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Sunday, December 26, 2021

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative....

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NARRATIVE ONE
DREAM INTEPRETERS NEEDED


Good DAY people of SDKville.


 Please help interpret this dream I had few days ago. 

In the dream was I and my best friend. We were with some men and maybe women or woman, they looked like those jazz/juju people. I was arguing with them that I'm not part of them again and I'm leaving them forever and nothing will ever bring us back again but my best friend started pleading with me to not leave that we should stay with them but I changed it for her that if she want to stay she is free that me I've found the best way and there I'm going. 


Please, who can tell me what this means? Thanks.





Una dey cult?





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NARRATIVE TWO
MATURE ADVICE NEEDED


My boyfriend usually calls and texts me and he's based abroad. He a busy person that l understand but lately, he doesn't call me. 


Its been a week we spoke last. All he does is send a text in the early hours while I am sleeping during due to the nature if his job. When i am up, l reply and that's it for the day.


 I have tried to be an understanding girlfriend but for how long can this continue? I have tried to communicate to him my feelings and he maintains he's busy.

 Men how busy can you get? And yes l work and run a business so l am busy as well but l make out time for him so l don't get. Please l need mature advice. This issue is driving me crazy. Help a sister out





*Let me ask you something.... MUST YOU SPEAK WITH HIM EVERYDAY? are you scared the relationship will break up if there is no communication?
Looks like there is no way round this so my advice is that if you cant deal, then break up with him!!!

45 comments:

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    1. Stella. Where did she say she wants to speak with him everyday? She s also busy but makes time for him. A whole week without voice communication is not good for a long distance relationship that’s already suffering from lack of presence. And she has raised the issue with him, he doesn’t appreciate it.

      My sister, he might be in Nigeria doing trad with another woman. Try and remove mind small from him.
      Umunwoke dikwa wonderful

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    2. Poster 1. It means you are free from every boundage.


      Poster 2. Stella wat are u saying, relationship without communication is dead. Yes I said so. See Poster no matter how busy a man or anyone is. They will always create time for u if they love you. My husband is busy too but hey he is not supposed to make calls due to the nature of his job.

      But he calls me every now nd then. If he is too busy for u. Baby girl. Pls Start having option or talk heart to heart about it with him.

      NOBODY IS TOO BUSY FOR TINS THEY LOVE OR VALUE.

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    3. Isi gini? Poster 2 this is serious hand writing on the wall o....MENEH MENEH TEKEH......
      Translation: Abort mission.

      At this stage, he's comfortable not speaking with you for a full week? Something is not right somewhere. Unless you are fine with the frustration of a union where communication is poor,nne, abort mission ok? Your own will come.
      Love and light๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

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  2. Poster 1, your friend is about to initiate you into something..RUN!!!
    Poster 2, Manage him like that or you do the calling

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  3. Dream

    Ephesians 5:5 For of this you can be sure: No immoral, impure or greedy person—such a person is an idolater—has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God.

    Sexual immorality is idolatry; yes. Greed is idolatry. And you are probably leaving that lifestyle but your friend is still in and wants you to stay.
    Cut off such a friend because evil communications corrupts good morals.

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  4. Poster 1, your friend has ‘conscripted’ you spiritually into something you don’t know about. I hope you know they can spiritually put you in a coven you know nothing about. You have to severe the friendship immediately. Special thunder awaits anyone that dares insult me because this blog has turned to a place where small small children now insult their elders.

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  5. If your boyfriend doesn't call you, call him. Or is he a phone company?
    Looks to me like most Nigerian ladies are too engrossed and entitled in their outlook to life; especially when it has to do with "abroad" ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ
    Please leave this mindset and move on to be a more mature and understanding person.

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    1. I just tire..
      Me I no dey even stress my head with anything or anyone weh won mess my head up, once I complain about something one two three times and you don't seem to put in effort in taking redress or give me a reasonable explanation/ excuse.. Omo, I don dust my shoe bounce..

      No be me you go use dey boost your ego or take dey feel yourself like celeb Fam ✌️

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  6. Poster 2. It's the holiday season. He's spending time with his wife and children. Chill till January. Everything will be okay again.

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    1. Hehehehehee, why do I concur with you?
      Poster one, run from that friend biko. My dream of friend still dey shock me.

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    2. Hahaha ๐Ÿ˜ Gbam!

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    3. Nawao see how you have just jump into conclusion by saying that the man is married.

      I was in this kind of relationship before,long distance relationship. We made sure we tried to communicate with each other everyday,if I am chanced we video call. Because me then I don't like doing video calls it inconveniences me but him on the other hand eiii he likes it paaa and sometimes I just have to give in too. There are days sometimes weeks that he just shuts me out and every method to get him to open up fail.
      It will take some time and when he was out of that mood he will tell me that he was going through a lot at work that the pressure he is facing at work to meet up is just too much and that is why he goes cold sometimes.

      Poster maybe your man is going through series of pressure from work that's why he's acting up.
      or I maybe wrong.

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    4. Or he has a girlfriend spending the holiday with him.

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    5. Chai ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

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  7. Dream interpreter needed... E be like say naa egbe things, you should probably speak to a pastor or pray more so God gives you an interpretation to the dream

    Mature advice needed... I am one person that likes to be in communication at most times with someone I am dating..like me describing how my day went, and also wanting him to know my movement and all. I really can't deal with a relationship I am not in constant communication.

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  8. Poster 2, he is not alone there, if communication was good before, what changed? Woman.


    Poster 1, you wanna leave your constituency members?

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  9. Stella I believe in communication too o,just one text per day? Can't deal too, something is definitely fishy especially when he wasn't like that before

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  10. I'm learning. Lemme read comments. Good afternoon

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  11. Poster 2 what does your boyfriend do.. Did you guys meet in one of Stella's single and mingle.

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  12. Poster 1...
    Saying No to whatever it is they re getting you to join them in is a good one. Now, in the physical realm do same when you pray. Cut yourself off any and everything that binds in Jesus Name. Literally see yourself pulling away and celebrate your victory. It could mean anything but the good thing is that you strongly said No to a wrong gathering. Keep saying it when you pray till you get a note of victory in your Spirit. It could be in songs of praise, rejoicing, shouting or dancing.


    Poster two..
    Give the man small space.... Men most times when overwhelmed with stuff pull back and just lock up for a while... I remember when we had a break, he stopped communicating. It was strange cos prior to that he was all over me, well I sensed he pulled back, and personally I hate forced communication, if its not flowing its not. I was busy with business so I didn't even feel the absence after a week, dude came back with I'm sorry; I asked for what, on his own he reported himself for missing in action explaining how he had issues with xyz and he needed time to fix it alone. It was now like a normal gist of what transpired the past week. I no get that time to dey look my phone dey wait for chat that'd drop. Once what we have is defined, & I need to talk to you I reach out. That's why I prefer friendships in relationships. It's easier that way. Poster get busy, don't make the relationship feel like work, the stress in Nigeria is enough already, and give the man small space. Try define what you have too if it's not defined so you don't start thinking all sort. You're a price my dear, know that and have peace and let him know too. He wouldn't want to loose you if he sees you as one.

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    1. If you didn't feel the absence, how did you know he pulled back?

      You women and lies on this blog are terrible.

      You even counted the days to know it has reached a week.

      If you see yourself as a prize, you will not just accept the apology of a man who could stay one week without sharing his issues with you. If he takes you as a friend, he will confide in you.

      There are two desperate people.

      The first set play hard to get so the man will think they are a prize.

      You don't need to play games for a man to see your worth.

      Poster two, reach out to that man. If after much attempt he doesn't respond, then find a way and move on. There is nothing wrong in loving someone but if that person does not return it then find a way and move on.

      KING XOXO MYSTERY

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    2. If you didn't feel the absence, how did you know he pulled back?

      You women and lies on this blog are terrible.

      You even counted the days to know it has reached a week.

      If you see yourself as a prize, you will not just accept the apology of a man who could stay one week without sharing his issues with you. If he takes you as a friend, he will confide in you.

      There are two desperate people.

      The first set play hard to get so the man will think they are a prize.

      You don't need to play games for a man to see your worth.

      Poster two, reach out to that man. If after much attempt he doesn't respond, then find a way and move on. There is nothing wrong in loving someone but if that person does not return it then find a way and move on.

      KING XOXO MYSTERY

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    3. ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ

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    4. This xoxo just likes wahala, opening mouth to call someone desperate, please goan rest. Epistles everywhere ๐Ÿ˜

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  13. Poster 2 get busy with something that will distract you from your bf, he is having a nice time with people that matters to him.

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  14. When you love your self you give love effortlessly without minding if the person is fecilrocationg or not.call him or you vamose.all this ladies ve giving excuses all the time.

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  15. poster 2, if he loves you, he can never be too busy to talk to you. if it is possible ignore him too and see what will happen.

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    1. Have you considered the time difference? Don't make assumptions based on few lines.

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  16. Poster 1- if you are not already in a cult then your friend might be trying to get you initiated. Be weary of your friend.

    Poster 2. I don’t agree with Stella. A person you are dating should be able to send a message or two during the day just to let you know he’s thinking of you. Especially since he started with that practice then stopped abruptly. Did he change jobs? Or is his job seasonal, meaning Christmas period gets particularly busy or did he get a promotion that brings with it more responsibilities? If none of the above has occurred try to talk to him.

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  17. Poster 2,be considerate of time differences.. Send him messages and videos. He might be very busy during this holidays for overtime profit. Don't take public opinion and scatter your relationship..
    You know him better and be a positive partner. Everything is not negativity inspired. Keep a positive attitude and make yourself happy regardless.

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  18. Poster 2. It may be that the guy is going thru stuff, or busy or anything. Why not call him and hear him out From his explanations you will be able to use your tongue to count your teeth

    Poster 1. If you have a bad dream, use the name of Jesus against it. Cancel it. The dream may not mean anything after all because dreams are the lowest form of revelation. It may be satan communicating, it may be your brain and it very slightly may be God.

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  19. Poster 2, a man is NEVER busy for what he wants.
    NEVER.

    Know this and know this deeply.

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  20. supported at Anon 17:23.

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  21. First poster... Avoid your friend who wants to lure you into cultism

    Second poster ... The person you're dating is probably married and he's with his wife now

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  22. Poster one,pls be careful and be prayerful some people don't know dey are members oh!!! Poster 2,maybe u should ignore him ND let's see wat happens.am like u oh!if ur too busy,ino do

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  23. Poster one,pls be careful and be prayerful some people don't know dey are members oh!!! Poster 2,maybe u should ignore him ND let's see wat happens.am like u oh!if ur too busy,ino do

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  24. Poster 2. The man is running away from Christmas gift๐Ÿ˜€. He does not want to hear baby where is my Christmas gift

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  25. Poster 2, do you also call him or he’s the one who calls all the damn time? Relationship is two way street madam. Call and find out what’s wrong with him and stop waiting for his calls. I would cut you off too if I were the man. Women full every where especially a woman who doesn’t bother to call and ask for his wellbeing. Stop the entitlement mentality and call him!

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  26. Poster 2…
    My man and I had to do long distance recently while we were on two different continents. There were a lot of days that we only spoke for 2 minutes when he was pulling into the parking lot at work, and that would be it for the day.
    Other times when we spoke at length would be because I sacrificed my sleep to speak to him in the midnight (2-5am)
    All this to say that long distance isn’t easy (as you know) and sometimes people get so occupied that scheduling regular calls with the time difference becomes impossible. That may be the case here and it may last very briefly before things go back to normal

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  27. Poster 2…
    My man and I had to do long distance recently while we were on two different continents. There were a lot of days that we only spoke for 2 minutes when he was pulling into the parking lot at work, and that would be it for the day.
    Other times when we spoke at length would be because I sacrificed my sleep to speak to him in the midnight (2-5am)
    All this to say that long distance isn’t easy (as you know) and sometimes people get so occupied that scheduling regular calls with the time difference becomes impossible. That may be the case here and it may last very briefly before things go back to normal

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