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Monday, November 01, 2021

Monday In House News...

 November hailings eeeh....










IN HOUSE MEMO

The face you make (up there) when you dont know if November will behave like October.....

So far so good huh?

May you not wake up to see yourself as breaking news and if you do , make God give you skin tough like leather to weather the storm it brings...

Enjoy the day and remember to keep the environment friendly where ever you are....


Tight hugs...




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NAZIRITES INK

All my siblings look up to me for advice and decision making, including the older ones, meanwhile i am second to last of 5 girls... This could be because I am usually blunt with my feelings and can be vocal.


There have been sensitive issues that requires the input of only an adult, especially the older ones but they will seek my approval first and will not make a move till I have consented.


My Mom did not make that any easier, she believed i am the male child among her 5 daughters, the reason for her assumptions are unclear till date. She parted with sensitive issues and secrets with me alone .... For instance, when we were preparing for her burial, I was the only one she gave her burial instructions forehand.


One of our uncle's tried to usurp one of her properties, I was the only one bold enough to challenge him, I remember him saying i am not in a position to ask him since I have older ones who should, clearly, he said that because of my audacity. Unfortunately, my older siblings were not bold enough to demand for our collective right. They think because we are all women, its okay to be feeble and get cheated on.. Hmmm... Story for another day.


As interesting as it is to be significant among your siblings, it is also sometimes overwhelming. They are not aware of that. My siblings don't understand I can't be there all the time, that i am sometimes scared too to take decisions for everyone, or give them advice about their lives, what if it backfires or puts everyone in danger? what if it hurts me, worsen things or even destroys...



So far, no bad luck, and I thank God... However, candidly, putting me in that position is mostly scary.



I can imagine your fears!








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A STORY TO ENCOURAGE SOMEONE - FINAL PART


.All thanks to God and my neighbor turned sis that I was able to come out of that depressing mood, we talked, shared the Word and prayed together.


I was like even when we were unable to fully afford 3 square meals I didn't break down. I wanted to be strong for my husband, and I stood strong.
But now that things are better at least my husband is earning for the family I broke down completely .


I realized at that point l lost the zeal for prayer.


One of the steps I took that helped me out of that depressing mood was talking to someone. All thanks to God and my neighbor turned sis whom I talked to, shared the Word and prayed together.


 I started thanking God in prayers.

Every day, both morning and night counting the things I am grateful for .
I have a verse of the Bible that helped
Phiplians4:6-7

Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

And gradually the peace of the Lord came to me
I realise that I am precious
That I am not a failure
I started asking GOD for directions


Do I have everything I desire now? CAPITAL NO!!
Like a Job or MONEY 
Infact for months nobody has been saying hi to all my adverts.


But I have peace...
I have a loving family
So daily I count my blessings and thank God for it.


PLEASE LADIES IT IS IMPORTANT WE ALL STRIVE TO BE FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT,TAKE IT FROM A WOMAN THAT HAS TASTED BOTH SIDES OF BEING DEPENDENT AND INDEPENDENT.
PLEASE THE LATTER IS THE BEST BIKO


THE END...




Thanks for sharing your story...




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GOOD HOSPITAL NEEDED


Good afternoon Stella and Bv's ..

Please mothers and medical doctors come to my aid. I am 38, pregnant and I have multiple fibroids.



 I went for ante natal when I was 6 weeks, I was given vitamin c, calcium, folic acid, multivitamin and Bco to be taken everyday by a nurse. I took it in the morning next day, I had a serious pain below my abdomen, I thought maybe it was a coincidence, then I took it in the afternoon again, that night I couldn't sleep due to pain.


 So I left the drugs with the intention to see the doctor in my next ante natal visit. On my next visit I complained to the doctor about the drugs, after scanning me he said the pain is due to the fibroids, he gave me paracetamol and ibuprofen to be taken along with the ante natal drugs I listed above. Are these drugs not too much for a pregnancy of 11weeks? I am scared of taking them but I have been taking folic acid before and after I conceived. 


If anyone knows any good hospital with good gynecologist in Awka, please drop the address, I am new here. I want to change hospital ASAP. Thanks




Please recommend a good hospital if you are in Awka and know any...Thanks.






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113 comments:

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    1. Pregnant woman looking for another hospital.

      The drugs are not too much for an 11weeks pregnancy. You have fibriod and the pain is not beans but if you're scared I'll advise you skip the ibuprofen and take just paracetamol. The other drugs are multivitamins and your baby needs them.

      The only thing another hospital will do for you is to recommend one prenatal vitamin that has all the above drugs in it.

      Be calm and brace up for the pains the fibriod will bring ahead.

      You will be fine

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    2. Nazrite, I feel you. Mine was so worse that my family refused I won't marry because they will lose their family adviser. I later left for marriage with strong head. Today some don't speak to me because of that. They said leaving to attend to my life cost them important things. Tell me how it's my fault. The burden is so huge. Meanwhile I have my own fears and stress I deal with that nobody asks me how far. You are always expected to be perfect and others can do as they wish. Meanwhile they don't appreciate and see it like a duty you owe everyone for life. I feel happy helping them; but they overburden me sometimes and end up coming off as wicked like that marriage issue.

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    3. Miss ESS,I did not know you are my closest neighbour here.We need to see.
      #ThatOgojaDude

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    4. The person looking for a good hospital in Awka should go to Life Specialist Hospital in Agu Awka. I wish you all the best through your pregnancy journey and safe delivery

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    1. Paracetamol and ibuprofen together is dangerous and too much caffeine..

      Change hospitals.. If there is catholic sisters hospital at Awka, switch over.. They are very good with pregnancy and after birth.

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    2. Hello Gem. Really sorry about your friend. May God comfort her family.

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    3. You can use Regina Celia at Regina junction Awka.

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  3. Ihn don land. πŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒ

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  4. Pls someone should snap Airtel ₦500 and send to me, let me snap ₦500 note and send to him, it's raining here, I can't go out.

    A lovely afternoon to you allπŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’žπŸ’žπŸ’žπŸ’žπŸ’™πŸ’™πŸ’™πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’šπŸ’šπŸ’šπŸ’šπŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’–

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    1. I've snapped it, SDK doesn't allow sharing of photos so how do I go about it?☺

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    2. lol you just made me smile . I’ve been feeling bad cos I cooked rubbish. Who will teach me how to make vegetable soup?

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    3. Hahahahaha... Atleast you smiled.

      Please i need recommendation of a good hospital that has a good gynaecologist around lagos mainland oooo, precisely oshodi... Getting depressed with TTC stuff. Can't afford IVF. God abeg i'm tired!!!!

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    4. One pattern I prefer (it has different methods)
      Steam your meat with little or no water(no water preferably).
      Wash your fish and set aside

      In another pot,pour your palm oil and heat for a few minutes. Don't over heat.(use enough palm oil for this soup)
      After heating, add your sliced onions, your blended fresh pepper and stir for a minute or 2.
      Add your blended crayfish. And your meat, plus the fish.
      Cook for some minutes. Add your Maggi stock.(I use 2 most times)
      Add salt. Cook for a few minutes

      Time to add the veggies.
      If you're using waterleaf, add it first(after washing it thoroughly to remove most of the water inside the leaf)
      Leave to cook for a minute or 2.
      Add any other veggies after. Cook for a few minutes
      Taste(in case you need to add small salt or not). Cook for some time. Finish.

      If you're using isam(shelled periwinkle), you can add them when you're adding the pepper and crayfish. Wash it well o

      This is how I make mine most times.

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    5. πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£ so funny .


      Awww anon please cheer up okay, I'm sure someone would drop a method for you.

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    6. Lol

      Anon, sorry about that. If at first you don't succeed, try try again.

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    7. Thank You everyone. I’ll try the method up there.

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  5. Good afternoon Blogfam!

    Chocolat darling and Paris beibi, I've been here tying up loose ends. Missed you much loveliesπŸ€—πŸ€—

    It promises to be a great month here alreadyπŸ’ž

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  6. Whatsup with y'all this afternoon?
    People in Anambra, what's the weather like over there? Please be careful there and protect your self and your family.


    I don't know if it's my phone or my WhatsApp sucks; lost my chats and after uninstalling and reinstalling, I tried to recover from my backup but nothing came up. It's so annoying😠😩

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    1. Abi your phone is among those that their WhatsApp application won't work?

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    2. Abi you are using HTC, alcatel or Motorola?

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    3. Not at all, my phone is compatible.

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    4. I am an anambrarian.amen.@essa.

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  7. Hello IHN, beautiful afternoon to everyone. The weather is cloudy from this side.

    It is well with you @ Choc Noir, I appreciate God on your behalf for the gift of life, may God continue to be with you and totally perfect your healing.

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    1. Yes o , looking back it was no one but God that saved me infact that no bullet hit me remains a mystery .
      Thanks a lot and I say amen to your prayers.
      God bless you for me

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    2. Amen... your life is a testimony Choco boo.😘

      Have an awesome day Anne dear😘

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  8. Congratulations on your pregnancy. I can relate to the fibroids with pregnancy ish. As you are nourishing the baby in your womb, fibroids will be nourished too and they will start growing bigger and getting more active, giving you serious pains.
    God will see you through.

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    1. You are right Mercy ,as the baby grows bigger,so is the fibroids and the pains increases too. Women are strong

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  9. Pregnant woman looking for a good hospital, what do you want again?, that is how you people go around causing problems for yourselves, why do you think that Dr. prescription is wrong, continue, inugo? πŸ™„

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    1. Can you be nice with your reply please, she only asked for a good hospital consider her condition and be nice. She probably has fears taking such medications that's why she's asking.

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    2. Don't be a meanie please, it's a new month.

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  10. It's my birthday today
    Happy birthday to Me, truly God has been faithful.
    In this new year, i humbly ask God for his mercy and favour
    Happy new month people

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    1. Happy birthday to you. God bless you.

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    2. Happy birthday to you beautiful

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    3. Happy birthday Omeh


      Youngie Grandma

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    4. Happy birthday, God bless your new age

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    5. Happy birthday darling πŸŽŠπŸŽ‰πŸŽˆπŸ₯³ God bless you richly πŸ™keep flourishing πŸŽ‰

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    6. Happy Birthday dearie..may Goodness and mercies follow you all the days of your life.

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    7. Happy birthday


      Pretty Patience

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    8. Thank you lovelies. God bless you all

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    9. Happy birthday OmehπŸŽŠπŸŽ‰

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    10. Happy birthday dear πŸŽ‚πŸ₯‚πŸΎ

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  11. Good afternoon eyin eyan mi gbogbo!

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  12. As you are on the journey to success.
    You may encounter a lot of challenges, mistakes ,distractions and those by the road sides to push you down. Don't give them a chance, fight to conquer and never give up.
    Welcome to November.
    Let's go there.

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  13. Good afternoon lovelies, please november be nice.

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  14. The pregnant woman with multiple fibroids I really feel for you, May you receive total healing in Jesus name, Amen.
    Tonia

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  15. Ihn don land, it's rainy cat and dog( abi pussy) here, lovely afternoon to everyone πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ˜‚

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  16. Hello November,pls be nice to us all.

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  17. Good afternoon all. The sun here is seriously serious. Harmattan should do and come.

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  18. Hello ihn 😘
    Good afternoon everyone.

    Happy New month my lovely blogfam, I pray for all round blessings for all of us.

    Nazirate's ink,thank God for Wisdom bestowed upon u.

    Story to encourage poster,thank you for sharing and I pray for God to come through for all of us.

    Jewelu star woman,may God continue to bless and increase u for ur kind words and deeds.

    Bvs enjoy the rest of your day.
    E go surely be ✌️.

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  19. Good afternoon everyone,hope we're all good?

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  20. The pregnant lady looking for a good hospital, go to St Helen's hospital obinagu. He is a VERY good gynecologist and also works in the teaching hospital Amaku. Good luck

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  21. Goodafternoon everyone. Happy New month!
    Lets be safe.

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  22. Watching November in 4D, may we all have cause to celebrate in this new month.

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  23. HAPPY NEW MONTH... NOVEMBER WILL DO ALL OF US GOOD. NOTHING MISSING, NOTHING BROKEN

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  24. Good afternoon Everyone
    Happy New month
    Welcome to the month of November
    Have a wonderful rest of the day..

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  25. *THANKSGIVING POST*

    Thank you Aunty Grace for the patronage, may God perfect all that concerns you.
    Bvs pls thank her for me, she is my very first customer from the blog. Her order has been delivered to her in Lagos this afternoon

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    1. God bless her for patronizing you @Praise. More sales I wish you.

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  26. just coming from spontaneous post. Hmmm


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  27. just coming from spontaneous post. Hmmm


    let's be good.

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  28. Good hospital needed? Please go to general hospital Ikeja, if you're in Lagos,emergency section

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  29. Pregnant but wit fibroids...I had exact same issue. One thing is that the pains can induce a miscarriage. Meanwhile, that pain is as a result of the fibroid degenerating, u can Google it. It's as a result of the baby growing bigger and killing off the fibroids. I had same tots of avoiding medication but when the pain bin wan kee me, I took injections join sef. So that pain is a good sign,ok. I took pain relieving inj and went on to have a rather painless delivery bcos the dying fibroids cushioned the labour pangs. As for hospital, General Hospital is it. I wish u well dear.

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  30. Hello precious people. Una doh *In SDK voice*

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  31. IHN eagle has landed,how una dey?one loveπŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’–

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  32. Go to Life International Hospital, Awka.. All the best

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  33. Arrived late to IHN. So tired and sleepy *yawns*

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  34. The lady with fibroids and pregnant, congratulations. One thing I have learnt being in that situation is that no amount of drugs will take d pain away. I know it is not easy but you may have to bear that pain. It is definitely not easy, d pain is killing!!!. Not to worry, we will come to rejoice with you

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