TUESDAY IN HOUSE NEWS...

 Happy Salah and hailings...

IN HOUSE MEMO

Hello you all......

Hope everyone is having a nice time at home and eating all the eatables..... and resting as well!

Does anyone here wish to sell ready made clothes in retails or wholesale? I will make a post about this tomorrow... It would be great business for those of you who live in University Environment.....

Check out the post tomorrow after i post funny comments from the comments section.

If i say i am willing to sponsor some people, even those who have no intention before will indicate, I don sabi una for this Blog.....Na long journey to scam me or even tell me long story.... lets see the post tomorrow and we will take it from there.


No holiday for we side oh.......

I am just here thinking about Amala with gbegiri and ewedu soup...I used to get my supply from one big Amala shop in Amsterdam but after all this COVID thing, i no want abeg.....Well, at least not now!

God dey!

Think positive always OK?

Mwah!!!

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD



Any time young moms like me gather and we talk about the stress of raising babies, older mums tells us how we will miss this phase one day. I have been told many times to enjoy rather than endure this stage and also cherish every moment and do all I can to create wonderful memories.

One of the older mums said her boys are all grown living independently and they hardly call because of their busy schedules. She calls often but not too much so she won’t be too intrusive.

The other mum said she had to learn how to make friends in her Fifties because her daughters accused her of choking them and not having a life outside of them, she said it with so much longing in her eyes that she misses when they were little and at home.

They may be a handful now, I am learning from the older mums and doing everything I can to try to pace myself and enjoy this phase.




Ha!!!!  choking them keh? Hmmm na wah oh.... even now my Bambinos always tell me to give breathing space, i will just start with my lecture of '' when i carried you for nine months''............  Na wah....

Sometimes i miss that stage where i say something and they agree and hug me but now we have discussions and arguments before we arrive at a conclusion... Even when we are going out to eat, they argue about our choice of Restaurants...hehehhehehehehehehe







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TEEJAYS CORNER

Around 2010, I RENTED an apartment for my woman at Enugu when she left her former place of residence. Occasionally, I visit and sometimes passed the night in her place. I discovered my woman is a friend to a lady who also reside in the same building which I later discovered was a divorcee with three lovely kids. She should be in her mid thirties at the time.


Their friendship was so good that they both exchanged food sometimes and eat together. When there is little misunderstanding between my friend and I, she always talked to us and advised us on how to live happily.


Singlehandedly, she was raising her kids. It wasn't something easy I must say to you as she was into clothes selling the one you people called 'okrika'.


Sometimes I gave her some financial support through my woman and in some cases, gave foodstuffs to her.

A year later, she relocated to Anambra state where she started working in a local government office in one of the villages.


In 2012, I was transferred to Anambra by the company I was working. Before my transfer, my woman and I had parted ways due to irreconcilable differences.


One evening, At Anambra, I was in a bus when I saw someone that looks like her. I called and she turned. I quickly dropped from the bus and met her. She was surprised seeing me and asked what brought me here. I told her work, that I had been transferred. She asked after my woman, her friend and I told her we couldn't continue anymore. She felt bad and asked for her number since the former was no longer going through. I didn't have the new number so it was difficult for her to reach her.


We both exchanged numbers and she told me her place wasn't far from where we were standing.


One Sunday, she called and invited me to her place. After the meal and some discussion, I gave her some little cash fcos i always saw her as a big aunt and then I left.


Two years later, I was transferred to Port Harcourt my place of birth. She felt bad when she got the news and that she will miss me but I had to go. I left after seeing her.


At Port Harcourt she kept calling, asking when am I going to visit Anambra to see her. I promised severally but I never did due to chance but was sending some cash to her on request.


During COVID-19, I called to check up on her and how she was faring but her line was always switched off. At a point I stopped calling even though I had this feelings that all might not be well.


In 2021, I stumbled on her number again while scrolling my phone contacts. I called but a man picked it. I said maybe her line was recycled and given to someone. Each time I called, a man will picked and when I said I want to speak to the owner, the person will end the call.


Yesterday, I stumbled on the number again while searching for a contact. I put a call through and that same voice picked it again. I said please I want to ask you a question. He said okay. I asked if he's the owner of the line? He said yes. I said but there's a lady that originally have this line. He asked if I know the name of the woman. I told him yes and mentioned the name.

 I noted the silence and another voice spoke up on the phone and said he's the elder brother to the first person I had been talking to. That the person I mentioned is their mother. These were kids I know when they were little. I asked him where is their mother. I got my greatest shock in life when he said their mom passed on two years ago. I almost became dumb for some minutes. I managed to express my condolence to him and dropped the call. I wished I was aware about her death and paid her the last visit on her burial. I felt so bad that I shed some tears. I don't like losing people and the fact I will never see them again is so heartbreaking.


This have shaped my life. No matter how busy we are in this life pursuing careers and money, we should try and always make time to see and be with the very people we love. We never know when life will snatch them away from us. I still feel emotionally down over this sad news.


My day was ruined over the thought of it. I felt weak. This is the second time I'm having such experience. The first was when I stopped seeing my very good online Facebook friend that won't fail to upload her dancing and gym photos on Facebook. We often chat and spoke on phone. Only for me to type her name on Facebook search bar and all I could read on her wall was a rest in peace message all over it. I felt broken. Such is life.


This life is nothing. I'm weak as I put down these words together. Be kind and live at peace with people, for tomorrow is never guaranteed to anyone. 

Hmmmm sad story.. let me look for what will cheer me up...cheer up Teejay and be happy...

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MEMO TO BV ZARAM FROM MONDAY BEP

Zaram is single ooooooo

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*THE A, B, C, D OF INTIMACY IN MARRIAGE*


A: Always love your spouse.
B: Believe in each other.
C: Celebrate each other often.
D: Don't argue but always reason together.
E: Expect imperfections from your spouse.
F: Fix solutions to problems quick
G: Go for a walk together once a week.
H: Hold each other's hands often.
I: Ignite the passion in your spouse daily.
J: Just laugh over issues worth criticizing.
K: Kill the spirit of unhealthy competition.
L: Let your spouse know your movements.
M: Make love like newly weds.
N: No separate room for you both.
O: Oppose any intruder or third party.
P: Pray together always.
Q: Quality time should be spent together.
R: Resist every temptation of infidelity.
S: Stay positive to each other's vision.
T: Take no record of past offence.
U: Utilize every opportunity to bond.
V: Visualize a glorious future together.
W: Win each other's admiration daily.
X: X-ray your lives together.
Y: Yell not at each other for any reason.
Z: Zip your mouth when you're angry.

From Whatsapp.

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