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Friday, October 22, 2021

FRIDAY IN HOUSE NEWS...

  Hailings on a lovely Friday.....







IN HOUSE MEMO


Guys guess who sent me a mail from one of the coolest spot in Europe? ( I don't want to mention Country unless she does herself)


It is BV Doppelganger, she has relocated to the abroad and has settled in and wants ya all to know that she misses you and would resume commenting soon...
She 'japa' from Naija cos her Bank Job became so stressful that she could not even visit the Blog anymore to comment, her work load increased so much that she didn't have a social life anymore.....

She is fine now and we will see her in the comment section one of these days...


In house news will be back on Monday....

Any ideas for Saturday and Sunday in house gists? What should we discuss about that will be interesting? Thank you all.








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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD


My sisters are my best friends, when I see pictures of women who have been best friends for decades, I yearn for it. In this life friends don show me shege!. 


The classes of friends that I have met are under these categories

Group 1, they have your back when you are down, they give all support and care but the moment you are fully on your feet, they begin to resent you and compete with you. They are comfortable being your friend as long as they are better than you.

Group 2, my university roommate dey this group, they are the perfect best friends to your face but behind you, they have murdered you over and over again.

Group 3. They are the leeches just there for all they can get, they are the give me! give me! friends, if you don’t set boundaries they will suck you dry.

Group 4 . Misery loves company gang, you must be broke together, booless together, any deviation from this, you start you get serious attitude.

Everyone around me have similar stories of how friends have hurt them badly at one point or the other, thinking about it makes me wonder, if we are all innocent then who is hurting who?.

I belong to a few online support group and they are fantastic, I just miss having a ride or die friend.




Ride or die friends still exist, maybe some of us look in the wrong places....






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NAZIRITES INK


I ran inti my best friend from secondary school, we met in the market when my family relocated to a new place. Was so good to see her, her facial appearance still the same, just that she has added weight, I want to believe the same goes for me too, if she was asked.


You see, Suzzy and I became friends in JSS2, very kind girl, she would share her bread and fish with me, you know right? Boarders can beg for Africa lol. 

she was a day girl.. Additionally, she was the brightest in the class, but some thing happened to her, and it was that experience that derailed her life... Guess what? Her mom died mysteriously, that terminated her education, seems like her parents were illiterate, we all know how difficult it can be to bring up a girl child especially with only the father in the picture, she got pregnant, by the time we resumed third term, she couldn't.


We decided to meet up to catch up, so I invited her over... By the time she was done telling her story, my mouth was agape. She now has 3 kids for 3 men, she works for someone at a POS spot at age 35, where she earns less than 15k, her entire life is upside down and she kept lamenting how it had been difficult to find a life partner or helper. She even fell into trouble at her work place, fraudsters came and took the cash she works with, her employer insisted she pays or be arrested. Hmmm..


After we parted ways, I couldn't stop thinking how her life shockingly changed for an unfortunate course. Even though nobody knows what tomorrow may bring, Life can be sometimes cruel.


Suzzy, from a one time best student to a completely troubled individual.





So sad...... This thing called being a baby mama eh, once you make the first mistake shine your eyes well cos if the next one happens again, the third one will happen oh... I have a friend who mistakenly became a baby mama four times and i have told her to forget about men for now and face bringing up her kids.. She said she fell in love each time... She is lucky that all four men are rich...LOL







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136 comments:

  1. Congratulations Doppelganger ๐ŸŽ‰๐Ÿ’–.
    One of the prudent ones on this blog..

    Good afternoon beautiful people ๐Ÿ’•.

    Have A great weekend all. ๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’ž

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    1. Holla Momma ❤️๐Ÿ’•

      Congratulations Doppelganger ๐ŸŽ‰๐Ÿฅณ๐ŸŽŠ

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    2. Congratulations to Doppelganger. May your relocation bring you more blessings to you and your family. IHN is here, good afternoon

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    3. Congratulations doppelganger,I wish you all the best and please represent us in the best way that you can
      Tonia

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    4. Congratulations doppelganger. We miss you.

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  2. It's raining! The kind of weather my baby loves. Would be nice to read from you again doppel. Pleasant afternoon to you bvs

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    1. Holla Momma ❤️๐Ÿ˜

      I'm enjoying the rain like this..my body don cooleee๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž I wish I'm home tho๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿผ‍♀️๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿผ‍♀️

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  3. Ihn kaabo..how una dey ooooo..d sun bad today

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  4. Pleasant afternoon

    Kisses to you Doppel.

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  5. *COLD WAR*

    I entered a bus, A woman and her 7 years old son were sitting beside me in the bus. It was raining and all the twilight girls (Prostitutes) were standing by the roadside.

    The boy asked; “Mummy, what are all those women doing?.”

    His Mother replied; “They are waiting
    for their husbands to come back from work.”๐Ÿ‘ฏ๐Ÿพ‍♀

    The bus driver ๐ŸšŒturned around and said;
    “Why don’t you tell him the truth?.
    Little boy, they are prostitutes, they sleep with men for money. Said the Driver”๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž

    The boy’s eyes got wide and asked; “Mummy
    is that true?” ๐Ÿ˜จ๐Ÿ˜จ
    His mother, glaring hard at the driver replied; “Yes.!!”
    After a few minutes, the boy asked; “Mummy, what happens to the babies those women have?.”

    She replied; “Most of them become bus
    drivers.๐Ÿ™†๐Ÿฝ‍♂๐Ÿ™†๐Ÿฝ‍♂๐Ÿ™†๐Ÿฝ‍♂

    Up till now, combined road safety and passengers are still trying hard to see if they can separate the fight between the woman and the driver.

    Me I kukuma come down and find my way, after all I neva pay before ๐Ÿšถ ๐Ÿš

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    Good afternoon to you all TGIF๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–

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  6. Congrats Doppelganger. May the land be fertile for you.

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  7. I just want to say once again, I have the most wonderful husband out there ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ

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    1. May God continue to keep him safe for you

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    2. Now I'm starting to understand why ure so hated on this blog, part of it is your doing.

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    3. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ it's my doing because I choose to praise a husband deserving of praise??? Just say u hate me and go abeg.

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    4. So shall it continue to be! Wishing you more love, joy and marital bliss!

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    5. Amen Radiant D and Every Rockin

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    6. 15.37, you won't understand what she is doing until you see the full picture.
      P.s. - people can only deceive others, but not themselves. Just sit back and chill.

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    7. @Eka, so happy for u, good men aren't easy to get. May the Good Lord continue to keep u both.
      Doppelganger, congratulations to u. More blessings on u and ur family.

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    8. 17.09. Heal in Jesus name! Heal! Stop projecting the 'miserableness' in ur relationship unto mine abeg! May God provide what is lacking in ur relationship for u.

      If na partner u no get, May God provide one. If na miserable marriage u get, May God turn it around for u.

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    9. Igbekele eyan, asan ni.

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    10. Same way you no get before that made you a foolish troll abi? Silly hypocrite wey wan disguise.

      Anon15:37,she's receiving same energy she gave out. Same way she trolled others that came here to praise their husbands and always wanted to shut them up. Let the twerp continue reaping the gbas gbos.

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    11. @Eka, biko enjoy your hubby jare, leave bad belle people wey dey always wait for ya comment. God go answer dem too.

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    12. Eka Joy, may your joy remain permanent. I'm so happy for you dear, enjoy your home, marriage is meant to be that way.

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    13. So there are good Husbands? From comments read here daily, been thinking all men and husbands are bad.

      Truly we learn by the day.

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  8. Doppel...It's nice to know she's doing great. Shout out to you, Doppelganger.

    Hello everyone.

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  9. Good afternoon...Great to hear from BV Doppelganger, Can't wait to see your comments and that of Sonia, Sabella, Ronalda and Salma soon..

    Sad news broke - Alec Baldwin fatally shot two persons on set...I think its a freak accident, same that happened to Brandon Lee..Rather unfortunate...

    Good news: Two of my favourite bands have released beautiful songs: Swedish Mafia house ft The Weekend and The Wanted...

    Saturday and Sunday In House Gists suggestions: Nutty things we did when we were kids, first food we cook when coming of age and how it tasted, Boarding school memories, places you visited for the 1st time/culture shock/strange traditions or beliefs..

    Have a beautiful weekend and Friday...Get groovy and jiggy guys *in Paris Voice*

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    1. That Alec Baldwin news about him shooting someone mistakenly broke me
      Congratulations to you Doppelganger, I pray everything works out fine for you

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    2. Lol ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ have a groovy weekend Sweetheart ❤️๐Ÿ’•

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    3. Sad news.. The man was distraught after the incident.. He needs all the support he can get.. ๐Ÿ˜”

      Beautiful topics that you have suggested.
      Have a blessed weekend ๐Ÿ’–

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    4. What's the law on cases like these, will he be charged for manslaughter?

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    5. I second you St. Elsewhere.

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    6. I can't wait to have all those you mentioned back on the blog. I miss them so much. Kisses ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜š๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’• Sabella, Doppelganger, Ronalda, Salma, Andromeda...

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    7. Village people loaded the gun

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    8. I third the ihn suggestions

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    9. What is a loaded gun doing on set?! That's what I'm still trying to understand.

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  10. Cold afternoon everyone. Hope our day are going well. May our hustles pay.happy weekend lovelies

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    1. Congratulations Doppel.
      May the odds be in your favour๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—

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  11. Good day everyone. IHN is here!!

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  12. Congratulations Doppelganger...Its raining cat and dog here in Alausa...This thing came again to make me sad.But I refuse to give up cos am assured of his promises..

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    1. Correct hot sun dey shine for lekki

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    2. It'll come. Soon.
      Please continue having faith.

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    3. No rain at our end. Lagos na wa!
      Congratulations Doppelganger.. May the land favour you.

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  13. Nazirite ink your story touched me. May God come through for your friend. Life is unpredictable

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    1. As in... the way it will shock you ehh...๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ
      That is why I don't brag or boost and I try not to look down on anyone regardless of their present lowly state.

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  14. Congratulations Doppelganger. May that new location favour you.

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  15. Welcome to naija Perxian. Good to know hear from you Doppelganger.

    Good afternoon y'all
    ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•

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  16. SHOUT OUT TO @PARIS SAVANNAH.. HAPPIEST BIRTHDAY TO YOU! SORRY IT CAME LATE.. I'VE NOT BEEN STABLE ON THE BLOG FOR DAYS NOW.. WISHING YOU EVERYTHING GOOD LIFE HAS TO OFFER ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ’•

    MY DARLING CHOC ๐Ÿซ ๐Ÿค—.. CONGRATULATIONS TO YOU ❤️ ❤️ ❤️! GOD BLESS EVERY STEP YOU ARE ABOUT TO TAKE IN YOUR LIFE.. YOUR UPCOMING MARRIAGE WILL BE ONE OF THE BEST DECISIONS YOU'VE MADE IN LIFE! LOTS OF LOVE ๐Ÿ˜ ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

    @DOPPELGANGER.. MORE PEACE AND WINS FOR YOU, HAPPY TO HEAR FROM YOU AGAIN! CONGRATS ๐ŸŽŠ ๐ŸŽŠ


    STAY BLESSED Everyone ❤️❤️

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  17. Very good Friday afternoon.
    Congratulations to Doppelganger on her japa success. Her blog name was the first time I saw the English and read about it on Google.

    I hope we all have a great weekend.

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  18. Congratulations to you Doppelganger.
    Good afternoon everyone

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  19. Congratulations Doppelganger...please share the process for some of us that want to start the journey

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  20. Rain⛈⛈⛈⛈.


    Congratulations doppelganger,may your new place favor you.

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  21. IHN is here... Good Day All

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  22. Good afternoon people. A very cold day in the city of Warri. I trust we're all doing great.

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  23. I am just coming from toolzo post and I saw where some bvs were having an argument. Someone said she does not like her.
    Personally I think it okay not to like everyone besides not everyone is going to like you. Even you you don't like everyone either but what scared me was when I scrolled down and saw a very deadly comment wishing death upon a fellow human.

    please let us learn to disagree constructively on here. The same mouth we use to call God should not be used to wish death on anyone. We do not even know who we are fighting on the other end of the internet. Sometimes life is intertwined. It is hard to believe but it is true. That person could even be your future boss, employee, BIL, SIL, destiny helper or future friend but you have rained curses on them before you met. let's be careful with our words.

    It is not that serious. someone you do not see you do not even have an idea who they are. Why the anger?
    Please, no insults.
    I come in peace.

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    1. Reminds me of someone I know that will be cursing and wishing death on herself if she was the one that did xyz, but guess what? She did. I'm not moved by such shenanigans. It's usually guilty people that are quick to do such.

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    2. That anon is not mentally okay, harbouring that kind of hatred and bile towards someone she doesn't even know. Too many sickos walking about the whole place. Smh

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    3. Are you begging them? Let them insult nau. Who has it ever killed? Even if you only type greetings on this blog, they'll insult you. Just drop your comment and leave the vultures to feast.

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    4. God bless you for this. I don't understand the contempt and hatred people feel for someone they don't know and has done nothing to warrant such negative emotions.

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    5. Castle dear, that is the spirit ๐Ÿ‘Œ let them knock themselves out.

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    6. Honestly I saw the curses o, I'm still wonder why someone that his or her prayers is still not answered will now think God will be wicked to answer their evil curses on people, instead to use the energy they use in cursing to say positive things into their own lives. Cursing g untop someone that doesn't know about your existence, o ma shey o

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    7. People dropping horrible comments for others ehn, na God go help them. They are so many here. What will they teach their kids about bullying? We know times are hard, but it is not enough to take it out on others. Change, if you are on this table.

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  24. Suzy is a typical example of what can happen to anyone
    Don't boast about tomorrow because of your natural endowments;intelligence, beauty etc
    Best way to avoid being a baby mama?
    Avoid fornication
    Best way to avoid abortion?
    Avoid fornication
    Best way to avoid STD?
    Flee fornication๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ณ

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    1. Best way to avoid STIs?
      Use a condom
      Best way to avoid being a baby mama?
      Postinor

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    2. Zosef, ANG is right though
      Positinor and condoms are not 100%
      So abstinence is the best way

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  25. Good to hear from doppelganger, congratulations on her relocation. My husband just found out yesterday that his account officer too don japa to UK, abeg how people dey arrange the papers na, man pikin don tire for this country o.

    It's a wet afternoon from this side, hello everyone.

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  26. I would say we should vet friends the same way we do with relationships. Don't let your guards down and put your whole heart to it before you can boldly vouch for their loyalty.
    How a friend treats others will eventually roll over to you so form friendship with people who are generally kind to all and not just to you.
    Most friendship gets ruin because no one applies the golden rule. When you reciprocate your friends kind gestures you get a mutualistic friendship. No one feels slighted, cheated or feels taken for granted.

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  27. Congratulations Doppelganger, enjoy the fruit of the land.

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  28. God has showed up for me when everyone around me deserted me. After 6 good years!I am pregnant!it's still like a dream..

    I will write to Stella to encourage all TTC about what I did differently.

    Pls my fellow bvs, when do I start telling people who genuinely prayed and still praying.. that God has answered us. Especially those in other States who might not see my babybump as it has started showing. I'm 6months gone.

    The most sensitive for me now is my very close friend, she has been TTC for 10yrs. We always pray and encourage each other.. She resides in another state.

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    1. Wow This is good news ..I am so freaking happy...Oh Lord thank you for wiping away your tears; Don't worry your best friend is Next she will receive her miracles...Abeg give way make I dance and komole ๐Ÿฅ๐Ÿฅ๐Ÿฅ๐Ÿฅ๐Ÿฅ๐Ÿฅ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ

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    2. Pls tell them after you have delivered. The closest ones to you, you can tell after 5 months. Pls do not keep it from ur TTC friend. Tell her, let her rejoice with u and tap from ur blessings.

      May God keep ur pregnancy and may u come back here to celebrate the news of her birth.

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    3. Congratulations. I love good news.
      The happiness and relieve that one feels when God grant one their hearts desire after so long is indescribable yet beautiful. I have no advice concerning your question. I just came to rejoice with you.๐Ÿ˜„
      God will surprise your friend too. She should hang on to him. He never fails.

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    4. Wow, congratulations! It's a very sensitive thing. Tell them now since you're far gone already especially as they are your prayer partners. Please don't let them find out in their own especially the ttc lady. May God come through for her like he did for you

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    5. Am so happy fr u,pls tell us what u did differently,I don't tink u shld announce,wen u gv birth they will hear it,may God answer answer ur frds also and everyone of us looking up to HIM,HE will show up fr us.

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    6. Congratulations to you... I pray that God's love and grace would cover you and your baby till full term.

      You should share the good news with them so that they can also tap into your testimony.

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    7. Congratulations to you. The good Lord will visit your friend also.

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    8. Wait till the baby ๐Ÿฅ comes.

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    9. Congrats madam. Pls keep it to yourself until you put to bed. Congrats once again.

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    10. I'm soooo happy for you. I just want to cry. Congratulations!!
      God please answer the prayers of all women trying to conceive, amen!

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    11. God be praised congratulations poster..
      I tap into this,God that answered you will do mine and every one seeking this type of blessing.

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    12. The Miracle worker has done it again! Pls tell your tcc friend. No matter when you tell her she will still feel a type of way cos she's yet to get pregnant but she will use it to remind God of her own case. But not telling her will make her think the other way. You can tell a few of the others based on closeness..they will convey to the rest.thats what I did when I was in your shoes. Congrats .

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    13. Congratulations
      Safe delivery I wish you
      Pls tell only your TTC friend. Don't tell the rest till you deliver especially those that mocked you or deserted you. Those mean people even if they are your inlaws or family members, don't tell them

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    14. Congrats and i wish you safe delivery

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    15. Congrats my dear sister! May your joy be permanent! This blessing that you have received the world did not give it to you, neither shall the world take it from you! Amen! Remain blessed. You shall deliver your baby/babies in good health!

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    16. Congratulations

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    17. Way maker, miracle worker, promise keeper, light in the darkness, that's who he is. Congratulations! God will do it for your friend and other TTC women in Jesus name. AMEN

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  29. Hey Stella, thank you and I see the comments BVs. Thank you all so much, If I can help it I'd show up here more often. I struggled so hard to set up my moniker ๐Ÿฅฒ.
    I trust everyone has been good in light of COVID-19. Missed the blog and everyone ๐Ÿ˜˜

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    1. Good to have you back Doppelganger ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—

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    2. Congratulations, Doppelgรคnger . The love bless you in your new abode

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    3. Congratulations Doppelganger


      Pretty Patience

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    4. Congratulations

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    5. Good to have you back. Congratulations to you. Wishing you all the best.

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    6. Congrats Doppelganger and welcome back

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  30. African parents will never believe you are sick ๐Ÿค• until you reject your favorite food ๐Ÿฅ˜๐Ÿ™†‍♂๐Ÿ™†‍♂๐Ÿ™†‍♂๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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  31. Good afternoon everyone

    Congratulations @doppleganger on your successful japa out of this hellhole.. I hope I find the means to join the japa geng.

    These days I find myself wishing I had friends around me. Last week, Loneliness really hit me hard and I needed someone to talk to but there was no one. My siblings who used to around me were all out... going on with their lives and facing their own problems. It felt really lonely.

    I still feel a lot of guilt and what-ifs after my best friend passed on about 10 years ago.. I probably haven't gotten over it yet to open up to other people.

    Suzzy reminds me of myself... Well... Most of us never get exactly what we want from life... We just find a way to keep moving... las las we will all die one day ๐Ÿคท


    Hwaiting ๐Ÿ’ช

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    1. It is well with you Baby Kingsway ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—

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    2. Nazirite's Ink..22 October 2021 at 18:29

      Wow! It is well Baby kingsway.. Meanwhile, your blog Id reminds me of my childhood..๐Ÿ˜

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    3. Amen o... Thanks much ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š

      @Nazarite.. Lol... Same here.. That was my nickname growing up. I was so fragile and cute ๐Ÿ˜

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  32. God's masterpiece22 October 2021 at 15:30

    Congrats doppelganger

    I have never been fortunate to have a ride or die also.

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  33. I use to have a roommate whom I took like a sister, shared my pocket money with her whenever I noticed she was broke. But I never knew she was just into the relationship mainly because she was brighter than me and for me, I was just an average student and I wasn't competitive but something happened, this lady has been ahead of me in our class scores for years but felt very bad when I finished my project before her. I took a walk from the relationship but came back after a while. Only to find out that she said very evil things about me to her family because everyone of them became very cold to me in attitude, then I dreamt twice that she got married and I wasn't told and I tried asking her because I felt all the issues we had has been forgiven and forgotten, she denied and told me that nothing oh!! Only to get married the following month!!! And came back all lovey dovey acting like nothing happened. I confronted her, she apologized and I this time pretended that all was well being that whenever she calls the first thing she wants to know is if am married and once I assure her that I'm not in any relationship, she will relax and start gisting with me. I quietly changed my phone number and cut ties with anyone that will give her update about me. The sky is wide enough to contain us and our dreams so no need for the envy. Enjoy your abroad and allow me to enjoy Nigeria Biko!!!

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    1. I have had several bad experiences with friends, this is always my story, competing with me, emphasizing areas they feel they are better etc. In some cases, it starts with admiration, then slowly, resentment, envy and bitterness creeps in. I don't even bother with friends any longer, I'm nice and polite but distant, people feel offended at first and think you are proud but eventually they'll understand that this is my life. No more drama and betrayals!!!

      It's really nice to have friends sha but I have accepted that it's not for me and made my peace with it.

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    2. 17.28 I pray you find a true and loyal friend one day.

      My ideal is to have good friends but my policy has always been it's better to have no friend than a bad friend. I have very few friends but they are good. I'm grateful for it.

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  34. Nazirite, hope you know that her story can still change for good.

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    1. Nazirite's Ink..22 October 2021 at 18:27

      Of course.. Invited her to church a couple of times, she came once. I pray for her and wish her the best.

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  35. I think some people are quick to get pregnant. Any mistake, leads to pregnancy.
    My first pregnancy , I was still a virgin, naive and the guy came in my thigh , na so belle enter o

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  36. Beautiful wet afternoon to y'all lovelies.

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  37. Congrats Doppleganger e no easy to japa from 9ja.........GOD WHEN

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  38. @Nazarite Ink! Your story broke me,God can still give her a new beginning,I pray God comes through for her,very sad

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  39. Congrats doppelganger,may the abroad favor you in Jesus name

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  40. Welcome back Doppelganger,And congrats on your successful japaing.

    Where's Sandy Neky and Chikito, hope y'all re fine.

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  41. Nazirite Ink... May God come around for suzzy and everyone going through tough times.

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  42. Eka, I wonder when you will receive wisdom.

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    1. Na people like you dem dey talk about for Toolz's page. Abeg where ur own wisdom?

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  43. Pepperdem, pepperdem, that is how pepper enters some people's eyes.

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  44. Wow... congratulations bv Doppelganger

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