stop giving a destroyer free access to your soul.
"Staying connected to a snake because of your kids only teaches the kids how to live with poison."
THE WAY OUT OF THE MESS
First, accept that you owe your ex nothing. Your job is to stay alive, sane, and functional. A broken parent cannot raise a healthy child.
Second, draw an invisible iron wall. If you must pass messages regarding the kids, use a neutral third party or a cold text message. Zero phone calls. Zero physical meetings. Zero friendly catch-ups.
Third, make yourself useful. Build your finances, fix your mind, and rebuild your life. Your children do not need a sacrificial lamb who stays miserable for them; they need a strong, independent survivor they can respect.
"A clean break saves your future; a fake friendship with a bad ex slowly kills your remaining years."
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TRUTH THAT GUIDE YOUR FEELINGS
·--- You can't control everything, but you can control how to react, that power is always you
· ---You don't have to be perfect, progress is better than perfection.
·--- Kindness comes back to you, what you give out often returns.
· ---Small steps still move you forward.
· --Your thoughts shape your feelings. What you focus on grows. Choose thoughts that help you, not hurt you.
· ---People matter more than things, strong relationship bring more more happiness than money or success.
· ----Enjoy today, don't wait for someday to be happy, life Is happening now.
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THINGS YOU CAN DO
** Can you walk away from what doesn’t grow you? ...It's called wisdom.
** Can you believe in yourself when no one else does? ...It's called confidence.
** Can you show kindness without expecting anything? ...It's called character.
**. Can you stay focused when distractions surround you? ...It's called self-control.
**. Can you be humble in the face of success? ...It's called grace.
** Can you be honest even when it’s not easy? ...It's called integrity.
** Can you speak the truth in love? ...It's called courage.
** Can you wait without complaining? ...It's called patience.
**Can you lead without shouting? ...It's called influence.
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DIVORCE IS CLEAN CUT: STOP LIVING A LIE FOR THE KIDS
When couples divorce, people are quick to say the child needs both parents to grow up right. That is a massive lie.
Millions of people believe this nonsense and end up destroying whatever peace they have left after escaping a toxic partner.
My parents are dead. Do I still need them today? No. Nobody actually needs you. You only need yourself. You are only relevant to people when you are useful to yourself and when others can use you. That is the cold, raw reality of human existence.
THE TRAP OF PARENTAL ATTACHMENT
Many people stay glued to their toxic exes under the foolish excuse of doing it for the children. Cut the garbage out. If a person was bad for you as a spouse, they have no business hanging around your life as an ex.
Stop giving a destroyer free access to your soul.
"Staying connected to a snake because of your kids only teaches the kids how to live with poison."
THE WAY OUT OF THE MESS
First, accept that you owe your ex nothing. Your job is to stay alive, sane, and functional. A broken parent cannot raise a healthy child.
Second, draw an invisible iron wall. If you must pass messages regarding the kids, use a neutral third party or a cold text message. Zero phone calls. Zero physical meetings. Zero friendly catch-ups.
Third, make yourself useful. Build your finances, fix your mind, and rebuild your life. Your children do not need a sacrificial lamb who stays miserable for them; they need a strong, independent survivor they can respect.
"A clean break saves your future; a fake friendship with a bad ex slowly kills your remaining years."
Copied
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TRUTH THAT GUIDE YOUR FEELINGS
·--- You can't control everything, but you can control how to react, that power is always you
· ---You don't have to be perfect, progress is better than perfection.
·--- Kindness comes back to you, what you give out often returns.
· ---Small steps still move you forward.
· --Your thoughts shape your feelings. What you focus on grows. Choose thoughts that help you, not hurt you.
· ---People matter more than things, strong relationship bring more more happiness than money or success.
· ----Enjoy today, don't wait for someday to be happy, life Is happening now.
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THINGS YOU CAN DO
** Can you walk away from what doesn’t grow you? ...It's called wisdom.
** Can you believe in yourself when no one else does? ...It's called confidence.
** Can you show kindness without expecting anything? ...It's called character.
**. Can you stay focused when distractions surround you? ...It's called self-control.
**. Can you be humble in the face of success? ...It's called grace.
** Can you be honest even when it’s not easy? ...It's called integrity.
** Can you speak the truth in love? ...It's called courage.
** Can you wait without complaining? ...It's called patience.
**Can you lead without shouting? ...It's called influence.
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Rock me tonight ( for old time sake)
Have you ever loved somebody
All I ever ask
Jam tonight
I don’t want to lose your love
Tasty love
He’ll never love you
Love is just a touch away
Nice ‘N’ slow
Do me again
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I love the sign out message
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ReplyDeleteHave y’all watched the movie ‘my 30th wedding’? What’s your honest opinion.
ReplyDeleteIs it a really good movie? Is it worth the hype?
Want to know if I’m the problem.
๐๐ yesterday when i saw it had reached 16m views i thought of you and I laughed so hard ๐คฃ .
DeleteHi babe how are you doing? Hope you're enjoying your time out.
The reason you didn't find it interesting is because of the storyline something we've seen before
DeleteAs for me i enjoyed it because of bimbo because of my love for her movies even thou i was feeling sleepy amidst it
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Good afternoon,
ReplyDeleteBelieve in yourself when no one does,that's confidence.
Big Stella..Abeg no vex. I am turning a new leaf. NO more troll it is all Love now
ReplyDelete@Stellz make I hype you with my full ID.Stella wey correct,you be the real MVP,after you nobody fit compete with you,you be the Queen,na you Queen their small queens,na you rule their kingdom.See as you dey glow,anywhere wey you touch na so light go show,anywhere wey you step na so others dey follow,You come dey shine everywhere.See your energy na,wetin thousand people dey do,you dey do am sharp sharp without sweat.Ahn Ahn,Una see Stella,una see sunshine,laughter,brains,joy and positive vibes.
ReplyDeleteEnd of hype.๐.
Good afternoon SDK and BVs.
ReplyDeleteCelebrating my self today
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