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Monday, February 28, 2022

Monday In House News....



Having a good day? I hope so!

Hmmm some of you don't know that you have bad mouth but once they get into a Blog fight, they cant stand the heat and vanish for some time.... Is that a better way to handle things? Oh well, if it works for them, why not?

Instead of vanishing and appearing weak, you can stay on and ignore those fighting you, dem must tire!

Anyway, it is what it is and my comment up there does not target one person only

Enjoy the rest of the day.....

E go be!



I've been settling matter this Sunday evening. One of my neighbors called me and handed over a tablet. She asked me to help her check it out. I looked at it and saw gynomarc written on it. Naso we ask google and found out what the tablets are for.

I thought she's got an infection before she told me that she found the tablets in her husband's pocket and a pack of condoms too. She was so devastated. Chai, i regretted telling her what i saw on google oh.

She told me how her hubby has been avoiding her for weeks. Not knowing he didn't want her to be infected.

Now that she's in the know, I told her to confront him and let him know she's aware of the whole situation using the tablets and condoms as evidence. Lai lai, she sey she no go confront am, that she'll just remove the condoms from the pack and put them back in his pocket so that he'll know that someone has seen them. I talk tire, she sey she no go confront am oh, sey she go leave him for God. Kai, you have the evidences right in your hands, what stops you from showing them to him?????

To think she was crying that he leaves her and their kids to go elope with small girls each time he went for work and have plenty cash. When money finish, he'll come back to the house to leech on her. Aunty show these things to this man, she said No.

Wahala deeeey...... Leave her to decide if she wants to confront him or not.
Remember that the confrontation and letting him know that she knows is not a solution... besides he probably left it there for her to see and understand he is not OK



Good day Stella, this is a long piece, but I want to pour out my heart to some wives who are terrible. Help me post in IHN on Monday. Thank you. God bless you.

Our neighbor whom I wrote about one time " The Deeper Life Church husband who married one of the worst women on earth and has been living in the worst form of domestic abuse" has finally walked out of the marriage.

Women, I tell us today, some of us need to do better. Single ladies about to enter into marriage and the married ones ask God to make you a good woman, a good wife to your husband, a good mother to your kids, and to give you a good husband too. Be prepared to be the woman you want your man to be to you.

We the residents of Area 2, who have been witnesses to the abuse of this man in the name of marriage, we are so happy he has grown some balls and left her.

Yesterday, I heard my mom say, "that man had a good job that the woman should just spread her hands wide and be enjoying his wealth, but no, every day one day one trouble, now she has lost him" 

 She comes out chasing this man around the compound, both on a towel, breaking windscreen, tearing his clothes, flinging their baby into his moving car, carrying pestle, carrying scissors, threatening to destroy him, running to his office to disgrace him, Church where he is a Pastor has watched him disgraced a thousand times, cos he married her.

I guess she thought she was the air behind his life, he could never leave as per the Deeper Life doctrine of no divorce. Every day since this man married her with his money, over 8 years ago, sleep and peace jumped out of the window. Pastors and Church members have counseled her to calm down, no way, block married women, men, friends, and family, no way, she shouts morning to night, she can never be calmed. E don happens finally, the man don waka now.

She is just a mere teacher at a primary school for all this noise, what can the father of her four kids do to her to warrant so much disdain. In fact, when their last baby was born we wondered how come they laid together and made another baby with all the ways she fights this man and the way she announces to the world how terrible a man he is. 

You need to see this man driving home with foodstuff, they don't drink tap water but the dispenser water, his kids Dress well, attend a good private school, she drives a beautiful car that her salary can never afford, he drops them off at school and picks them to work, he got her maids whom she beats almost to the comatose state until they leave cos she claims they are witches or he is sleeping with them.

What more can a wife want? All you need to do is be his peace, when I went to visit the family after childbirth her home was so unkempt, and lacked the touch of a young modern lady, not for lack of good properties but for lack of ideas of where and where things should be, cloths on chairs, pasting writeups everywhere, I said to myself that if this woman puts the energy she uses in making her home a living hell in to cleaning and just telling her husband darling we need ABC, her marriage would have been heaven.

As a woman, if you have a caustic tongue, pray and work on yourself cause you are a walking time bomb. Are you a young lady now, look at yourself ,are you the type no one can advise you to calm down and reason well when you are annoyed? change, don't marry anyone's son cause you are a big danger.

Back to my story, I heard she went to the man's office with yet another drama after the man moved out stating that the man does not care for her and the kids.

 The office set up a committee to look into the matter, and the man had to go to his bank to print out his bank statement, come and see transfer upon transfer to her, she then changed her mouth that she did not see the money, they asked her to provide her own Bank statements, madam did not come back again. She went home took a few clothes and left her kids inside the house. She has been gone for a week now, thank God the man comes daily to see his kids, one time she refused to cook and the man came took warmer and with one of the sons to go buy food, she came out shouting give me my son, neighbours had to intervene, see this man running into his car with the son and he came back with food.

She would lock him out of his home, he would sleep with the mallam that sells stuff in front of his house, a home he paid for with his money . One night, the men outside my block had to come to stay outside with him, they called the police on her, she hit him with a pestle and rushed to carry scissors. She don dash the man 3 slaps for where we see am " as I'm having flashbacks I want to scream, may God punish you ten times" but no. We wondered if he had no family who can come throw her out. 

Police told the man that night to leave the marriage, he still stayed o.

He accused her of taking out the anger on his kids each time they had issues. These kids have witnessed so many fights from their parents I pray it does not affect them. Today, it's over. The man kept on saying it's cos of my kids.

There are many wives out there, that man is with you still cause of his kids and you use them as pawns in every fight hmm! pray he no tire like this man one day.

 The man has finally picked his kids and taken them to his new abode.

After her long waka, she must come back, their rent in our block has 3 months and guess she would have to move to a smaller apartment that her teacher salary can afford. All her friends that have been giving her bad advice, hope they come and take away for her now, guess she would find a better man, that man from heaven, Angel Gabriel that is perfectly molded just for her. The leash on her neck is loosened finally. The useless man is gone, he don file for divorce.

I'm not saying there are no bad men, but some women are blessed to marry someone's good son and you have taken that for granted. You can not come and kill another woman's son you hear, if you know you are damaged stay single. He pays your bride price, brings you into his home and you think your role is to make it hell. God is watching you,

 if I no witness this one I for no know say men dey suffer too. In the end, we thank God that marriage is over, cause we were praying against the day when police would be called to our residence and we would have to go give evidence cause she have killed him finally. Thank God for saving him.

Are you a bad wife? your day is coming. I pray that man recovers and heals from the trauma, and if he eventually decides to remarry, may God give him a good wife that would make him look up and say " wow, na so e dey be, so a home can be quite like this"

Wives, women let us strive to do better, ask God to help you. Don't say women this woman that, This piece is for wives who have good men at home and are misbehaving.

A lot of thoughts crossed my mind while reading this.



Don't Hate What You Don't Understand

Animals don't hate and we're supposed to be better than them..Your time is too precious to be sacrificed in wasted days combating the menial forces of hate, jealously, and envy.

How on earth do you expect yourself to win a race with someone who is free while you are carrying baggage? Are you not tired hating people unnecessarily? You can't hate anyone without hating yourself stylishly. The most wicked tools that destroys man's destiny is willingness and readiness to hate what you don't understand.

Martin Luther King, Jr said, Men often hate each other because they fear each other; they fear each other because they don't know each other; they don't know each other because they can not communicate; they can not communicate because they are separated.

Allow God to come into your life in order to make your life better than ever. Some of us are suffering because of hatred. You hate people without them annoying or offending you. Some of us will continue to pray till eternity and God will tend not to answer our prayers because we have caged some people in our heart(hatred).

You think you know it all, then be yourself and become an island of knowledge. May be by then you will realize that he who think he is wise is the most foolish being on earth. 

Change your mentality and stop the following:

*Stop hatred.
*Don't hate what you don't know.
*Forgive those who sinned against you.
*let love lead.
*live and let live.
*leave and let's leave(If you know you know).

Nice on Pinky.



Please come and finish the story.



  1. Una good afternoon!
    We thank God for life

    1. ๐‘ป๐’‰๐’† ๐’“๐’‚๐’•๐’† ๐’‚๐’• ๐’˜๐’‰๐’Š๐’„๐’‰ ๐’‘๐’†๐’๐’‘๐’๐’† ๐’‹๐’–๐’”๐’• ๐’…๐’Š๐’† ๐’‚๐’๐’ ๐’๐’‡ ๐’‚ ๐’”๐’–๐’…๐’…๐’†๐’ ๐’Š๐’” ๐’ƒ๐’†๐’„๐’๐’Ž๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ ๐’‚๐’๐’‚๐’“๐’Ž๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ, ๐‘ด๐’๐’”๐’• ๐‘ต๐’Š๐’ˆ๐’†๐’“๐’Š๐’‚๐’๐’” ๐’Œ๐’๐’๐’˜ ๐’•๐’‰๐’‚๐’• ๐’˜๐’† ๐’‚๐’“๐’† ๐’Š๐’ ๐’‚ ๐’‘๐’†๐’“๐’Š๐’๐’… ๐’๐’‡ ๐’‡๐’“๐’–๐’”๐’•๐’“๐’‚๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’๐’”, ๐’…๐’†๐’‘๐’“๐’†๐’”๐’”๐’Š๐’๐’, ๐’„๐’๐’๐’‡๐’–๐’”๐’Š๐’๐’, ๐’•๐’†๐’“๐’“๐’๐’“, ๐’”๐’•๐’“๐’†๐’”๐’” ๐’‚๐’๐’… ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐’๐’Š๐’Œ๐’†๐’”.

      ๐‘จ๐’๐’ ๐’•๐’‰๐’†๐’”๐’† ๐’Š๐’๐’„๐’“๐’†๐’‚๐’”๐’† ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐’“๐’Š๐’”๐’Œ ๐’๐’‡ ๐‘ฏ๐’Š๐’ˆ๐’‰ ๐‘ฉ๐’๐’๐’๐’… ๐‘ท๐’“๐’†๐’”๐’”๐’–๐’“๐’† ๐’˜๐’‰๐’Š๐’„๐’‰ ๐’‚๐’๐’”๐’ ๐’๐’†๐’‚๐’…๐’” ๐’•๐’ ๐’‰๐’†๐’‚๐’“๐’• ๐’‡๐’‚๐’Š๐’๐’–๐’“๐’† ๐’๐’“ ๐’‰๐’†๐’‚๐’“๐’• ๐’‚๐’•๐’•๐’‚๐’„๐’Œ, ๐‘ถ๐’‡ ๐’„๐’๐’–๐’“๐’”๐’†, ๐’˜๐’† ๐’†๐’™๐’‘๐’†๐’„๐’• ๐’”๐’–๐’…๐’…๐’†๐’ ๐’…๐’†๐’‚๐’•๐’‰ ๐’˜๐’‰๐’Š๐’„๐’‰ ๐’Š๐’” ๐’๐’๐’˜ ๐’“๐’‚๐’Ž๐’‘๐’‚๐’๐’•.

      ๐‘ท๐’๐’†๐’‚๐’”๐’†, ๐’‚๐’—๐’๐’Š๐’… ๐’ƒ๐’†๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ ๐’‘๐’“๐’๐’—๐’๐’Œ๐’†๐’… ๐’†๐’‚๐’”๐’Š๐’๐’š ๐’ƒ๐’š ๐’‚๐’๐’š๐’ƒ๐’๐’…๐’š, ๐’ƒ๐’† ๐’Š๐’• ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐’”๐’‘๐’๐’–๐’”๐’†, (๐’‰๐’–๐’”๐’ƒ๐’‚๐’๐’… /๐’˜๐’Š๐’‡๐’†) ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐’„๐’‰๐’Š๐’๐’…๐’“๐’†๐’, ๐’‡๐’“๐’Š๐’†๐’๐’…๐’”, ๐’„๐’๐’๐’๐’†๐’‚๐’ˆ๐’–๐’†๐’”, ๐’”๐’–๐’‘๐’†๐’“๐’Š๐’๐’“๐’”, ๐’”๐’–๐’ƒ๐’๐’“๐’…๐’Š๐’๐’‚๐’•๐’†๐’”, ๐’‘๐’‚๐’“๐’•๐’๐’†๐’“๐’”, ๐’†๐’•๐’„. ๐‘จ๐’—๐’๐’Š๐’… ๐’“๐’†๐’‚๐’„๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ ๐’•๐’ ๐’•๐’‰๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ๐’” ๐’‚๐’ˆ๐’ˆ๐’“๐’†๐’”๐’”๐’Š๐’—๐’†๐’๐’š.

      ๐‘ฐ๐’”๐’๐’๐’‚๐’•๐’† ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“๐’”๐’†๐’๐’‡ ๐’‡๐’“๐’๐’Ž ๐’–๐’๐’๐’†๐’„๐’†๐’”๐’”๐’‚๐’“๐’š ๐’…๐’Š๐’”๐’•๐’–๐’“๐’ƒ๐’‚๐’๐’„๐’†๐’”. ๐‘จ๐’—๐’๐’Š๐’… ๐’•๐’๐’ ๐’Ž๐’–๐’„๐’‰ ๐’•๐’‰๐’Š๐’๐’Œ๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ, ๐’˜๐’‰๐’†๐’ ๐’•๐’‰๐’†๐’“๐’† ๐’Š๐’” ๐’๐’‚๐’„๐’Œ ๐’๐’‡ ๐’Ž๐’๐’๐’†๐’š ๐’๐’“ ๐’‡๐’๐’๐’… ๐’‚๐’• ๐’‰๐’๐’Ž๐’†, ๐’”๐’•๐’‚๐’š ๐’„๐’๐’๐’ ๐’‚๐’๐’… ๐’„๐’‚๐’๐’Ž.

      ๐‘จ๐’—๐’๐’Š๐’… ๐’†๐’™๐’„๐’‰๐’‚๐’๐’ˆ๐’† ๐’๐’‡ ๐’˜๐’๐’“๐’…๐’” ๐’˜๐’Š๐’•๐’‰ ๐’‘๐’†๐’๐’‘๐’๐’† ๐’‚๐’• ๐’‰๐’๐’Ž๐’†, ๐’Ž๐’‚๐’“๐’Œ๐’†๐’•๐’”, ๐’๐’‡๐’‡๐’Š๐’„๐’†๐’”, ๐’†๐’•๐’„. ๐‘ป๐’“๐’š ๐’•๐’ ๐’„๐’‰๐’†๐’„๐’Œ ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐‘ฉ๐‘ท, ๐’•๐’‚๐’Œ๐’† ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐’Ž๐’†๐’…๐’Š๐’„๐’‚๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’ ๐’”๐’†๐’“๐’Š๐’๐’–๐’”๐’๐’š ๐’Š๐’‡ ๐’š๐’๐’– ๐’‚๐’“๐’† ๐’๐’ ๐’‚๐’๐’š, ๐’‡๐’๐’๐’๐’๐’˜ ๐‘ฐ๐’๐’”๐’•๐’“๐’–๐’„๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’๐’”, ๐’•๐’“๐’š ๐’‚๐’๐’… ๐’†๐’™๐’†๐’“๐’„๐’Š๐’”๐’†.

      ๐‘ฝ๐’Š๐’”๐’Š๐’• ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐’…๐’๐’„๐’•๐’๐’“ ๐’Š๐’Ž๐’Ž๐’†๐’…๐’Š๐’‚๐’•๐’†๐’๐’š ๐’š๐’๐’– ๐’‡๐’†๐’†๐’ ๐’„๐’‰๐’‚๐’๐’ˆ๐’†๐’” ๐’Š๐’ ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐’ƒ๐’๐’…๐’š, ๐’†๐’”๐’‘๐’†๐’„๐’Š๐’‚๐’๐’๐’š ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐’„๐’‰๐’†๐’”๐’•.

      ๐‘ฎ๐’Š๐’—๐’† ๐’‘๐’†๐’‚๐’„๐’† ๐’‚ ๐’„๐’‰๐’‚๐’๐’„๐’† ๐’‚๐’• ๐’‚๐’๐’ ๐’•๐’Š๐’Ž๐’†๐’”. ๐‘ซ๐’ ๐’๐’๐’• ๐’‡๐’Š๐’ˆ๐’‰๐’• ๐’‚๐’๐’š๐’๐’๐’†, ๐’€๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐’‰๐’†๐’‚๐’๐’•๐’‰ ๐’Š๐’” ๐’‡๐’‚๐’“ ๐’ƒ๐’†๐’•๐’•๐’†๐’“ ๐’•๐’‰๐’‚๐’ ๐’‚๐’๐’š ๐’˜๐’๐’“๐’๐’…๐’๐’š ๐’•๐’‰๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ.

      ๐‘ฉ๐’†๐’˜๐’‚๐’“๐’† ๐’๐’‡ ๐‘ป๐’“๐’‚๐’๐’”๐’‡๐’†๐’“๐’“๐’†๐’… ๐’‚๐’ˆ๐’ˆ๐’“๐’†๐’”๐’”๐’Š๐’๐’. ๐‘บ๐’•๐’‚๐’š ๐’‚๐’๐’Š๐’—๐’† ๐’‡๐’๐’“ ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“๐’”๐’†๐’๐’‡. ๐‘บ๐’•๐’‚๐’š ๐’‚๐’๐’Š๐’—๐’† ๐’‡๐’๐’“ ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐’‡๐’‚๐’Ž๐’Š๐’๐’š, ๐‘บ๐’•๐’‚๐’š ๐’‚๐’๐’Š๐’—๐’† ๐’‡๐’๐’“ ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐’ˆ๐’๐’๐’“๐’Š๐’๐’–๐’” ๐’•๐’๐’Ž๐’๐’“๐’“๐’๐’˜, ๐‘พ๐’† ๐’๐’๐’๐’š ๐’‰๐’‚๐’—๐’† ๐’๐’๐’† ๐’๐’Š๐’‡๐’† ๐’•๐’ ๐’๐’Š๐’—๐’†, ๐‘บ๐’•๐’‚๐’š ๐’‚๐’๐’Š๐’—๐’† ๐’‡๐’๐’“ ๐’Ž๐’†, ๐’š๐’๐’– ๐’Ž๐’‚๐’š ๐’‰๐’†๐’๐’‘ ๐’Ž๐’† ๐’•๐’๐’Ž๐’๐’“๐’“๐’๐’˜.

      ๐‘ซ๐’๐’'๐’• ๐’…๐’Š๐’† ๐’ƒ๐’†๐’‡๐’๐’“๐’† ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐’•๐’Š๐’Ž๐’†. ๐‘ป๐’‰๐’Š๐’” ๐’‘๐’‰๐’‚๐’”๐’† ๐’˜๐’Š๐’๐’ ๐’…๐’†๐’‡๐’Š๐’๐’Š๐’•๐’†๐’๐’š ๐’„๐’๐’Ž๐’† ๐’•๐’ ๐’‚๐’ ๐’†๐’๐’….


    2. Helen come and finish the story although i don't believe that dead people have such powers. Good day my people

    3. A good phone is good.

      If na before, I will not see what Adaoluchi copied and pasted here with this font that they used.
      God punish poverty.

      Shege jagwa!๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜›๐Ÿ˜›

  2. Divine Health Confessions!!

    I enjoy good health, peace, prosperity, and all-around success as I walk in the full blessings that Jesus Christ wrought for me, which I received when I obtained salvation. God’s Word is established in my life and it is evident for the world to see.

  3. What’s meant for you is making its way towards you. It’s all in your favor. Trust it.

    1. The supposed "terrible wife" might have a yet to be diagnosed mental health issue. It is well

  4. Happy new week. Happy Sales to all entrepreneurs here..

    Hustle everyday of the week.. ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ

    1. Good afternoon beautiful people
      This interhousesport preparation is really stressful
      My head is spinning ๐Ÿ˜ญ

  5. BVS Blackberry
    Kindly accept my condolences on the passing of your loved ones. The good Lord comforts and upholds you and your family....

    Good day Everyone....

  6. Re: bad mouth
    That's how that BV with blog ID **** took to her heels after being nominated heavily as blog irritant/judgina.
    They can't take a 10th of what they dish out ๐Ÿ™„

  7. Reading that Damilola Adegbite's post stella posted made me remember my neighbour,

    I travelled for a while and when I came back, I noticed I didn't see the lady downstairs for two days. I saw her husband and asked about her. He told me they were no longer together. It was so so shocking to hear! They were not a young couple and have been together for like 15 years. I called her and we talked for a bit. She said she left for her peace. Truly no one knows what go on behind closed doors.

  8. As a married man,your wife is the number 1 in your life not your mum.A man becomes one with his wife not mom.Your mom belongs to your dad.

    Solomon Buchi

    1. Crazy things are really happening. God help us to daily grow in all areas and manners Amen. Some women are truly dangerous

  9. You are the one to set a new standard in your family. Quit telling yourself you can’t do it. God is about to catapult you to a new level.-JoelOsteen


  10. Please guys give me ideas of things to put in a party bag for kids.

    Where can I get them to buy?

    Where can I get the party bags?

    1. I believe those party bags may be sold in supermarkets or shops that sell party items. As for ideas of things to put in a party pack, asides the necessary biscuit, candies, chocolates, children drinks like caprisonne etc, try and add something like a lunch box, I don’t mean lunch bag but the box itself.

      Most importantly, it all depends on ur budget and how much u are willing to spend

    2. If you're in Lagos, you can buy the bags at lagos Island and the contents, they usually sell per dozen. It's cheaper than buying at the supermarket .

      Plastic toys
      Drawing or coloring book
      Pencil pack
      Plastic feeding bowl or any affordable stuff

      Then the usual chop chop, drink, biscuits, lollipop etc etc


    3. You can put fancy erasers and pencils, a storybook(depending on their age range), biscuits, drinks, bracelets , balloons, socks, sunglasses, etc.

      You can buy the party bags and the contents in any major market around you, just ask around the market. Also, you can go to shopping malls if you don't want market stress but their own would be more expensive.

      If you are in Ibadan or Lagos, can be your sure plug for both the party bags and the contents of the bag. I will shop them for you and send.


    4. Jotter, kids maths-set, small toys, etc

      Mao A

    5. If you are in Lagos. Go to dosunmu Market, eko. Everything in one place. Except the consumables.

      Congratulations on your celebration.

    6. In lagos?even if not i can give you a few numbers in who market that will sell and send to you or describe their shops to you!

    7. If you're in Abuja,go to Wuse market for the party bags.
      You can put whatever you can afford. Snacks, juice, writing materials, socks etc.

  11. Good afternoon everyone. Love love love thsts what we need. Blessed and productive day lovelies

  12. Good afternoon everyone๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’Ÿ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ’™

  13. Good afternoon people, was waiting for testimony post yesterday but it didnt come up,I will like to share this testimony here.

    I belong to a group on Facebook,where fashion designers share idea and so on, u posted on the group that I needed a mannequin to buy,preferably a used one,that wasin December,a guy approached me ,that he have one used one ,I noticed he's an old member and an active one,so we agreed on a price ,I sent money to him with delivery fee, that was how story entered, I begged cried he kept telling me stories, I reported to the admin and they contacted him, he said he's been sick,later he left the group, I sha move on , only for the admin to contact me last week that there's one mannequin someone want to sell at a cheap price,if I'm still interested,but I will pay after delivery, OK I agreed,but I explain I can only psy twice as I'm very buoyant at that time,he said no problem, a beautiful mannequin was delivered and when I asked for the account to pay the first deposit,he told me a spirit told him to sow it into my life,that all he needs is just prayers nothing else, someone I don't even know,I only contacted him once when the guy dupped me,I'm still shocked o. Anyway my mannequin naming comes up on Wednesday,you're all invited, but make sure you bring gift for the new baby o, mannequin dust to anyone wishing for one.

    You're present situation is someone else's prayer point, be thankful.

  14. I remember when I was in school.

    One of my course mates back then who was also my neighbor had a girlfriend that he used to beat.
    After sometime, any day he beats the girl, some people will gather and beat him up so bad in his dream that he would wake up with marks on his body. He would be screaming in the middle of the night and we all will rush out to see what is wrong. there would be bruises and marks on his body.
    It happened three times for him to join the dots and conclude that his violence towards the girl caused it. He now told the girl that he was not doing again๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ
    People of God, behold the people that beat him up appeared in his dream and warned him not to try it, that he cannot leave the girl unless he wants to die. Guy now came to us and pleaded with us to beg the girl for him that he is no longer interested. The girl told him to pay for all the beatings she received. She billed him 100k back then, this was 10yrs ago, the money was big money. Guy went home and lied to his parents that he had been expelled from school but someone wants to help him beg the management with 100k ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ. That was how he paid this girl and they went their separate ways.

  15. IHN is loaded.

    Men also go through a lot in marriages,but chose to remain silent in order not to be called weaklings.
    May God help us o.

    1. Men stop trying to control a wild woman

      She is not good to marry, you back her belle , OYO

      Male ego deceives them into thinking they can tame a shrew

  16. month end still waiting for allawee FG please pay us

  17. I am so sorry to acknowledge now that I received my data. I haven't been online since Friday.

    Thanks so much Stella and Blog P. A

  18. Hmmm that story is scary things are happening.. good afternoon winnie

  19. Hmmmm....crazy things are happening. Una good afternoon
    Paris boo how are you today?

    1. Greetings Sweetie ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜ I'm good and you? Thanks for checking and enjoy the rest of your day ❤️❤️

  20. Maybe the woman is unstable in the head.

    Abeg people that know broccoli, how do you cook it? I used it to prepare concoction rice and it just taste like raw vegetable. Should I fry it before adding rice? Because I dropped it in d pot when d rice was almost ready.

    1. Hahaha BB.

      Steam or boil the broccoli until tender and allow to cool. Dice onions and fry in a little oil then add the broccoli and garlic, (if you please) allow to fry in a small heat till it turns bright green and easily pierced with a fork.

      Then mix it with your desired dish.

    2. The way you prepared it is fine.
      It's low on taste and high in nutrients

    3. Perxian makes it close to how I like it...I like it not too soft. I also sometimes dip in batter and fry crispy...also you can shred the stalk in your salads too....


  21. The hot memo up there,makes me remember my uncle who almost died from domestic violence but couldn't say it to anyone except my dad not to be seen as weakling or woman beater since they were not raised to touch a woman.

    The ex wife will use her heels on his head,slap and do all sort of abuse to him.One day,she wanted to hit him with jazz,my uncle ran away without looking back.He didn't pick a pin.

    So many men suffer in silence due to mockery and shame.

    1. My Uncle suffered domestic violence from his ex wife too. It was the ex wife's sister that told my aunty about it.
      It was very bad. She was not interested in peace at all. I think she just wanted trouble because that ly uncle is a very cool and responsible guy too.
      Funniest thing is that, they met in Deeper life too but she refused to keep attending Deeper life after marriage so they changed to RCCG. Their pastors and neighbors were frustrated.
      My Uncle had to run away for his life ni o.
      She was trying to make peace in 2016, she begged and confessed that it was her mum that was manipulating her, that her mul wanted to be collecting her money.
      She died before they could settle it finally. We still believe that her mum is not innocent about her death because she really disgraced her before she died.
      Her your children told us that their mum said they should not have anything to do with grandma before she died.

      This life ehn

    2. My cousin suffered more than this..
      The lady would call my dad reporting stuff that never happened, my dad had a soft spot for her, he'll call my cousin and warn him seriously to stop maltreating his wife.. Asin there was one night she called my pops that my cousin locked her out, my dad called my cousin shouting at him, that one is just one very quiet guy, so he won't talk.. he just kept saying ok sir, but the truth of the matter that night was that she was fighting him, tore his clothes and was using cane to flog him and telling him she wants to provoke him until he hits her, my couz, escaped into one of the room in the house and locked himself inside. That was what what made her call and twisted the story to my pops that my couz locked her out..

      I was in there place one day when she came to meet me in my room and asked me if my couz told me anything, I said no, she said he's mad at her because she took some money that he kept somewhere, I asked her if she asked for his permission, she said no. I asked her how much.. she refused to talk and just said all wives steal there husband money.. when the truth came out, we found out she took over hundred thousand naira from some money he brought home that he wanted to use to pay for a transaction the next day.. it was at the point of payment he found out an huge amount of the money is missing..

      Now this my cous is the sweetest guy you'll ever meet, own a 4 bedroom apartment in Lagos in his 30s, very hard working and all, he was the only child of his late mom, his parents didn't stay together so he never wanted his kids to suffer same, this lady knows his fear so she took advantage of it. Now this lady from a strong Muslim home, a Yoruba, a very poor home.. Asin na face me I face you she dey live with her papa and siblings..

      She took in for my cous and he took responsibility and married her but they weren't satisfied.. they kept collecting monies and still always requesting that he becomes a Muslim. This is a guy that married this girl as a secondary school degree holder living in face me I face you, she ported to becoming a landlady, switching on generator all day and enjoying air conditioner as per big woman.. he sent her to higher institution.. Wetin this guy no do.. I guess she was even his first, cos he told me one day that he never slept with a woman until after NYSC..

      Abeg this story long.. is it all the JuJu that was seen in the house or where make I even start from.. aswear my parents couldn't believe cos they really loved her and she knows how to pretend., Infact me sef like am, she was our favourite.. now my mom keep shouting it into my ears not to bring a Muslim girl home or give her belle because of these guy experience ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚.. I no blame am sha, when she visited Abj last month, one of my Muslim friend who wear hijab came to greet her.. Lol..

      Just cos men don't talk, you'll see women playing victim, even the ones who are the aggressors.. na why I no dey allow them bring that leg for here๐Ÿ˜๐ŸคŒ

    3. Oga Dante, Some men are naturally calm and lots of women take advantage of that. I've seen a calm man take serious and betta abuse from his wife. As in this is beyond domestic violence or abuse. That's just plain evil I dey tell you. I think those men are so tired and confused to complain or even tell anyone. Things are happen jare.

    4. Men should speak out. I know it bruises their ego appearing weak, but they should speak out and live.
      That story up there is a sad one. I hope he never returns to that woman.
      Tomorrow, when this man finds a better, calm and respectful lady, his wicked wife will go to town and tell whoever cares to listen how another babe snatched her husband and play the victim card.
      Before you know, she’s gone diabolical.
      I have just one brother and God blessed him with a good woman, thank God.

  22. If trouble comes when you least expect it then maybe the thing to do is to always expect it.Protect your good image from the eyes of negative viewers, who may look at your good
    appearance with an ugly fiendish eye, and ruintongued your positive qualities with their chemical infested tongues.

    You know my name, not my story. You've heard what I've done, but not what I've been through.๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿ†˜

  23. I was on my way out this morning,a woman living close to my house stopped me and begged me for 500 naira to eat, that the children have not eaten since yesterday, I had 1k with me, I decided to share with her that God will surely provide,I gave her and asked her to look for change,she went round,but everyone said n9 change,I told her I don't have Amy other money on me, can you believe after sometime this woman entered her house and brought out 500 change,saying someone kept it with her,that she has even forgotten,so you have money at home and you're lying to me you don't have 1 naira to feed,I sha kept quite,collect my 500 and leave. Na another time sha

    1. People that do things like things don't know that they're not helping themselves at all. If one day she needs help genuinely, how will she be trusted?

    2. Lol. She run you street ๐Ÿ˜€
      People like her make it difficult to help those who need help.
      Don’t worry God will bless you.

    3. Be careful how you give money to people. May God protect us all from evil. I was at the bus stop one day when one girl told me she misplaced her transport money. I told her, if you can get into the vehicle with me, fine, i will pay for you....but to give you money, e no go happen.

    4. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ MC Pinky, na your comment crack me up o.

      Anon no worry. Since she wants to be a beggar, let her continue.

  24. Pleasant afternoon to you all ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

    1. Good afternoon beautiful Paris,I hope your day is going well

  25. Good afternoon people of Sdk blog sphere
    I thank God that man left alive, some women are terrible, tufiakwa

    It is well. Thank God as a woman you've realised just like women, men too go through DV, majority of them can't bring themselves forward to say it.
    We have a similar neighbour like that, the wife is hell. The man has opened 4 businesses for her, non could she manage well. Yet he wouldn't let the man drink water in his own house, always hitting the man. Last month landlord had to call police to arrest the woman. He was asked to report her to the state agency responsible for such issues. It's just a matter of time too.

  27. Good afternoon people of Sdk blog sphere
    I thank God that man left alive, some women are terrible, what they don't know is that the children will be affected psychologically, I still remember when my parent used to fight and I cringe

  28. good afternoon blogfam. having lunch now equsi and eba, na person buy am for me.

  29. Wahala for who dem born for February 29th, no birthday for you this year ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿƒ

    1. Lol ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜† I have someone born on 29th tho! She have shifted it to 28th to avoid every four years celebration

    2. My friends' sister was born on February 29th, she celebrates her birthday with my friend every year as her own birthday is once in four years.

  30. Good afternoon people ๐Ÿ˜.

  31. Good afternoon everyone, may this new week favours us all. Hot memo how did you know all of these personal stuff about the couple? Have you been living with them??

    1. Some women love to fight their husbands in public, announcing to the entire world all the events of their lives, family secrets too. They think it's cool, but makes them look bad. I have witnessed such.

  32. I remember the story of the deeper life man married to a mad woman, I'm happy he finally divorced her, some women don't deserve good and godly men at all. evil being

  33. Some of us are devil 's messengers. Fear some women. Those ones that claim to be prayer Jim-jim I dey always observe them.

    God bless and protect us.
    Gos bless the givers

  34. - see this blog as a restaurant. When you walk in, you're given your own table which is your comment section. You settle down on your table and order whatever you want i.e. you can write whatever you like in your comment box. Now imagine, someone leaving his or her table and coming to your table to spew zebrashit. (Just like people leave sub comments). The sensible thing to do is, carry on with your order, enjoy your meal and ignore the distraction. I mean, it's your data, your phone and your brain. Why then would you be so hurt/touched by anyone's comment to a point where you deprive yourself from enjoying some blogospheric time? Besides, you have no idea if the person you're responding to is living on borrowed data or is a meat seller who is just cruising or is just a frustrated jobless person. Why do you bother about such nay comments? ๐Ÿค”
    - Aunty said she'll not confront her husband no matter what. You can only take a horse to the river. You can't make it drink or do anything it doesn't want to. She knows where the shoe is pinching her. You can't force anyone to take a good or bad advice, no matter how sensible it sounds or how upsetting it is. Confrontation has never been the best form of communication. So..๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฝ‍♀️
    - Good men somehow end up with bad wives. I don't know why but that seems to be the trending math formula. It's sad when you know a woman doesn't deserve the man but has that man by the balls. It's just what it is. Nonetheless, marriage is marriage. You can talk from now till thy kingdom come, if the man isn't ready to leave and the woman isn't ready to change, it is just what it is. And people are just people.๐Ÿคญ

    1. ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿผ

    2. Your first illustration is dope๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–

    3. Pearl mi, I dey tell you. How far the go na?๐Ÿค—

  35. The honey badger eats porcupines and poisonous snakes, raids beehives for honey, kidnaps baby cheetahs and steals food from hungry lions.

    1. And they are so small!
      Bravest animal!
      It is not by size o!

  36. Good day my
    yard people, is either that woman has skion skion or there is something that man is being punished for, there's this man I know,he jilted a lady after many years of being together,he now meet this sister in church during 21days January fasting/prayer..saw d seriousness n commitment,bfor u will say jesus is lord,Bros, proposed n married this sister within 3month interval...after marriage sister join behavior, attitude character ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜n set it on d table for brother lol,she will be at home, until he comes back n cook for her,it became worst whn whn she gave birth, their baby will nt bath until d man comes back to bath her, that man saw hell,I can't even type,he had to confess to d ex that God is punishing him for what he did to her through chat,they wife saw it n ws mad,she ran to come tell ws then her eyes began to see her ears small

    Ada ohafia

  37. My own brother is on the same boat of marital abuse. We have talked and just left him. If he decides to go to heaven early, life goes on. I only pity my aging parents. A girl we all welcomed with an open arm but the only thing they gave her to leave her maiden home with war and fight. She came with superiority complex so she is highly incorrigible. The sewing business my brother started for, once it started booming, her people then knew it was a woman's business that my brother should stay away. Story is parents only son. It was recently discovered that she steals their money to contribute with her siblings to build a house for her parents. I'm not against that, but the way she goes about stuff...My parents are in constant regret...
    Invest in your girl child. And parents should do better in raising their children. Now she tries to turn my niblings heart s against us but God won't let it happen. Story is long...We all reap whatever we sow.

    1. so you people can't save your "only brother" by going to the house to throw her out, I don't joke with any of my many brothers o and won't allow any woman to trouble them cause they are very calm and quiet, my senior brother's fiancee once slapped and pushed him, my brother didn't retaliate but I heard what happened while I was away, When I got back, I wore my shots and went straight to her house, gave her the beating of her life. I was later scolded by my folks, but e nor concern me, next time she won't raise her filthy hands on a calm man.๐Ÿ˜ก

      Women should learn how to respect responsible men.

  38. Bv Justswt, did Tjay send you the cash gift he promised to send through blog PA before he quit the blog?

  39. Looks like the no. Of men passing thr' Dv is increasing by the minute. Lord have Mercy on our other gender cos it's no longer funny. Trust our day is going fine.... IHN Ekabo

  40. Good afternoon everyone
    How is the day going
    Hope well

  41. IJ, keep your mouth out of Husband /wife issue. They will use you to settle. Don't force your advice on her. Let her decide before she blames you tomorrow.

  42. Hmmmm,some badly raised women get lucky to find and end up with good men,and they end up using their hands to tear down their homes..Domestic abuse and violence is no gender specific.

  43. Good afternoon. Chei, some women are so lucky but they don't know. See how she used her hand to destroy her home. Person wey get cap no get head.

  44. @Ijeoma
    So you think that when the wife confronts her husband with packs of condoms form his pocket,
    he will just own up to adultery? Odiegwu
    He will say that he bought it for his friend who was drunk and emptied his pocket and he was
    considerate enough to pick the contents up and pocket it. He drove his friend home and even
    when you call his friend, the friend will corroborate everything and demand for his condoms back
    , that it was a stranger that slumped that they took to hospital that has it.
    You might even end up apologizing and appearing to be a big fool. Have you doubted your name before?

  45. Please can anyone recommend a malaria drug that is not bitter and mild. Not bitter. Thank you

  46. Bonsoir Blogfam! I will finish the gist in in house tomorrow,iam still shocked

    1. bonsoir mon chรฉrie, see me refreshing this page just to see the concluding part of the gist๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ข.
      it's ok, bon nuit.

  47. Regarding bad wives:Long post;

    A guy lost his job immediately after his wedding.His wife is a bank manager.His mother-in-law is a pastor of a small church.His father-in-law is late.Two of his married brother-in-laws are living with their mother in a flat that his wife is paying for.

    He was struggling, but nothing good was venturing his way.His mother-in-law and wife turned him into a maid; He cooks,clean and wash their clothes take care of their two children.

    The annoying thing was that,when he married his wife,he had to treat himself for STD, which he contracted from his wife, because she was having foul discharge and she was lactating even when she was yet to be pregnant for him.

    She confessed she had abortion few weeks to their wedding. He said, he married her because he is As and she is AA.The woman he truly loved was AS,but he had to break off the relationship and married this his wife,who he later found out she was a slut manipulated by her mother for money.

    Then he had an opportunity to travel abroad and struggled for sola. But this his wife was frustrating him with monetary demands, using their children as the pawn.She was able to contact the other one abroad and spilled out everything! Sola waka go.

    The useless wicked wife says he wants him to return, for the fact that she confessed to her in laws she had slept with different men after he traveled. She was caught with a man living in the house her husband was paying rent for. This evil woman wants her husband to come back and be washing her pants like before.The man eventually divorced his wife for his mental well-being.

    The useless wife went to another popular social media and cried wolf, playing the victim. Of course he was cussed out by people who did not know the other side of the story. Someone copied the link and showed him. He did not reply her. The man she camped inside the flat dumped her sorry-ass later. To imagine her mother and brothers who are pastors,are supporting their prostituting sister because of money.

    When she confessed her adultery, her husband forgave her,saying body no be wood,but she was not satisfied,until she ruins him. He has fled for his life, trying to look for sola.


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