A Situationship is a relationship without commitment.....
Are you in a Situationship? Is it by choice or condition? Are you in this situationship with a child or not? Do you want to marry this person and dont know how to push it forward? Are you dating yourself?
Were you in a situationship and woke up to hear your partner was marrying someone else? what did you do since you knew it was not a serious relationship?
Lets gist!
Never been in any of the above-mentioned
ReplyDeleteI just recently graduated from a situationship. In fact I am celebrating my independence along with Naija today. 😁🇳🇬 I just give God all the glory. 🙌🏽 But most importantly I have learnt my lessons and won't be repeating my mistakes by God's grace. Amen 🙏🏽 Feeling quite happy and relieved. 😄💃🏾
DeleteAnonymous 15:08 🤗🤗🤗
DeleteThanks Stella Maris Baby. 🥰
DeleteFound love and in less than 5days she broke my heart. She wanted to call the guy for the dick appointment after telling me she was home with alot to do. Told me she was on bike I should tell her the hotel room, I called her 3 times she said ohh sorry not you... I wan mad. Till today I never talked about it . So this year march she started asking when I would come see her people . Madam see why she does not know she is a fwb. I am already in a 4months relationships in my old apartment with my neighbor that one I have done introduction December trad.
ReplyDeleteHow did you conclude she was going to see a guy
DeleteAs a woman, let me answer the question. If it was a hangout with a female friend or platonic male acquaintance, she'd have told him the details, even if was just time or location. Instead she lied about being home & unavailable. Tor!
DeleteThe lady no try but why didn't you just discharge her? Than planning wedding with someone else while deceiving her, what if your real intended is playing such a game on you as well? A disease is an epidemic doesn't make it any less a disease. Last last, na d same rope tie una two.
DeleteYou are not alright at all, so you continued dating her because? I'm sure you wanted to chop and clean mouth, shiorr.
DeleteFYI, you are not in any way better than her.
I've been in one. Wouldn't advise anyone to be in such. It was hard for me, cos feelings were involved. We're still friends tho.
ReplyDeleteCANDY. (Can't comment using my ID)
Eyah...it is well jare.. everybody get story
DeleteI was in one situationship too and he broke heart ❤️, my feelings was messed up. We had allot together planed out for our feature, movement where we intend to settle when we eventually get married, the number of children, career, sex, we talk about virtually everything and anything. And funny enough he most times initiate our discussions and plans to get my suggestions and he makes sure he work on what ever I say to the letter. Only for him to come back home to Nigeria and never visited me after promising and convinceing me not to giveup on the relationship when ever I was.
DeleteFinally when he came and did not see me and i complain and wanting to know his reasons. He said he has gone back to the US and don't think he is coming back anytime soon and would not want to keep me waiting so I should move on.
It's painful 😅, but what can I do do, can't force an adult. I said thank you and moved, face my front 😭😭😭, I no get power for querrel
My one and only situationship was during lockdown. Very sweet days o. I don't regret it at all. Infact I still dream about his 🍆 Sometimes . Fine tall fair igbo guy with muscles from Anambra. I was at home alone n he would come over n give it to me good🥰 Even though I'm currently in love with someone else and marrying that person I'm happy 2 have at least experienced that for that moment
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ReplyDeleteWas once a sidekick without knowing.
I have also been in a situationship by choice but it was a fling that lasted 3weeks.
& I moved.
All these happened when I never get sense🤣
Currently na dem dey rush us, & I no send cos I'm on a journey & focused on one thing which is most importanta.
Infact some say my shakara too much, somr say i dey form, but dem can't just see me coming, once my journey is completed everything gonna set perfectly by God's time
E dey happen my sister
DeleteSituationship are for those who love with their heart only and not with their head too.if you love with both, you will read signal faster.
ReplyDeleteWas in one way back,bro was always promising heaven on earth I never saw,he will always be like I saw this beautiful stuff I will get it for you bla bla bla,and kept giving hint on how our marriage will be heaven on earth,asking the appropriate time to come visit officially....all na lie,I just use my head dey calculate.the next I heard he is out of the country,his line not reachable thou he told me he had plans but never knew it will be sudden.
Hmmmmmmm...I dey learn
DeleteI’m in a situationship right now not by choice but life happened it is a very risky and dicey one I don’t even know what to do or how to go about it maka I really like this guy
ReplyDeleteNa God fit know my sister but sincerely, try and get to know him and don't allow love to blindfold u
DeleteIt’s my choice dear. We all have choices: to choose right from wrong. Continue
DeleteYour* choice
DeleteSituationships are to have fun, when the main thing show face, you switch sides. Easy-peasy.
ReplyDeleteGbses🏃
DeleteYep. Had a thing with a hot guy before I left naija knowing fully well I was gonna relocate to abroad. He would come over to my house and we would fuk. It was great. But he used to say he didn't want a relationship so it was perfect cus I did get attached emotionally but still had to go for my studies so the heartbreak didnt last long.
DeleteI dont know if mine falls under situationship or what, got engaged last year we planned to see my people during Xmas, plenty story story entered, this year I was transferred to another state and since April he came visiting Just once, and was saying I am looking different, after he left I discovered I was pregnant before I left my previous location, the day I wanted to tell him, he lied about something serious. he is not aware of the pregnancy I have decided to keep my child by myself. Since he can't make out time to visiting to see for himself, then he is not interested in the relationship. My family are very supportive at this time.
ReplyDeleteYou should let him know about the pregnancy even if you don't want to have anything to do with him anymore. He has the right to know.
DeleteBtw, why didn't you visit him since he didn't visit you?
Seems to me like you did not love him enough.
Not trying to judge you Anon 16:19 but why is it that after introduction some couples start having sex carelessly? Is introduction the same as payment of bride price?
DeleteSome men develop cold feet after introduction, some of them that were hiding their true character before will start showing it after introduction, some will fall out of love with you. The marriage may never hold after introduction. So ladies, protect yourselves till after marriage to avoid becoming a single mum, yes, it is the ladies that bear the cross after they abandon you with pregnancy.
Reading mode activated 😎 👌
ReplyDeleteLife happened.
It is well
We gather dey here oooo..make we read but hungry dey do me shege
DeleteHunger I mean
DeleteFound love in August,the connection was great or so I thought,he just decided to ghost me. I tried reaching out to ask why and he couldn’t even give a good reason. Well life must go on so we moveeeeeeeee!!!
ReplyDeletesame happened to me in august too but we mouvee.
DeleteMy own breakfast is not easy for me, constant headache, weakness and sadness 😞
ReplyDeleteLove is wicked. Thou l still love me.
I'm a perpetual situationshipismt. I'm scared of commitment oo. The day my guy brought marriage registry form for us to start filling na the day I run oo. And we had discussed about it and agreed oo. But seeing that form made it real. Better man oo. Infact I have missed good men oo. They say it's ogbanje me ah no know oo. Virtually almost every guy I dated in the beginning proposed in 4 to 6 months. So now it's situationship for me. B4 6months I don Japa. God help me
ReplyDeleteI have never been in any situationship once I see sign I pick race
ReplyDeleteI’ve been in 2
ReplyDeleteFirst one the player guy ask me out I fall Tamara but knew in my head he’s a fool mehn the guy took me on 1 date in a year would come home for sleep disses my finances my car said I like acting poor. I was the one givin d money - I left ooooo and he started chasing me
Next it was a childhood friend I ducked his dick and he became obsessed but never asked me out he was just there for hang out and giving sucking Omo I move
Now married abeg