WEDNESDAY In House News..

 Hailings oh.......

Some days it is long and some days, it is short!

IN HOUSE MEMO

This is just to say Thank you to those people who mailed me, sent whatsapp and text messages to wish me well... Even Angel Pee pinged to ask how I am ....

Please pray for Angel Pee to surprise us this year..... He was so scared of Naija for so many reasons that he ran off back to the diaspora...... So many things frustrated him.....

I know you will read this Angel Pee, we really appreciate you on this joint and the way you watch over me like a hawk dey make my belle sweet me.....

Please who else lives in the abroad and takes the flu shot every year... Do you react?

Have a great day people.........

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD:



One of the things that helps in this motherhood journey is having a supportive partner. Someone who understands what intentional parenting is all about and is willing to go the extra mile and work in agreement.



When I had my first, my husband was so scared of carrying him or touching him at all. He refused to help with anything that involved contact with the baby. This made me so mad and angry. I was always complaining. I had always thought he was going to be willing to help with bathing the baby, changing diapers and so on but he was so scared of touching the baby.

After a while I realised he was genuinely scared, he wasn’t just trying to run away from his duty , he was willing to do market runs, cooking, cleaning etc as long as you don’t utter the dreaded statement “ Please help me carry this baby" .



He was helping in his own way, as the boy grew older and started running around he became way more hands on with helping with him. By the time we had our second, he was already a pro and was more willing to help out with activities that involved contact with the baby.

Also he supported my decision to home school my son and goes all out to make it easy. We don’t always agree on everything when it comes to the kids(he is more old school) but he makes it easy for me to do my thing and that I am glad about. Now that we are transitioning to proper school, he is still giving me his full support despite the fact that he prefers home schooling.

He is not perfect but he is doing his possible best and that means so much to me. Makes me teary when I think about how hard he is working to give us the best, after growing up with a deadbeat father, it is great knowing that my kids are not experiencing the same thing.

You home schooled your kid? For how long and what exactly did you teach ? can you give us tips to help those who cannot send their kids to school? it would be awesome!... Thank you so much!!!






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MAIL FROM BV OSUNDI

Hello Jewelu star woman, I just read sp and saw where u said if anybody wants to play santa. I am bv osundi and I'm among those who were gifted 100k for business giveaway. I've a poultry which I invested the money into.

Due to the network shutdown in the state I reside (KD) I don't have access to the blog like before. Pls I would like to give bv Raquel chicken for Xmas since she reside in my state of residence. I know it's not big but I just want to give out to someone on this blog that has touched my life positively.

Thank u for all u are doing for us ur bvs.Its only God that can reward u and I pray he rewards u in million folds.
Bv Osundi 

BV Raquel, if you exist please contact me so that i can give her contact details.....

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