Hi Stella, so this is a a follow up of this CHRONICLE
Recently this guy called me and apologized for all he did to me while in Nigeria. I asked him why he just ran away without telling me, he said he was frustrated.
But I had a feeling that his best friend who I am good friends with, must have told him to contact me.
So after the conversation, I called his best friend to ask why he made him call me because I had moved on. His best friend said that he had to sit him down and advised him to apologize to all the ladies he had wronged, apparently he had taken money from other ladies all in the pretense of loving them and wanting to be with them. I wasn't the only victim.
Well this same guy called me again 2 days later, he wanted me to move to Canada and said he will help me get a school and do whatever he needs to get me over there. He says he knows that I am a good girl and I should still keep being a good girl lol. I just told him that I have forgiven him and that he should never contact me again. He was shocked and asked why? But I said I just didn't want him in my life. I couldn't disclose what his best friend told me because it was a secret.
Also another mutual friend of ours told me that he knew the guy was never good for me ,that he is very dishonest .
I believe his friends because I remember receiving a message from a lady asking me to avoid this guy because he will just use me, though he denied it but I just had a feeling that the lady was right.
And I trust his best friend because he is like a brother to me who I've known for over 7 years and always look for me his wife is also my friend's met his best friend through my brother in law.
Well I just Thank God that I never had sex with him and never introduced him to my father. That was God looking out for me.
*You should have played along to see if you can at least collect your money back and who knows, he might have changed for good...
What you did was the best. No need to play along. I respect you girl. Let him deal with the rest. As him don reach Canada now, him don see as the place hard. Canada is the only country that will humble your gragra. I am sure u feel better now. Money will always be made. Don’t collect it back.
ReplyDeletePls just move on from him. Don't look back.
ReplyDeleteThat Canada move is a scam. He may want to strip you of your remaining cash with it. It is better to be safe.
God will give you a better man.
Canada ke where he'll be able to deal with you very well and make you stranded. It's good the way you did ooo,just let it end there. Nobody is to be trusted abeg!
ReplyDeleteStella dem no dey play with fire,hoping not to get burnt. Poster thank God u kept it moving,hes a no good, if u end up with this one,forgerrit, the devil has settled you.
ReplyDeleteLols 🤣 Stella o..
ReplyDeletePlease don't get yourself entangled with him any more..
Took my time to go back to the story and comments. I must apologise for all those that tried to make you out to be the bad person just because u refused to be used by a gold digging player.
ReplyDeleteDon't even let him sweet talk u back. He has not changed. He is probably desperate again
Play along at your own risk..
ReplyDeleteIt's good you told him off. And you've finally found closure.Best of luck girl.
ReplyDeleteGbam. Best closure ever. She’s done done. Wishing you all the best lady💕
DeleteYours is a decision that was spot on
ReplyDeletePlease moveeeeee on without looking back.
ReplyDeleteHe doesn't deserve you period.
Best of luck. I really like your person.
ReplyDeletePeace must have eluded him to come back begging. Stay away from him and live your life.
ReplyDeletePeace eluded him abi sapa don dey hold am for dere? Everybody needs help sometimes but ladies need to actively discourage and stay away from men that believe in feeding on ladies. It's a very bad habit.
DeleteHmmm poster already wrote him off.
ReplyDeleteBut if na me I for play him game and see if I can get back my money or see if he truly changed.
He might have done what he did out of desperation and frustration, but it still goes to speak of his character.
For what? So she can get disappointed again? Nahhh. She has ended that chapter for good.
DeleteDon't play along oo you would be trapped.
ReplyDeleteLet go and move on.
That kind of person can not prosper, they always struggle all their lives unless they pay back the money. Hmm going abroad is not the ultimate even if you are legal there, you will have to add extra ten years before you can actually achieve anything. But when you cheat other innocent people to achieve that that is a drawback.
ReplyDeleteEvery update is not an update...abeg
ReplyDeletetaa...go and sit down.
DeleteEverything is an issue for people like you. see your head like abeg. 😂
😂🤣🤣😂😁😁😁
DeleteTaa go and sit down.
Thank God,Canada is not heaven.🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeletePoster, forget about that guy. Thank God for saving you from the disaster that would have happened if you had not distanced yourself from him. Move on without looking back.
ReplyDeleteCall him and get his tips or plans for moving to Canada if you’re interested
ReplyDeleteMoving to Canada can be life changing. Don’t deny yourself
Trust me, it’s a straightforward process. She doesn’t need him. She fit search online/social media for good information on relocating to Canada. Money na the main thing here. Hard to relocate without money.
DeleteStella you said he could have changed? Iffahear, such people don't change.
ReplyDeletePoster thank God you just dodge a bullet.
ReplyDeleteBeing a good girl is not enough. You need to know how to play the game and also identify game players. Go and learn about narcicissm and pray ALOT for God to reveal people to you. That's the only way to avoid 'L's in this life. Or else, guys will play you and friends will be used by other people to play you too.
ReplyDeleteIf you are beautiful, hardworking and from.a good home and a virgin; you already have haters my dear. Play your game well, please. Tired of seeing good women lose #talkingfromexperience
Absolutely correct 00.44.
DeleteBeing good is honestly not enough. In fact, it makes u a target for users & opportunitists. When ppl see u are generous, easy, non demanding, etc, these users will come in droves to suck life out of you. Lovers o, friends o, relatives o, they come in different forms.
Your job is not to be wicked but smart, bold & confident enough to say no & set boundaries. Once u reconfigure your mindset to be a non-nonsense taker, idiots will automatically stay away and the few who try will be obvious to you.
Too many good ppl suffer like this and dont know why. You just need to get smart, be alert & accept reality as it is: there are beasts in human form who are willing to take & take till they suck u dry. Just because u have a conscience doesnt mean all others do. So u have to protect yourself. That's your responsibility; protect yourself.
I also speak from very personal experience. I've seen plenty shegè from ppl & I concluded there was something wrong with me. I thank God for opening my eyes to see where I had it wrong. I was just always too naive, and never able to set boundaries and say no. I also was too trusting & not cautious enough.
Learn from your experience & wise up. This world will not treat u well simply because u are nice. It will give only what u bargain for & what u choose to accept.
Goodluck!
What you did was OK, playing along is uncalled for in this case... What goes around comes around he will soon meet his waterloo... "Karam is always a bitch"
ReplyDelete*I love infinix *