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Friday, November 19, 2021

Nigerian Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo Reveals Why Women Ask Men ''What Are We'' During Intimacy

Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo (Founder and Senior Pastor of David Christian centre) spoke about the reason why women ask "what are we" during intimacy.








He revealed that while men trade love to get s#x, women trade s#x with the hope of getting love. He said this is a reason why women ask the question "what are we" during intimacy. It is because that lovemaking is not really what she wanted; she's only on that bed to negotiate for love. While men are very okay with mindless intercourse, women want more than that. This is the reason why a man can sleep with somebody he doesn't know. 


The prostitution business is selling because men are meeting people they don't know and will never know. They just do all they need to do and part ways.


According to him, Women do not just meet anybody and make love with him. Anytime you see a woman doing that, something has happened to her. Something must have happened in her background. "It is either she's severely s#xually abused or something," he said. There is always a reason why someone is acting abnormally. Women need some emotional connection first before they can be in the mood for lovemaking while men need to make love first before emotions.

He revealed that this is why men make dumb mistakes s#xually. Women on the other hand make their own dumb decisions when they are looking for love. ###Men risk their life, empire, and position because of lovemaking

35 comments:

  1. This one is for stolen sex or fornication. What do married women ask their husbands.

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    1. true this is for stolen sex

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    2. For love, emotional connection, partnership. Which is why divorce sometimes occurs. If you exchange sex with your husband and get domestic violence in return, you will ask -“ what are we?” That doubt will come in even though it is not stolen sex.

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  2. "Women need some emotional connection first before they can be in the mood for lovemaking".... Not necessarily, if you have money & they're desperate, they will force that connection.

    "While men need to make love first before emotions"..... Not true.

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  3. He's the senior pastor of David's Christian Centre not Agape.

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  4. Why cant they ask before the act...

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    1. They ask before the act,and the men still lie to get the sex. That's what he is saying,men trade love for sex.

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  5. Very true sir, also Men are moved by what they See, While Women are Moved by what they Hear !!!

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  6. I always see him tackle and analyse love and relationship issues more than his pastoral sermons

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    1. The pastoral ministry is made up of different callings, relationship issues might be his own calling

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    2. He is a certified relationship coach. He has a singles/married ministry. The messages he uploads on his YouTube page centres mainly on relationships.

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    3. You are really ignorant

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    4. @Kidjo
      One Scripture please, to support different pastorial callings?

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    5. ****
      Ephesians 4:11

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  7. Shantelle comman see something ohh🤔🤔

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    1. Urrmm..emosh,yeah!
      Btw what's that one thing being scared of again? El oh El!

      Happy international men's day Danny! A snack and more.

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    2. Shantelle my love. I think you deserve better! Lemme link you up with my single handsome brother in the states who will treat you right 🥰

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  8. He made lots of sense 👏

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  9. Hahahaha, simply answer, we are nothing but pencils in the hands of the creator. Jokes aside, women can be really suckers for love. There's loads of catfishs scams on social media. And it's victims are more of women. So, bfor u down with him, ask him where this relationship is going. I always ask from day 7. I'll prefer u tell me it's just for sex than drag me along for years.

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    1. Hi Sparkle777, no man would answer in the affirmative that his relationship with you is purely for sex. How would you feel if a man tells you he is just with you for sex?

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  10. What if you planned abstinence and the man forced himself on you? I noticed most couples getting married every Saturday are having sex steadily bfore tying the knot. Some ladies that are hoarding sex are finding it difficult to get married. Life is not balanced.

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    1. Virgins and celibates gets married everyday to their kind if they follow the leading of Christ. Besides Marriage is not the end goal, heaven is.

      This pastor needs to preach about the word of God and not make people turn one area of their lives into an idol. What he is even describing only applies to wordly men and women. He needs to preach about holiness, faith, peace, salvation and the kingdom and stop being fixated on marriage everyday.

      He can set aside a day in a month like a seminar but everyday relationship talk between a man and a woman instead of developing an intimate relationship with Jesus seems like misplaced priority.

      I hope this is not a Sunday service because I do not understand how people will leave their house on a Sunday morning just to be hearing relationship talk all the time.
      “the time is coming when people will not endure sound teaching, but having itching ears they will accumulate for themselves teachers to suit their own passions, and will turn away from listening to the truth and wander off into... But watch thou in all things, endure afflictions, do the work of an evangelist, make full proof of thy ministry ” (2nd Tim 4:3-5) This pastor needs to preach the word of God.

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    2. 15.11 👏👏👏

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  11. Job 38:2 Who is this darkening my counsel with words without knowledge...

    Again, a "pastor" has spoken verbosity without a single reference to the Word of God.
    "Pastor" what you are referring to as "love making" is called FORNICATION by the God you suppose to preach
    And God says; "flee fornication..." 1 Cor. 6:18
    The Bible is either the Word of God or it is not.

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  12. I've never heard him preach Jesus Christ, he is always preaching about relationship between a man and woman who are not yet married.

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    1. Maybe you should attend his church before you draw your conclusions.

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