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Saturday, December 24, 2022

Doctor Freaks Journal -Long Distance Relationships

In the Nigerian parlance, there is a saying that 'in a long relationship, at least three of four people are involved.'



I shared the same building with a pretty woman some years back. She lived with her son and daughter. The news we gathered then was that her husband resided in America.

 She worked in a spa and she was proud of her job. 

Initially we weren't close because I was living with my protective spouse.
 Immediately my spouse relocated temporarily, she became more friendly and rode in my car to work on several occasions.

 Gradually, we became friends but simply on a platonic level. I never wanted more anyway and she honestly didn't display any form of affection for me but rumours were rife that she was involved in some amorous relationships with certain folks, both male and female but who am I to judge or authoritatively state that she was guilty as charged? 

She was cute and nice but I think at some point she got involved with the landlord's son who was more than ten years her junior. I became aware of this because the boy was all over her and was always in her apartment.

 At some point, both the landlord and the wife confronted her and made an issue out of the accusation/suspicion. In any event, rumours were rife that she was warming Baba Landlord's bed at the material time.

Fast forward, neighbour's husband arrived from America. Cute guy. We became friends and he attempted to force some words out of my mouth but I didn't bulge as it is even not in my character to interfere in other people's matters or engage in side talks. 

The guy dropped the topic but hinted me that he had heard certain uncomplimentary things about the wife and that he had only come for his children stylishly. 
Weeks later, Mr husband disappeared with the children and Mrs Wife was left with the hope of joining the rest of the family as soon as possible.

I left that neighbourhood shortly after and I've not been in touch with her.

 Recently, I ran into my friend and it's been nine years now. The first question I asked was 'wow! are you on vacation in Nigeria?' Even though she wasn't looking like someone who had just returned from Porto Novo but the 'aproko' in me wanted her to give me some gist. Behold, she confessed to me that she hadn't heard from the husband and children in years but she was doing great.

Hmmm... was I surprised? No. After all, Mr Husband hinted me beforehand. Breakfast in bed served hot.


*You should have hinted her abeg!... Whether she was sleeping around or not, he had no right to take those kids away from her...wicked man!
I know someone who did this and when the kids were big enough to do so, they returned to Nigeria to look for their mum and cut off their dad totally....

18 comments:

  1. No Stella, he didn’t tell him that she was sleeping with the whole neighborhood so why should he also tell her what the man told him, the man didn’t tell poster that he wanted to kill her, if she was serious she could have reported the case to the American embassy as a case of child trafficking or kidnapping or a whole lot more as she didn’t authorize them traveling and the man most have forged some documents to enable the kids travel without her permission.
    She chose not to do anything about it so I believe the poster did the best thing by staying away from both of them. If you tell me something in confidence, I will keep your secret and the poster did exactly that for both of them.

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    1. The painful part about this is that she may have spent years hoping that he was still processing her papers. She should have gone to report him at the embassy. As long as he didn't win full custody in court, he had no business keeping her away from the kids. I will not be surprised if he even had another wife abroad and used this lady as their baby making machine without her knowledge. I just hope that the people that fed the husband the stories caught her pants down and didn't report unfounded rumors. I know someone whose 'husband did same, he already had 3 girls so he married a student who had a girl and a boy for him. He kidnapped the boy and that's when she found out the lady was not his sister that left her husband with her kids but his wife.

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    2. To my understanding the man married for documents in the us,so he and the mother of the kids are divorced,s when he was filling is paper he included the name of is children.

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    3. Ah! Thanks for the clarification.

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  2. This is very painful. No mother deserves to be separated from her kids.

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    1. 13:58
      Right. No parent deserves to be separated from their child/children.

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  3. I think you should have hinted her since you claim she was your friend. What she allegedly did with her privates is actually none of your business.
    Was the husband faithful where he was?

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    1. How was he to know the Husband was not pulling his legs to know how involved he was with the woman?

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    2. I think so too. I don't believe they were really friends.

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  4. Abeg e good as e mind him business.
    She's loose, can't she do her runs codely, instead she became public toilet

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  5. Abeg e good as e mind him business.
    She's loose, can't she do her runs codely, instead she became public toilet

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  6. she messed up big time. hope the husband sends her pictures of the kids and allow her speak to them. Good the man left the marriage before he gets diseases etc

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  7. Why did he do that? She was a bad wife and not a bad mother.

    Very wicked man that was probably living with an oyinbo woman 😡

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  8. See them saying he should have told the wife her husband plans but not saying he should have told the husband that the wife too was banging up and down..

    You women are really so one sided..

    Sir K did well by not snitching on both parties to eachother ✌️

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    1. How would he have told him his wife was sleeping around based on rumors without evidence? Did the lady make a pass at him for him to know she wasn't faithful?

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  9. Some women are also wicked f**king another man even when they her pregnant

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