Hmmm......
BESTIE AND BOYFRIEND
The bestie knows her more than her boyfriend.
The boyfriend want to go and see her people by July ending, but she is confused, because the bestie is begging her to be patience with him for few months, so that he can gather some money for preparation for marriage... She is seeking for advise....
Stella she needs your red pen and SDK BVs advice.
So she is dating two men and calling one Bestie and one Boyfriend?
With this kind of two timing she can never get it right!
That Bestie relationship, i hope she knows that when it comes to Marriage and there is no money, Bestie no dey last..... He needs a few months to gather money for Marriage? And thereafter he will gather money to feed and take care of needs?
Whether it is you or your friend, please be careful, both men maybe the wrong choice but since you are in an emotional fix, you wont know!
She should Marry the bestie
ReplyDeleteIf boyfriend was filling your love tank, you wouldn’t be interested in bestie
You’re stringing be along while you see if bestie will work out
Truth is there is more to a relationship than money. Woman need sm1 who is emotionally available, caring, sweet, has a good listening ear. These can go a long way.i sure bestie is like that. She is totally free around him. So she should pray about it
DeleteAnd if it's bestie then so be it.
I’m 15:02. As you’ve not agreed to marry bf, you have not made a decision. Why not invite him to meet your mom. Not to propose engagement but just to meet her. Or to meet your dad whichever one you’re more comfortable with or even your Aunty . I believe bringing this thing to light will shed more light on why you’re hesitating to marry him
DeleteOr maybe you can see how much he cares and decide you want him. You don’t have to make this big decision by yourself
As for bestie, why not tell him there’s no need to gather firewood when there’s fire burning already. Tell him no need to raise funds, he should just come and meet your mother
I concur with Stella.
DeleteAnd I just finished watching the new film SELINA featuring Bimbo Ademoye and co? Hian.
DeleteIveren Anetvie has got a sister here.
What rubbish.
@ Eva, Gbam! Kisses to you.💕 We need more, emotionally availability in a relationship amongst others and how men treat us go a longgg way
DeleteEmotional*
DeleteOlosho dey your eye
ReplyDeleteI don't think it's olosho. Martial mistake is one you never get to forgive yourself especially if you has choices but made the wrong one.
DeleteLet her marry her bestie.
That your friend is not a serious person. A woman who knows what she wants wont toy with the idea of whom she really want to be with.
ReplyDeleteWhich one is bestie bestie, she might have been dating both men at the same time and now confused on which one to go for. Why lead a man on if she knew that she had a so called bestie she cant leave?
I just pity her supposed boyfriend who doesn't deserve this treatment. Your friend should continue with her bestie and leave the innocent boyfriend alone.
Thank you.She is clearly cheating on the unfortunate boyfriend.You are calling a man bestie but he is begging you to be patient so he can gather money to pay bride price.That’s not a friend , that’s a lover.In other words , the so-called bestie knows the boyfriend and that he wants to marry her and he is asking the babe to reject the boyfriend and marry him instead and the boyfriend has no idea what is going on.Such a heartless bitch!!
DeleteGive me the boyfriend number, let me jus say hello to him. Kings; if your girl has a male bestie, just know you've got a replacement in the shadows, even if y'all hangout together.😄😄
ReplyDeleteNot true
DeleteC'est quoi not true?😄 Another name for male side boo is bestie. Argue with your conscience.
DeleteI had a bestie. I am married now, she's also married. Better she left the country, we were still really close. Husband knew we were close and had no issues with it. My ex is also one of my close friends and confidant, married as well. Everything must not be about Sex.
DeleteHahahahahahhaahha O boyyyy ye , I love stella's red pen , poster please read that message again and again. No just shame or fear, accept it with your full chest that you are about to make the greatest mistake of your life as a young woman. Bestie this bestie that lol e go shock you if you no use your tongue to count your adult teeth.
ReplyDeletePoster,Your friend should follow her heart and do what's right.
ReplyDeleteShe might end up marrying that innocent man and still be having an affair with her supposed bestie,because it's very obvious she prefers him.
Let that two timing friend of yours stop deceiving that man that genuinely wants to marry her,The earlier she does this,the better for her,because karma can be a very bahd bitch with no apologies.
She doesn’t love the boyfriend at all.If she does , she wouldn’t even be thinking of another man aside from him.That’s y once I sense a woman is considering another man or encouraging another man, I cut my losses and move on immediately.
DeleteBoth men cannot be the wrong option. She should go ahead and marry her boyfriend.
ReplyDeleteAnother name for unfaithfulness is bestie.. una well done o.. marry the bestie at your own detriment.
ReplyDeleteSpot on!! I wonder who coined that name "bestie". A man and a woman can never be best friends! This deception is an old trick.
DeleteExactly Winnie. That's how I was doing bestie with one guy like that, we talked, laughed,gist. Until one day he invited me to his new house... Sex follow.
DeleteSince that day, I no do male bestie again.
Better block that Bestie everywhere
ReplyDeleteThe devil 👿😈 really brings distraction for people who refuse to have sense. So after she sends her fiance on his way and starts waiting for bestie to gather money 🤑💰 together, a few months will turn to one year,two, three, four and when she starts throwing tantrums that she left her ex fiance for him, that's when he'll now serve her an ice cold buffet of heartbreak 💔 and she'll chant the "men are scum" mantra. Even if she marries her fiance, her heart will still lust for what she allegedly lost and that's how adultery will commence. Poster receive 📲 SENSE IN JESUS NAME!
ReplyDeleteThe fear of being dumped is not a good reason to marry anyone
Delete@poater. Marry who loves you more. Either the bestie or boyfriend. Who no get money today. Go get tomorrow.
ReplyDeleteShe should getat
ReplyDelete😂 😂 😂 Y u com vex
DeleteMy woman is allowed to have 3 male friends as bestie.
ReplyDeleteGod the father.
God the son.
God the holy ghost.
Dazzol!!
Men stay away from women that have male as best friends,guy friends.
ReplyDeleteWhere are all the beevees chanting about their male besties the other time?
DeleteDear poster, is the story about you to your friend? Pls define your relationship with your bestie or let your boyfriend go. Not fair what you have done. Let one go. If it's your friend pls help me tell her.
ReplyDeleteA man and a woman can never be besties! Either the man yearns for the woman deep down,or the woman wants the man to herself but they deceive themselves and act like it’s just mere friendship. The jealousy is more pronounced when either of them is in a relationship,that’s when u will see who has been nursing feelings for who.
ReplyDeleteWhen u know u have a good thing going on with ur bestie why did u string a guy along,now he is planning to come see ur parents u suddenly discover you love ur bestie?
If a man wanted to do this to his fiancée all of us for dey curse am by now.
I pray your boyfriend eyes go open,cos he never see wife.
Like in My Best Friend's Wedding
DeleteSoo true. One of my close male friend recently reconnected with me. We were so close then but he ended up marrying his current gf. When we both spoke about how he wan make love to his wife, I got so jealous ehn. Had to tell him, my hubby will also make love with me tonight! 😄 omo this male bestie thing is not easyyyyyy! I’ve been cutting off too much communication with him lately because we have a crazy strong chemistry. Same tribe, same church denomination, common interest, etc… na wa
DeleteI've always said it that it's difficult for a lady to have a guy as her bestie while dating or married to another. Feelings will develop with time.
ReplyDeletePoster, whether it's you or your friend, stringing the said boyfriend along is so wrong. I'm very sure she won't like it if this was done to her. She should just marry her bestie to avoid cheating on her boyfriend with him later.
Marry your soul mate.. that’s all I have got to say
ReplyDeleteLet her go for who she knows love her dearly. She will eventually love her husband if she is treated rightly . I don't mean just money i mean in all ramifications.
ReplyDeleteAsk yourself who treats you like his queen . In good or bad times .
When I met my husband I was in a relationship of over 7 years however, I saw love in human form for the first time.
Gbam. Amen to this comment@ anon 19:10. 👏🏾 Very important in a relationship/marriage
DeleteSomeday I will write about my love story.
ReplyDeletePoster you or your friend should respect your self and go for your bestie, reason is that you both understand each other perfectly well. Friendship is very important in marriage
ReplyDeleteThis is where your deal breakers should come in. What exactly are you looking for in a forever marriage?? The euphoric feeling will die down after some time. But love, treatment, respect, friendship, no domestic violence, and of course finance (you both can work on the financial independence together if you’re also lacking in that area. Don’t wait for a man’s money), will keep a marriage forever! Be wise choose wisely and pray about it!
ReplyDeleteYour friend is a wicked person. If it was a man with the bestie and the girlfriend, everyone here would be cursing him
ReplyDeleteMarry a man that loves, adore you and have peace
ReplyDeleteIf you are in a fix then it's better you leave them both and go for self realization. So as not to make a mistake you will regret
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