It is rumoured that Toolz who is married to pilotTunde Demuren, separated from him when she was pregnant
Toolz, in an interview with Chude Jideonwo, said the rumour is false, explaining that she was not wearing her ring at the time because her fingers were swollen and she was pregnant.
According to her, the rumour that she moved out of her matrimonial home was not necessary.
“The rumour of crisis in my marriage came out because at the time I didn’t wear my wedding ring and I also changed my Instagram bio.
I didn’t wear my ring because it wasn’t fitting anymore, I was pregnant at the time and my fingers were swollen.
“The rumour that he moved out was just ridiculous, had my mother worried when she heard because I was pregnant,” she said.
Toolz went ahead to share her experience after she had a miscarriage of her first pregnancy.
According to her, to date, that time was the most traumatic situation for her because she couldn’t believe it was happening to her.
She, however, mentioned that seeing a therapist and being spiritual helped her go through the phase in her life.
Toolz said, “I don’t like talking about the miscarriage but at that time I was so lost. They told me I wasn’t going to go through with the pregnancy and if I do, there will be so many issues.
“We prayed about it, spoke to different pastors but accepting that it wasn’t going to work made me move on.
It was seven hours of labour to just remove the baby but I just kept praying. I blamed myself but when I spoke to my therapist, I realised it could have happened to anyone.
“I’m happy I was able to go through it and I hope my story is an inspiration. I went from crying every single day to getting better.”
According to her, the rumour that she moved out of her matrimonial home was not necessary.
“The rumour of crisis in my marriage came out because at the time I didn’t wear my wedding ring and I also changed my Instagram bio.
I didn’t wear my ring because it wasn’t fitting anymore, I was pregnant at the time and my fingers were swollen.
“The rumour that he moved out was just ridiculous, had my mother worried when she heard because I was pregnant,” she said.
Toolz went ahead to share her experience after she had a miscarriage of her first pregnancy.
According to her, to date, that time was the most traumatic situation for her because she couldn’t believe it was happening to her.
She, however, mentioned that seeing a therapist and being spiritual helped her go through the phase in her life.
Toolz said, “I don’t like talking about the miscarriage but at that time I was so lost. They told me I wasn’t going to go through with the pregnancy and if I do, there will be so many issues.
“We prayed about it, spoke to different pastors but accepting that it wasn’t going to work made me move on.
It was seven hours of labour to just remove the baby but I just kept praying. I blamed myself but when I spoke to my therapist, I realised it could have happened to anyone.
“I’m happy I was able to go through it and I hope my story is an inspiration. I went from crying every single day to getting better.”
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Aaahhh! God abeg, make e no break o!
ReplyDeleteAll these people you call your celebs and worship, nothing cover them shanshes o
DeleteJesus same thing happened to me, I was 7 weeks gone but miscarried, it was 7 hours of labour kai being a newly wed I hated every married person around me because I felt they should have warned me and on top of that I was blaming myself for what happened and so many things I could have done to stop it. The grief is beyond this world
DeleteIn all thank God for everything and I hope I get pregnant soon and carry it to term.
One lesson I learnt in marriage is there are things nobody can tell you aboyt, you just have to experience it and figure out how to move on.
Sooo sorry for what you went through, God will surprise you soonest @anon
DeleteHello my brothers and sisters. This right here is a testament that God is supreme, and the only true God. Even your favs, when in distress and dilemma, go to God Almighty only. Some more f them come online, show you the other side but when stuffs happens to them, in the secret they run to God. And only in their testimony you hear it. Toolz I pray for you that your marriage will last long and long, and God will be glorified in your life in Jesus Christ name.
DeleteThank you lora, your empathy and prayers mean a lot. Amen to them. I wish you happiness always my sister.
Delete7weeks? 7 hours in labour? How??
DeleteAnon 15:10, I just had a miscarriage and from Sunday till Wednesday that I discovered till Friday after I was given medication on Thursday, my cervix was contrasting(labour) while the tissue came out.
DeleteDo you understand now?
I just hate hearing about marriage breakup, I hope is not true, glad she's okay now
ReplyDeleteThank God for her life.
ReplyDeletePlease who is she?
ReplyDeleteWhat are all those rings and amulets on her fingers and piercings on her face?
So unsightly.
ANG! Focus on the topic and if you don't know her, waka pass.
Delete🙄 Please who are you?
DeleteYou know how to use a phone to post comment abi? Use that same phone to check google.
Lol
DeleteI don't believe everything these days,until it comes from the person's mouth. Some people are good at making up stories and judging others wrongly.
ReplyDeleteHmmm, I hope all is well with her marriage because this constant rumor of her marriage breakup is somehow.
ReplyDeleteAnd why did she change her Instagram bio?
To God be the Glory
ReplyDeleteToolz ure such a beautiful woman,but why did u pack all those weapons on ur fingers like Charley boy’s wife 😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteLol
Deletelmaooo....
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Delete🤣🤣🤣
Wicked people will attack the things you hold most precious and dearly with their ugly mouth; just use your mouth to chart your course in this life
ReplyDeleteYou wanted to birth like the Hebrew women upon all your exposure imagine 7hrs of labour just to avoid cs smh
ReplyDeleteComprehension is not your fortè.
DeleteThe 7 hour labour was to push the stillbirth out.
Kiaaa and i dont want to say you are foolish o.
DeleteShe really looks like Charly boy and daughter here,they should better not break up not after dating for close to 12 years🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteAmazing b
May God continue to bless and keep your marriage
ReplyDeleteLooking like tems here
ReplyDeleteYes. The pout like Tems natural lips.
DeleteThat is how they deny initially until it becomes so glaring that they won't be able to deny anymore. Then they will start spilling.
ReplyDeleteI'm waiting for that time!
May you get what you wish her a thousand folds.
DeleteAre you OK? She has said her marriage is intact, leave her alone. Even if it isn't, how is it your problem. Wicked anon, that's how someone else will wait to hear about your pain too.
DeleteEven if it was shaky, it is not over until it is over. Why will you use your mouth to confess bad things over your life when you are probably praying that God will fix it. You have to confess good over your life for it to come to pass.
DeleteThat is how they deny initially until it becomes so glaring that they won't be able to deny anymore. Then they will start spilling.
ReplyDeleteI'm waiting for that time!
Keep on waiting on someone's downfall
DeleteWill that add money to your account??
DeleteThis is why people should keep their good news and marriages private,too many people online waiting for u to shed tears and bad news.Godforbid Abeg!!!
DeleteDs is quite old or is it a new one? I love Toolz & her ever cheerful hubby so much & I’m optimistic that nothing will happen to their marriage. No perfect marriage anywhere , so work on yours as long as there’s no death threats. Best wishes , Double T.
ReplyDeleteNO PERFECT MARRIAGE 👌👌👌👌
DeleteHonestly marriage is no child's play. People should leave them already and stop adding to their stress
DeleteIt's well
ReplyDeleteHope it is not true.
ReplyDeleteThanks to God.
ReplyDeleteFor anyone who needs to hear this, 25% of all first pregnancies end in a miscarriage. A miscarriage does not mean anything is wrong with you, it's punishment, village ppl, or any other thoughts.
ReplyDelete25%? Is that a medical fact or just your estimation?
DeleteU mean me that has been married for7years and I've not been putting on my wedding ring does it means my sweet marriage is in trouble?
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