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Friday, December 31, 2021

Pastor Reportedly Ends Her Life.....

 Oh My God..... 






''I've never mourned anyone's death like yours Pastor Nke.
Your decision to take your own life was because everyone drew from you but none cared to refill you.

You touched every life you met positively.... But deep inside, you needed someone to touch yours but there was none.

You were the motivation behind my recent post about how the world thinks that a Strong Person has no needs - emotionally, mentally or even financially.
I knew your struggles deeply..... You were the type who didn't hide her struggles. But because you were busy ministering to others, we overlooked the fact that you also needed to be ministered to. This is why I've cried more today than I've mourned any death in recent times.

Friends, be kind to people who you feel are strong. Be kind to leaders because most times, they are bleeding while leading. Be kind to your mentors. Don't draw so much without refilling. Reach out and show love.

Dear Pastor Nke Serobe, its difficult to say Goodbye but we need to release you because we weren't worthy of the spirit you were.
Go well sis and forgive us all .''





84 comments:

  1. Awww rest in peace. So sad.

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    1. So touching
      This year tried me
      I was tired
      1st of December hmmm...
      I was smiling and laughing and people dint know I was struggling.

      I am so happy for people that reached out.
      Now I know it's okay to break down, it's okay to take a break, it's okay if the only thing you have is you.
      My hubby said all he could say (he literally turned into a motivational speaker πŸ˜…)

      I couldn't even explain it cus I have a lot to be thankful for...like someone said "trivial things are magnified"
      I got overwhelmed, and panic attacks took over and I was outrightly tired.

      Now, I am better and would never give anything that much energy again. When I want to wallow i snap out immediately.
      It's not easy for anyone, but people are different, I just pray God gives everyone the strength. Amen

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    2. Push up, I'm glad you're better now. Everything will be just fine in God's time.
      Hope the coming year brings you glad tidings. Happy new year to you and yours.

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    3. Come closer for a big, warm, loving, tight hug dearest Pushup. You see this your ability to recall down times and admit with gratitude that you had much more to celebrate than the trivial ant-hill projecting itself as a mountain, that's the big deal.
      Watch out, 2022 will serve you.

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    4. That's one thing about public figures; people misjudge them and they live their lives by what others want while they are dying inside. Personally, I have learnt not to please others but God and do what will make me happy. Chikina. Rip to the dead.

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  2. So touching!!!! We need to look out at each other from time to time, for some people are going through difficulties masked with smiles. It takes only few to express how deep they are going through pains. When people cry, it's not because they're weak, but cos they've been strong for too long.

    There are things I've promised God to start doing this coming year and I pray he guide me through it.

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    1. Amen. Great words and may God help us all and guide us all.
      2022 will be a year to spread love even to people we don't know, a lot of people are going through it especially the seemed strongest.

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  3. No, I won't end my life despite the fact that I am what is described here. I won't suffer so much on earth and miss heaven again. God even if you don't get me out of this situation, You are still God. You've never failed and mine won't be Your first failure. It is impossible for You to fail. I respectfully put my hands in Yours. I have no strength or will anymore. But I know You will carry me through this. Even if I perish in this, I will not deny You. Suicidal thoughts ravage my spirit but NO! I will not... Sigh!

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    1. Hang in there and never give in to those thoughts that seem to overwhelm you. God'll surely come through for you.πŸ€—πŸ’–πŸ’•πŸ˜˜πŸ₯°❤️πŸ’πŸ™

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    2. It is well with you.
      Soon, God will grant you all the good things you desire.

      When there is life, there is hope.
      Na who die loss.

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    3. May God intervene speedily for you anonymous

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    4. Never give up, many people are going through a lot. God will see us through it all.

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    5. It is well. Please wait on Him, He never disappoint.

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    6. Hang in sis, suicide is never a solution.Look for people around and open up.Don't hold it in anymore.

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    7. All will be well and I love your faith,that God his too faithful to fail youπŸ₯°

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    8. πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—
      It is well dear..

      You are testifying soon in Jesus Name.Amen

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    9. It's well with you πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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    10. He has heard you anonymous and Je knows what you are going through, hang in there because He is making you a testimony for others' miracles. May His arms of protection wrap around you, your body, spirit and soul.
      There is light at the end of the tunnel.HugsπŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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    11. E-hugs dear. Things will turn out right soon

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    12. Whatever it is I sincerely pray you get through it, I'm really praying that God comes through for you, it's really not easy to stay strong but I love your determination , I love your zeal above all your mindset is beautiful.
      I'm sending you warm hugs and prayers.

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    13. Oh my, you've won the battle already.. This declaration is the beginning of healing. I trust God to come to your aid.



      Lovelace

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    14. God will never fail you. You will come out stronger and better

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    15. 10.09 your comment is touching, but you know what? You don't need expressions and comments that depress and magnify your current weakness. Instead of crying, today is the 31st, why don't you take a few hours to clean out your space. Yes, your house, sweep out, throw out things you don't use, give out and scrub out corners brooms have not touched in a long time. Decongest your wardrobe, kitchen cabinets, open your windows and let in sunlight and fresh air. Speak positive words while at it, sing, dance and neatly arrange things. Be generous while giving out the things you don't need anymore that are occupying space.

      Try this and please write us again in a few months and see if your mood, optimism and perspective did not change and bring you a definite answered prayer.

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    16. After you've done all you can, you just stand. That's the spirit

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    17. Perserve the more my dear, it will end in praise and you will terrify that God is good and that His mercies never ends. Suicide is not an option

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  4. Chai! This is so sad
    I hope she finds peace

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  5. So sad! May God keep us strong against life challenges.

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  6. Chai this is so sad... But why take her own life??? A woman of God??? Suicide is sin and they preach again it all the time... May her soul rip

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  7. So sad! May God keep us strong against life challenges.

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  8. Mental illness is chemical, it prevents people from maintaining perspective and sanity. Stuff that is trivial is magnefied, doom and dread take over.....selfishness is not the reason people commit suicide.

    I pray she find rest.πŸ˜ͺπŸ˜ͺ

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    1. 'selfishness is not the reason people commit suicide'. Plz loud it. I was horrified at the number of people who called that woman whose husband stole her money and she committed suicide 'selfish and weak'. How do you people not see how mental illness is present? People fighting battles against their minds and the brain. It is a dark hole. What we should be talking about is how to destigmatize these issues. How to make health care in terms of mental health accessible to people. How to make it easier for people to reach out. How to empathise. I hope a lot of you here commenting are not this way in real life cos I shudder at the kind of friends you will be when your lovedones/friends are going through their struggles. Will you call them weak and selfish? and tell them to Just snap out of it! or will you empathise, be there and point them to professional help or resources that may help them. It is easier to look at life through our own lens. You may be 'strong' and can breeze through life does not mean the next person can. Empathise. I pray this lady finds rest and others going through it find people who will hold their hand and give a shoulder. I pray resources become available to such people and their sanity become restored.

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  9. RIP ma,hope you find the peace you so longed for over there

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  10. This is sad and heartbreaking πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”
    May her soul rest in peace

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  11. Rest on ma..no matter what she do not have the right to take her life..i have passed through alot but i still dont give up

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    1. No two situations are the same , people react differently, thank God you didn't give up ,not everyone is that strong.
      I pray God gives strength to the weary.

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    2. Okiroyalty I pray in this 2022 you recieve sense above every other thing.
      Recieve sense.

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    3. Anon 12:26, please use your ID next time and stop hiding to insult people. Make your inputs and move on. This is the end of the year and you want to carry this attitude into the new year. SMH

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    4. and I am happy for you truly for pulling yourself up but everyone is not you.

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    5. So in other words, you feel you are better than her. Congratulations.

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  12. I no dey tell person wey commit suicide RIP.

    When you meet God, if He give you peace, you take. If He no give you peace, na you cause am

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    1. To be honest, nobody cares about your crass opinions.

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  13. 2021 was my worst year ever, considered suicide more than once but something kept holding me back. Lost all my investment this year and I’m down to nothing but I’m looking forward to 2022 with a lot of positivity.

    Truth is that a lot of people draw strength from me but don’t know that I’m dying on the inside. I know my breakthrough is near.

    Suicide is never an option.

    Bv Agadi

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    1. πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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    2. You will smile greatly in 2022 ✌🏻✌πŸ»πŸ€—πŸ€—

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    3. Hang in there. It is well with you. Change is constant

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    4. I'm sorry for all you've had to deal with , be strong, the sun would shine again , surviving 2021 is a blessing, it would only get better.

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    5. It is well with you Agadi. You will recover all and more this new year.

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    6. It is well with you. 2022 will exceed your expectations.

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  14. May her soul find rest. This is sad.

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  15. Eeyah. May the Lord rest her soul. It is well.

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  16. That's the state of most people right now, celebrating victory yet dying of thirst.The encourager also needs to be encouraged.Its funny how we look at certain people and feel they're sufficient all by themselves.
    RIP to her, suicide is never an option.

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  17. This is so sad,May your soul rest in peace.A strong person also needs help at times,failure to help such persons leads to mental breakdown or suicide.

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  18. Suicide is never an option πŸ’”

    Chai!!

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    1. With comments like yours, it's no wonder waterers feel thirsty.

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  19. Hmmmmmm. May God rest her soul. Suicide is an option

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  20. Hmmmmmm. May God rest her soul. Suicide is never an option

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  21. To be frank and respectful, I don't think anything will make me take my life. Everyone is or have gone through a lot but they aren't giving up.
    I've also lost all my investments once, owed debts( still owing) and so many other situations but never ever tot of giving up. I love myself so much that I can't even allow a pin hurt me. Seriously I love myself than anyone else including my kids, parents and husband (who I wan love more than Jesus?). I really find intriguing when I hear someone committed suicide.
    Please fellow bvs there's a whole lot to live for.

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    1. Good for you.
      Everybody is different.
      One day it will get into your thick skulls that depression is an ILLNESS that needs to be treated.
      AFI 'intriguing ',lmao.

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    2. A lot of mental illnesses are beyond one's capacity, they are not suicidal deliberately, it's a state of being unwell, so they don't even know what they are doing.
      Same way psychopaths are emotionless and don't have the ability to differentiate or separate varying emotions.

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    3. It's not about self love. It's about mental strength. It's just like some of us with healthy immunity due to heredity and healthy lifestyle and good diet and hygiene while there are others who are born with health defects, who indulge in bad habits like drug abuse, who eat junk and care little about their hygiene. Which of these categories do you think will be able to withstand health challenges when thrown at them?

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    4. 12.49 stop being nasty. Haba

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    5. A lot of people require medication to keep their sanity. They love themselves too. It is a tough battle. Remember this.

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    6. Anon 12:49 intriguing means thought provoking.

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    7. House of janey you used it wrongly in this context. Saying you find suicide "intriguing" connotes interest and fascination which is inappropriate considering the subject matter.

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    8. Then keep your life and stop using it to bother others or insult the dead. If you don't have a kind word, just mutter your selfishness to yourself.

      You have every right to comment. I have every right to see how unfeeling your comment is.

      For many of you speculating wickedly over the death of this woman, na as you be you dey type. There are many still standing at the brink desperately holding on and it is these comments of no compassion that cause them to finally jump.

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  22. Believe me God will never abandon his own. Please please please do not ever give up. Devil has succeeded in this one please do not allow him succeed again

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  23. Stop solving others problems while you are going through so much yourself, you re not God. by the time you start thinking of others issues added to your personal issues, it could lead to depression, which leads to suicide if care is not taken.
    learn to put yourself first.

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  24. So many suffering and smiling. Jesus fix it

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  25. Suicide is never an option. Too bad she went that way. I wonder if she was married. May God comfort her family and loved ones πŸ™πŸΏ

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  26. A lot of ugly things happened to so many people this year and I'm one of them. While some survived others did not. In all God is still worthy to be praised. May year 2022 being us so much joy in Jesus mighty name. Amen

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  27. It’s okay to drop everything u are doing & take a break…
    I was depressed some months ago… I just took a break & I became better

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  28. This year has been haaaaaard and painfuuuul

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  29. Hmmmmm it is well. Most times I feel like walking and walking ,without looking back

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  30. Keeping suicidal thoughts at Bay is not an easy one especially when people you love so much openly makes it known to you that you are useless to them...I keep praying to God to come through for me

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