Hailings......
IN HOUSE MEMO
Let me say it again here... Please avoid people who are negative minded cos they have a way of filling you up with bad thoughts that will never make you see anything good in anything or anyone......
Dont even give them any space to offload their negativity on you and you will be the better off for it.
Dont even give them any space to offload their negativity on you and you will be the better off for it.
Have an awesome day and stay worry free if you can.... I hear worrying is a sin oooooooh!
INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD
I grew up hearing about how worrying is a sin, I was taught that when you worry about a situation you are saying that God is not capable enough to handle the situation. So I try my best not to worry and I thought I was doing quite well in that department till I fell sick recently.
My mom came around for a day to help, my sister and my husband were in the house too. It was the perfect opportunity to take a much needed nap and off I went to my room but I couldn’t sleep. I kept worrying, I worried if my husband was going to cut up my son’s sausages to the right size so he doesn’t choke.
I was worried that my other son playing in the compound might not be wearing the appropriate footwear. I worried about how I would cope when my mom left the next day. I started to worry about dinner and even worried about my sleep getting interrupted ( not that I was sleeping anyway). I had to pray for God to help me with my worries and I slept off.
When I woke up everyone was fine, everything was handled even better than I would have. I am way better and I have been napping more constantly and I am more refreshed. I am making conscious effort to stop being a worry wart.
Worrying is a sin? Like seriously????? Please post Bible verse to back it up.....
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READ THIS....
How can husband be AA and wife is AS, and baby is SS? Paternity fraud looming...
Husband is AA, wife is AS. 3 months after they had their first child, they found out their daughter was SS.
At first, it appeared like a joke, a very bad one. Medically, that isn't or shouldn't be possible. They conducted the genotype test in four medical labs, and the result came out the same.
Husband and wife decided to have their genotype test again. Results were the same.
Then it became clear what was happening. Husband ain't the father of the baby. He secretly had a DNA test and it was confirmed he didn't father the baby.
Amidst the confusion, he asked his wife if he fathered the baby. Wife wouldn't confess. She insisted he fathered the baby. It's just obvious that whoever fathered the baby is AS which resulted in the baby's SS.
They went for a paternity test and it was glaring husband ain't the baby's dad. Wife still insisting she didn't get impregnated externally. She went ahead to do another DNA. Result was the same.
Wife became a shadow of herself. Husband got crazy. Their home became a "once upon a time."
Wife kept researching how possible it was that her husband didn't father her baby and the baby's genotype is SS.
Then she told a friend of the whole matter. Her friend just felt she's using female's antics. "Take responsibly," she was told. She kept swearing and swearing. Her friend told me of the whole drama.
I kept thinking about how this would be possible. Medically, it was impossible for AA to birth SS. Coupled with the DNA results, it was glaring. But wife claiming innocence and swearing on her life was a whole different thing.
I thought of what could have been. Then I arrived at a conclusion: if wife is innocent, then she's not the mother of the child. I immediately called my friend that I've found a possible solution. MNA (maternity test) to the rescue.
They went for an MNA, and test revealed she's not the mother of the baby. Babies were changed at birth. Long story cut short, they involved the police and investigations were carried out. Multiple tests done "here and there." They got their own baby back - AS. They returned the supposed baby. Hospital was sued for the negligence and trauma.
Wife was so displeased her husband didn't trust her. They settled and made up. They just had their second baby - a boy. Husband stayed with wife in labor room and monitored everything. Once bitten, twice shy.
At times, the so called paternity fraud is change of babies at the hospital.
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ReplyDeleteFather, I thank You for my life is preserved in Christ. I enjoy good health daily because Christ is alive in me. My body is not subject to any form of disease or infirmity. Nothing negative or destructive can dominate my life because the Word of God has dominion here.
Amen
DeleteNice twist to that movie that was aired last week. Eeeh we watch am too, but ur plot is different nice try
DeleteDear undergraduates,
ReplyDeleteASUU has embarked on another strike to press home their demands. It's a one month warning strike. If government doesn't meet there demands, we don't know how long the main strike will be.
You can do a lot within this one month to help yourself.
If you are having challenges in your academics, this is the time to look for someone to put you through those courses giving you sleepless nights.
You can do a one month internship or even volunteer somewhere around you.
If you are in your final year and you have a project topic approved by your supervisor, this is the time to do some work.
If you are in 300 level and above, you can start learning the software used in data analysis for your field. It will save you from.spending money outsourcing it.
For example, I know students in the faculty of social science use SPSS for their for their research work. There are other softwares too. You can learn the basics on YouTube. You can equally find someone proficient in using the software to teach you. This applies to final year student and anybody who has interest in pursuing a career in academics.
Let's talk about writing papers. It's one way to build your profile if you are going to be looking for funding later on.
Talk to any of your lecturers, select a topic you are okay with and start. Your lecturer will guide and review your work. If it's good enough, you can get your paper published.
You can also learn skills. Advanced excel, writing, tech, digital marketing and lots more.
Make this one month count.
Don't sit at home lamenting about the strike while you do nothing.
Some of your mates are already ahead of you with the profiles they are building.
Put in the work now for a better tomorrow.
Have a blessed day!
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Deletefuck responsibly and release wisely to avoid unnecessary calculation after this valentine.
ReplyDeleteHolla Guys 👋🥰
ReplyDeleteDelete one fruit forever
(A) Watermelon 🍉🍉
(B) Mango 🥭🥭
(C) Apple 🍎🍏
(D) Banana 🍌🍌
(E) Pineapple 🍍🍍
Me delete Mango abeg 🚶🏼♀️🚶🏼♀️🚶🏼♀️
Ciao 😘💋😘
Water melon
DeleteBanana 🍌, makes me want to throw up🤮🤢 every time.
DeleteMango must go
DeleteI love all😂
DeletePineapple
DeletePineapple cos of ulcer
DeleteSame here,mango,I'm not really a fan but in the absence of others,it's better than nothing😄
DeleteApple
DeleteBanana add cashew too
DeleteApple. Sadly.
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DeleteMango.
DeleteStella sorry about your fall, thank God u are ok now.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon people
Who has seen that "The tinder swindler" documentary? That guy is heartless o. The worst part was that he was just partying and flying private jets with his victim's monies o. And the women,they just kept giving and giving,that lady that kept taking out loans from 9 different banks for him🤦. Chaiiiiiii.
ReplyDeleteInfact,im angry i just paused it, will continue inthe evening biko.
I was angry at the end of it all. Very angry oh that I took it out on my WhatsApp status
DeleteI just finished watching it yesterday,the guy is a pro..the women were so daft honestly! He will collect from one babe and flex it another babe like that,the circles continues for him
DeleteTry and see 'How I met your father' it's comedy tho! I'm watching cos of Kim Catrall I love this woman and Hillary Duff
Well said Paris , they were foolish and maybe greedy.
DeleteVery daft women forming love and friendship. Kaiii!
DeleteGood afternoon everyone.
ReplyDeleteHolla 😘💕
Deleteshe said she is on her period, you got mad
ReplyDeleteshe said she missed her period you still got mad, are you naturally a mad man
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Delete😂😂😂😂
DeleteBoth statements are capable of invoking madness. Some guys can attest. 🤣🤣🤣.
DeleteGood afternoon everyone
DeleteIt's hot here
Harmattan is better ooh
Lol@Mark
Delete"My friend" said it's cos both are scam tactics.
First one, after spending, you arrive home and she dropped the boobshell, why she no talk am when Una dey flex? Why she no talk am when you invite am on a date etc, she won swear say she no know why you invite am out before?
Second one, another scam to collect money "to take care of it". When I returned back to Abj last week, I went to see my Gee, na so him play me tape of one babe weh been come see am for last week of December, him even play me the VN weh the babe send am.. "I don't know how it happened, I know you use protection all through, I'm just confused cos I'm pregnant and I haven't met any guy before you and after you, I have to do something cos I can't disappoint my parents, I'm sorry I don't want to involve you but I'm not so box up now, but I have to take care of it".. my Gee, even though he knew she was lying still sent her money and then cut her her lying ass off.. I was mad at him for doing that, why you go send am money, na Una dey encourage this Yahoo girls, you are an enabler.. I really para for am oh.. but the did has been done
So Madan anon, men are not mad, they are only mad at your sharp practices. They are mad at you for being a yahoo girl and a scammer 🚶🚶
Blessings
ne guy "has promised to give me the whole world..
ReplyDeleteI dunno where you people will sleep as from next week 🙄🙄🤦♀️🤦♀️🙆♀️🚶♂️
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Good afternoon blogfams💋😍💖💞💜💕💚❤💙💟
You will rent or lease part to us😅😅😅
DeleteUna good afternoon,how the weather be for una side?
ReplyDeleteGreetings 😘😘 the heat is on another level
DeleteVery hot something
DeleteCould also be baby factory things.
ReplyDeleteThe wife shouldn't blame the husband in any way but thank God they found their own baby although I doubt the story.
DeleteSome hospitals have done so much harm. Just that our security agencies and judicial system are corrupt to take up such cases. Thank God they recovered their baby.
DeleteGod bless us
Hello everyone.
ReplyDeleteGoodafteroon everyone
ReplyDeleteBrother Emeka is three days now
ReplyDeleteAll the leafs wey you pour for ground in the name of “ you want spoil your girlfriend with flowers for Val day, better come pack them throw now if nt ehhh you will run kitikiti
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DeleteKing Jerry long time no see
Delete🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣very important ….
DeleteProudly single
To those men who plait their hair and wear earrings. May God add mensuration.
ReplyDelete🙄. There's nothing wrong if they plait their hair or wear earrings. Should God also give us dicks because we wear trousers??
DeleteAnd may God also add fractions and statistics 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteAfi mensuration
Mensu what??Anon,why na?
DeleteThe beauty about commenting is the diverse opinion of people on a blog. You don't try to suppress or shut people's opinions on a given subject or want everyone to comment exactly the same. If you're not comfortable with one's opinion, then drop yours with a superior argument by not trying to ridicule others or call them derogatory names. It does no good here. We are all here for the entertainment and more also educating aspect of it. I don't go under people's comment to attack them even when I hold different view about their argument. I have never done that and likely will not do that. I'm someone that takes and appreciate corrections and also quickly to apologize when I'm wrong. I'm not perfect that which I know for certain.
ReplyDeleteThe attack often times on me isn't necessary. I see them and asked myself, why this level of hatred? What is my crime? Is it cos I chose to be active at the comment section here not minding my busy schedule most times. Or is it cos i chose to often joke her on some issues?
People should learn to be constructive in argument here. I respect few persons here I've seen constructively dropping a rejoinder than the ones that outrightly insult people here out of their hatred on them.
Enough said....
Bv Kidjo on the mud right now 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteTeejay don't mind the haters
EZEGE, about that your "black hearted" comment, Please next time replace it with "evil hearted".
DeleteThat "black" appears like racism to me.
You can't be writing perpetual falsehoods, inciting division & fear, and expect people not to challenge you, deal with it!
DeleteChai Don't mind them, TJ.
DeleteAnon 14.23 wtf is on the mud? Anyway, you and TJ, na the same whatsapp group una dey.
DeleteThanks Chike, I truly understand you.
DeleteSmiles... Thanks Snarker.
This is a faceless group. If anyone comes under your comment to insult you especially when the person is on annon mode. Kindly See it as if the person is below you or afraid of you and move on. If God should open your eyes to see the age bracket or status of those who go annon to insult or use derogatory words on others you will know it's a waste of time and energy replying or taking them to.mind. matured and happy people don't know how to insult another person.
DeleteEzege, learn to take correction.na make you for nor enter yawa Kidjo advise you so
DeleteWhy do you always feel anyone that has a dissenting opinion from yours hates you?? Kidjo just corrected you and that ends it. Why oh why!!!!
DeleteLet it go. Everybody's opinions must'nt go down well with how we try to see them. Not everything you react or respond to. Take the message and move.
DeleteKidjo never insulted you
DeleteShe only warned you to be careful
Don't mind him Mark, I don't understand it either, every act including the one that will do him good if he heeds, is termed as hatred.
DeletePls what post did kidjo corect him
DeleteMark Morgan abi kilonpe, your hatred for Teejay is so glaring. You can't control your hate, and you won't stop throwing subtle insults at him. What kind of a man are you? You will never agree with whatever he post so why don't you just move past it? I don't see you on Dante's post, neither on Ceaser's. E no even sure for you! You ain't all that you know, matter of fact the only good thing about you on this blog is being a Chelsea fan. Other than that, you ain't different from Richie Rich and that ineloquent being.
DeleteAnon, it's the Abba Kyari post of today.
DeleteTj no mind them, no be only u dey hia wey dem want to d correct. Nwanne jisie ike.
DeleteJubilee, you won't want to do this with me, trust me!! Naaaaa you won't . Instead get a leash and a gag. One is for your neck, the other is for your mouth. It's for control for animals like you.
Deleteanon14:23
Deleteit's your life that's in the mud, not mine.
TEEJAY, You know your problem? You think you know it all whereas you don't know shit.
I only pointed out something I noticed about your trend of writing, and you concluded that I must hate you to have come under your comment, why should I hate you? did you break my heart or thief my pant?😞😞 na you know o, sha reduce your negativity on Nigeria and your "ITK" , if you like shout from now till eternity, I will come under your comments and correct you if you don't stop your negativity on Nigeria. you didn't buy any space on the blog from Stella, so don't tell me where to perch😕
if you gat two heads,I'm in my house come and beat me if the perching vex you🙄
Don't we all just love @Kidjo like right now? She always say it as it is not and not minding whose ox is gored.Kidjo,we are with you
DeleteAbeg o.i wan ask question o.Wetin Mark Morgan say wey dey wrong? Jubilee,respect yourself na and why you dey behave anyhow like this? Which one be Richie Rich and Vincent own?
DeleteMost people here are so frustrated
DeleteWhat did mark say that is wrong
Naija never hard reach
People come here to unwind and learn but una go still add quarrel.
As in anon 17:45, we absolutely do!!
DeleteAs for Jubilee, my advice to you is to read Mark's response to you like 100 times till it sinks in. Gboromideleru.
This Mark sabi finish person sha!😁 In a very classy way. Jubilee, next time, face front.
DeleteGood afternoon 💃💃💃💃💃💃
ReplyDeleteI'm grateful Lord
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon
I can not imagine the trauma. if I was the woman/mother, I would doubt myself , the pain is not here, how people's wickedness would have destroyed an innocent family, now we appreciate little things God does for us that we take for granted.
ReplyDeleteAsinnn
DeleteThe mental toll it would have taken
I mean it, no one would have believed her
DeleteGood day everyone. Stella how can one not worry when a lot is going on around him/her?
ReplyDeleteI have a lot going on and I don't even know how to go about it. My hope is on God now 😥😥😥😥
I pray God comes through for you speedily 🙌
DeleteQuit worrying and start praying dear. God your father is a loving God. He will never allow shame around you. I pray that you will receive positive answers to your worries quickly. Amen
DeleteGod will come through for you
DeleteAll will be well by God's grace.
DeleteGod help this country, nothing person no go hear.
ReplyDeleteHospital
Pekin
Change kwa ?
Government need to close down that hospital.
President Putin of Russia has ran with his military base from Ukraine,afraid catch am 🤸🤸🤸🤸🤸🤸
ReplyDeleteNo mind'am, him fear say Europe go strike them. Hahahahahha na Chinko presido him wan form alliance. Lol
DeleteStella, hope you're better now. Your in house memo is so 👌. I avoid negative minded pple like a plague, you can't come and be filling my head with nonsense. As for worrying, the only thing it might change is your health, so why worry? Switching babies at birth, when the time comes, biko my hubby will folllow the nurse and my child like a hawk. The stories are becoming too much. Justyswt, babes, I hope you're in a better mood. 🤗🤗🤗🤗. Y'all stay safe. 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
ReplyDeleteAwwwwww, Candy babe, I am fine. Thanks.🤗🤗🤗🤗
DeleteGood afternoon everyone 😊😊
ReplyDeleteOkay so this friend of mine (an older woman) came to me for advice some weeks back, she's been having issues with her husband, an issue i know it's only God that can settle, but then the man's family started getting involved somehow probably because of how the man has painted the woman because her husband's family lives abroad, so they don't know her much, her MIL asked her to apologise to them (the husband's younger brothers), she took it to her bosom friend, she told her not to try it, infact that she should quit the marriage, well she inquired of me if the advice was okay, I told her it's wrong, I don't advice people to quit or stay in their marriages even when it's that abusive, but I hate looking like what you think of me, I told her to apologise to her husband's family, you can't be enemy with everyone, it'll only mean that what your husband said is true, at first she was angry at my advice but later heeded to the advice, the man's family visited Nigeria recently and she visited the family house after over 10yrs of feud, she apologised to them, ate together with them, they apologised too, and one of them echoed the word, "you are so humble you're not exactly what your husband painted you as", she came home happy, fulfilled and in peace, today they have seen the real person their brother is.... it's very possible that she's everything her husband said or even worse, hot-headed, unapologetic et all but the message here is "DO NOT BE LIKE WHAT AN ENEMY PAINTED YOU TO BE, HUMILITY TAKES PEOPLE FAR IN LIFE" (isi ani adiro adi every akpolu ya) ... learn to apologise when it's needed... May we all have a good day...
ReplyDeleteNigerians and their smelling snivelling grovelliing, obsequious,
Delete'humbility'.
Loll.
Thanks for this
Delete15:02 you just described yourself, again!
DeleteYou're welcome "MOR".... as for the Anon 15:02, comment with your I.D if you have something to tell me
DeleteThe ancient Greeks and Romans would make gravestones for their deceased dogs.
ReplyDeleteThank God they got their baby back! Was it not on twitter the other day, someone gave birth and the nurse were going to hand her husband a baby boy instead of a girl. Things are happening. Hospitals needs to be more careful. So many lives have been destroyed this way.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon ndi yard people.
ReplyDeleteI am watching Jennifer Lopez marry me movie today at the cinema. I have decided to give my sef a 5 day casual leave starting today.
Don't work until you slump and die. Take sometime off to rest, truth is if you die today on that work table, someone else will be there to take over your job in 7 days.
Catch y'all later byeee.
Enjoy yourself jare 😁🥳🥳 Marry Me is an interesting movie 👍
DeleteI love the film, very unusual storyline, you will love it, .... Have fun please... body no be firewood
DeleteThanks fam. just coming out from the cinema and I must say every second was worth it. I can't even believe I cried at the end of the movie. Best movie I have seen this year.
DeleteWorrying is not good but it is mostly unavoidable.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon all 😙
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon all 😙
ReplyDeleteGood hot afternoon everyone,d heat is 10 much o,hw una dey
ReplyDeleteAda ohafia
With what is happening around us this days,we have every course to be worried.
ReplyDeleteAs a child of God, I do not have any cause for worry.
DeleteStella can we have a cryptocurrency segment,about 5 people in my office have resigned since last year after cashing out,one was gracious enough to tell me to forget about d big names and go for smaller ones,but I don't even know the smaller ones to go for,it will be nice to have an educative segment on this,if there are blog visitors that know a thing or two,you can drop hint as well let's help ourselves,thank you
ReplyDeletePleasant afternoon Bvs 😍.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone🥰🥰
ReplyDeleteStella hope you're feeling well now
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon my people
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ReplyDeleteAre you the same anonymous up there👆
Deletebusted!!!
DeleteSeriously?
DeleteWhich anonymous pls @16:23👁️
17.56 it's no biggie, just the copied post for university students about ASUU strike that someone posted above. Blog detectives, rest!
DeleteI am not ooo, I saw the post, copied it to post to my friend, I mistakenly tapped and sent it here without giving credit to the original sender, so I had to delete, I don't have any reason to hide my identity, I am real, and anything I can't say to your face, I won't say it at all, hope you get that
DeleteI'm a year older today.. Grace and mercy found me!
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday to me and @yoriyori
Happy birthday, Tade ♥️♥️♥️. May God perfect all that concerns you. 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗.
DeleteHappy birthday YoriYori and twinny. 🤗🤗🤗🤗
Happy birthday dear Tade
DeleteMay you live long to fulfill destiny
All ailments in your life is healed in Jesus name.
Happy birthday to you and Yoriyori, God bless your new age 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳
DeleteHappy birthday Tade love 🎉🎊🥳🎈 my earnest prayers is for your complete healing in Jesus name 🙏🙏 God bless and keep you
DeleteHappy birthday Tade
DeleteHappy birthday dearest here is wishing you God blessings ,good health and long life , I pray that this day brings you so much happiness . Lots of love and healing.
DeleteHappy birthday to you Tade. May the love of the Most High God never depart from you 🙏. You are blessed
DeleteThank you all my family y ❤️ 💕 ❤️ 💕 ❤️
DeleteHappy birthday to you
DeleteMay all your heart desires be met
Happy birthday Iyawo.May this new year bring you Joy overflow and peace in all areas of your life.
DeleteHappy birthday to you Tade ❤️❤️
DeleteHappy birthday Tade. God's healing hands is upon you 🙏.
DeleteHappy Birthday to you rajabfood mine was yesterday. Stella sorry about your fall same thing happened to my brother's wife when she was heavily pregnant, she fell in the bathroom she was in pain for days. This is me saying thank you to all my well wishers yesterday may happiness never depart from you all.
ReplyDeleteThank you! Mrs Korkus, sorry for the fall.. Hope you are feeling better now?
Deleteyeah, i am OK now, thank you for asking.
DeleteUna good evening o.
ReplyDeleteHailings and I cometh in peace or in pieces (the option still dey). So I was wondering in my solemn moments why are tigers and gorillas and other species that we don't eat, endangered? Like why are they going extinct? But goat and cow and chicken that we chop on a regular nor dey lai lai finish?? Why is the ones we don't eat about to finish and the ones we eat are not finishing?? Me I am starting to think that either some of these 'endangered' species gave themselves brain and decided to go into one forest inside inside one country that's not on the map yet, sha just away from we radical humans and started living their lives or some people decided to be eating tigers and gorillas on code. It's sha my thinking sha. You cant blame me. I've got on my thinking cap. It's not been washed for years. You should expect any kind of thinking.
ReplyDeleteLas las you go dey alright.
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