STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
CONFUSING BEHAVIOUR
I started dating this Capricorn man and he came on strong in The beginning telling me his secrets and future plans, showing me so much love and care, buys me stuff, cooks and brings for me.
He was just a provider in every sense of the word though he has never given me cash at all..... suddenly he has become distant for the past days, doesn't pick nor return calls or makes effort to see me unlike before..
He became busy with work and all but that's no excuse...could he be testing me ?
I've decided to move on and not return his calls if he even bothers to call back.
*You have decided to move on and not returns his calls? I dont believe you. I dont know what excuse he will have for this behaviour and no matter what he says this is so wrong, dont rush back to dating him, most serial lovers have this behaviour, when they want to dedicate time to someone else, they switch off on you and go playing and when they are done, they come back with wild excuses...
For now the best thing would be moving on...
I don't understand what that word "Capricorn" is doing there in that first sentence, is it that important?
ReplyDeleteYou have jumped into conclusions in your mind. YOu do not even know if he is kidnapped? You do not love this man at all. Una dey try o.
Lol at being kidnapped. Peoole go begin latch on this escuse now🤣🤣.
DeleteHvvu given him ur butt???
DeletePls move on! He is a cunny man
That's how player act.
DeleteImmediately they get ur pus*y. Dey move. Sorry sis. Move on.
Move on sis, he has gone into ghost mode. But check and make sure he is alive and well first, after that just stay quiet and watch him.
DeleteHe’s married!!!
DeleteHmmm.Move on ke but why you dey emotional like this? If the man call you back,you fit pick am if you dey sure say im like you to wan leave your side
ReplyDeleteYou see that "move on" you wrote there? You never moved on at all. If you moved on, you won't be writing this chronicle. You are pained that you did not siphon enough money from this man and you presumed that the man don waka, perhaps after "chopping you;" right? Learn to care about people and not pretend to be caring when you are not.
ReplyDeleteYou must have unconsciously hinted on that money part and pissed him off. Just reading your chronicle shows you are a taker. Not an attractive trait at all.
ReplyDeleteGbam. For once I agree with you. It’s about her her her. What else do you offer him besides your p*ssy? He probably felt you have nothing else to offer him so he lost interest. Madam taker, leave him alone and move on as well.
DeleteBaby girl, u are in love with urself ok, u don't have a lover yet, biko find someone else
ReplyDeleteHe has chopped belleful naa, do u need a prophet to tell u?
ReplyDeleteWhat's this idea that it's the man that enjoyed the sex, if they did? Chopped belleful because sex is about giving herself to the man? Lol. This is 2022. Pls come off it
DeleteStella, you're so damn right about most serial lovers.. one guy was always switching off on me every weekend
ReplyDeleteThank God I moved on o
Poster I guess you are hurting. It hurts to be ghosted when you weren't expecting it (can still hurt even if you are). Don't try to gloss over your pain. Feel it, grieve and move on. If you try to force yourself on him so that things can go back to the way they used to be, he will just chop you, clean mouth and still dump you. Things hardly get back to the way they used to be. Don't be surprised if he has a real main chick somewhere. In a nut shell, keep it moving. (There is a specie of guys who will do anything to hit it, once they do, their work is done and off to the next hit.)
DeleteDear Poster please leave all these Zodiac signs stuff in describing anyone...Just take it as one of those things that happen and his character; it happened to me in the last S and M we are chatty and all..He just abruptly stopped chatting; even when I reached out No response and I let him be, I dunno how to force myself on people NEVER! I allow things come to me naturally...Like Stella said, he might be serial lover and anyone I mean ANYONE that loves you will always make out time for you even if it is a 45 seconds call or text or Whatsapp just to know how you feel or doing...Just let him be, keep being yourself and God will come through for you..All the best...
ReplyDeletePoster how old are you? If you've been around long enough you would understand this pattern just like Stella said.
ReplyDeletePlease let it go. don't stress.
A man who means well for you would not want to lose/hurt you like this in the first place and please do not take him back so soon if it comes back to you.
He is not testing you, he must likely playing games with you.
If you keep calling him he will still ghost you and he would be happy about the way you got restless over him.
call him nah and know if he is fine, he might be going through some problems
ReplyDeletePoster person no dey follow u play small,he came to play small wt u na,n his done
ReplyDeleteAda ohafia
I just have simple question to ask you poster.Have you given him kpekus??? If yes, see you see the answer ...
ReplyDeleteOf course she has!! Different positions too! Can’t you see how she avoided that part in her story but can tell us the man’s star sign like we asked her. This is just a classic case of chase, eat and disappear. Dude has eaten, now it’s on to the next.
DeletePoster , what has zodiac sign got to do with a man that has moved on. Anyway just call him and tell him you are just checking on him and hear what he will say.
ReplyDeleteMay God fix it for you 🙏.
ReplyDeleteThis is why I will always be team no sex before marriage. I have a feeling poster slept with the guy and now feels so used. I have been in 2 relationships. The first 1 I never had sex with the guy, when he started acting somehow and left I didn't hurt for too long. I am now in the 2nd relationship and have made it clear I am team no sex before marriage. If he decides to leave , well so be it.
ReplyDeletePoster just take it easy, think hard about what you want to do.
Just move on abeg.
ReplyDeleteDid u ever reciprocate his gestures or u were only taking and never giving???
ReplyDeleteThen go to his work place,stop by at his house,,confront him and u know ur answer,read his lips,study his body language,try to find out if he is going tru some things he is keeping to himself,if he is ok,ask him if u offended him unknowingly or u did something he is angry about,and he just choose to stay away,..then u will know ur answer...he is ur boyfriend as u said,communicate with him face to face and that will help u know ur stand,wether u are dating urself or dating him.Most guys are like this they make u fall in love and ghost u afterwards..goodluck ❤️
Capricorn men are good catch when they decide to settle with you.The clause is If he wants to
ReplyDeleteCapricorn? Is that his name😂😁?? Just joking ooo...check if he's married, if he's not married, then move on with your life or keep your options open.
ReplyDeleteStella l respect your wisdom. God bless you. Poster please take Stella's advice and know peace.
ReplyDeleteA lot of Nigerian girls actually don't know how to date.
ReplyDeleteCan you see how her post above reeks of how the guy always does things for her and there was nothing to show what she has done for him?
Someone reduced how they all you and you are trying to move ón.
What stopped you from reaching out to him? Fi d out if he is okay?
Is relation ship for women always about take take?
I don't know why you all think men dont have emotions.
No wonder they treat yoh like trash once they fuck because most times.. You actually being NOTHING to the table apart from the Pussy and boobs.
Tell is why you mad son!
DeleteYou harsh o.
DeleteBut truth is mostly harsh for those who dont want to learn.
Anon 16.56 Haha 😂, my WhatsApp group!
DeleteEnter your comment... you see what that man did there? I do that too (unconsciously) and they have done it to me too. I just find myself not connecting to the person again, and having this kind of resentment when I see their call. its really not good but I can't help it. There is this my friend (guy) that we have known for like 2yrs, our friendship started becoming strong to the point he told me one day he would like to marry me.. since that day till now we no longer talk like we used to, the connection don break patapata. The thought of him started irritating me (especially that time I was going through challenges) and I withdrew completely from him.. He has asked me tire and I just tell him am busy. Am really trying.. so maybe that's the same thing that is happening between you and the man. sometimes it could be that the person is going through a rough period.just give him his space for now maybe that's what he needs. let it go, if you're meant to be together it will happen.
ReplyDeleteThis ur own na diff case abeg
DeleteAnon.. this is also mee
DeleteComments here got me laughing.. Poster take Stella's advice.. Speaking from experience..😀😀😀
ReplyDeleteLovelace
Capricorn not caprison ooo😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 pls I don’t want to laugh , I was shocked she brought in his zodiac sign into this 😂
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteLoyal men to date are always pisces, Aquarius, Libra and Leo
ReplyDeletedid you say Aquarius😂😂😂😂😂😂 they are very FAR from loyal o? But you re right about Leo
DeleteNa lie o, am an Aquarian and am very loyal to a fault.
DeleteMy zodiac sign don't define me at all,move on if you want to period
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmmm
ReplyDeletePoster pls I'm confused,the man dey sell caprisone ni abi na him get caprisone. Abeg no waste ur time for man wey dey sell caprisone o.
ReplyDeleteHahahahahaha, na wa o
DeletePoster keep calling to confirm he's fine. but see ern the day he picks and you confirm hes alive and well, just fashhy him.
ReplyDeleteDo you reciprocate his kind gestures? It may be he isn't getting same energy from you.
ReplyDeleteIam a Capricorn and iam married to a Capricorn too,when things are not going the way they want finacially,they switch on ghost mode,maybe there is something going on within,why not try and reach out to confirm? Don't jump to conclusion,Capricorns are generous but prudent with money
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