Is she a good friend or should she mind her business?
She tweeted
''My friend died 5 months ago and her husband is already posting a new b#tch.
I can’t make this up.
I wasn’t expecting this to go viral but now that it has and I see some of you AXX CLOWNS defending this weird ass behavior and excuse it as grieving let’s get down to the gritty. My friends husband has been a piece of shit and put Kayla through absolute hell.
First of all, he had a WHOLE child on her while they were married, and my friend Kayla damn near took that baby in as her own cause she really was that strong of a person she decided to keep her family together. The child is even listed in her obituary as her OWN.
Let me not forget to mention that this mf had a B#TCH IN THE HOUSE his wife died in FIVE DAYS after Kayla passed away. FIVE DAYS. Is that excused too? Is that long enough for you MFs or that’s just grieving too? This mf been partying and outside since she died.
We have not seen one tear fall from this niggas eyes bro. NOT ONE. I have spoken on the phone and FaceTimed him multiple times. No emotions. No fucks. Everyone is still grieving Kayla, and you feel the need to POST ON SOCIAL MEDIA A B#TCH YOU were probably cheating with? CLOWN
He was trying to link me like a month ago on some weird shit… I’m thinking he’s tryna link cause he’ll have the kids with him… I expressed to him I wanted to be more active in their lives now that Kayla is gone. He said the kids would not be there ..? Wtf why would we kickit?
Funny thing is the bitch Maurice is posting “Destinee” was literally in Kayla’s brothers DMs before. Weird thirsty ho! I remember when Kayla told me about Rece having a baby on her I said “b#tch I will fly out and beat that b#tch axx if you want me too” she was an angel -
And tried to look at everything from a godly stand point. But this time she’s not here to defend herself so fuck anyone in agreement with this foul shìt! And especially f#ck you Rece. Clown ass mf! Devil in disguise forreal. This isn’t even the half. If y’all only knew.''
I would have suggested she minds her business if not for the things she listed above that he did to his late wife (if they're true). So make she and trolls drag am biko.
ReplyDelete😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
ReplyDeleteTor this epistle is a reminder for those women that wants to kill themselves for one yeye marriage that is not giving them joy. If you die this is how they are going to replace you Sharp Sharp. Maybe your replacement is around sef waiting for you to slide into depression and die so she will take over.
ReplyDeleteThem no dey give award for who endure beatings, cheating and the rest for marriage.
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DeleteUse the mic pls
DeleteI remember a man who took his sidechick to his wife’s burial in her village in Nigeria. Her brother beat him up and called out all the neighbours when he caught them naked in bed.
DeleteLoud it oooo😩😩😩 they no dey hear ...
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DeleteOn point 👌👌👌
DeleteBeejay
Where is the megaphone 📣?
DeletePeople grief differently,and we got to respect that.One of my friends lost her Dad and she was all over the internet that same day,She didn't even respect the dead,She even took fine pictures the next day,I judged her, but I later realized it was her own way of griefing.
ReplyDeleteWhat I don't support was the man cheating while he was still married.
Things we excuse.
DeleteThat story above, that one right there? That is ‘moving on’ not ‘grieving’.
And if not that he treated her poorly before, I wouldn’t judge him for moving on. But he is probably acting this way because he didn’t care much for her at all.
Mystic
Not everyone grieves. Some people feel relieved by death so they can continue with the wretchedness of their debauchery like this man.
DeleteIts a pity some ladies get fustrated after marriages.i always advice,it's best one marries someone who fears the lord,yes,I know there's no saint out there.but living a good Christian life,makes u gradually run away from sin...
ReplyDeleteI don't know, maybe she should leave him and let God judge him.Some men sha.
ReplyDeleteI’m sorry but Kayla kept taking shit from him in the name of ‘keeping the family’ now she’s no more, if only she had walked away from the useless family
ReplyDeleteYou get it. Only if she had... who even know how her death came about? But 'keeping the family' is more paramount, maybe...
DeleteHanty..was it the guy that killed her? Why the emotional sentiments? Some of you women easily move on too to the next man after your hubby dies or a break up..so relax
DeleteHnmmm this is why a woman shouldn't love herself less. Some of these men easily move on like their woman was never here. Na wa!
ReplyDeleteIt is only few men that can mourn for months/years.some stays without remarrying till old age while some remarries when the children are of age and most almost immediately because that's what the society expect them to do.
ReplyDeleteWe had a family friend that lost his wife,and what I was hearing was he shouldn't be allowed to sleep alone for long,that It is not good.
Infact most people that I know that lost their wives remarried almost immediately.its a men's world.
The man has a history of being a womaniser, so I don't think it should comes as a surprise.
ReplyDeleteLadies please do everything within your reach to stay alive because when you die... Life goes on for everyone especially your spouse.
ReplyDeleteLet this lady shout from now to eternity. Las Las the man will accuse her of killing his wife or forcing herself on him and his like minds will believe him and even start calling her names.
STAY ALIVE FOR YOURSELF WHO DON DIE DON DIE
Chai that is to tell us that no one is worth dying for. Leave toxic marriage so you can live to tell the story .
ReplyDeleteSome men shaa,they always move on easily but for women is not like that.
ReplyDeleteDragging him will not change anything,the man is not worth it.
ReplyDeleteShe should leave him and let God be the judge.
Nobody is worth dying for..
ReplyDeleteAre you a learner almost all men do same. Even when you are alive they still move on as if nothing happened let alone when you are gone. Lady rest you think he loves the babe he is flaunting. it's all about selfishness, men are just selfish like that. He just want to buy over the woman to start his rubbish life again with her. No body is special to these men, it's always a ploy to get the next victim. So just rest.
ReplyDeleteYou said it all
DeleteSo sudden, he didn't try at all.
ReplyDeleteMost men move on almost immediately after loosing their wives. No need dragging the man. She should mind her business.
ReplyDeleteThis one is for the women that don’t have peace and happiness in their marriage and still want to die there.The ones they buried their placentas with their bad husbands that beat them blue black and cheat on them.If u die na Sara! Ur replacement will even attend ur wake keep and funeral.
ReplyDeleteLol no one to blame here but your friend Kayla , she wanted to keep an unkeepable man , even accepting his love child . What did she expect?
ReplyDeleteHe didn’t respect and honor you while you were alive , you think it’s after death nigga gonna do right by you ?
Pssst
Lady MorgiannE
Such a painful read
ReplyDeleteI know of one who took home the nurse that helped care for his wife and wheeled her to the morgue, he slept with her same night his wife died.
ReplyDeleteThe nurse was sacked by the hospital though. Some men are terrible