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Wednesday, December 22, 2021

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  1. Yes! There are still some disciplined one's

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    1. I have childhood friends that we have remained friends all our lives. It has never crossed our minds.

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    2. I don't have the experience so, I can't say for sure.

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    3. YES.Why not?

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  2. It's possible but rare in most cases..

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  3. Yes I've 2 close friends one 13 years the other 11 years.
    It has been very platonic and decent we have never made moves on each other,
    We have built a solid and reliable friendship and I even helped one plan his engagement recently.
    We advice each other they're amazing friends to me.

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    1. Exactly, this looks like I wrote it.

      Mine are just wonderful friendship and I thank God for them everyday.

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    2. Yes o 18:36 I thank God for them everyday their finances and I are very close too , they are close to my hommie everyone respects each other .
      When my dad passed they always made sure I was good , I keep wondering what would make me trade our friendship ,some years ago I dated someone that told me to cut them off , I asked him why ? He said cos it was a betrayal to our relationship ๐Ÿ˜” I didn't even know what to say I however explained the reasons why that couldn't happen.

      Fast forward to when I met my hommie ,I told him about them ,he spoke to them a few times and he was really thankful I had such amazing friends ,even one got heartbroken it was so late at night and my hommie encouraged me to go see him but I couldn't cos I don't drive at night .
      As long as there is the fear of God , mutual respect I don't think it should be a problem, I have never crossed my boundaries and never would.

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    3. Talking about dating someone that told you to cut them off, I have a male bestie, we were speaking on phone one day relationship that is not up to 1 month ooo, oremi"s call came in I just beged him to pls let me tell him to give me some minutes he was like if I take the call that's the end, took the call and that indeed ended the relationship because I called back he didn't pick and and that was it

      Didn't even bother my self because we have not even met face to face

      Male close friends are the best to keep

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  4. I don't think so o,I have tried it in the past and it didn't work out.nigga will always use every opportunity to look for something else.

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  5. It's possible, we still have some disciplined people around.

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  6. If none of them looks physically and sexually desirable,yes but if they do,there’s a chance that one or even both of the two wants to test,they just might not say it out or show it.

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    1. When you have a partner ,do you still need another man as a close friend? Unless there is important thing that brings you two close.Know the question is keeping him as a close friend not just friends.

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  7. I have one and he’s a blessing to me…….

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  8. Very very possible ๐Ÿ—ฃ️๐Ÿ—ฃ️๐Ÿ—ฃ️

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  9. For me it's a no... Later you start hearing I've fallen in love with you bla bla bla. It never worked!!! Annoying shit

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  10. There are some disciplined people. So it is possible

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  11. It's possible but most always want something diff along the line.

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  12. Yea I absolutely believe. I can do it and I have done it.

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  13. Yes, I've been friends with one for over 15 years and counting and the other for a little over 6 years it's been just friends and nothing more.
    I do get a lot of questions like how do I feel around them and my reply is this: even if I stay with my brothers for ages, they can't change from being my brothers. And that's exactly the feeling I have with this fellows and they got the vibe too.

    Sometimes, I feel they are my brothers that came through another parents.

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    1. That's whats up !!! Way to go , nothing awkward just living freely and enjoying the gift of friendship.

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  14. Yes! I've had a male bestie for almost 7years and we're good. The thought of having anything intimate with him is disgusting. Ewww

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  15. I honestly do not know. Every so-called platonic male friend I have ever had always broached the possibility of romance eventually. Even if I was gay I would never look at my female friends as romantic prospects, so I don't know why men always do this.

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  16. Yes,very possible. I have two male friends from our Jamb days, we are still very cool.

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  17. Yes!we have been friends for 11years.

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  18. Yes. Their are still decent and responsible people.

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  19. Possible but in most occasions,one party starts catching feelings. I have a male friend who is quite close to me,he initially wanted something more but I was already engaged. We have remained very good friends for about 7 years now,we met in Law school.

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  20. Every female friend I once had turned out wanting something more. It's not about discipline, some people (sometimes) tend to develop feelings when you give them attention, time and care. All these female friends/bestie thing does not work for me. Never had, never will.

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  21. Majority of the guys iv bin friends with always want something else along the line,d friendship will be great,everything going on well,then the next thing they start catching feelings.i always feel bad cos once I turn them down the friendship is never ever always d same.one even told me he will rather not be friends with me,than we not bin in a relationship.so when it comes to d opposite sex I’m extremely careful with them.

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  22. Yes! Very possible,there are still disciplined friends out there

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  23. Yes, it's possible but I don't think it can be possible with me

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  24. But why will a grown up man want to chose a woman as a close friend? I don't like it.
    I have male clout chaser that want to come close as friends,I have warned them to face front.
    I don't have any business with them , share the same ideas or plan,so why do you want to be close.

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  25. Yes.... It's very possible but then it depends on the level of discipline they both have.

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  26. It's very possible, but requires a lot of discipline too.

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  27. Yes,very true. I have 2 guys I have been friends with for almost 25yrs years now. Great guys.

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  28. Yes, opposite sex gender friendship is the best ever, they are just like brothers or sisters as the case may be.

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  29. It never works for me,all of them want to las las even one virgin holy holy broda lyk dat sef wanted more,na dia I give up,,I gave up a longtime ago on having a male bestie,never works for me๐Ÿ˜Ÿ๐Ÿ˜Ÿ๐Ÿ˜Ÿ๐Ÿ˜Ÿ
    Amazon baroness

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  30. RISKY BUSINESS

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  31. Yes it's very possible, I have some. Once there's conscious boundaries and very great understanding, respecting such friendship is easy. Thoughtfully too, it's often the best.

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  32. Absolutely! There are still a few disciplined men with common sense.

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  33. Yes it's very possible, my male friends and I dint zee each other 8k any form for romantic way and I have kept them for more than 15 years

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  34. I wanted to, but all of them wanted more than being friends, one and I ended up being fwb

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  35. Is possible but if they finally have love interest is usually the best.

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  36. Yes very possible. If I don’t like you then I don’t like you. There is absolutely nothing you can do about it. Nothing you do will move me. I am even the type of friend who will pay for lunch when we go out just so I can tell you to fuck off when you make a stupid attempt at romance. Besides the language I will be using for you will just be turning you off. I don’t get tempted to take a peek under the hood and I make up my mind early on whether or not I want to have an affair with a guy. I have a lot of male friends chasing me and we have met up plenty times without hooking up. I also have a best friend and before we got married we never had any sexual relations we still talk and we still have not done anything naughty. I am the type that will tell you point blank I don’t like you in that way and if you refuse to act accordingly I will just ex you.

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  37. If all the ladies here say it's possible and ok to have the opposite gender as "close friends", I hope they can also say that their husbands or boyfriends can have "very close" female friends too.

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  38. Yes, it is possible to have best friends of the opposite sex. I have two male besties from Uni days and we are talking 35 yrs ago. Neither one has ever crossed the line.They are my brothers now as i lost my only brother about 10 yrs ago and they have supported and encouraged me throughout my loss. We are grandparents now and we have lots of long conversations and laughs about family and life.

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