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Tuesday, December 27, 2022

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative..

 Hmmm...

STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
DIFFICULT DECISION


He proposed to me in February this year during valentine and I happily said yes after dating him for two years.we already fixed the date for the wedding but I think the wedding may not hold anymore as I just discovered a secret which had been hidden from me ....

I paid my fiancรฉ a visit and he was having threesome, i almost passed out.
I walked out of that dirty scene but he ran after me begging that it was the devil and he would change...

He has been begging also promised me a huge amount of money and a trip to Dubai immediately after our wedding . He is begging i don't tell anyone and still go ahead with the wedding preparations...

The wedding preparations has gone far and it would be really embarrassing calling it off now... I really love this man..  what do i do? I am so confused, should i marry for the money and all or walk away? or should i pretend i didnt see anything but give him a warning? will the next man be better if i walk away?



Go ahead with the wedding, you didn't see anything.. LOL... As long as he doesn't swing both ways, it can be tolerated....

89 comments:

  1. Madam you already made your choice which is money. If you really wanted to call it off, you wont think about other options especially money. Just continue with it and enjoy the money.

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    1. My dear, u have seem what you need to see. Go ahead and marry him if you want to at least you already know your fate, which is that your future in the union is not bright.

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    2. ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃsame thing I said

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    3. Ewelekeeeeee!
      ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿพ‍♀️ ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿพ‍♀️ ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿพ‍♀️ ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿพ‍♀️ ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿพ‍♀️ ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿพ‍♀️ ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿพ‍♀️

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    4. Hmm..if he was a broke guy now that did this, people will say she should walk away. So much doublestandards!๐Ÿ™„

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    5. Poster
      I am kneeling and pleading and hoping you see this.
      Please call off this wedding.
      Postpone it indefinitely and travel to another location.
      Tell people your office sent you somewhere.
      Use that time to THINK.

      THINK and THINK again of what your future would be like.
      If you think that this man is going to change, then I have an airport to sell to you.
      Not Because people don’t change, but Because it takes a deliberate, intentional effort to change talkless of when the person wants to die the matter and get married to cover his shame

      Your guy has weird fantasies and I promise you that in the future you would be the one arranging girls for him to lay with and entertaining them when they come

      There is cheating and there is threesome cheating. It takes a reprobate mind to indulge in it.

      Kai,‘I wish you would listen. I really wish you would

      But if you don’t, go ahead and marry him and cash out.

      But let me tell you one thing, it’s better to be with someone who values you and respects you and honours you and your marriage with little than ti be with a billionaire who has no regard for you or your emotions.

      If you’re afraid of finding someone else, let me tell you. I left a 7 year relationship and God gave me my BOAZ in my late late 20’s
      I am married now and I’m HAPPY that my relationship scattered even though I wanted to die then

      Go and read the book of Ruth. Use it as your anchor scripture and ask God to send you your Boaz; an honourable man who would redeem you and show you love.

      God is not confused. He sets the solitary in families.
      Don’t be afraid of the future.
      Good men are everywhere na we no dey see them.

      I suspect you may go ahead with this wedding in hopes that he would change.
      If you want to, then make sure you still postpone it.
      Meet with a marriage counsellor and start work on your husband thahs if he’s willing.
      Afterwards, you can then marry


      But if you ask me, drop this man like a hot rag let him continue his threesome escapades.
      God allowed you see this for a reason.
      It wasn’t a coincidence.

      Selah


      Mma Nwachukwu

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    6. Lavender going through the comments, the poster has been advised to jappa from the relationship and would be marriage for her peace of mind.

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    7. Threesome is no big deal. Cheating is cheating. It’s only Nigerian people due to their closed mind that think threesome is a big deal. @poster. The question is can you take the cheating or not? It’s not the devil and he won’t change. Can you take it or not? If you can marry him. If you can’t say goodbye.

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  2. If you know you can handle the cheating with all the excesses that comes with it, by all means go ahead. That love you feel now, will fly out of the window when the chicken comes home to roost.

    If you know you cannot stomach it, back pedal now o, coz once you marry, you have only two options๐Ÿ˜†

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    1. ๐Ÿ˜‚ 2 options ooo!

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    2. Abi oo, its very simple.
      But shebi poster you know it's not the devil anything right? It will keep happening and you will see shege, prepare to possibly join in the orgies sef.
      The love of money has blinded you ladies!!!! Reason why someone like Dante has mouth to run commentary and keeps lumping all women together, because people like you keep dropping the standard and disgracing us!!

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  3. Shebi you know he would continue with the three somes after you guys are wedded? And the somes would always be held when you aren't looking. Some guys are wired that way,can you cope?Or it could be a bucket list thing before marriage.Anyway it's your choice,all the best babes.

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    1. 15:08
      How are you sure that with more money and trips to vacational Europe, Madam will not displace one of the twos or make it better - a foursome.

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  4. The Original ShugarGirl27 December 2022 at 15:09

    He's found for himself a perfect victim.
    Awwwn and you love him.๐Ÿ˜„๐Ÿ˜

    You are about to lay your marital bed on burning coals.
    It's going to be an unending cycle and you will constantly cash out whenever it repeats itself sadly.

    Then you will know how embarrassing it is compared to the current state of embarrassment.

    Sorry, you haven't got a husband for yourself. Diseases and more wahala await you if you should settle for this less.

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    1. You are blessed,you spoke well,any marriage not built on Jesus Christ is bound to be rocky.

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    2. Go at your own peril. You are even lucky God helped you see this on time. Some never see it till after 20years of marriage and high BP comes in to take a permanent seat
      It will surely end in great tears and many abroad trips
      Choose your choice

      Zendaya

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    3. Aunty poster

      He is a pervert, walk away with your dignity NOW

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  5. Some women no dey take ear hear trip to abroad or a huge sum of money. This man na complete play boy. He knows the right buttons to press.
    Go ahead girl, it's better to cry in a Lamborghini than to laugh ontop of okada

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  6. So if you marry now, anytime he invites the ladies after doing the do, he will blind your eyes with money abi?

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    1. ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ
      This look like open marriage.

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    2. Licious babe got it right!! Open marriage... I am currently hapily married in one and I find peace in it! (10years N still counting). Hubby has fantasies (wild/erotic/fetish) while, I am bisexual,open minded and dont/never saw men as one woman's property so, watching him have sex with other ladies is normal for me! If he wants, he can join my party! *P (I grew up in a polygamous home), I bet my mum as the first wife transfered some if her emotional control system to me.. Lol.. I also went to an all girls secondary school so, extra female company has never been an issue to me.

      Now, to you poster: can you handle it emotionally? Are you open/free enough to want to share?, would you support and respect his fantasies now that the truth has been discovered? If yes then, I have an advice for you!
      Postpone the marriage a bit to prove a point that the discovery shocked you, don't go ahead in this state at least that will give him an idea that although it came as a shock, you are willing to talk things over, he should open up to you totally, make the environment conducive for him to want to open up to you, get to know this side of him and more, do not panic, do not show any sign to make him see that you are either scared or not into it, make sure you make him open his dirty/dirtiest/darkest closet to you, after that evaluate the situation and decide AGAIN if you will be emotionally capable to handle it!

      If you think you can then.. There are rules to set, write out an agreement and have him sign it before marriage (I.e.. Medical checkups, tell him whether or not you can stand such practice at home, RESPECTING one another irrespective of their sexual bruhaha's, let him know you have nothing against such so long as he plays it safe and not bring shame whatsoever to the marriage,, (am sure he has already proven this part by successfully hiding it from you the 2 years you guys dated),.

      You, on your part.. Get busy as usual, I guess you have a good job and the both of you do not live in same area,, don't let that change.. Marriage is just the ring o! Both of you aren't virgins in, so, much should not be changed after walking down the isle as not everyone know how to rearrange/adjust to all of that. Make him trust you, make him respect you both in your absence, set a standard for yourself and have him keep up with him, be polite to him as not all men can admit to all their fantasies because of the shame of being ridiculed or such!

      After listening dear poster, if you aren't ready for such then kindly walk away and forget what you saw, am sure both of you can get a way of passing on the cancellation of the wedding amongst your friends and family, don't throw away respect for one another and maybe remain friends with him while you guys move on.

      Some of these guys are better than the quiet a strict use derive and over wanting guys! Good luck.

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  7. Hmmm poster wahala dey o.
    Be ready to manage a cheating spouse.
    He might change o, but no be you go change am, na God.
    So ride on

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  8. Madam, God showed you the dressed up hell you were entering into and you still pushing to enter. You dated for two years but he never chose to tell you of his sexual leanings. It is easier to walk now than it will ever be if you get married, and he will for 100% get you pregnant immediately to ensure you are tied down. Remember you only have one vagina and if it couldn't hold him before the wedding, you think it will hold him after years of marriage.

    Tell your parents what you saw. You owe him no protection. Even for the fear of diseases and spiritual entanglements alone is enough not to follow through. You can forgive him completely and still not marry him. Forgiving him does not mean you have to give him what he wants. Forgive him and move on.

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    1. Spiritual entanglement be making me laugh out loud.Nice one.

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    2. Poster follow this advice. I have a friend who is in your shoes. She went ahead with the marriage and the problem was x10 worse. That time she used to say she loved him. The love don disappear now and it’s not nice to see what it has done to her. Be wise dear

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  9. Simply go for the money cos it's obvious you want to marry him for all of them perks.
    True love? Nah!

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  10. As long as he never asks you to join in their dirty dealings, I think you should go ahead. Tell him the day he dares to talk you into it, you’ll tell your families and that’s it.

    Sluttychic.

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    1. It will amount to she being invited someday. As he's about to get away with it, next is to toy with the idea of inviting her to join the party.

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  11. Once you accept him and the wedding goes ahead, be ready to accept you will not be his only sex mate/partner.

    No guarantees your next guy would zip up in the case you run. A sizeable percentage of men have cheated, cheating or intend to cheat if and when they have or get the means or finance/time. If you run, how long will you continue to run unless cheating is a deal breaker for you. That means you might not marry or stay long in marriage.

    Your decision. Your choice.

    Good luck.

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  12. A woman also went ahead with the wedding, now the man brings the girls to their matrimonial home without any regard to her. Some of una when una go hear money all una sense go fly away. Una go learn sha

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    1. I swear some people are trying. poster ride on, till your husband partners chase you out from that home or give you disease.

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  13. You better call it off broken engagement is better than broken marriage ,God has warned you ,he might even kill you then money will mean nothing to you ,just tell them you are no longer interested without telling the reason why but tell your parents and siblings ,with evidence you can call him and have it recorded,he might even introduce you to it after marriage

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    1. Hmmm broken engagement is better than divorce after marriage. My thoughts ooo. I am tired of hearing divorce, divorce every other day and when you enquire you will find there were red flags before hand. Let 3some people marry their fellow 3some people na. ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฝ‍♀️

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  14. Go ahead with the wedding if you can bear more of what you just witnessed. The worst is already over for him. Next time you catch him he would apologize again pay you off and continue with his lifestyle

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  15. You caught ur man cheating, not just with one person but with two and u are confused on what to do????

    See u see future problems. I kid u not. You are the type they later tell u saw all the signs and still went in. It's not me that will tell u to break it off, it isn't me.

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  16. Poster,hold ur ears and hear this one oh!! RUN!!!!!!!!! Don't even look back u think money is everything?e go Taya u.he won't change and u will spend ur time shedding premium tears.i know someone like ur fiance he didn't change infact his wife will have to arrange d hook up for him or he will go out and do it himself.from ur narrative u loathe such right? don't settle for wat u ain't down with.y do they always beg with a trip to Dubai and plenty money?they know ur type u luv d money.if u can't be part of it,run away.

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    1. The rationalize everything. Until they start living in the filth and realize no amount of money or trips brings them peace. Then they run to the plastic surgeons trying to perfect themselves competing with the concubines and hoping the man will notice them. Then when they get tired they learn to bury their misery and convince themselves they are staying only for the children, when they sold themselves for frilly frocks and a house in a good neighbourhood, while running up and down looking for antibiotics to cure their stis.

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  17. Stella I want to believe you are being sarcastic, because if she comes back after the chronicle with this complaint, the question will be did she not see the signs?
    Dear poster, look well. Look very well.

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    1. Abeg, leave my Sister Stella. She na journalist before she become blogger. You don ever read where journalist talk say dog bite man?

      See Poster, see foursome.

      @theIsokoMan

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    2. @theisokoman ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ
      Stella and her ogbonge advice
      I want to believe she’s being sarcastic
      Mma Nwachukwu

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  18. I find Stella's advice amusing.

    If you go ahead with the marriage, get ready for more disrespect and chronicles.

    The shege Yul is showing May will be too sweet compared to yours.

    Good luck.

    I found myself at a cross road just before my first marriage but because I considered what people would say, I went ahead with the marriage.

    We went our separate ways after six months.
    Do you see yourself growing old with this man with all the baggage?

    Good luck once more.

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  19. Can other threesome members leave him after marriage?or maybe he is into 3some because of money rituals,and better tell your parents

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  20. If you marry for the wrong reasons and not true love;a part of you will forever be empty;and that feeling is what money or a trip to the Bahamas cant replace..

    Forgive him today and he would continue with sixsome tomorrow..why?? Cos you have showed him your worth;precisely how cheap you can be and how much you value your health and life..

    So many are so poor and miserable,cos all they have got in life is MONEY..you can add to the stats..

    Enjoy your choices! Just hoping it's not late before you realise that the means doesnt always justify the end;and also that there are prices money can't solely pay..

    @MARTINS

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  21. Eeii! Women una Dey fall hand! So it’s because of trip to Dubai that you want to sell your soul? Forget it oh, money is not a cure for pain, as I’m sure you’re feeling the pain now. If you can’t handle that life, cancel the wedding. And if you go ahead, don’t disturb anybody with chronicles when the chickens come home to roost, because this is just a tip of the iceberg.

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  22. Can be tolerated how? By turning a blind eye everytime? By pretending everything is fine while living in constant fear of your husband acting like an animal without an ounce of self-control? By being placated with small money and trips to Dubai? By choosing to deal with the risk of STDs and other harmful effects of polyamory instead of damming society and the temporary embarrassment of not going ahead with an obvious mistake?

    Choose you this day how you want your future to look like, and act accordingly. Life is too short and your peace, physical and mental health are more important than money and other things which you feel are important now. As you make your bed, so you will lie on it.

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  23. RUN ! RUN ! RUN !

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  24. The thing is he knows you are in for the money more than you love him that's why he is promising money in exchange for what you saw, when you eventually get married he will continue but this time it will be you trying to save face not to be seen as one who isn't successful in marriage , you might even start fighting this girl's one after the other, forgetting that you saw all the signs before agreeing to the marriage. Lastly the money he is splashing on you now to make you forget will reduce when you get married to him. You will be left to do what u want, while he go after his fantasies after all he has the money to splash around.

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    1. If he does not change, the placating gifts may not be much after marriage because he has gotten the Poster. Very true words @15:37. So, if money is the bait, marriage may be the hook.

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    2. Poster you cannot have so low a self esteem that a goat will offer you coins for your health, mental wellness and your self respect

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  25. Don't just come here and start crying later.
    Call off that wedding

    KING XOXO MYSTERY

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    1. Poster please update us on your decision.

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  26. What you saw is just a tip of the iceberg if you go on with the wedding. How many Dubai's will you go to? E go still Taya you. The choice is yours

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    1. She may even start her own cheating after marriage in an attempt to kill the pain. Sorta like revenge cheating, but that will not help the situation. I bet the guy will not tolerate it either if he finds out.

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  27. Money money money!!!
    Why is my gender like this???
    Are your hands tied that you can’t make money for yourself???
    You want to choose dirty lifestyle over peace of mind because of ordinary Dubai ๐Ÿคฎ

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    1. My dear there are also male gold diggers.

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  28. Poster please dodge this bullet.

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  29. This is a difficult situation,pls my darling involve a marriage counselor.....when you're finally married, how many times will you forgive and get away with money.i believe you saw that secret for a reason and The choice is left for you to make.

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    1. No offense but this is NOT a difficult situation. If someone shows you who they are, believe them. This poster has very low self esteem and a poverty mentality. Do you think he will offer you this nonsense if you were not conveying the impression of someone from a wretched background who is so deprived that she can be bought or someone who loves money above all else? I cannot even believe this post! How can you see this and even contemplate marrying the man? How? Do you think marriage is a walk in the park? A trip to Dubai? What is in a Dubai trip without your spouse when you know he has two other women with him. When did the society deteriorate so badly? Why does he even want to get married? Why would you even talk of marriage to a guy like this?

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    2. As in bottom of the barrel low self esteem. God actually revealed this guy to her but her coconut head will still go ahead with the marriage. Marriage that will now produce kids and grow up in a toxic environment hence leading to childhood trauma. No wonder why we have a lot of fcked up people around. The cycle continues.

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    3. @2:04,
      It is difficult. I said here once that women should marry men of value and whose values tally with theirs. A female Bv replied asking what value is a poor man.

      Now, poverty is not to be celebrated nor is it a badge of honour or value by itself. But when a financially stable man is only by that seen as a person of value, then matters like this one are very difficult

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  30. Poster I beg you in the name of God, call off the wedding. God showed you because He wants you to see what you are going into. Money is not everything please. Unless you are really ready to keep sending chronicles. You will regret that marriage in the future and by then it will be too late. Even the people you will complain to will blame you for going ahead. That man lacks the fear of God. Is that whom you want to marry? If the money is all that important to you, then marry him. But I believe that even without him, the future is bright for you.

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  31. If that lady from the viral clip (a week or so ago) could stop her wedding at the altar, and tell her pastor that she does not take the would-be groom as her lawfully wedded husband...then, trust me, it's never too late to stop the wedding planning.

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  32. Poster it's up to you, if you decide to continue with this guy.he may not change even after the marriage.the choice is yours to make. goodluck!

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  33. Go and watch finding hubby 1 & 2 on Netflix, a nollywood movie and decide from there.

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  34. I will encourage you not to go ahead with this wedding plan except money is your alpha and omega. Pls note that money and Dubai trip will not cure the incurable giveaway disease he will dash you.

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  35. Na wa o. This my gender, how can you be sending in a chronicle asking for advice on an issue like this. It is obvious the guy knows you love money that's why he can offer you money and you are thinking of reconsidering your ways. And do.you really think you stumbled on this by mistake. You don't know the heart of man and it is obvious your own heart is doubly deceptive. Go ahead and marry and live with the misery for all your life. I believe in forgiveness but I will forgive and wait for the fruit of the true repentance from such a man. But this guy' knows that if not for the money, what you call love for him is not true. Follow your deceptive heart to your own peril. Or change your self and embrace the peace that comes with a sober breaking of this affianceship until further notice.
    Shallow!

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    1. Pardon the typos up there. I was writing with a lot of passion. With what I have seen in this my small life from the examples of others. I am unapologetically a member of team: broken engagement is better than a broken marriage or home.
      Poster let me ring it out loudly in your ears!!!! Don't go ahead with the wedding plans at least not for now.

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  36. Poster I read your post but guess what? I have nothing to contribute ๐Ÿ˜

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  37. You are talking about embarrassment of calling off a weeding? Wait until you face that of divorce.
    Congratulations ๐ŸŽŠ

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  38. Asides the health risks, emotional and mental torture, have you thought of the spiritual implications? Poster, do you really want to allow your future husband invite foul spirits into your home?
    May God guide you down the right path.

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    1. She no dey think that one oo. Na money and Dubai dey her mind๐Ÿ˜ฉ. Money she never see yet self. Why promise after marriage?? I bet you he won’t give jack shit. Because guy man know say she no get backbone!

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  39. Pls go ahead with the wedding... It's a dead on arrival marriage! You already know what you want, so no point wasting our energy.
    Congratulations and Good ๐Ÿคž

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  40. I know of a similar situation. The woman is now the one booking different women for her husband. She waits in the car while he is busy doing his nonsense. Such a humiliating lifestyle. All because of money and social status. It is really up to you to decide how you want your future to be.

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  41. If it was just regular sex, I would have said forgive, but 3some is WILD!!!!!! His desires are WILD, they will not fly out the window after marriage. If it was his first time, he would want to relive the experience, so it will happen again. If it wasn't his first, you already have your answer, it will happen again.

    Don't say you are canceling the wedding, say you are postponing it, to those you have already invited who are not close family.

    Make sure you tell a few of the people your fiance respects and regards, his parents and yours and see how it goes.

    If he is ashamed and still keeps begging, you could insist on counseling with a reputable Man and woman of God (jointly). If after you tell a few people, he gets angry at you, know that he isn't remorseful and won't change.

    If you go ahead with this wedding as scheduled, you would have sent a dangerous message across to him, which is that you will remain in the marriage irrespective of what he does to avoid embarrassment and shame.

    Irrespective of what you decide, don't go on with the wedding as scheduled, so that it is clear to him that shame will never keep you from taking firm steps when necessary.


    Simply tell people you have postponed the wedding because it is not convenient, that your office is sending you abroad for a short course. Then take leave and go away for a while.


    Do not enter into this marriage like this, without first making a statement. Postpone the wedding, until you make a carefully thought out decision.

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    1. If Dubai and cash no dey, will all dis ones dey?

      Poster, marry or leave. No statement can be made to this man by postponing the wedding if threesome or sex outside is his way.

      During the postponment, mister will still chop. This time, he will go far away from the Poster to chop or make sure Poster does not have the easy access to the dinning room as she had.

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  42. God loves you so much!!! You were warned and alerted .Go on at your peril.if you love urself Run!!!Run!!! Run!!!

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    1. As in God really loves her even after her flaws/sin(s). But her stupid oponu self will still go ahead. Money wey she never see, only promised.

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  43. Poster let me say no person on earth is perfect, people have one or two weakness in them.you need to weigh your options to see which you can tolerate in your man.

    You have the best decision to make with your man either to walk away from that marriage or to stay put. Remember money is not everything, remember the way you met him that is who he is and never you get married to him tomorrow and believe or think you can change him from this attitude.

    God is the only one who can set him free from this act you saw. Thank well and be sure you can tolerate his attitude but I'd you cannot please free him to go be with those who can.

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    1. To each his own oh, but for me that advice of no one is perfect is referring to flaws, not red flags. There is a huge difference between flaws and red flags. Red flags are a threat to the marriage itself, and are capable of destroying the marriage someday. Flaws are not. Red flags you run, flaws you manage and help your spouse overcome them. I have a red flag list and for me lust /sexual immorality/lack of self control/weird sexual appetitie and all ramifications of lust are red flags. We are told to fleeeeee..

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    2. 20:35 love and kisses to you. Unfortunately poster will go ahead with this marriage due to greed and love of money. but it’s already in record. God will judge you especially if you later divorce and now remarry.

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  44. Please take the money so you can be treating yourself or every imaginable disease and infection.
    Olojokokoro.

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  45. Babe forget money o. Na peace of mind sure pass. Go ahead with the wedding so you can be sending us more chronicles later.

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  46. Are you talking about marriage or business transaction? How many Dubai trip or Money will buy emotional and mental damage you will face? Lol.. Naija Women ndonu.

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  47. You haven’t even seen the money and trip na only promise he promised you. No wonder why he could buy your love with money. I blame naija who doesn’t provide enough jobs for people. Because If you have and make your own money, money and trips won’t phase you and you won’t send this chronicle because you for don call your family and tell them wetin your eyes see hence reason why you’re not moving forward with the marriage. You know deep in your heart you won’t be able to handle this hot mess and you know it’s a Deal breaker for you. But your greed and big appetite for money is clouding your judgment. And NO not all men cheat and do threesome! He no even cheat with one girl, na 2 women at the same time. He is not stopping anytime soon and I can put money on the table for this. Instead of you to be thanking God for showing you this revelation just before you tie the knot. Just before. Not even during your two year relationship. Maybe you prayed to God to reveal somethings to you or maybe na your mama’s prayers dey work who knows. God is really patient sha. If men were God hmmmm. I wish you goodluck because you will need it oo. As in seriously need it because your eyes will clear immediately after the wedding. That same night your eyes will clear when everyone is back to their tent. Then the forever drama will begin…. Till death do you part. I dey laugh sha and shake my head at the same time. On the other hand, you can end this sick relationship right now and cry all the cry you can cry because you will eventually move on and you will find a man who’s not into this nonsense. Not every man wants to go to hell. A lot want to go to heaven actually. Surround yourself with Godly people if you want a Godly marriage. Godly people by their actions and not words of mouth. So yea, make your decision from here onward. Good luck.

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  48. Stella wrote that comment because she knows poster won’t listen to her advice. She knows poster is in for the money so she might as well make a positive statement out of it. After all, no be Stella go dey inside threesome marriage or go dey treat different diseases. Na you open your eyes enter marriage that you know you’re not suppose to enter. Anyway, send us after marriage chronicle. So others can learn one or two things. Or you can update us that you’ve ended the relationship. We go still read and give our opinion and others will also learn. All the best.

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  49. Your eyes will completely clear immediately after your wedding night. When it’s just two of you left. That’s when regret will set in because you know damn well you saw the bright red warning sign. Either you or Someone has been praying for you. Don’t waste this prayer of revelation. I take God beg you. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ God honors this type of prayers because God himself ordained marriage and it’s between a man and a woman. It’s going to be a long long unhappy marriage if you go this route. There are still very good men out here so don’t let that negative thoughts and emotions cloud your judgement!

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  50. God is Love so much and he revealed to you the secret of whom you are about to marry. The choice is your to follow God's plan for life by pulling out or to your own greed by getting trapped. Two years after the wedding you will share another chronicle of how you are not happy in your marriage .
    You saw the red flags and you are still contemplating if to go ahead. Not those who practise 3 some cannot be satisfy by one woman it has become addiction
    Heed God's warning before is too late

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  51. Poster by the time you ll tell him give me that money and the trips he promised you , na by that time he go treat you like trash in fact cos you don marry him he will do double of what you re seeing now ,he will so humiliate you that your solace will be sad face,depression and prayer if you still have strength, sso you mean you ll start praying for a man one month to wedding to change, nne e no dey easy o it's his loss cancel the wedding I cannot tolerate what is not my value and principle.
    Do you think if his the one he will comtemplate he will japa, you have solid evidence to cancel tell your people the bond I have with my people no go even let me keep sealed lips .you re considering trips and money if I hear , PLS UPDATE US

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