FRIDAY IN HOUSE NEWS...

  Hailings on a lovely Friday.....

IN HOUSE MEMO

Guys guess who sent me a mail from one of the coolest spot in Europe? ( I don't want to mention Country unless she does herself)

It is BV Doppelganger, she has relocated to the abroad and has settled in and wants ya all to know that she misses you and would resume commenting soon...

She 'japa' from Naija cos her Bank Job became so stressful that she could not even visit the Blog anymore to comment, her work load increased so much that she didn't have a social life anymore.....

She is fine now and we will see her in the comment section one of these days...

In house news will be back on Monday....

Any ideas for Saturday and Sunday in house gists? What should we discuss about that will be interesting? Thank you all.

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD


My sisters are my best friends, when I see pictures of women who have been best friends for decades, I yearn for it. In this life friends don show me shege!. 

The classes of friends that I have met are under these categories

Group 1, they have your back when you are down, they give all support and care but the moment you are fully on your feet, they begin to resent you and compete with you. They are comfortable being your friend as long as they are better than you.

Group 2, my university roommate dey this group, they are the perfect best friends to your face but behind you, they have murdered you over and over again.

Group 3. They are the leeches just there for all they can get, they are the give me! give me! friends, if you don’t set boundaries they will suck you dry.

Group 4 . Misery loves company gang, you must be broke together, booless together, any deviation from this, you start you get serious attitude.

Everyone around me have similar stories of how friends have hurt them badly at one point or the other, thinking about it makes me wonder, if we are all innocent then who is hurting who?.

I belong to a few online support group and they are fantastic, I just miss having a ride or die friend.




Ride or die friends still exist, maybe some of us look in the wrong places....

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NAZIRITES INK


I ran inti my best friend from secondary school, we met in the market when my family relocated to a new place. Was so good to see her, her facial appearance still the same, just that she has added weight, I want to believe the same goes for me too, if she was asked.


You see, Suzzy and I became friends in JSS2, very kind girl, she would share her bread and fish with me, you know right? Boarders can beg for Africa lol. 

she was a day girl.. Additionally, she was the brightest in the class, but some thing happened to her, and it was that experience that derailed her life... Guess what? Her mom died mysteriously, that terminated her education, seems like her parents were illiterate, we all know how difficult it can be to bring up a girl child especially with only the father in the picture, she got pregnant, by the time we resumed third term, she couldn't.


We decided to meet up to catch up, so I invited her over... By the time she was done telling her story, my mouth was agape. She now has 3 kids for 3 men, she works for someone at a POS spot at age 35, where she earns less than 15k, her entire life is upside down and she kept lamenting how it had been difficult to find a life partner or helper. She even fell into trouble at her work place, fraudsters came and took the cash she works with, her employer insisted she pays or be arrested. Hmmm..


After we parted ways, I couldn't stop thinking how her life shockingly changed for an unfortunate course. Even though nobody knows what tomorrow may bring, Life can be sometimes cruel.


Suzzy, from a one time best student to a completely troubled individual.

So sad...... This thing called being a baby mama eh, once you make the first mistake shine your eyes well cos if the next one happens again, the third one will happen oh... I have a friend who mistakenly became a baby mama four times and i have told her to forget about men for now and face bringing up her kids.. She said she fell in love each time... She is lucky that all four men are rich...LOL

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