Hmmm....
A STORY TO LEARN FROM
Good day SDK and BVs
I read through that post where a side chick confronted the wife and got the beating of her life. It reminded me of the one that happened in my family.
My aunt 's husband started cheating after a few years of marriage. Let's call her Aunt P. She would come and report to my mum and cry her eyes out. Trust our mothers, mum would comfort her and tell her to pray and endure and face her kids. Aunty P kept enduring and kept taking care of the kids. Alas, as the man grew older, his cheating became more serious, he would not go home for days sometimes. He worked in an advertising company and would lie that he was travelling to see clients.
Then six years ago, after he clocked 50yrs, he had one particular girl that would call Aunt P and insult her, she (sidechick) would tell her to divorce her husband as she can see that he longer loves her or care about her. Aunty P reported her to her husband several times but the girl kept disturbing her. Obviously, he could not control her.
On one occasion, side piece told Aunty P that if she refuses to leave the man, she will just die of Hbp and leave her children. Aunty P replied that she (sidechick) is the one that will die, that her people will weep over her for causing her pains. When my mum was told, she called the man and warned him to tame his dog. Mum told him that if anything happens to her sister (Aunty P), the family will make sure that he and his side piece rot in jail.
A few weeks later, side piece went missing.
Being his sidechick, Aunty P's husband was picked up and interrogated, he told police that his wife had threatened to kill the girl recently. That was how my poor aunt was taken into custody. When she got there, in revenge, she lied to the police that her husband probably killed the girl for rituals because she overheard him in their house talking to his friend about using a girl that has not given birth to a baby before, she said she thought they were talking about a girl they want to use for advert.
Husband and his friend too were taken into custody and detained, trust our Police.
Families were thrown into confusion, we started running around so they can release our daughter, Aunt P.
Two weeks later, no one had called to demand for ransom. The lady was not still found. those in detention were still there.
We kept praying.
Then after a month, she was found.
She was kidnapped by ritualists in a taxi that she boarded but escaped with two other people from the forest just as they had marked her among those to be killed.
Those in detention were released after paying a huge amount of money.
Aunt P and her hubby divorced. She had fallen sick while in detention, became a shadow of herself and kept blaming her family for encouraging her to remain in the marriage until the calamity that befell her came. She died the following year. Her hubby too was sacked at his place of work in the heat of the matter. He couldn't get another job and is now living with his family in the village. Their kids(the eldest was 17) were distributed among relatives.
The onus is now on men to control their side pieces, no matter what your wife did to you, do not allow your side piece to disrespect her. For the sake of your kids, for the sake of the love you once shared, protect that woman from your side trash. Is your own disrespect not enough? why add one nonentity's own to it?
What a story!----- Why even have a side piece in the first place? Peace of mind is priceless!
That man is a terrible human. He should suffer in old age but unfortunately the dead can't rise again.. I pity the woman. No man is worth your mental strength. Keep it in check..
ReplyDeleteHmmm... any side piece that would come and confront me will regret ever coming in contact with me. Hmmm. i won't say what i would do here but i will make sure she doesn't ever pull that stunts ever again in her life. Gone are d days of telling wives to leave side piece and face their husbands alone. Side piece should start receiving woto woto from madams. They should be dealt with seriously.
DeleteSome men claim they want a woman that will give them peace. But when they get one they proceed to make her life a living hell and still expect peace. How will that happen? You get what you give.
DeleteJust imagine the tragedy that could have been avoided..
ReplyDeleteWife could have left earlier, husband could have left too to enjoy his sidechicks since he wasn't ready to be faithful. Innocent children are suffering for the foolishness of their parents.
What a tragic story. I feel pity for the kids.
ReplyDeleteThe innocent children suffering for what they know nothing about. this story is so sad.
DeleteVery bad.
DeleteVery sad. In all its the children that will bear all the pains.
DeleteThis story no sweet oo. It ended sadly😪😪
ReplyDeleteSo sad. Exactly Stella! Why have a side piece in the first place?
ReplyDeleteSunshine BV
God still heals.......
ReplyDeleteHe heals marriages too....
Brethren in this post pls.......
Take it to God in prayers,he cares.....
🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteThis is so sad. Is it not better marrying two wives than indulging in extra marital affair? If you think one isn't enough for you any more, why not discuss with your wife and bring her home than stealing fuck outside?
ReplyDeleteI don't know what this gender see under the skirt of another woman that's special or attractive that their wife don't have. Na waaa ooh.
Your aunt should have left if she had known it will end that way. I have once said it here and will repeat again, cheating men hardly change rather they upgrade by changing tactics or strategy when caught.
A man that will cheat always possess such tendency even when dating but most times some women will overlook that red flag.
Look at the kind of life he ended up with. What a life wasted.
Here you go again, went round and round yet no blame for the culprit. It must be anyother person or thing. Other people should have done this or that. But the man...?
DeleteTeejay, I thought I read yesterday that you were against Polygamy.
DeleteI'm confused
No! Go back to that post and read it again. I have never and will never be.
DeleteYou right Teejay, I went back to read it again.
DeleteWhy would a woman date a married man? Especially, if she knows he married under the Act, which indicates he signed up for a monogamous marriage.
ReplyDeleteWhy do men and women hold on to unsatisfying marriages and still go for extramarital relationships?
What a sad story.☹🙁
ReplyDeleteA survey needs to be done. In the long run, staying in a useless marriage does not pay.
ReplyDeleteMtcheew marry a man that respects you they won't hear
ReplyDeleteSide chics can reduce your lifespan men.
ReplyDeleteBreaking News:
Man dies on top of his lover.
You can never see or read where man dies on top of his wife.
Stop allowing your 2nd brain to control you.
When it does happen, it is not scandalous. That's why it doesn't make front page or break as news.
DeleteIt also reduce the wife's lifespan and that's the main problem.
DeleteIf you have a sidechick as a man, you must always let her know your wife and children comes first.. if she wants to go then let her go..
ReplyDeleteMost of the men I roll with don't take rubbish from their sidechicks especially when it comes to their wives..
Sidechicks wants money while the guy wants pleasure.. nothing more..
If she wants a family make she go marry
Apt
DeleteDoesn't matter. Once you dabble in rubbish anything can happen. Some side chicks pretend to be all ice-cream but are very deadly. What I am saying is, it is left to each person to control themselves. You fool yourself thinking you are controlling others. Anything can happen.
DeleteThis is really sad
ReplyDeletePeace of mind is priceless indeed!
ReplyDeleteNawa ooo you know you're side piece, why not quitely remain were you're and stop causing problem in one's home.
ReplyDeleteDesperation!
DeleteYou think side piece doesn't also want a main slice of the free giver's pie? Except the man is useless to her or she has better options she would surely try..........
DeleteJesus Christ! Holy Jah what did I just read now? Haaaa look at what adultery has caused...This story is so messy or untidy.... Women always choose yourself...This is heartbreaking and painful...May her soul rest in peace..
ReplyDeleteWhat a sad story. Their children is suffering for the sins of their father, tame your dog men.
ReplyDeleteWhat a sad story. Their children is suffering for the sins of their father, tame your dog men.
ReplyDeleteOkie dokie.
ReplyDeleteVery sad
ReplyDeleteWhat a sad story
ReplyDeleteThis story is a sad one.
ReplyDeleteToo sad
ReplyDeleteI would have loved the end to be that your aunt is living her best live in the city with her children while the husband is where he is now. She died from heartbreak.
ReplyDeleteI feel so sad,we actually need no one to advice us to stay in a bad marriage,we should be able to make the obvious decision on our own as adults.life is not a do or die affair.
ReplyDeleteThey should have reported the side chick to the police when she started threatening Aunty P. This would have given her a leverage when she went missing.
ReplyDeleteNow she died, leaving both husband and poor children, after suffering for what she doesn't know anything about.
What did she gain?
What a sad story.
ReplyDeleteContinue to rest in peace Aunty P.
Feeling for her kids.
It's good to involve police in matters of threat. Cause no matter how we donot trust our police system, people are still afraid of police case, even husbands when you threathen them with reporting thier matter to police they become frightened and check themselves immediately
DeleteThat was how a side chic disturbed madam one night "you've had him enough, where is he, release him for me? Madam couldn't sleep.
ReplyDeleteOne day, I saw the side chic's HIV result (positive) in my fmr/late oga's inner chamber office. Well she had 2 kids for the man. He rented an apartment & bought her a car. Was paying her tuition fees, she later dropped out thinking that oga would marry her. Oga became ill and didn't survive it. The wife is in charge of everything now. Very fine girl turned to Aunty,looking older than the madam.
Shame no dey let her greet/say hi, as semi amebo way I be, I will follow her till I tap and greet her. Atimes, she'd face another direction when she sees me, will call her and gist small.
I heard one time that she called and begged the oga's former colleagues and they sent small money to her, she complained that madam doesn't wanna help her. 😃
If you want equity make sure your hands dey clean.
2022. Nigerian women still fighting over absolute trash. That's why many of you in your 30s are looking so wrinkled and tired. Looking like your husbands aunty. Boyoyo dey fresh dey go. E get housewife, household and street pig to cater to him. Hbp and anxiety untop of utter worthlessness wan finish una. Kwentinue o!
ReplyDeleteI just taya. Fighting over absolute trash.
DeleteGod abeg oooo.
Marriage is not by force o
ReplyDeleteI won't even have 1% heart attack because of anyone.if I hear. I feel so bad that she died.
ReplyDeleteSad
ReplyDeleteThis is a sad story. I'm so sad she died. May God take care of these kids involved
ReplyDeleteA very sad story
ReplyDeleteThis is one of the saddest stories ever. Do men ever Learn? Gosh,!!!
ReplyDeleteSuch a sad story... Cheating should be prohibited by partners in relationships and marriage. It gives no gain!
ReplyDeleteSo sad. Rest in peace Aunty P.
ReplyDeleteI have a feeling that side chick just lied about been kidnapped...
ReplyDeleteThis is a sad story
ReplyDeletePlease women shine your eyes in your marriage life has no duplicate.
Abi nau, it has been summarized. But the children feeling the pains know it is no script.
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