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Thursday, January 20, 2022

THURSDAY IN HOUSE NEWS....

 Hailings!!!











IN HOUSE MEMO










Hmmmm i saw all the arguments inside spontaneous post this Morning... The truth of the matter is that we have three winners because they all posted at the same time.... In Blogs, we use the time to determine who posted first.

I can decide to make only one person a winner but i wont do that, instead the three of them should send their numbers to my PA and we will gift them Datas as i cannot give only one person the 'something' indicated n the post of Wednesday..

Thank you all........ Shout out to all the people in Anonymous mode and that special fool that wants me to post his insulting emails to me so that he can trend here ...Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahha my people something dey happen .
Anyway, BYE FELICIA!!!!


Kisses to everyone and a big shout out to all BVs who meander from my Blog to Linda's Blog reading and commenting.....Yep I said it!
 

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD


I grew up with a violent dad and I vowed to myself never to marry a violent man because I don’t want my children to experience any form of abuse, I needed to break the cycle.

As Pastor’s kids who always had to pretend all was well, when I started dating I had built a strong wall around me and never really opened up fully in my relationship, any slightest sign of anger issues in my partners I would run out of the relationship without hesitation.

I once broke up with a guy just two weeks into the relationship because during that two weeks I did things to make him angry and he never reacted for once, it was then I remembered that since we have been friends for years I had never since him angry. I ran ooo ( we are still good friends till date).

When I met my husband I fell in love totally, I held no part of me back, I opened up about my background and I was hundred percent myself around him. Soon we started having issues, when provoked I would go in violent rages and become physical. When I was in a fit of rage I would have extraordinary strength and lift things that I couldn’t on a normal day.

I became scared for myself and would cry to God for help. My husband (then boyfriend) had to call our pastor to intervene when I scratched his eyes out one day. I could see the fear in his eyes. My pastor was shocked because we were pretty close and very good friends, he was a confidant and could attest to the fact that I was someone who was always scared of confrontation, how much more being violent.

He prayed with me and gave me scriptures to help, I would still go into rage but without violence till I had a talk with my uncle who is a psychiatrist. I was able to see that because I saw a future with my man and I was opening up so much for the first time, I was very vulnerable around him and a lot of daddy issues and resentments that had been buried deep were surfacing.

Also when he made statements or jibes that I grew up hearing my dad say I would become violent ( those were the triggers). At that moment I wasn’t seeing my man anymore but my dad, so my mind would automatically go into attack mode.

I had to forgive my dad genuinely and let go of every form of resentment before things got better. I desperately wanted to be better because I was turning into the same monster I resented. It took time but I am now way better. I even have a slightly better relationship with my dad.

Recently someone asked me to intervene in his marriage complaining about how troublesome his wife is. He said he wished she was as calm as I am. My husband and I exchanged glances and laughed hard for so long. I told him how lucky he was to have his wife and told him a bit of my crazy past.

I am happy I have put that part in the past and I pray my kids never ever see that part of me. In case you ever stumble on this sweetheart, thank you for holding me down. Thank you for helping get all the necessary help I needed and also helping me to be better.




WOW...I hope that this writeup will help someone come out of their rage.... Thank you for being so open and honest in your writeups...





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149 comments:

  1. Harmattan came back in full force. It didn't come to play one bit.

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    1. The harmattan did not come to play at all

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    2. I love the harmattan 😁😁

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    3. Today's harmattan tie gele for Head.

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    4. At all.this two days are something else. I'm loving it Sha🀣

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    5. So loving it😁😁

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    6. Thanks for sharing writer of motherhood poster. Thanks to your husband for holding you down. People want ready made partners these days, nobody wants to help handle issues. So many people going around with hidden deep seated issues waiting to explode. Going through the process of soul healing one another promotes bonding and growth in a relationship.

      Stella I confezzz, Ayam a meanderer but I remain loyal. 😁

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    7. Honestly, standing up from bed by 6am to prepare for work has become a herculean task for me now. By that 6am sef every where is still dark in Abuja.

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  2. God is faithful. Don’t let the lack of evidence convince you that nothing is happening. In the unseen realm, things are changing in your favor. Forces that have stopped you in the past have been broken. The roots have been cut off of that depression, that addiction, that sickness. It may look like it’s alive and nothing has changed, but stay in faith. It’s just a matter of time before you’re going to see what God promised. Joel Osteen


    REMEMBER SAY: NA PERSON WEY GIVE UP,FUCK UP.
    AIDS IS REAL,ABSTAIN OR USE CONDOM.
    SUICIDE IS NEVER AN OPTION.

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  3. Divine Health Confessions!!

    I am one with divinity and I have eternal life coursing through my being; therefore, no sickness, disease, or infirmity can stay in my body. I live a successful, healthy, and victorious life because I’m one with God’s Spirit and I have no association with death. Glory to God!

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  4. My Uncle and his wife were having a fierce argument.She was still talking back at him but also dishing dinner.The next minute she told him it's ready Γ³.Surprisingly baba went to eat. So I told him she's fighting you and you're still eating,you nor vex? He said nΓ­wΓ‘jΓΊ Semo? πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚.....copied

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    1. Hahahahahahahahahahaha you can not shame the shameless nor, fight can continue after downloading semo. Correct man.

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    2. What is the meaning of nΓ­wΓ‘jΓΉ biko?

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    3. @Taste Bliss, niwaju means opposite or ‘front of’. The man said ‘how can I vex in front of semovita?

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    4. 🀣🀣nothing concern semo with fight oo

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  5. Good afternoon o and make una enjoy.

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  6. YESTERDAY WAS THE SADDEST DAY IN MY LIFE.

    I got to the Airport to board a flight to Abuja. Suddenly, I saw an elderly woman complaining about her stolen phone. I went close to see if I could help. Immediately she saw my phone, she told the crowd that it was her phone which was an iPhone 5.

    For a moment I was so surprised, shocked and so confused. She held and slapped me. The crowd attempted to beat me up but luckily a policeman came into the scene. He asked what was going on, I explained with tears all over my face. The Policeman asked the woman to call her phone. She called and a girl picked, apparently it was her daughter; " she said mum you left your phone at home when you were leaving to town" Tears rolled down the more from my eyes because I had already been disgraced.

    The policeman told the woman to apologize, the woman brought out her Cheque book and wrote a cheque of 5.5million naira and wanted to hand it over to me suddenly my eyes opened and i stood up from my bed and went to urinate.

    Please I need your advice:
    should I return to sleep?
    Or go for Malaria treatment?

    I know u are smiling ☺πŸ˜πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ˜†, put smiles in someone 's face too.
    May you find enough grace to smileπŸ™

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    1. Get a malaria treatment and go back to sleep πŸ€·πŸ˜πŸ˜‚

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    2. Please return to sleep and don't wake up till you have your cheque 🀣🀣

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    3. Go for malaria test please 🀣

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    4. 🀣🀣🀣🀣

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    5. Pls go back to sleep,you must collect that check oh 🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣

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    6. Malaria tablet will work perfectly fine on you.

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    7. 🀣🀣🀣🀣go back to sleep and collect that cheque.

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    8. 🀣🀣🀣 you must go back to that sleep o and collect the cheque,sebi they say dream can turn to reality πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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  7. I need a reallyyyyy good hearty laugh.
    That laugh that makes your tummy hurt after, your chins heavy and your heart racing really fast. Haven't had that kind of laughter in a while.🀦‍♀️

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    1. Watch bae u barbie comedy skits on YouTube

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    2. Eka I agree with you,I like Zics Aloma. I don't know how that guy does it. His facial expressions na die.

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  8. First time of commenting here this year...we hope for a blessed and fruitful year ahead....


    Kisses to jeweluchious doing Angelicious thingsπŸ’•....

    Hoping we all have a great year ahead with positive energy and vibe.

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  9. It's a glorious day,wish today was weekend.

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  10. πŸ˜†πŸ€£πŸ˜‚ E pain am!

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  11. It's a cool afternoon, and I'm soooo loving it😁😁. Harmattan is still around. Congrats, Blacky dearie πŸ€—(so happy for you), Kidjo, and MysticπŸ€—πŸ€—. Stay safe y'all. Much ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

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    1. I'm loving the harmattan jare.. howdy lovie ❤️❤️

      Congratulations @Blackie @Kidjo @Mystic 🎊πŸ₯³πŸŽ‰ more wins darlings

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    2. You're most welcome, Blacky.
      Paris baibay😘😘😘, I dey o. How body? Omo, this weather is sweeeeet.😁

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  12. Gud afternoon and do have a nice day,peeps.

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  13. Good day everyone, please who can enlighten me more on BITCOIN trading? How legit is it? I'm thinking of starting it, I don't want to do something I'd regret later.

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  14. Exactly. Well done Stella, good decision πŸ‘Œ

    Those that wanted to start drama can rest now.

    Congrats to the winners!

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  15. Blessed day to y'all πŸ₯°
    Cold and sunny day in Lasgidi

    Enjoy the rest of your day peeps ❣️

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  16. Why do most food tastes better the next day?

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    1. Prof, it's taste.

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    2. I believe the Umani does not develop when the food is newly cooked...After the food rests and all the condiments blend and infuse themselves in the food then you get the real flavour; taste gets better...

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    3. Especially okro soup πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€”

      Holla PerxieπŸ’–πŸ₯° how's your lil princess doing?

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    4. Cause all the ingredients have mixed very well. I get the real taste of soups after it stays day in the freezer.

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    5. Phoenix, why are you so smart?😭😭
      And is it umani or umami?

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    6. Paris Baibay, my Princess is fine and crawling up a storm with few crashes here and there. πŸ˜…
      Thanks for checking, sweetie. πŸ’›

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    7. Lolzz Fidel Please now don't cry πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ Sorry its Umami Thanks for the correction....

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    8. πŸ˜†πŸ€£πŸ˜‚ @Anon14:15

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    9. Everyone ignored it but it still came to laugh at itself

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    10. Everyone ignored it but you then came to reply to it?

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  17. Vincent..who the gods want to kill, they first make mad. πŸ‘‚πŸ»

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    1. Yea right..πŸ˜†πŸ€£πŸ˜‚

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    2. Nobody nose tomorrow and i know..

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  18. Mrs Dee,welcome back ,you're sighted, its not easy to leave this blog finally, nobody does that

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  19. Good afternoon beautiful BVs Congratulations to Kidjo, Mystic and Black Slimzy...

    BV Womanhood your column is truly inspiring, honest and very relatable...Thank God we don't look like what we have been through..I love how intentional you are to raise a family with the right values and ethos...Cheers to you πŸ₯‚πŸ₯‚πŸ₯‚

    I am so upset ehen On my way to work this morning I saw one silly guy behind DANFO wanking away himself shamelessly in the open where children and people are rushing to go to school...My God I can't understand how some people are...It could not be done privately...Mtsheew

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  20. Motherhood poster, what if your husband hadn't been patient with you like you were with others? This is not in anyway saying anyone should stay in an abusive relationship but then, a lot of us has/had issues too. Let's not be overly critical of people.

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  21. Good afternoon everyone 😘.

    How una dey?πŸ’™πŸ’–

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  22. Lol @alligator pepper. I always have it in my bag everywhere I go, alligator pepper or bitter kola. I heard they wade off jazz.

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  23. Baba bubu is in town and every where is locked,imagine the president coming to commision unfinished project. Apc government and lies😏😏😏.

    I'm indoors frying my awaraπŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹,who want some?

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    1. I had to Google awara. There are many foods in this life o

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    2. Wetin this one dey talk? Awara indeed

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    3. Me ooo kai awara is bae especially when it is cold.
      Just add plenty pepper and I am good to go.
      Please can you give me the steps you used in preparing yours. My own is always a disaster I never get it right

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    4. Ms tee na so we see am o,APC and lies are like twins. Enjoy your awara.

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    5. Pls I need someπŸ˜€πŸ˜€

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    6. I want some! especially made with a nice sauce and enough yaji

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    7. 14:32 may help come to your soul, the frustration is real.

      This one that they want to increase fuel price,how your life go come be now? Pls cry out for help, okay?

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  24. Lovely day ,hope you're all good?it's ending in praise.

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  25. Congrats to the 3 winners at all at all na him bad pass

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  26. Some of you find it easier to believe in "Alligator fables" than Salvation through Christ -Why? Because you love the sin -taking other women's husbands and you will hope to be married and retain your husbands? God is not mocked, a person reaps what she sows.

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    1. πŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘Œ

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    2. Thank you. Please tell them.

      Alligator pepper do this. Crocodile salt does that. Until they meet a wicked man or his vengeful partner then they will know.

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  27. Good afternoon everyone 😊😊

    Congratulations to us all

    Thank you so much Stella I'm grateful πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ’“

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    1. Congratulations Blackie πŸ’™πŸ’™ more wins πŸŽ‰πŸ₯³πŸŽŠ

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  28. Dogs can sense the sadness in humans and often attempt to make their owners happy by initiating cuddling.

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  29. Ah Stella Nwanyi oma and I am planning to post my advert in the next post, please ma, reconsider for the genuine ones, ejoo nwanyi oma

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  30. IHN is here. I thank God for today.

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  31. That love of your life you mentioned in your acknowledgment in your BSc/HND project. How far una still dey? πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸƒπŸƒπŸƒπŸƒ

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    1. 🀣🀣🀣

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    2. I still dey with mine with misunderstandings, I don't know where our love travel go , or maybe under our bed we never do environmental for under the bed find am cos we go quarrel in the morning still frown face for afternoon and our night gist is funny maybe cos we no dey see each other faces then, and over familiarity follow be our problem sef, 10 years of friendship, 8 years of marriage, quarreling and reconciling dey move

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    3. Table scattered. We move

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  32. Bonjour , Γ§a va....

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  33. Bonjour , Γ§a va....harmattan no gree leave Abuja ooo...

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    1. Honestly, but I like it, instead of sweating, lemme be cold.

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  34. hehehehehe...See me feeling like I won an election on SP this morningπŸ˜†πŸ˜†,thanks to everyone that congratulated me,God bless you all.😘😘 Sisi Stella na only you remain wey nor congratulate me for this blog oπŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„ even my anonymous fans congratulate meπŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹ thanks for the data, the congratulations I received this morning don do me, Abeg dash my data to blacky.

    Goodafternoon all, so sorry about your unpleasant childhood experiences @INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD. it seems that some men that beat their wives might have undergone through traumatic childhood experiences as well and need therapy to become better.
    Childhood experiences have a way of influencing an adult's mentality.

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  35. I noticed children who grew up in DV homes tend to have anger issues if not watched and controlled. And also see themselves making the same mistakes their parents made. May God help us all.

    Sign out post on point.

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    1. Yes, our upbringing and the environment have major effects in our life choices. Most of us need therapy to identify the main challenges and make better life choices

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  36. Blessed Afternoon Neighbour's πŸ™Œ

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  37. Please the three football prediction winners should forward their phone numbers to sdkofficialpa@gmail.com

    KIDJO
    Black Slimzy
    MyStlc

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  38. Good afternoon guys!! Congrats to Kidjo, Black slimzy (my geng), and Mystic. Loving the harmattan today!!

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  39. Congratulations @ Black Slimzy and everyone else, good afternoon everyone

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  40. Woman going through motherhood... I have anger issues too but mine is triggered by my husband over his cheating ways. The way I react over this particular issue, doesn't depict my natural gentle and calm nature. I go into a tirade that if I am not calmed I could go physical because I feel extremely betrayed. Why I am particularly hurt by this is that I know and kept myself and HAVE NEVER HAD ANYTHING to do with a married man while I was single..I distances myself from married men even if we were friends before he married. So, I couldn't fathom why I should be the one to have a hubby who doesn't respect me and our vows. I even have every reason to look outside but I am someone who fears God and highly principled. I am still asking God to help.me cos honestly it's not easy. Man wey no get money he still dey chase woman😑.

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    1. Didn't you notice his philandering ways while dating him? Or you thought he will change after marriage?

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    2. Where are the Bvs that talk about karma and single girls who date married men?

      Oya, you all should come out and tell this aunty whose karma she is suffering from. She said she did not sleep with any married man while single.

      Maybe it is her karma from the life she reincarnated from, abi wetin cause her horseband to be a community d*ck?

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    3. High level of testosterone hormone in men caused it...
      Side eyes at Bv Baltika πŸ™„

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    4. It might not be karma, maybe foundational problems on her hubby side.

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    5. Did he engage in premarital sex with you before marriage and saw nothing wrong with it? On that cheating post someone said if a man does not see anything wrong with fornication then the likelihood for him to cheat after marriage is high.

      Aside from fearing God did you pray before you married him and God gave you the go ahead? These are questions I honestly want to ask some ladies who were Godly when they complain of ending with cheats. I just want to know if God did not give them signs or he did and they just ignored and went ahead with the man.

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    6. @Anon15:29,

      So are you justifying s3xual relationships between single women and married men?

      Na real wa for your analysis o.

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    7. 16:55 well said, very valid questions.

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    8. 18.32 don't mind her, she's likely guilty hence her getting this defensive.

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  41. Good afternoon y'all.. I never knew people with bad odour smells during harmattan thought it was only the heat period, enter tricycle heading from work, when I entered I met a heavy womann inside and a moment later another heavy man that's way heavier than the lady came in, if only I had known I would have dropped, skinny me omo the smell from the man airpit was so bad that I turned towards the lady she was just coughing anyhow. I died woke up and died again, sockway armpit plus mouth odour... please no matter how bad it is make we dey bath twice a day even with the harmattan

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    1. Hey sorry dear...Some people have poor hygiene...I detest any odour at all..I wish people make more time to take care of their body

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    2. How do some people even go to bed without taking your bath. Even if I take my bath by 5pm and step out of the house when I come back I must take my bath before I go to bed, if not I won't be able to sleep.
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  42. Hello ihn 😘
    Good afternoon everyone.

    So bubu visited KD today to commission his pikin unfinished projects,they blocked everywhere,making movement difficult for poor people going out to look for their daily bread.

    Congrats to the 3 winners of the prediction..Sexy kidjo,Blacky and Mystic.make una enjoy.

    Motherhood poster,thank God for giving you a patient husband,e no easy and thank God you are a better person now..welldone.

    I have this Aunty that always carry alligator pepper in her handbags..I now know why.

    Bvs una dooh oo πŸ‘‹πŸ‘‹.
    E go surely be ✌️.

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    1. Even schools were shut down, wahala for who go kd town today, dem go trek tire.

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  43. Good afternoon my peopleπŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°
    #positivevibesonly#

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  44. That boy has mental issues. Could it be his joblessness that led to it? Who will now help him with a job or business now with his stinking character? Na wah

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  45. Good afternoon people.

    Congratulations to the winners.

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  46. A week ago, I was on Instagram. I saw a page dealing on Psalms and people were giving testimonies of how it worked for them,I became hooked. On that page,I saw how they prescribed bitter kola for people undergoing witchcraft attack. Going further,I saw the prescription for alligator pepper for sexual cleansing and some other stuff. I borrowed myself sense and ran away. Those people do "with and without" aka "sacrifice."
    Just becareful what you practice,it may seem innocent today but the end result is damning.

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  47. Please guys, be careful about certain things, it's not all the things you hear that you should practise, don't go and open a spiritual portal by the use of those items,eg alligator pepper. That's how people open spiritual portal by the use of those items unknowingly. Spiritual portal which they can't control and end up inviting demons and problems upon their lives.
    The bv that posted about alligator pepper was involved in evil(sex) in the first place, there are items you must not mix with evil or else you re inviting more problems into your life.
    And if you must use them after doing your evil deed, sha know how to use them.

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    1. Thank you very much.

      The man that lady Bv met with realised what he had gotten himself into in hence he ran.

      And when next the issue of cheating and promiscuity is discussed here, we should remember that both men and women are most s3xual act involves a man and women are involved.

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    2. Very well said Kidjo.

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  48. Wow first time I actually hear you call Linda by her name Stella,when this is to let the bad belles know that there is no bad blood between you two

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  49. Iam actually loving this weather! I pray it last!

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