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Saturday, April 16, 2022

Man Whose Girlfriend Called Off Their Wedding Due To Violence Denies And Says He Will Not Collect Dowry Until She Births His Child

They were supposed to get married today Saturday April 16, 2022 but she called off the wedding earlier on this week alleging Domestic Violence and he has responded and accused her of all sorts....
He also denies beating her and narrates how many times she had aborted his babies.....


 






MY ABORTED MARRIAGE WITH SANDRA OBI (Ada uburu): MY STORY - David Okike.


Contrary to the statement my wife posted on her Facebook profile bearing Ada Uburu, which is currently trending, this is my story.

Let me first clarify that we have dated for over 8 years and she bears Ada Uburu with her official name, Michael Helen Ozioma, and another identity - Sandra Obi, which she uses to suit her purpose of identification at a particular time. 


Within these years, I have never on any occasion, irrespective of the level of provocation, raised my hand on her and this is because I respect adore her. There was no such occurrence where I raised a knife, cutlass, and or harmer on her and it was shocking to read her fabrications in that regard.


Accepted that there is no perfect relationship, I can’t deny the fact that we sometimes disagree but it never led to assault as she alleged. I make the above statements knowing that we were not leaving alone but surrounded by relatives which can as well serve as witnesses to how we lived while we were together in my house. My mother-in-law still keeps in touch to date. This goes to prove that she is on her own and doesn’t enjoy her family’s support in the destructive line she has towed.


This is difficult for me to bring to the public domain but I am aware that he who asserts must prove and that silence sometimes means acceptance and as such, I am handicapped safe from letting the public into this issue. I am now certain that she isn’t the woman meant for me as She is more interested in tarnishing my image and ruining my reputation after swindling me and postponing our scheduled marriage for four consecutive times.


 To what gains exactly? Even after terminating three of my pregnancies without my consent. Why would a rational thinking woman keep quiet while I spend heavily on wedding arrangements when she was convinced she didn’t want the marriage to hold.


She had always maintained that she never wanted a child before wedlock, which I accepted and respected her decision because of the love I have for her. After paying her bride price in 2020, she took in and terminated the pregnancy at Federal Teaching Hospital, Abakaliki. 


That was the third pregnancy she terminated. I was pained and we had some misunderstanding and it got to a stage where my mother-in-law got worried if she could still get pregnant because of her series of abortions. Be it as it may, when we went for marriage counseling, the church decided that her condition doesn’t permit holy matrimony but rather marriage blessings, this got her unnecessarily worked up. She became hostile to me and got angry at any little provocation. It was the height of her frustration. 

She isn’t what I bargained for after all.


The pictures I see all over the internet are misleading and a ploy to lead the general public astray. This is someone I have supported financially even to the extent of opening a pharmaceutical and poultry business for her, facilitated her covid 19 grants which she never gave me a dime from, rather she had her way and lavished it on her extravagant lifestyle.


I thank God that she is taking this direction and I accept and respect her decision. But telling lies to play a victim, is way beyond normal and unacceptable.


 Regardless of what happened, she is having my child, and the Uburu tradition and culture don't allow that I receive the dowry I paid as she is pregnant for me at present, when she delivered my child, I will surely receive my dowry. A woman with multiple identities.

David Okike

51 comments:

  1. Oga gather small sense and keep quiet. One charge and bail lawyer has helped u compose words to give out. All d things said are full of lies. First a lady called off her wedding 3times for wot? Ma gender calling off a wedding once shows maybe she saw something she isn't comfortable with d first time, talkless of 3times. Bros let me tell u something, it's either she breaks up anytime u beat her and u will go back to beg with gifts, crocodile tears and with friends and family, and she will forgive u thinking u will change. A leopard does not change its skin.
    Secondly, she does not want babies bfor wedding but u guys keep sleeping with each other and doing abortions illegally, u even mentioned a govt hospital (those ones don enter one chance bcos u don call their name). Don't u think it was miscarriages from d beatings u gave her?
    Moreso, u said her mum is still in constant touch with u, we would like to hear her mum's side of the story too.
    U also said u don't think she can conceive again after d abortions but u ended it by saying she's pregnant for u.

    Bros abeg ur lie dey smell 😳😳. Like I said before, gather sense and keep quiet, u want us to believe all ur lies ni? Rubbish and ingredients 😳😳😳

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    1. He thinks we are foolish πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    2. @ your 2nd to the Last paragraph, he said that her mom wondered if she'll be able to get pregnant again. That is a normal reaction, and it happening doesn't take the fear away. Olodo.

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    3. Oga park well.

      We don grow pass elementary and umu ota akara stage.

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    4. Oga, if every audience is to be like that on Stella's blog, then it's better u save ur breath. In their chronically biased minds, the woman is always right. For them, ur case is DOA.

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  2. This is very serious, what is really happening?

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    1. What does he mean by terminated the pregnancy without his consent? Oga she has every right to.
      You haven’t said anything about the pictures of hers online with bruises, how does anyone fake that, or atleast tell us what resulted to that.

      You can wait however long to collect the bride price, that’s your cup of tea… las las you must still collect it.
      Wicked man

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    2. Oga, if all you wrote about her is true then you dodged a bullet and should be happy to be rid of her instead of still wanting a child with her.

      Elective abortion does not happen in government hospitals. The doctor may take you away to somewhere else tho. Unless you beat her while pregnant and she had a miscarriage that took her to the teaching hospital for evacuation.

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    3. @ push up , did you actually say she had the right to terminate the pregnancy without his knowledge? You are kidding right? Is it then safe to say the man has the right to put abortion pills in her drink without her knowledge , so as to terminate the pregnancy?

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    4. push up she has no right to

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  3. Wahala wey tie wrapper. Ogini dα»‹? 🀷‍♀️

    The girl is saying domestic violence, the guy is crying morality. Only God knows the truth.

    May peace be upon them.

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    1. The gospel according to judge judy, "if the lady is not on any psychotic drugs, if she doesn't have a history of mental illness, there is no way she could have cooked up such story"

      Oga, we know your type. Abeg, shift!

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    2. I hope you are not in any way linked to the judiciary. You are too easily confused.

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  4. Thank God this woman had the boldness to walk away. Covid 19 grant that is just 30k is what she damaged on extravagant lifestyle? Wow!!!. I see him like someone that might kill the lady and kill himself. She should be careful out there

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    1. The guy is just proud... Periot

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  5. She get mind to even involve ur own mother and ur own sister in her lies against u abi πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„.

    Once they want to defend themselves, they don't know more than trying to paint the lady as loose or as an ashawo.

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    1. Eka, he wrote mother in law.

      But you just believe Amina but don't believe this man.

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    2. I said she not he. She mentioned his mum and sister in her story. Anon, won't u go and get a decent life instead of spending ur waking moments trolling me.

      Why won't I believe Amina? Was it Rihanna or ASAP that said she was the cause or just unfounded gossip flying around. If u don't see the difference, go and hit ur brain somewhere for a reset abeg. I'm tired of u already

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    3. Don't get tired o, cos e just begin.

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  6. The Original ShugarGirl16 April 2022 at 09:59

    Hmmm.
    See super story. Well written
    May we not choose to be blinded by one sided love.
    It never balances uo

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  7. Oga your lies dey smell. I was told they dont even terminate pregnancy at Govt hospitals.

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    1. He must have beaten her while pregnant and she lost and evacuated it at the government hospital.

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  8. Every story has 3 sides... waiting to hear the third side of the story before I will comment.

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    1. Can heaven for the third side.

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    2. So the pictures she posted showing physical abuse are of him massaging her out of love right? This is why one should be careful when relatingg one's story to the public. How many of the people you are telling are even smart enough to spot a lie?

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  9. Waiting for the third version

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  10. And he didn't call her a cheat, ahewo, diabolical, etc like some of his brothers would have done. Kudos!

    So despite the series of abortions she is pregnant again for you abi? If I were her, I would abort that pregnancy. I would not allow anything to link me to you at all.
    See him mentioning relatives living with him, who will your relatives support? People living in your house and feeding off you? Who will they support? Ewu. Getat!

    And the stupid girl allowed money to blind her, she kept sleeping with a goat without protection and chopping beatings. Greedy lots!

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    1. Yes o, how people lower their standards because of money baffles me... But I'm grateful she out and I pray and hope it stays that way...

      Because from what he said the mother is still in touch... Some parents ehn, as long as money is involved, they don't care about the wellbeing of their kids. I just hope they don't convince her to go back just because of the money they get from the guy. It is well

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    2. Na that continuously sleeping with him na him surprise me pass. As in, you will be doing oh ha, ho ha, yes yes yes for someone you claim beats you. All of una dey ment.

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  11. Either you beat her or not, she said she's not doing again please collect your bride price and let the lady move on. What is you will wait until she birthed. So the hospitals she aborted all the 3 pregnancies are, are closed and she decided to keep this pregnancy even before marriage? Something you said she's against. Oga, we've heard you, please collect your bride price now now now before you come up with another story of how she's still your wife and you can do anything to her.

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    1. He's a lair... May the Almighty God deliver that lady completely because that man up there na real bad market

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    2. Which was why he paid dowry in 2020. Why are we choosing what to understand to fit who we believe?

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    3. They said Govt hospital dont carry out abortions except its ectopic pregnancy or complications. Dat has already cancelled his lies.

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    4. As in all hospitals, such can be done at the side. Women actually prefer to do such there cos they feel it is safer.
      All of you acting like you don't know the truth

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    5. @10:33... someone explained on another blog that is tradition to ensure his claim/rights to the child. Retrieving the dowry will deny him of that right (wasn't aware of that myself)..

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  12. Oga she said she no do again!!!...na by FORCE???...go create another lie because this one no enter...πŸ™„πŸ™„

    Woman keep running!!!!....

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  13. Wahala be like wetin again ??

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  14. Bros are you sure you are saying the truth???? I'm waiting for the lady's response

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  15. We believe you sir! Keep on giving us cold zobo

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  16. Hear talk! You dated her for 8 years and within the last three years, you haven't raised your hands on her. Does that mean within the first 5 years you've pounded her at one time or the other? God forbid bad thing!

    Why will she want to remain with someone like you? Some women dey really try.

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  17. This is the problem with us.. she comes and says DV then everyone believes
    What if the guy is right????

    Naso una accept buhari . See where we dey

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  18. Stray bullet touch Teaching hospital

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  19. Oga abeg there is no federal medical centre in this country that will terminate a woman's pregnancy unless on life threatening condition. You mean she just walked into a govt hospital and demanded for an abortion? Guy you dey lie abeg.

    You dey sleep person pikin for 8 years? And you think the poultry and whatever you gave her can make up?

    Whoever wrote this lame essay for you no try.
    I wish the hospital will come out to distance themselves from this your lie. The girl has replied him sharp sharp unlike him who wanted for a week before looking for story to write and send.

    And to the people saying there is no stamp on the girls result,I did my scan at federal medical centre here and it wasn't stamped.

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  20. Waiting to hear the mother inlaw side of the story..

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  21. Waiting to hear their marriage counselor part of the story. This is the person they would be laying all their various complaints to before now. So that one nah him go know the full gist. 😁

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  22. Having read the comments, mostly discrediting the guy's side of the story, I asked myself why do most women lack the ability to critically think. I think the writer deserves the benefit of the doubt.
    Are there no intelligent women on this forum that can approach issues differently and dissect them logically instead of all sleeping and facing same direction? It's really bad!

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    1. What will they dissect? So for your mind you think that write up there made any sense...its you that's unintelligent. Even thou many plenty here sha

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  23. Brother wan play defence mechanism. Brother beati beati.

    Sharap there.

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