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Monday, April 25, 2022

Monday In House News...

  WOW!!!!




 



STELLA's SINGLES MINGLES LATEST BRIDE


She met the man of her dreams on one of the edition of Stella's singles mingle and after an off/on relationship, he popped the question and she said Yes....

I feel so proud!

Congratulations to you both.. I pray your union lasts for a lifetime.... Be happy!




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IN HOUSE MEMO

How the go they do?

Only two participants from the face of in house news competition sent their numbers for the data and even those two will never acknowledge that they got it after Waju sent it... I find this rather strange behaviour..


Over time most participants dont respond to sending their numbers on time and come back months later to ''demand' for it.

What i will do is that from the next face of in house competition, I will accept only the five best entries and only the winner will get cash, others will get nothing. The last winner Ali B got 10k but from the next one will be higher.

You can send in two photos for May face of in house news competition if you are Interested

What new in the BV-world?


Catch my warm hugs!







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BV Chilaka Christian wishes a Happy Mothering Sunday to all the mothers and intending Mothers in the house.  
The Wishes are from Sunday April 24,2022.



Chilaka Chilaka *wink*




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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD



My relationship with my mom is getting better as my children grow older. There were a lot of things I didn’t understand while growing up.

I didn’t understand why she could be so overprotective at times and controlling. There were a lot of things I kind of resented her for because I thought she was just being too much .

There were things and situations I thought she should have fought for herself or us but she would say she was trying to pursue peace because of us her kids.

The lashing out and transfer of aggression I thought were just wickedness on her part , I have come to understand were not. It was just the frustrations of a woman who was working and shuffling multiple roles so we could have the best.

I didn’t understand why she was always shouting. Now I know why, with two kids I know how stressed and frustrated I get, how much more someone raising five kids almost by herself .

I am so protective of my kids, na head I carry their matter like Gala. I am more than grateful for all she has done for us. Being a mom has helped me see things from a better perspective. Na strong woman she be.






Most of us learn to appreciate our parents when we become parents... I am happy you are closer to your mum now.. Dont forget to spoil her.






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BV LOVELACE LOSES DAD DUE TO HOSPITALS ALLEGED NEGLIGENCE


He was admitted at Lagos state teaching hospital (LASUTH) on Tuesday the 19th of April, he was okay apart from pain in the lower abdomen due to the tumour. 

He was scheduled for operation on Thursday because the hospital said they only conduct operations on Thursdays and Fridays. Wednesday evening he came down with malaria, treatment commenced and he couldn't go in for surgery on Thursday as scheduled. Due to the nature of the surgery he was placed on only fluids and pap.


 My dad was visibly weak on Friday morning when I saw him. I asked him if he wanted anything to eat, he said the doctor says he should not take anything because of the surgery though he was placed on drip.



I became worried because I didn't like how my dad looked, he began to tell me not to worry that all will be well. My dad was also suffering from HBP. As we were talking, my younger sister had already joined me around 11:30am; a female doctor came in. She told us that they want to take my dad in for surgery and proceeded in listing all the items we needed to buy for the surgery. I asked her if it was safe for my dad to proceed with the surgery seeing how visibly weak he was and the fact he is still on medication for malaria. 


She said all will be taking care of during surgery.


The anesthetic doctor came in to brief my dad about the surgery asked my dad about his health condition, my dad told her that he's suffering from HBP. She further asked what drug he was using and if had taken anyone that Friday, he said no that he took one in the evening of Thursday. That's when I joined the conversation to ask if it was okay. 


She said no problem that they know what to do.


Around 3pm he was wheeled in for surgery after we bought everything needed for the surgery. The surgery commenced. My younger brother came in as well to wait for my dad at the theatre. Around 4pm a doctor came out and asked my brother to go buy a specimen container to put the tumour they removed. We didn't hear from the doctors until I and my sister left around 8:30pm. 


My brother waited behind.



According to brother they took my dad to the ward around 11pm. Then everything went south when around 1am my dad woke suddenly screaming he was in pains... My brother started shouting for a doctor, Stella no doctor was around except a nurse who couldn't do much...


The place they operated on was left open due to the nature of the surgery though a medical gauze was used in covering the opening in case of an emergency.


My dad was in severe pains and was crying for help... My brother was running helter skelter looking for a doctor... When he eventually so one, what came out from his mouth that he is on night duty and nobody briefed him about my dad's surgery. My brother then pleaded with him to save my dad, when they got to him; my dad was bleeding from every hole available.


My dad started calling on God in agony to save him. My dad practically saw himself bled to death. Around 2am he went into shock and died after pints of blood was transfused into him.


He died in pain, hungry, weak and afraid.


I lost my dad.





This is so sad!!!







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Long weekend alert for those in Nigeria


*Fri* Apr 29th Weekend starts
*Sat* ✓ 30th weekend
*Sun* May 1st Workers Day
*Mon* ✓ 2nd public holiday
*Tues* ✓ 3rd Salah
*Wed* ✓ 4th Salah public holiday


*Thursday work resumes*

*Friday May 6* - weekend starts again


Is this correct? Una dey enjoy oh!






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143 comments:

  1. Divine Health Confessions!!

    I rejoice because the Lord Jesus has overcome this world for me. I have been made more than a conqueror in this life. I live in the victory that Christ provisioned for me; therefore, I am not afraid of sickness, for I reign in life through Christ Jesus.

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    1. Sorry ๐Ÿ˜ž for the death of your Dad, I don't understand when those who are meant to help the sick say they are not on so so and so shift its disheartening honestly, Takeheart and May his soul rest in perfect peace ๐Ÿ™ Amen! Other news, I am so happy for the single and mingle couple ๐Ÿ’‘. Our Blog Original person a.k.a Oga martho please am I still using plastic ID? Bv. Madame koinkoin a.k.a "peacemaker " is now Mummy anthony-clever

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    2. Bv Lovelace please be strong no amount of words can be enough to console you but I pray that God in heaven will send you help. So painful

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    3. Sorry for your loss. It's do sad that these doctors take oath to save life but neglect their duty and forget the oath they took as soon as they are faced with emergency. RIP to your dad.

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    4. Wow ๐Ÿ˜ฎ so so sorry for your loss. Let the memories of the good times be your comfort.

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    5. I'm so sorry Lovelace. This is heartbreaking ๐Ÿ’”

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    6. @ Lovelace dear, so sorry. It is ok to cry, let it all out. The Lord will strengthen you all and give you the grace to pull through, amen.

      You will never get over it but with time you will be able to manage the whole situation better. Take heart and may your daddy's soul rest in peace.

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  2. Your BIG breakthrough is coming! Don’t give up too soon!-coybarker


    REMEMBER SAY: NA PERSON WEY GIVE UP,FUCK UP.
    AIDS IS REAL,ABSTAIN OR USE CONDOM.
    SUICIDE IS NEVER AN OPTION.

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    1. Someone lost their dad! Say sorry first! I don't understand some of you.

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    2. 14:49 They font read the post.
      The copy their comment down like little toddlers in primary school and rush to paste the next day doing first to comment like dun.ces. Agadi nwafo

      Poster, may your fathers soul rest in peace. This is terrible.

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    3. what was said wrong? some people post comments before they read!

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    4. Stella, you don start? You don swallow my comment bah ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿฅด

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    5. @BV Lovelace: Please accept my heartfelt condolences, words cannot begin to express the sadness you are feeling right now, God rest his soul.

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    6. @BV Lovelace: Please accept my heartfelt condolences, words cannot begin to express the sadness you are feeling right now, God rest his soul.

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    7. Lovelace, may God comfort you all. So sad.

      Such negligence.

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  3. Enjoyment galore niyen oooo for almost 5days.


    BV that lost her dad,,may God console you and give the fortitude to bear the loss.

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  4. Re Face of IHN:

    Ali the winner never came back to thank BVs for voting for him.
    Stella, may I suggest that only BVs with known IDs should participate moving forward.

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    1. Your suggestion no hold water abeg. Coming here to thank bvs is not a function of blog IDs. Some contestants that did not use blog IDs do come to thank us and write the name they used to contest below the appreciation. Not everyone want to post their pics here with their blog IDs

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    2. Are you guilty @15:16

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  5. Good afternoon everyone ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š
    The latest bride in town,I celebrate with you God bless your home

    So sorry for your loss BV Lovelace, May God comfort your family ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™

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    1. Congratulations to the latest bride๐ŸŽŠ๐ŸŽ‰๐Ÿฅณ God bless your home Sis

      Sorry for your loss @Lovelace..God comfort your family

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    2. So sorry for your loss@Lovelace....I don't know why I got teary reading this sad piece, I'm so pained right now.May God comfort you and your household.

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    3. So sad, sorry for the loss of your dad. God comfort your family

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    4. Same here. May God comfort you and your family. For those thinking about undergoing surgery with Naija dokitos abegi think am again. Too many cases of innocent Naijas wey dey die at the hands of these "butchers".

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  6. @Lovelace, I'm so sorry and heartbroken. The attitude of our public doctors have to change!

    This is why many people complain of this country! I wish you would have taken Dad to a good private hospital in time.

    So sorry dear.

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    1. Even some private hospitals are crap. My mum died at St Nicholas and I'll never forgive them. Not only for their crap service but also for the lack of sympathy they displayed to her anxious loved ones.

      Dear Lovelace may your Dad rest in peace in the presence of the Lord

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  7. Stella, I've noticed most of the IHN contestants are not names we're familiar with. It seems, they just contest, win, and then disappear. I mean saying thank you to you, for the money/data, wouldn't hurt.
    Congrats to the latest bride. May God bless your union.
    BV Lovelace, so sorry about the death of your Dad. May his soul rest in peace. ๐Ÿ™. May God comfort y'all๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—. Y'all stay safe, stay blessed ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

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    1. So because they did not use their known blog IDs they are not eligible? I believe they already told Stella their blog IDs with proofs so they are free to use any name they like to identify their pictures. Before you and your fellows will go Anon and use their pictures to insult them whenever they say what you don't agree with.

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    2. Why are you so triggered anon 17.00? Leave Candy alone abeg.

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  8. So sorry for your loss Bv lovelace, I cried reading the pains he went through before he gave up,be strong may the Lord comfort you and your siblings.

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  9. So sorry about your Dad and the manner he was treated. My the Lord comfort you and give you His peace. Amen

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  10. OMG! I'm so sorry about your dad Lovelace,may God rest his soul.
    Good afternoon Nigeria๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ

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    1. So sorry Bv Lovelace. May God grant you the fortitude to bear the loss of your father. May his soul Rip. Amen

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  11. Really Lovelace , I pray God comforts you and your family.
    Please take heart ❤️

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    1. Congratulations to the newest couple in town,
      God bless your union.

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  12. Lovelace, so sorry for ur loss. Pls Sue that hospital. How can you do a surgery and not have a doctor on call ready for such a person? Nigerian hospitals ehn, let me not say too much.

    They even sent u people to but specimen container? Wtf na!

    May ur dad Rest in peace

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  13. Kai, this is so sad. Accept my condolences BV Lovelace. May God comfort you and yours.

    May your dad's soul rest in peace. Amen๐Ÿ™

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  14. Congratulations to the newlyweds. I love your wedding gown.

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  15. So sorry for your loss BV Lovelace. I hate to say this but the teaching hospitals in Nigeria are a death trap. I lost a loved one there during surgery. So painful

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    1. I thought they said teaching hospitals are the best?

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    2. 14:46 no o. Nor try am. They'll just use you as specimen in teaching hospitals. A lot of people who go there do not come back alive.
      Government run hospitals e.g general hospital or FMC are the ones that are ok.

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    3. Hmm mm mm, have been thinking the same thing for a long time now,most especially UCH Ibadan here.

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    4. What a painful death
      God punish all of them involved in that surgery.
      Naija health care nawa o

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  16. Lovelace accept my sympathy,May God comfort you and ur family,it’s a huge loss but all will be well.be consoled.

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  17. Lovelace, I sympathize with you.May the Lord rest his soul...chai,our healthcare in Nigeria is something else..ah! Very painful ☹️. May the Lord grant you and your family the fortitude to Bear the loss.

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  18. @BV Lovelace, so sorry about the loss of your dad. May God grant him eternal rest and comfort all his loved ones. Nigerian health Care is really in a mess. So many avoidable deaths.

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  19. Lovelace I'm so sorry about your loss. It is really so sad. How could there not be a doctor at standby, after performing the surgery and leaving the patient in such a condition. May our good Lord rest his soul, and grant the entire family the fortitude needed at this time.

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    1. Oh BV Lovelace so sorry for your loss. May God grant your family the Comfort only Him can give. Take heart Sis.
      Anon 14:21, Because they will employ one doctor to treat 100 patients. They had to go home after the surgery. It is a very painful situation and alot of them are leaving in their doves.

      Congratulations to SnM couple. God bless your home.

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  20. BV Lace, Che! Accept my sympathy. This is so sad ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ

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  21. Congratulations to the new bride from SnM.

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  22. ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ
    Lovelace I'm weeping๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ

    May your dad's soul rest in peace
    Oh!

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  23. Congrats bv that got married. Bv lovelace pls take heart, may his soul rest in peace. Amen

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  24. IHN is here.. Good Day All

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  25. Thank you ma'am Stella, sorry for the late response, got to know I was credited data yesterday after checking my balance. I'm grateful๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™

    Lydie

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  26. So sorry for your dad's death
    May his so rest in peace

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  27. I am soooooo sorry Lovelace, so deeply sorry. May God comfort you on all sides. Please don't let this slide. Get a lawyer. Enough of medical murder in Nigeria.

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  28. So sorry for your loss BV lovelace. It is very painful.

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  29. This ovaioza case, I have read and read and read and read, my eyes have seen my ears!!!!!
    What I don't understand is why the founder of this ponzi and indeed all other ponzi's are not behind bars?
    When their victims have lost life savings, school fees, rent, fallen into depression, committed suicide, rendered homeless, jobless, etc.
    HOW?????
    Do you know how much these people chopped????
    I read a report that Nigerians have lost over 400 billion to ponzi criminals.
    Do you know why Ponzi people thrive so successfully?
    Because of the jobless hungry asslickers and corrupt people who do everything to ensure they prove their support to these Ponzi owners.

    Let's look at this ovaioza ponzi, is it the criminal lawyer she had Chimezie Okpolo who drafted the fraudulent agreement she gave her investors and who took 5 % cut from every deal? Lawyer kotuma!! Is it her tech friend Victor Dimgba who outed himself boldly on Facebook and said he forged a FAKE NIN slip in order to get Facebook verification??? Dodoyo.com Imagine! Is it her retinue of huuuuuungry, empty asslickers whose tounges were permanently shoved up these ponzi asses? Is it influencers, proudly promoting a PONZI scheme and encouraging people to lose their money?
    All of them walking free, quickly washing off hands like Pontius Pilates, looking for the next scheme to leech on.
    By the time these ponzi influencers/ footsoldier supporters serve serve sentences, minimum of 6 months, for engaging and promoting these schemes, I assure you, you won't see PO talkless of PONZI.

    Because check it, NONE of these ponzi owners have any BUSINESS PEDIGREE.
    NONE.
    All of them were roaming on the street, bricklayer, hairdresser, farm assistant etc desperately oking for how to cash out before creating their individual ponzi groups and riding on the hunger and popularity of their ekperima influencers.

    I say arrest all of them.

    These are the bills that should be debated and created on the floor of the house not whether goatsand cows should travel north or south during raining season.

    Let's learn to be content and DO THE RIGHT THING.

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    1. I thought Ova has been arrested. Has she been released?

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    2. ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ

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  30. Good day blog fam,
    Am so worried and afraid this afternoon,l need an advice,l came in from a wedding on Saturday my daughter, she's 19ys,she told that she has a britsh girl friend on inInstagr,they chat and atimes they do video calls too,they girl works as an air hostess, same age with my daughter,but my girl is a year 3 student in uni but at home bcos of Asuu strike..
    Now,the girl was promoted in her office,so out of excitement she said she will be sending my girl lphone pro max 12 through Dhl, which she have to nigeNig already even sent her the reference code

    I was in the shop now she cami to me to show me a text message tei her that her parcel has arrived from UK,she should come pick it up at the Abuja airport..
    I told her to call the number,she did on speaker,he told the man we are stay in portharcourt not Abuja,the guy said it will still be delivered today,the man said we should pay 3,800 for delivery and also send the reference code

    Now my fear is this, can this be real, even though she said the girl is just a friend on Instagram,the chat on video
    The parcel was sent since Friday vie DHL..
    She has given address far from my house and shop for the gift to be delivered..
    I don't know if is a trap like l told my daughter.. I'm just confused,someb som should tell what to do..bec beca ll have warn her not to go collect the parcel anytime she's called

    Please Stella help me post

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    1. Please don't pay for the delivery,tell the man that you'll pay when the parcel arrived and don't send any code,if you do,all the vital information on the phone will be exposed to them, they'll also take all the airtime on the phone

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    2. Hmmm it might be true but in this Nigeria, things like this dey put fear for my body. Why didn't the British friend monetize this excitement sef? Maybe somebody or many people should go with her to the location. Or just forget gift o. Life first

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    3. Na scam oh. I've read this same story online before

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    4. Hahaha, local format, they used it to catch hungry people like you n your daughter,looking for freeload, after that 3800, uwobt hear from both the agent and the girl, goo luck cos I know you'll pay

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    5. If you allow your daughter go it’ll be the last time you see her. It’s a death trap pay for them to send it to your home address in port harcourt. Also call dhl office direct and confirm everything before giving your address

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    6. Please o, be very careful. Don't because of phone (even if it's one hundred million dollars) put your daughters life on the line. That her oyibo friend, are you even sure it's not a man. Please be very careful.

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    7. It may be a scam. Tell them you have someone who just travelled to Abuja that will pick it up for you and bring it back with him and her to PH, tell them to send you their office address and contact number. If they don't disappear or give you stories, if they send you their pick up details, then they are genuine. You can then go ahead and pay for delivery and tell them one story about your person that travelled. There are many scammers on social media. Most of them have one girlfriend or crew member that does video calls with unsuspecting victims in order to look genuine. Tell your daughter to beware. Ritualists and body parts sellers too are on social media to lure girls.

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    8. Tell them you have a brother that can pick it up. Let them send their office address. If it is scam, they will not oblige. These people will keep collecting "Small small" money from you using different stories until you wise up and stop sending money. By the time you calculate how much you have spent so far, it will be almost the price of the phone.

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    9. Oh my this is an age-old format, pls, do not fall for it.

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    10. Don’t let greed get a better part of you,block them and forget about it before u get scammed or ur daughter gets kidnapped.

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    11. Scam. Just google it in case ur akpiri no gree you.

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    12. DHL will deliver to your location. I don't understand this DHL you are talking about o. I use DHL to send things. This is not their partner at all

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    13. Please don't pay any money because it is scam

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    14. How come they don’t have the reference code? Mugu still dey that naija. Where air hostess see money take buy phone do you think they pay them well? Better run election dey come .dey need body parts

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    15. Thanks all,anon 15:24,l called dHL office a while ago, nothing like that nah scam oo.
      Fidel is true,this kind thing dey put fear for body,reason why l brought it here,,l wasn't even ready release my money for delivery,my daughter was like mummy,we do video calls, bla bla bla, now I know better
      Thanks everyone for your advice.
      Thank you Stella for posting.

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    16. This is scam, total, absolute scam. It happened to a friend. Exactly as you narrated but it was 4k they asked her to pay for the delivery. They even sent her pictures of the "said gift". We actually knew it was most likely a scam but decided to see it to the end since the money na small money. Immediately she made the payment, the person stopped picking her calls. Please don't pay any money. Tell them to send it and you'll pay when you receive the parcel.

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    17. Thanks Anons 19:46

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    18. Scam or no scam take a chance. All you have to lose is N3,800. Big deal. And, what if it’s genuine? Set delivery address as a lobby in a busy hotel. Finish. You meet in public.

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    19. If any known bv here staying in Abuja can help u collect it.

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    20. @Mao Akuh so that the 'known bv' will be the one they use for sacrifice? Say wetin happen?
      You can't smell a scam when you see one?
      Even a dunce will know this is a scam.

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  31. Oh God Bv Lovelace so sorry for the untimely Death of your father.nobody deserves to die the way he did. My condolences

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  32. So sorry for your loss @Lovelace,I pray God grant him rest and comfort your family. Our health care system needs a total over haul.

    Congratulations to the new couples!

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  33. What a terrible way to die, I am truly sorry for your loss @love lace, please take heart.

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  34. Im so sorry about your dad bv love lace, the nigerian health sector is a death trap. May his soul rest in perfect peace.

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    1. Sorry for your loss BV Lovelace. Congratulations to our latest SDK couple. You look wow!

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  35. So sorry about your dad bc Lovelace,may his soul rest in peace,

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  36. @Lovelace, sorry for your loss.

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  37. @Lovelace, sorry for your loss.

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  38. So sorry for your loss lovelace. May God comfort you and your family

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  39. Congratulations to the latest bride on the blog. Wish you a lifetime of love and peace together.

    So sad to read of your dad’s death, Lovelace. Accept my condolences. May his soul Rest In Peace.

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  40. So sorry Lovelace. It's always bad experiences from that Lagos state teaching hospital. Ahn ahn! How can doctors/nurses handing over their shifts not tell the incoming ones of the present cases? And the present one should've read the case file at least. Person don die now

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    1. And they do surgery only on Thursday and Friday? Na pharmacy?
      So if a critical case comes on Monday, they'll tell the dying person to wait fess, make Thursday come?
      Do they rent their doctors.
      God! May this country never happen to you.
      Lovelace please take heart.

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  41. So sorry bv Lovelace, please accept my condolence.

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  42. Dear Lovelace, it's so heartbreaking๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’” reading what your dad had to pass through in the hands of negligent doctors before he gave up the ghost. My condolences ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™ . May God grant his soul eternal rest and comfort you all.

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  43. So sorry bv Lovelace...

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  44. Congratulations to the singles and mingles latest couple,God bless your union.

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  45. Sorry for your loss@Lovelace,the Lord will comfort you

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  46. @ Lovelace, I pray God grants you and your family comfort on all sides....
    @ Motherhood poster, it took me growing up to appreciate my mum.

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  47. Go on ahead and damn all the consequences joor but it might be a trap sha..

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  48. Congratulations to the latest bride
    I'm so sorry for your loss lovelace

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  49. So sorry BV Lovelace. Take heart

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  50. Congratulations to the latest bride, your union is blessed
    I'm so sorry for your loss lovelace

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  51. THE CHRISLAND SAGA
    I am afraid! the specie of human beings called children are fast becoming miniature adults!
    Take a walk into birthday parties, you’d be shocked at the sex-triggering music played, the erotic dances and the provocative dressings, these ones leave nothing to imagination and we, parents must leave nothing to chance in raising them.

    I have 4 godly kids and I am so intentional, there’s no BBN in my home, birthday parties out of the home are a “no”, I am finicky about their dressing, the dad and i take turns to do school runs for all in secondary school and the last in primary, they have no phones and will not till they are 18.

    Their schools are Christian schools where they are taught a school examinable subject called “Completely Christian” which has in its curriculum everything on life lessons.
    My kids aren’t perfect but i pray for an early encounter with God by positioning them intentionally through family discussions and devotions .

    A child will wade through life with the fear of God and the fear of man, where both are lacking, the outcome is predictable.
    Today, many churches where there are children-churches, the teachers are busy selling their wares and fiddling with phones and if Jesus were still in human flesh, he’d flog them silly and throw out their wares.
    Many homes are no longer parent-managed, they have cooks, stewards, drivers and all and the parents just meet to mate and then join the rat race. You don’t watch children grow, you raise them. Children grow by nature but are raised by nurture!
    Children are to be raised!

    In choosing schools, parents today place aesthetic appeal and academic excellence over moral education and until moral education takes prime place in our choices of schools, many parents will keep harvesting souls for Satan by their neglect and voracious appetites for social relevance by dazzling their fans and friends with the exorbitant fees they pay and who and who is their child’s classmate!

    I am so old-school and at peace with it because there are prayer points I don’t want to engage in at old age.
    They pay for extra lesson for their children in mathematics, physics and chemistry and English but never in moral education! I learnt from Dr Mrs Mbre that she includes this for her four children in the extra lesson she pays for.

    Let me end by asking, how many families still have family devotion, how many families still break bread(communion), how many still pay tithe, how many families have family constitution and how many parents still advise their kids?

    Do we have committed teachers still or a bunch of dissatisfied persons hibernating in schools till their big break comes?

    Do we have lecturers in higher institutions who Mentor young ones and squeeze a moment or two in class to teach them life lessons, do we have lecturers like Prof Jide Johnson Oyedeji who would invite us after lectures to his palatial office to watch, “Mount Zion movies” and at the end, we would trudge back to our hostels, broken, sniffling, crying, cursing and swearing never to go back to sin! He preached no message but by his lifestyle, he was and still is a message! Little wonder, before I accepted my husband’s proposal, I whispered to Prof.after praying!! Twenty years after we still talk and he is a deputy vice chancellor in one of Nigeria’s leading universities.

    Do we still have dedicated owner- managed schools where contributory negligence and supervisory failure is unaccepted? My school principal, Mrs Stella EFFIOM would follow us to the stadium and once or twice when the school Pick-up van broke down, she stayed there with us till it got fixed, we sat on the grass by the kerb stones with her……. Oh what an honor, to see and sit upclose and personally with the woman who strutted on podiums and instructed from rostrums!

    Do we have parents who vet, assess and evaluate the antecedents of the owners of a school before enrolling their children in it or do we just choose a school because of mundane.Do we have pta where parents are taught parenting.
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  52. So sorry for your loss lovelace. May Almighty God comfort you and your family.

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  53. Ooooh dear lovelace......so sorry dearie....please take heart...

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  54. Dear Lovelace, how I wish I can make things better for you now. Am so sorry about all these, that's why it's good to bribing most public workers. May ur dad and others who died in the Lord all rest in perfect peace.
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  55. So sorry bv Lovelace.May his soul rest in peace and may the Lord comfort you and your family.

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  56. So sorry for your loss Lovelace,may God comfort you and your family

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  57. Congratulations to the new bride. God bless your home.

    Lovelace, so sorry for your loss. This is very sad. May the Lord rest his soul and comfort you all. Amen.

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  58. So sorry for your loss Lovelace. God bless your home newest bride

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  59. Sorry for your loss. Lovelace

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  60. So sorry Bv Lovelace, My condolence to your family. May your Dad RIP.

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  61. Lovelace, may God give you the fortitude to bear the loss of your dad.

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  62. So sorry bv lovelace. May God comfort you all, I’m so sorry dear.
    Bv Omeh

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  63. Sorry for your loss Lovelace. May God console your family himself. Until our government work on the health sector because the brain drain is too much( and other sectors too)and start encouraging young doctors and nurses to travel out and see a need to come back to give back to the nation what knowledge has been gathered out of the country, a time would come when we won't have doctors in public hospitals to attend to the masses and the truth is not everyone can afford traveling out for medical attention; the less privileged masses will suffer this more. In most Government hospital, it's either there are no enough beds , doctors and the amount you spend on treatment alone you will wonder if it's really a government hospital. Go to Lasuth, you will see those with cancer issues receiving chemo treatment /drip on the chair , no bed space! It is disheartening!
    Please let's vote right this time around oo. May God help Nigeria.

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  64. So sorry for your loss dear Lovelace. My prayers are with you and God will see you through this trying period. Be strong Darling

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  65. Accept my heartfelt condolences on the loss of your dear father @Lovelace.The holy Spirit will comfort you and all those he left to mourn him.So sorry about how they treated him

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  66. So sorry about your loss bv lovelace

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  67. So sorry about the death of your dad. It's very saddening. Pls take heart. May God console you and your family. Your dad is resting and in a better place now, free from pains and all.
    Congratulations to the newest bride. God bless your home.

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  68. Sue them Lovelace

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  69. OMG! Take heart bv Lovelace. Some hospitals are to be locked up!๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ

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  70. Sorry about your loss Bv Lovelace. May your dad's soul rest in peace. Be comforted

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  71. Sorry about your loss @BV Lovelace. May his soul rest in peace.

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  72. BV lovelace please accept my sympathy. This is so sad to read.God will strengthen your entire family.
    Snm couple,congratulations.

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  73. My condolences beevee Lovelace๐Ÿ˜ฅ๐Ÿ˜ฅ It's only God that can help the health and other sectors in this country.
    Congratulations to the bride to be๐Ÿ˜˜

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  74. This is so heartbreaking,Lovelace may God console and comfort you and the family.Cant imagine the pain your dad felt.May Nigeria not fail and happen us.

    People run from private hospitals yetthe government owned be doing the most.May his soul rest in peace.๐Ÿ’”

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  75. Lovelace, so sorry for the death of your father.

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  76. My condolences to you and your family Lovelace

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  77. So sorry for your loss bv lovelace

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  78. It wont be well for those docs n hospital. So sad n painful

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  79. @ Lovelace, I'm really sorry for your dad's passing. Pls, accept my heartfelt condolences.

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  80. My condolences on your loss BV Lovelace...I pray God's comfort and peace for you and yours๐Ÿค—

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  81. BV Lovelace, sorry about the death of your Dad

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