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Thursday, December 01, 2022


Hailings to you all...


Please this is not an advert for any Bank oh but which Ban in Nigeria is the best? The Bank i use, its Online portal has been misbehaving since on Monday and i have not been able to do anything.....ah ah!!!

Did i hear that naira has stabilized? Stabilize how? how much now?

The Weather reports say it might snow this Weekend, i love snow a lot but only to look at it from the window......LOL

I am still down with cold ooooh.......

Enjoy the rest of the day.......mwaaaaaaaaaaaah!!!



I watched a video of a child struggling to climb into the bathtub while his mom was bathing. I couldn’t help but laugh because I can relate, I have lost all form of privacy with the kids.

I complained in the early days but now I am used to it. Looking back, till I was a young adult I followed my mom everywhere around the house.

We were either always gisting or doing chores together. Even when she was napping one of us would still curl up beside her.

I am used to it now, in the last few days when the house is full in the evenings. I slip away and hide, and the longest I have gone before being noticed is ten minutes and those few minutes has been so blissful and quiet.

I plan to keep hiding away and I hope I will be able to go for longer periods as time goes on..

LOL... if the time get longer, you are the one that will become worried that no one has looked for you and come out...



There is this boy who is just 10years of age, the mum is in Dubai(For whatever reasons I don't know). I think she has been there for close to 5-6years now. She left her only son and only child with her younger sister.

The issue is, this boy was dealt with badly, he was beaten to the extent that, it was just by luck, else the two eyes would have been blinded by the Cain. The boy's face was swollen and he couldn't see. I was going to my stand jeje when they both walked by, she was taking him to school and I stopped him to know what happened to his eyes and face, the lady quickly answered me by saying "He fell down" which is so clear that it's Atori that caused it. The boy didn't even allow her to land fully when he said, ''she was the one who flogged me all because I said I'm not ready for extra lesson''

She left my stand and pulled the boy from me.

I didn't even say anything, I just went to my stand with the plans of going back to the boy's school because i captured the name of the school and I noticed it is just a throw stone. 

When I got to their school after(like an hour interval), I met with the admin and told her I came to complain about something then I told her that there is a boy who is a student here and was beaten badly, she then asked me to come into the office to identify the boy on getting to the office, the boy was there sitting and I told her this is the boy I'm talking about. I was told they have called the guardian's line then I decided to wait to see who the person will be, I was asked if I know the boy then I lied saying yes.

Unfortunately for her, never knew the school management has invited a police officer just to come over to witness Incase they come back to school saying it was their teacher that flogged him. When this aunty came in and saw me, she was so surprised, to cut the long story short, she was so rude and was finally arrested because the boy's mother was called on WhatsApp video and when she saw her son, she shouted and she personally asked the school to arrest her younger sister.

I dont know if they have settled it, but I was just happy when her own blood instructed them to arrest her.

The point is, leaving your child with people can be dangerous because people tend to maltreat them behind you, no matter how close they are to you, have had such experience once when I was growing up. That was how the Aunty then first molested me, that memory can't be erased.

We move

I have not seen anyone who takes risks the way you do..What if the Lady suspects that you reported her and sends people to your stand? Christmas is around the corner, please protect yourself and limit your amebo ooooooooooooo



Unto the yard gists, e get one of our neighbors wey her shop dey for front of we yard and she newly birthed a beautiful chubby boy. As I dey house na, I sey make I go mend some clothes for one tailor shop for front of we yard too.

Na there tory begin fly in sey the baby no be the man own. The way news flies in this we area eh. There's this young girl that comes to assist her in the shop, she comes during the holidays too. Tory sey the girl na her first daughter, sey the woman been marry born 3 children before she marry this her present husband. And hubby sef no know.

Wetin inspire this tory be about the man wey cancel him wedding because he discovered his bride to be has kids outside wedlock. Na this gist dem dey debate on wey come bring and birth our dear neighbour own oh

Dem sey na person wey sabi her reach house, na him nack the gist give them.
But if na true sey this we neighbour get three kids which is not bad, why e be sey na only the teenage girl (she said she's their last born) dey come around what happened to the other two?. Naso this cho cho cho go continue like this until her husband hear am, Wahala sef go burst. Or any day she try pick quarrel with person for yard now, them go use am abuse her for her husband front.

I no just want to believe wetin dem dey yarn for the little lad. People no dey mind dem business again oh, person get mind open him mouth yarn sey him neignour pikin no be her husband own. I just carry my clothes waka, I no wan be witness to nonsense

Same day oh. Our suck away don full and we dey contribute money to drill out the thing. Some people never pay and the thing dey cause kasala for we yard. Landlord come out for morning dey shout for people wey never pay, Naso everybody come out na.

Before you know it people don dey form different group. The ones wey never pay form dem own dey yab landlord for low tones, we wey don pay form our own dey talk our own (we're vips na). My neighbor dey gist me sey Naso e dey be every morning oh, landlord go come shout and people go form group, omo I dey miss gists

As landlord commot, the women come form one group dey yarn women matter, one woman sey she go take family planning injection, sey she no wan born again. She was narrating the process she took to us. She said she saw single ladies taking the injection too. Na him one woman say 'God forbid, how person wey never marry go take that kind thing'.

Thank God the one that took it took out time to explain why it's necessary. Na there another important matter spring up, na him I sey I go ask the good people of sdk.

Someone said girls that take birth control injections or implants will not have a child or give birth in their next World  if they die with the implant. The rest of them concurred except me

Biko zienu, is it true. Abeg educate a local champion like me oh. Person wey die with implants no go born pikin for him next life?

How dem take know say the person no go born for next life? people running away from their pasts, may God shield them from people who know dem cos everybody get something wey dey hide...Me nah my big bum bum i dey hide...hehehehehehehehehe

Stay away from yard gossip before na beating dem go take wake you up one day oh...ehen!!!



1) No man is perfect

2) Men are like children. So be like his mother.

3) Hear quickly; talk slowly.

4) Never compete with a man.

5) Never try to be equal with him.

6) Be fast to apologize when you know you are wrong.

7) Don't be too jealous with him. This is good for your peace of mind.

8) You may check on his phone if you want, but that isn't necessary.

9) Always be honest as a wife.

10) Never leave your house for a long distance without his permission.

11) Make sure you know the food he likes, and prepare that at least twice a week if money allows.

12) Don't let your husband get in the house with a parcel in his hand.

13) Try to make a budget together.

14) Be his adviser, not a critic.

15) Don't ever forget that a wife is a helper of husband.

16) Learn good things from your mother.

17) When God blesses you with children, never give more attention to your children and forget your husband.

18) Learn to smile at your husband.

19) When your husband knocks off from work, greet him. If possible, hug him.

20) Don't let your husband leave the house without eating. This may mean "eat" and "eat".

21) When you husband becomes angry, stop talking.

22) Keep the bedroom clean always.

23) Never put cloths on the bed. Some men hate that.

24) Be a clean woman.

25) Look romantic.

26) Always remember to do what a wife should do. You are not his sister.

27) Treat his relatives as you would treat yours.

28) Oftentimes ask how his relatives are doing.

29) Go warship same religion you agree on

30) Never compare your husband or your house to someone else's.


* I dont understand number 12...
*Which one is that you are not his sister but should be like his mother? I disagree with both...nobody should change for anyone.. Be yourself!

*Dont check his phone, LEAVE IT...(some ones marriage just crashed cos she checks on phone, she didn't find anything but the guy found out she put a listening chip on his phone, he told me that after that he felt watched and felt violated cos she had been listening to all his calls.... He said she is dangerous and moved out..



  1. Divine Health Confessions!!

    I have been reconciled unto God. I am a member of His body, of His flesh, and of His bones. I am the expression of His fullness, grace, and glory. I manifest God's kingdom and power. I carry His life and divinity in me; spirit, soul, life and divinity in me; spirit, soul, and body, Praise God!

  2. How many times has God carried you and you didn’t know it? You can look back now and see He carried you through the sickness. You had strength that you never felt. He carried you through the loss. It was painful, but deep down you felt peace, somehow you were able to keep moving forward. Or He carried you through the legal battle. You didn’t think you could take it, but day by day, you had just what you needed. Here you are, on the other side, blessed, healthy, going stronger than ever. Can I encourage you? If God carried you back then, He’s going to carry you now. Whatever you're facing, it may seem insurmountable, but it’s not going to defeat you, it’s not going to be too much, you’re not going to be overwhelmed. The Creator of the Universe is carrying you. —Joel Osteen


  3. Please, can the power of positive thinking be applicable to one with bad foundation? There seems to be unending argument over this.

    1. Yes and also by confessing positively! You can tell yourself what happened to others won't happen to you and stuff like that

  4. Good afternoon Jewelu and Bvs.

  5. That sign out Meme is just it. Do not speak or react when Your very angry because there might be no remedy.
    Goodafternoon my beautiful people

    Mummy Anthony-Clever

  6. Good afternoon blogfams,happy new monthπŸ˜πŸ’™πŸ’–❤πŸ’ŸπŸ’žπŸ’œπŸ’•

    Simply DivineπŸ’ͺ God is our strengthπŸ˜πŸ’‹❤πŸ’™πŸ’šπŸ’•πŸ’œπŸ’žπŸ’žπŸ’–
    SBB Happy new month to you tooπŸ’ŸπŸ’‹πŸ’žπŸ’œπŸ’•πŸ’™❤
    Bv Osundi Good afternoon ma'amπŸ’‹πŸ’ŸπŸ’žπŸ’œπŸ’•πŸ’™πŸ’–πŸ’š
    Jos Shopper Happy new month❤πŸ’‹πŸ’ŸπŸ’žπŸ’œπŸ’•πŸ’™πŸ’šπŸ’š
    Mercy yes oooπŸ’–πŸ˜πŸ’‹πŸ’ŸπŸ’žπŸ’œπŸ’•πŸ’™πŸ’š

    Morayo Happy new monthπŸ’‹πŸ˜πŸ’–❤πŸ’ŸπŸ’žπŸ’œπŸ’•πŸ’š

    Suave Happy new monthπŸ’‹πŸ˜❤πŸ’ŸπŸ’žπŸ’œπŸ’•πŸ’™πŸ’šπŸ’š
    Justswyt you gerrit πŸ’™πŸ’‹πŸ’–❤πŸ’ŸπŸ’žπŸ’œπŸ’•πŸ’š
    St Elsewhere Phoenix I dey fine my sister hope you are good?πŸ˜‚πŸ’œπŸ’–πŸ’™πŸ’šπŸ’Ÿ❤πŸ’žπŸ’•πŸ˜πŸ’‹
    Surrogate mother πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ how I for do naπŸ˜πŸ’‹πŸ’–πŸ’œπŸ’ž❤πŸ’Ÿ
    Mummy Anthony Clever no be small caseπŸ˜‚πŸ˜πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’–πŸ’–

    1. There should definitely be a "most colorful comment" award this December.

    2. Happy new month Lily ♥️

    3. So colourfulπŸ₯°πŸ€—

    4. @ Fidel you be clown 🀑🀣🀣🀣🀣 i read your son the ring leader report at night and I literally laughed like hyena! Na you your son took after cos you be militant + agbero 🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣

    5. Fidel 🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣

    6. Fidel eeh 🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣 you are just too funny. Leave Lily Angel alone o.

    7. @ Fidel award for me on SDK BLOG i dey house jaweπŸ’žπŸ’–πŸ’•πŸ’‹❤😍

      Happy wedding anniversary Bv Martins A FatherπŸ’‹❤πŸ˜πŸ’™πŸ’–πŸ’ŸπŸ’žπŸ’žπŸ’œπŸ’š
      Belated birthday Black SlimzyπŸŽ‚πŸŽ‚πŸŽ‚πŸŽ‚πŸŽ‚πŸΎπŸΎπŸΎπŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰πŸŽˆπŸŽˆπŸŽˆ

  7. Good afternoon to y'all on this space.
    Is it maltesers or snickers for you?
    I took the latter and absolutely loved it.
    My sibling's friend came with it whilst visiting from the UK.
    I use style chop am wella o and i no go lie you.
    Do have a smooth day.

  8. Welcome IHN πŸ’œ
    Greetings everyone
    Sorry about the cold Stella

  9. Hello everyone 😘♥️πŸ’œ

    Happy wedding anniversary to you Martins nwanne mmadu. May your union witness nothing but God's goodness all day/year long.

  10. It's a cool afternoon in here but not in a good mood.

    Can you imagine a young , brilliant guy who is just in his early thirties with kids just gave up the ghost after a brief illness. It's a pity though and I'm not just happy. He was a jambite when I was in final year at UNN(Enugu state).

    Hmmm, ogaoooo

    Also, how possible is it for an oil producing country having her president as the Minister of Petroleum still suffering for fuel...ogaooo

    That double length stroke boy that was recently remanded for tweeting nonsense about Aisha Buhari is having his own share ni oooo..let him enjoy his stay there.

    We move

    1. Ahh? It's a painful exit. May God give his family the strength to bear the loss.

    2. Pinky, you did the right thing but be careful. Some relatives are wuked.

      O God help me to always control myself.

      May this month be favourable to us in Jesus' name, amen.

  11. HWA martins and happy birthday exco... May joy never depart from your homes.. greetings everyone

  12. Happy new months bvs, may we have a reason to celebrate this month.
    Belated Happy birthday black slimzy, may God grant you all you desire.

    Sterling bank is good, there network and charge per transaction is πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘.
    I wish you quick recovery Jeweluchi SDK!

    1. Amen
      Thank you 😊😊

    2. Good afternoon everyone 😊😊
      This month will be good to us πŸ™‚πŸ™‚

    3. Happy new month Mamana πŸ’–πŸ’•

      Stella sorry about the cold,pls cover up wella... sending you loads of sunshine and hugs πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

      Rain was about to fall oh,but bad belle people don hold am 😏😏😏

    4. Paree yaruwa, ya aiki😘😘

  13. December came with the rain
    This is the month some spend all they have save all through the year,spend wisely December no dey finish. Momma's, while buying dresses for the kids,remember yourself too.

    SDK,no Nigerian bank is guaranteed but for over 10years,UBA hardly fail me.Except for the regular charges, no per second charges from them.

    Paris,see how yellow cards was used against Mexico to qualify poland.

    Happy new month lovely people.

    1. Holla Momma ❤️πŸ’•

      I only read online what happened as power holder didn't let me watch the match last night but again Poland was able to cancel theirs goal against while Mexico had -1 goal against so that's the reason...I wish Morocco well later

    2. Seem we're not in the same country o, it stopped raining here second week of October, causing serious damage to beans.

  14. @ Pinky's corner: Same question (Stella asked) crossed my mind while reading your post. What if, just what if, that lady decides to take a revenge? You sef reason am. It's a good thing you reported her oh, but, you for just leave when you be don accomplish your mission. I pray say person no go come "mend" you for your shop one day one day.

    @Nosy neighbor: Question you should have asked (yourself) first is/was, "Is there an afterlife?" Abi, person dey born for heaven or hell ni?

  15. You see that number 2 eh, that thing annoys the s**t out of me.
    So that aboki boy that got arrested was actually in support of Deborah lynching, I'm taking back my sympathy, he can rotate in whatever cell they have him in.

    1. I'm shocked πŸ˜‚. Sha most of them were in support.

    2. Thats just the difference between us, the southerners are the ones still campaigning for his release

  16. Hello my people
    Welcome to my birth month

    Today's IHN is fully loaded

    Pele Stella you'll be fine

  17. Today in church, my pastor said "do something crazy for the Lord" I went outside and off the GeneratorπŸ€ΈπŸ€ΈπŸ€ΈπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒ
    I'm still inside pastor's office.... 3 days deliverance prayer for meπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜πŸ˜

    Stella Pele make this cold go away,I pray for good health for youπŸ’‹πŸ’šπŸ’™πŸ’–❤πŸ’ŸπŸ’žπŸ’žπŸ’œπŸ’•

    Motherhood poster are you me,mothers are really tryingπŸ’ͺπŸ˜πŸ’‹πŸ’šπŸ’™πŸ’–πŸ’ŸπŸ’ŸπŸ’žπŸ’œπŸ’š

    Pinky baba thank you for standing up for that boy but please ejoor be careful next time❤πŸ’•πŸ˜πŸ’™πŸ’–πŸ’ŸπŸ’žπŸ’œπŸ’š

    1. What's with all these colours, signs and emojis everywhere? It hurts the eyes please

    2. Keep doing something crazy for the Lord πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

    3. My eyes be hurting the heck outta me but its all good
      Do you!

    4. @ Morayo if I know serve God na wetin be my gain nowπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜πŸ’‹

  18. Ladies, check your husband's phones o, I say check it for your own good. You may be the side chick while thinking you are the wife in that marriage and you will be building with him or supporting him while he uses your support to build the the other woman and her kids.
    SDK that your own example is different. Putting listening chip on your husband's phone when there is nothing to be suspicious about is wrong.

  19. All those stories over man why is there no advice for men? It takes two people who are willing to do these things together not one. No wonder naija men misbehave because no manual for them

    1. Shhh..
      Zip it🀐

      Just this one time they drop man list from the women list you guys drop for us everyday, you still want to cry

    2. Yea anon zip it… just like my G say. 😎

  20. Pinky I don't know if I'm happy with your action or sad with it but try control amebo.

  21. We always advice bvs to always report cases of abuse or molestations, Stella. What could Pinky have done in this case? Allow the boy's aunty to get away with abusing the boy?

    At least, the mother will know her son has never been in good and protective hands in her sister's care.

    You did well Pinky

  22. Get well soon ma πŸ€—
    Good afternoon
    Welcome IHN

  23. Good afternoon everyone πŸ₯°πŸ₯°

  24. Good afternoon everyone, sorry about your cold Stella ❤️ I use UBA I have noexperienced
    20% negative banking from them. Then again most banks are not perfect! But please stay away from zenith and first bank.

  25. Wahala don happen again oπŸ™†
    Family sell land gather money send Deji to Germany, after 3weeks Deji come back now say cold too much πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

    1. Village people promax🀣🀣🀣

  26. Good afternoon all, happy new month

  27. The only thing worrying me now is that yesterday i keep big money in my purse when i was leaving for the office. When i was ready to use it, i didnt find the money. I checked and checked, i didnt find it. I got home, arranged the smaller change in the purse and kept it. This morning now, I found the money sitting comfortably in my purse. Wetin dey happen. I live alone so this is no physical thing.

  28. Good afternoon great people of SDK.
    Pinky well done
    IJ πŸ˜‚πŸ˜

  29. I watched a movie this afternoon,very interesting but emotional,tears was just dropping anyhow from the beginning to the eyes are a bit swollen now and small catarrh.
    It's a true life story,when I say I don't like my child going on hols without me or being too far from me people think I am being paranoid.
    Movie title :T I L L

  30. Hello IHN, good afternoon everyone, thanks for sharing the secrets of happy family 😊.

  31. Stella, no Nigerian bank is 100% guaranteed. They all have their moments.

    Motherhood poster enh, I miss my freedom, my space, the quiet atmosphere. I only get it when my kids are sleeping and I cherish every moment of it, I take that time to relax, I suspend every house chores when they've gone to sleep.

    Pinky's corner, the lady might not have evil intentions for the boy but obviously the beating could have been too much. This one they arrested her, will she still agree to cater for the boy? The mother has to look for a plan B.

    Noisy neighborhood, there's a reason why certain things shouldn't be hidden when it comes to marriage

  32. Stella, sorry about your cold. Take ginger tea.

    Pinky, well done. Just be careful. The lady might take revenge on you.

    Happy wedding anniversary to Martins. More beautiful years ahead in love and peace πŸ™.

  33. Stella sorryoooh, pls blend ginger and garlic and tumeric pour hot water into it, and allow to cook abit, then gulp it down, it drives away cold, that's if ginger is over there.

    Pinky u did well, God bless u, that sister is a devil, why would she beat a little baby like that
    Who Will Not Have A Nice Sleep Out Of These Two People?

    Wife: You smell like woman's perfume. Where did you get it?

    Husband: From the woman I was squeezed with in a taxi.

    Wife: What about the lipstick on your mouth?

    Husband: Oh that one? I got it from Sandra who I was congratulating for passing her exams.

    Wife: What about the used cond*ms in your pocket?

    Husband: Hey leave me alone don't ask silly questions. I want to sleep!!

    Wife: (crying) This is not fair because when I use them I don't bring them home.

    Husband: (Waking up angry). What did you say?

    Wife: Leave me alone I want to sleep.πŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜‚

    Happy new month πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

  34. Good afternoon everyone.
    Happy Anniversary Martins.

  35. Oga Pinky e be like say you too do o. Fear no dey catch you?
    What if that girl/lady plan bad for you?
    You should have done it anonymously you know...
    We don hear o, make una stay well

  36. Happy Anniversary Martinez..

    May God continue to bless you and your household, may you continue to find joy, peace and happiness in your home.. Amen

    Hope this helpsπŸ˜‰


  37. Stella, sorry for the cold
    Happy wedding anniversary to Martins,God continues to bless your home.
    Pinky,easy o

  38. Pinky you did well and may God protect you from that aunty. Her evil eyes will not see you, if you didn't help that poor boy someday she may kill him and you will not have peace of mind.

    Nosy neighbor take it easy with judging people on their decision. Some single ladies are on implant or taking family planning injection on health ground. You don't know what alot of people are going through.

    Some are on drugs daily, others are on such injections to stay alive.

  39. Quick recovery Stella,I keep learning on this family blog,God bless you all.

  40. Thanks so much for the knowledge shared on this family blog on a daily basis, God bless you all


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