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Wednesday, November 24, 2021

Frequently Asked Questions On Stella's Blog

 In This segment, questions are asked and the comment section provides the answers if there are any.....

We also have some Blog Police in the comment section moderating that you don't come here to ask jargon...




129 comments:

  1. Please who has recommendations for good water filter in Lagos. Thanks.

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    1. Who knows any physiology and therapist in port harcourt.............if possible a Godly christian

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  2. Is it right for a husband to always stop the wife from attending functions like wedding, visiting her family etc?
    You must inform him a month or two before and wait for the approval which most times is not approved. But he goes anywhere he wants even without informing his wife most times.
    How can one stop this respectfully?

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    1. Stop waiting for approval. Go first then inform him on your way there. If he gets angry, apologise that you forgot.

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    2. very wrong and that is a red flag for an abuser.. Why will a husband not allow the wife attend functions and even visit family? they keep you caged to detach you from any form of help and leave you at their mercy also that nobody will advise you against their abuse.. you need to stand your ground but the person should be ready for stiffer sanctions which might be more abuse. if this happens then family members should be involved because a man who does this will most likely be a difficult personality. even if you respectively tell this kind of man he might not listen because it is a mindset he is stuck with...

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    3. It's not right for a husband to always stop his wife from attending any functions whatsoever

      You can stop it by having a thorough discussion with him and if he truly loves you and wants your happiness he'll grant your request...best of luck

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    4. this i think boils down to communication...ask him thoroughly what he wants
      it is a red flag that should have been discussed

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    5. This is a master/servant relationship.
      Change the dynamics of the relationship to partners.
      Does he also dictate what you eat, wear and talk to?
      Slavery.

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    6. You are in a master/servant relationship.
      Change the dynamics of your relationship so that your husband resets his brain and treats you like an adult, not a toddler.

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    7. Please,can anyone recommend good worship songs and where I can download them from? Thank you!

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    8. Anon, it is definitely not normal or OK. You are deserving of so much more. This screams like a Master/Servant relationship. Have a talk with him. Communication helps. I hope he changes cos I do not see how you can live this way for the rest of your life.

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    9. This life nor just balance knowing my hubby is always complaining that I don't socialize by going out for events and meeting people and dont always visit my people

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    10. Heavy red flag oh!!! Someone who has good intentions will not have a problem with you relating with your friends and family reasonably well, it's those that have bad intentions that will be angry so that nobody will have access to advise you against his antics, if I were you, I will table this matter to him respectfully and if he doesn't see reason with me, I will call for a family meeting.

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    11. This is a dictatorship system of marriage (master/servant) very soon abuse will enter,if he says don’t go and u go it might result to beating or him locking u out.only a wicked man will stop his wife from visiting her family members or attending family functions,he wants to alienate u so that when the proper abuse starts no one will come to ur rescue cos they will believe that u intentionally stayed away from everyone.poster please sit him down and have a conversation with him,stand ur ground,u need to socialize and u need ur family members,don’t be rude tho when talking to him,be polite then when he refuses to agree to ur request let him know u can’t stay away from ur family.its not healthy,anything can happen tomorrow and u will have no one to go to.May God give u the wisdom to handle things.

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    12. It is utterly wrong your husband to stop you from attending any gathering haha,you are an adult and not a child, telling your husband about your movement is out of respect now. I believe he is doing it intentionally to shut you out from Friends and family members.
      You need to have a deep and serious conversation about the issue with him.For now let's assume he doesn't know that what he is doing is wrong, please have a long talk with him about this, you are his wife not a baby.
      I pray God guide you ,❤️

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    13. This one na modern day slavery, because the way I perceive this your husband it's only the violent that can take it by force.

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    14. Anonymous24 November 2021 at 13:12...he may be afraid not to loss you...solutions

      *prayer * prayers *prayers *prayers *prayers and fasting.....i promise you in the next 3 month, he will change....try it and see

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    15. Not to lose her to her family as well?

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    16. Anonymous, thread carefully. If you know you cant afford a fight, dont pick one. But if you can, pick it with your chest. Let that thing happen

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    17. Sit him down and talk to him about it. You should have resisted it and let him know you won't take it the very first time he did it but it is not too late to make amends. Discuss it with him, if he doesn't change, like if he scatters everything and gets angry instead (most likely what will happen, Naija men things 😀), report him to a reasonable elder that does not share his views (some elders will ask you "wetin you sef dey find outside?" 🤣).
      In all, be wise in handling it since you did not say he is an irresponsible man, that is just what he does right? Don't let it break your home.

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  3. #Asking for a friend#

    Who knows any free rehab for alcoholics in lagos, a friends brother is disgracing the family so much, they are tired of taking care of him, cos after drinking he passes out or begins to jerk, he has to be rushed to the hospital each time, and it's beginning to cut deep into their pocket.

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    1. you can bring him to OPM in port harcourt

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    2. Im scared of having kids at this ratee

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    3. Ano 15:30 ok let me inform my friend, thank u

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    4. Anon 16:20 eeeyah don't be

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    5. Soak beans in water for 3 days and force the liquid down his throat. He'll never drink again

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    6. Aro psychiatric hospital has a fantastic programme for alcoholics

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  4. Pexian, could you please remind me of that fertility combo and how it should be taken?

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    1. Hi, Anon.

      The ones I took were two types: The cinnamon x honey combo to be taken every morning starting 4 days to your ovulation till the start of your period.
      That’s 2 tablespoon of honey and half a teaspoon of cinnamon.
      Then

      The cinnamon, honey x milk tea (must be taken hot) starting from the day your period started to the last day.
      Heat a cup of tin milk, add a pinch of cinnamon and a teaspoon of honey .

      (I also took nutmeg and sugar combo but it was for my scanty period)
      Both are best taken on empty stomach. I pray you get your miracle baby soonest. 💛

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    2. Thank you Persian. please is it to help ovulate? I'm not the annoy who asked but want to also try it

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    3. 14:47 It’s for fertility, it helps you to conceive.

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    4. @Persian pls how and when do I use the nutmeg and sugar combo I also experience scanty period

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    5. @Persian pls how and when do I use the nutmeg and sugar combo I also experience scanty period

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  5. Please does using a toilet caused infection? I used a public toilet today. I didnt sit on it or noticed any splash water. But I got home an hour later, washed up. Is there any need for concern?

    Being pressed in a public place, can make you throw all your self away, I was sweating, even prayed no way. Today experience e go they were I go forget oh

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    1. Please next time buy a disposable plate from those road-side food vendors for #50 or #100 or you enter a fast-food and get one...

      There are different sizes that can fit into a Ladies bag,so when it's time to use a public toilet for emergency like this;you use it to urinate then pour into the toilet and dispose it in the bin..

      It's more hygienic that way for you as a lady..

      Hope this helps..

      @MARTINS

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    2. Yes using a public toilet causes infections, yes there might be need for concern, but you can take some antibiotics to prevent anything that might want to arise

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    3. Martins, the poop or pee fit pass d disposable plate .😁

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    4. 😃😃@Blackberry;then you double or triple and put them together in your bag(they always fit in)..


      A ladies body is so sensitive and the least you need is the air around a public toilet breezing in and out of the Vagina,anus etc..

      The #200 or #300 to get a disposable plate is cheaper compared to treating any infection gotten in future..😊😊

      @MARTINS

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    5. Public toilet doesn't cause vaginal infection. Except you sat inside the water for minutes.

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    6. Poster there's no cause for concern in your case. Please don't use any antibiotic as you don't have a bacterial infection.
      NB: There is nothing called 'toilet infection', most of what we loosely call toilet infection is actually thrush aka candidiasis, or at worse vulvovaginitis due to bacterial infection.

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  6. Currently learning professional makeup but my challenge is getting models. How can I go about this? I even offer 500 to those that come. I stay in phc

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    1. Don’t you have friends or family members?

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    2. Advertise on any of mark app.

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    3. @ Anon 13:45 I can be your model depending on the area you stay in ph

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    4. go and do complimentary card, share with your friends and family members

      * still use your Facebook, whatsapp status, Instagram,

      *do a makeup video and post on tiktok..

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    5. there is an event i attended in etche (Port harcourt) in 2019 called the face of etche..where more than 20 ladies (models) will content for the "face of etche". go and find out about it, look for the organisers and discuss with them....don't forget to pray before going, so that GOD will go ahead of you to make you ways straight...just a suggestion

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  7. Please who can give me a step by step format to obtain visa to United kingdom for further studies?the applicant is a graduate of food science and technology and is married. We tried applying for Poland but she was denied visa,we want to try UK this time but we want guidance from people who have gone through same route on how to go about it including how much finance in the bank account we will furnish. I am really really expectant 🙏🙏🙏

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    1. Hello 13:47 here's wishing you a positive response.
      Plan B is highly recommended now.


      BUT, you can as well as Google, to have a general idea of what it entails.

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    2. This is done for free. Do not pay anyone as they get commission from UK schools. Check out Instagram pages such as UKEAS.

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    3. Poland also denies people Visas?....mhmmmm

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  8. please who has successfully controlled high blood sugar with herbs? i just started taking medication though i do not want to because of long term side effects...i have started to change my lifestyle (eating and exercise) and praying for healing too, I just will prefer to take something close to nature alongside... kindly let me know what you took.

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    1. 1. Bitter leaf water first thing in the morning and last thing at night 2. Moringa seed, 2 seeds, chew proper and swallow with water first thing before eating. 3. Peppermint tea, dont take drug when taking them. Also Chamomile tea after meal especially last meal at night.

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    2. What exactly are you afraid of that uppity wasn't to start taking herbal medicine and damage your kidney?.

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    3. i used okro water to control mine, i take it first thing in the morning before eating anything

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  9. Noticed each month I am menstruating, my legs will be very weak like blood is not flowing in them. I sometimes finds it difficult standing for long. I don't know if its something I should be worried about and is there any treatment for it. please going to hospital now will require me doing Xray and I cant afford it now. Any other remedy?

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    1. solution..
      *Drinking a lot of water is always important...
      *Fruit. Water-rich fruits, such as watermelon and cucumber, are great for it
      *Avoid salt, sugary foods, caffeine, and alcohol during periods or two weeks to your period
      *Sleep at least 8 hours per night...try nap too.........

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    2. Take vegetables and blood supplements whenever u are on your period. You need to boost your blood count at this stage.

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    3. Take bcomplex vitamins for a month

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    4. Maybe try using blood tonic for a while.

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  10. What happens to ones natural hair if you use texturize. Does it remove that natural hair feel?, do I need to make it a regular routine?, or once is enough to soften the hair. Does it stimulate hair growth?
    I need answers to avoid mistakes.
    Then lastly, how do I make natural hair grow and soft for easy combing

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    1. Anon 14:04 the texurizer will make your hair a bit softer and slightly relaxed. After weeks it will go back to it's natural stage. However if you terrorise too much your hair will loose it's texture. Better deep condition and use jack 5 moisturiser instead of texturizing. Applying water to your hair morning and evening then twinting before bed will make it very soft. Avocado and coconut oil help also.

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  11. I have a very big blister on my right heel. it started like a small dot. now it has grown so large. it's not painful but itches me from time to time. after the itching it expands. what do I do please.

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    1. @Anon 14:14 It might be poison you mistakenly step on. Your early morning urine would've solve that at the early stage or snake oil.

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    2. Ogini nafio. We have dibias on this blog oo

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    3. Go to a hospital and stop playing with your health dammit!!!

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    4. Go and test for diabetes hba1c test ASAP no be only snake oil monkey oil nkor ?

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    5. @Anon16:13 and 16:26 Google is your friend. You can Google the benefit of snake egg. It serve as an antidote to poison and many other things

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    6. If the hospital cannot find a solution, go the native way, it might be jazz. Tell your mum, sister or aunts. I have seen it happen to someone before and the leg started rotting until they had to cut it.

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  12. Please recommendation on where to get a very good and no too expensive (company price) good brand washing machine here in Lagos.

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  13. Stella please post, guys why is my opera mini browser not browsing even when it indicates I have been given 50mb free, I have deleted the app n reinstalled, yet still facing the same issue, please help

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    1. From what I have read and heard both on this blog and outside, it doesn't work for some people. Probably the phone or your area is the cause

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  14. What can be use for bloated Tommy and indigestion?

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    1. Get clovr basil ( scent leaf) about 5 leaf chew thrm in the morning and drink water . You need to watch what eat daily eat more Roughage , learn to drimk more water daily . It is

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    2. Chew on antacids like Jelosil or take Gestid.

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    3. Missionary sex

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  15. Please, my wig is not human hair and l have been using oil on it for the past one year. What should l do to it, as in to make it smell good? Wash?

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    1. Yes. Wash off the sweat,dust and build up of oil.

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    2. Use shampoo and conditioner to gentle wash and blow dry.

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    3. Thank you Anon and Sexy Hips

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  16. Please, my Bp is high like 172,but i learnt that once you start taking BP medication, you won't stop.

    Please i need clarification on this. The headache is terrible.

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    1. Well I suggest you visit a hospital

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    2. There are many herbs that you can use but you need to observe yourself what trigger it . Some
      To much stress
      Anxiety
      Thinking
      Heredity
      Taking to much salt
      Eating junk foods.
      Body system are different so you need to know what trigger yours.
      On what to use
      1) mistletoe tea
      2) Bryophyllum pinnatum leaf (abamoda) you can get it and plant daily chew the leaf or boil and drink like tea in the morning
      3) clove basil take as tea
      4) bitter leaf juicy do it once a weak. If you take it daily it will knock you off
      5) garlic also help
      6) Original raw honey
      And many more
      Use any but you have to do it religiously. Take more water
      Eat fruits and avoid what triggers it

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    3. Yes ,visit the hospital and take the drugs recommended but u have to monitor your BP while taking it. Reduce your intake of salt.

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    4. That's wayyyyyy too high. Visit a hospital now NOW. Tale whatever medication is given.
      I am female and I was also diagnosed with HBP, after I almost passed out due to terrible heart palpitations. I took the drugs for a few months, while making lifestyle changes... E. G taking long walks (6k steps upwards) daily or doing mid level exercises. I also reduced salt intake. As a matter of fact, I eat only fruits or salad for breakfast and dinner, and eat cooked food for lunch.
      The outcome:
      I lost a lot of weight (I was overweight) and my bp is uptimal, as in over normal. I no longer take medication.
      But pls go and see a doctor NOW cos with that level of BP of yours, a heart attack is imminent

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    5. Anon16:19, worse still a stroke. I dont know what they're so afraid of wey pass stroke

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  17. Does anyone has an idea of how much general body check cost i.e general check on all the organs in the body and how it's done, do I go to the hospital first for recommendations from health practitioners or just directly to the lab??

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    1. I need to know this too. Locatt is Lagos

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    2. In dept, 200k. Routine checks 50-100k.

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    3. Google mecure and make your enquiry

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    4. Ahhh🙆🙆 200k,100k

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  18. Please those who have cut your relaxed hair to pixie cut, is it difficult to maintain? I'm thinking of cutting my hair to a nice pixie but I don't like stress and it looks like it takes a lot to manintain.

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  19. Kindly help what does it take to open big icecream shop in Nigeria, advantages and disadvantages, am coming from Italy with my partners

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  20. Pls i need English names for baby boy & the meaning as well. Thanks

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  21. How do you treat a snobbish neighbor. She hardly greets but if you greet her, she will answer with her nose. No we have never had any issue before

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  22. Please make una help me, How do I get rid of gray hair. Am just in my late twenty. I don't want to use dye. Natural things I can use or should I cut the hair? Please I need your advice. Thanks

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    1. Then rock it like that. I have gray hairs too. Cutting your hair will make the grey grow more.

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    2. Nothing really.
      Eat more vegetables and fruits. But for someone in their late 20s it means, it's hereditary. So you might not have any hold on it.
      Make lifestyle adjustments.

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    3. Late 20s and my gray hair keeps spreading

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    4. I came with gray hair at birth, particular, I have a strand on each eye. Had few strands as I grew and became more prominent in my late 20's-30s to the point people point it out. I just left it. It depends on how you see gray hair and mind you, everyone is bound to have it at some point in life/near future.

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    5. CONSISTENCE use of fresh aloe vera gel mixed with onions juice, you can do it weekly then wash out. tested and trusted, it encourages hair growth, i would have shared pictures of mine but not possible.

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  23. Where can i get original honey in ph ?

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  24. please o, can precum get someone pregnant?

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    1. Which one is precum again?

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    2. Pearl its the cum before the CUM, you're welcome

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    3. Anon 18:39 if one is ovulating yes its possible

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    4. Yes it can.

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    5. the liquid on aroused dick, like lubricant.

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    6. Yes, it can get someone pregnant, as it may contain small amount of semen.

      @Pearl,pre-cum is a transparent fluid discharge from a man's peepee while he is aroused. It usually comes before the main semen

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  25. BV ella worried about gray hair, it might be hereditary.
    It can also be as a result of the following
    Consuming processed food
    Family planning pills and injections
    Alcohol
    Stress
    Avoiding the above might help get rid of gray hair.

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  26. My lovely sdk fam,Stella especially pls suggest an app or book I need to start learning the gean language,I .about applying for a job in geany that requires this,pls help a sister ooo I must Japa this country by God's grace next year o

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  27. When I eat something like rice, yam, beans, plantain I do experience heart burn, what can I do to stop the heart burn anytime I eat those food.

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    1. Take a glass of warm milk whenever you experience heartburn,within 30-40 mins u won’t even remember u had a heartburn.for me yam,beans,and oily or fried stuff gives me a terrible heartburn so I avoid those types of food.Anything that will stress my body system I basically avoid it.

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    2. Take antacid immediately after eating. Gestid or givascon

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  28. What is the requirements for getting a blog name

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    1. Do you have BVN passport or drivers license?
      Then letter of recommendation from a legal entity or religious body.
      Then your application fee.
      Simple.

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  29. Pls wat is an alternate treatment for lumbar spondylosis/bone degeneration

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    1. You should be asking a doctor not a blog.

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    2. Anonymous 03:19..

      did i tell u we've not been to a doc ?
      If u do not have an answer then smell off let knowledgeable people give an answer .

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  30. Stretching. Stretching helps build flexibility and may reduce pain. ...
    Heat therapy. To reduce stiffness and pain, apply a hot-water bottle or heating pad to the affected area. ...
    Cold therapy. ...
    Acupuncture. ...
    Massage therapy. ...
    Movement. ...
    Exercise. ...
    Alexander Technique.

    and at Anon 3,19 - you people should take it easy with others, if u have suggestions, give it politely, "You could have said, "Maybe you should see a doctor".

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