Ifeoma was agitated as she refuted claims of Alex Ekubo's celibacy in the 5year relationship with Fancy.....She says that Alex Ekubo had informed her he had been intimate with Fancy in January after the marriage was called off.
She was blowing hot and insisted that her brother isn't gay and that gay doesn't run in their family.
She was blowing hot and insisted that her brother isn't gay and that gay doesn't run in their family.
Calm down Aunty, even if Alex was ur direct son, and he reached this age, as well as u think you know him, you cannot vouch for him, you cannot say for sure what he does. This ur response is embarrassing sef, u shud have kept quiet.
ReplyDelete@Stella, find a way to 'Watermark' your exclusive interviews. The way other blogs carried the interview you had with Fancy, without acknowledging the original anchor, one will wonder. So find a way to make them exclusive. I come in Peace.
DeleteShe is in denial, which is a normal family reaction. She thinks she knows Alex, but sadly the truth is she does not know him completely. He may not be completely gay but bi. Her reaction is normal and I don't blame her. Most families with relatives with who are assassins, armed robbers, and prostitutes are in the dark until they are exposed or caught red-handed and evidence provided.
DeleteLike, are we expecting her to say otherwise?
DeleteBut honestly ehh, saying nothing at all would have been better than this shalaye. So, so low!!đ„¶đ„¶đ„¶
Madam aunty go and sleep.
DeletePeople like this Aunt is the reason people are in the closet. I'm not saying Alex is gay but what is she talking about! Gay doesn't run in your family.
ReplyDeleteThis is mess
DeleteAunty Ifeoma how will you tell if two adults are intimate when they are not? Fancy may have said that to you just to cover up Alex's ass as at that time thinking the marriage will later hold. She is speaking out now cos your brother took her for a fool by asking her to do a public apology.
ReplyDeleteWho will ever say their mother's food is not sweet.............. They should allow the pool lady to vent and find closure with what happened to her. Aunty your brother should move please and you should stop putting your mouth between two adults. Are you his speaker or Alex can no longer speak for himself.
Pool lady me
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DeleteExcited courtesy, where in this post did you read that fancy said something to aunty Ifeoma?
DeleteSDK clearly wrote that "....She says that Alex Ekubo had informed her he had been intimate with Fancy in January after the marriage was called off"
Once again, is reading and comprehension really this hard?.
@ anon 14:23 She’s right! If you listen to the interview you will hear the Aunty say Fancy also told her she was intimate with Alex. SDK’s write up is a summary of the actual interview. Please try and listen to it fully and don’t rely solely on the summary.
Delete16:56,
DeleteThank you for the correction, but I'll pass on going to listen.
I am not that interested, thank you. (SDK is my only social media source).
But whatever the story is, aren't we all wondering why an aunt is so interested in her nephew's sex life anyways?
What were they(family) hoping to confirm?
Anon 19:12 The answers to your questions are in the interview. Thank you.
DeleteDon't know when it has become a crime to date someone without being intimate with the person till after marriage.
ReplyDeleteZaram, its not a crime. In fact that is what its meant to be. I preach and advocate for celibacy. The issue here is that this man was caught cheating. as in trying to sleep with other women. lol. That does not make sense. And celibacy doesn't mean the man won't look at you sometimes and tell you he's trying and cannot wait to marry you so that he can have you.
DeleteSo there's a problem in these peoples relationship. Shikena
Mma Nwachukwu
Zaram,
DeletePlease read the transcript of Stella's interview again.
Premarital sex wasn't the issue. Fancy even told SDK that she isn't very experienced.
You all should stop misconstruing stuff. You don't want to sleep before marriage, ok.
But, you allegedly go around "trying" to screw other women?
What kinda of confidence/ esteem stripping behaviour is that! Let's be fair. Let's either try to walk in the lady's shoes, or place our sister's in her shoes.
He's either as they say he is( I don't have a problem with people's sexualities and have friends that are living their truth, some openly, some, not yet), or he didn't love that girl, was using her or he's a fucking, egoistic, wicked human!
Remember he was not faithful...so it is questionable
DeleteSo laughable statement
ReplyDelete"Gay doesn't run in their family"
Let your brother continue is silence biko.
As in eh! So auntie in Canada knows what his lil brother does in 9ja? Even to the extent of knowing who and who he's sleeping with? Auntie sofry dey lie oh! Like anyone will openly come out to say gay runs in their family đđđ
DeleteAs in.. Aunty is hurt and cannot come to terms with what she's hearing and reading online. It's sad but she can't stick her neck in this cos omo, na only yourself you know o. It may or may not be true but she can't speak for him at all on this one.
DeleteWhich one is "gay doesn't run in the family" is it now hereditary? The only person you can vouch for is yourself.
ReplyDeleteI really don't think anyone forced Fancy to apologize publicly. You embarrassed the guy by announcing your break-up publicly and insinuating alot of things. It's equally right to apologize publicly. Did nobody see where Alex told her that she has been the one breaking up with him. Not picking your calls for 3-4 days is not a reason to call of the wedding. She even sent the break-up message to her friends same time she sent to Alex
ReplyDeleteThey are intentional about what to choose and believe.
DeleteYou haven't been ignored for days that's why you're saying this. In the MIDDLE of marriage planning, you have a disagreement with your fiancé and he ignores you for three days. Like Monday to Thursday. Silent treatment and narcissistic abuse no pass like that. IT.IS.WRONG and very very destabilising.
DeleteAnyone who calls off a wedding under such circumstances is not to be blames AT ALL.
Mma Nwachukwu
To what end? Am i the only one tired of this same same scoop already? đđ€Łđč Hot blower,i hail O
ReplyDeleteHow someone in Canada is vouching for a being in Naija baffles the heck outta me
Wahala no dey finish like this, this hunty should rest o,netizens are coming for her ,my tired is tired of Alex and Fancy matter.
ReplyDeleteAda ohafia
Auntie take it easy
ReplyDeleteLmao. So being gay is hereditary? Please enlighten me đ€·đż♀️
ReplyDeleteSluttychic.
Lmao. Thank God it doesn't run in my familyđ€Ł
DeleteI tire o.
DeleteIt's very rare for gay to come out in the open and accept that they are gay especially in naija. Aunt go and rest.
It's a genetic somethingđ€€
DeleteTypical. Maintain silence publicly but get a woman to refute the claim and discredit the ex. Na today?
ReplyDeleteNa you really get the scope. Alex, you don cast...
DeleteAunty why now ehn why did you put your mouth when the owner of allegations sef haven't. Be calming down pls
ReplyDeleteđ€Łđđ€Łaunty oye lmao
ReplyDeleteLMAO!
ReplyDeleteJust to retain his "Alex will still never respond" status,he cajoled his ignorant Aunty to do his ridiculous damage control for him.
He should apologize publicly for deceiving that poor girl,it's the only way his redemption is guaranteed.
How much I detest an unrepentant sinner ehn.
Your first paragraph, you can say that again.
DeleteWere u there when he was telling the aunty to do this?
DeleteEka,I must not be there to know something this obvious.
DeleteHave we all forgotten Fancy's breakup whatsap text to him?
Where she was complaining that they've been dating for five years and yet no intimacy.
Why didn't una Alexx deny it on that chat.Why was he discussing his gbenshing life with his "Aunty"?!
Very suspicious something..
Y'all think o.
Aunty, pls allow Alex to defend himself.
ReplyDeleteIt's the interviewer for me..
ReplyDeleteTrying to 'force' the aunty to accept gay as normal,. Telling her she sounds so homophobic and saying it's like her only concern there is the gay allegations.. like gay allegations is not bad enough..
If I was the aunty, I would have told her that she should be ashamed of herself by trying to make me see gay as normal..
It's how people with dumb shii to say are so courageous to say their dumb shii and try to shame people saying sensible shii.. things people should be ashamed of is what they're now proud to show while trying to shame those who are trying to live right.. bomb dey all of Una head..
Do I have anything against gays, maybe yes, maybe no,. However,my concern is don't force your opinion on anyone.. they'll ask what's your opinion about gay, you'll respond that you're indifferent, next thing is to insult you and call you homophobic and shii.. like it's by force to accept your lifestyle.. do everyone accept my own lifestyle..
They better stop that bullying nonsense for their own good..
Nonsense..
I don't know about Alex, he might be, or might not,. But most ladies are so insecure/jealous about guys that are mindful of their looks,. They feel these guys won't have their time,. And that he'll be taking all attention from them, it's worse when they try to get your attention but you don't give them, and most women can't handle rejection, next thing they'll start to spread the gay rumours.. especially when you're not a SIMP, and you call their bullshii out.. there's one girl here that's always doing that rubbish, the same girl that always try to age shame people when in truth, spitting wrong facts, and I'm so sure she's older than most people she tries to call old here.. na so she talk say I dey my late 30s or early 40s lol.. no be only 40, na 50s I dey lol..
Aunty, if you're beautiful and you have sex appeal, instead of calling anyone gay, just tender yourself as experiment and confirm yourself đđ.. may your doubt clear,. Maybe you can even bring your friend alongđđ.. but abeg I said if you're beautiful oh,. Cos at this my level, there are some ladies I can't have anything to do with them even when they give on a platter.. to a straight Gee,. The worse insult you can give him is to insinuate he is gay..
Can Alex be interviewed,. Let's hear his own side.. he's been a hustler from way back, I remember when he went for Mr Nigeria then and was the 3rd runner up.. it would be a shame if oor 'jonny' who was giving every girl belle in yYmi Alade's video can't even get it up with women in real life.. he and yemi would need to apologize to us if true oh.. Haba..
Alex if you banged that babe, now is the time to talk oh, explaining how the kpekus looks, sound, how she screams your names calling you big daddy and all the various locations you slammed the ass.. dem no dey do bigger man with babe wey call you gay when you're not.. she's crossed the line of the rules of engagement..
I doff✌️
Who do we believe? this should come to an end pls. Fancy pls move on and don't look back, I beg you.
ReplyDeleteSo even if alex wants to use a babe to cover his gayness na fancy an american babe e go use, when there are plenty desperate Naija based babes. She knew he was gay the first time, yet she still carry her 2 boney left leg fly for hours and 2 come and meet gay Alex, that means she's not very Okay upstairs.
ReplyDeleteAuntie find seat somewhere and chillax with a bottle of chilled Zobo. When we need your opinion, we go find you come đ People de talk right, others de talk left đ€Ș
DeleteToo true o. He would have married one desperado naija babe that thinks marriage is life. But he wanted papers
DeleteThere are two sides to a story but for some reasons, no matter what comes from the other party, the supposed 'smaller' person is who y'all will always choose to believe.
ReplyDeleteI will continue to sit on the fence on this because if Alex was that terrible, I wonder why Fancy wanted a reconciliation so bad that she even drafted a public apology (except Alex put a gun to her head).
Everything that happened after the apology reeks terribly of revenge.
Eka Joy - I would also have doubted if a similar situation didn’t happen to someone close to me. The story is so similar other than the fact that the guy stopped hiding that he was gay. After years of dating and marriage oo he now came out. The lady I know was still willing to stay with him because of their history and the fact that she was still in love with him. It was so devastating for her. The husband had the same attitude as Alex; proud, selfish and narcissistic. Acting like it was all about him and that she should be supportive even though he had ruined her life and wasted her time. I have a number of close gay friends and I believe consenting adults should be left to their own devices (you don’t have to agree with me). However, Alex has that “look” and it has nothing to do with dressing nicely or taking care of himself. What I have a problem with is Alex taking Fancy for a ride and letting her look like the bad person in all of this. Celibate people do not attempt to cheat on their fiancĂ©es. There is something off and Alex knows what it is.
DeleteWe are both on that fence. And that your second paragraph, that's my exact sentiment...why even fly hours to come meet someone you claimed can't get it up with you, cheating on you and the other allegations and even apologised publicly? Like I still don't get it. But they will say it's love as we've never been in love before.
DeleteBy the way, this break up happened more than a year ago, so why all these now and not when it was still hot when people were asking each parties what truly happened? Then you no fit spill not until after the second apology? Na siddon look I dey
Eka,
DeleteNaivety, and love are a bad combination.
She was ready to do anything to be with him. Including, and as she stated, not minding who he is with.
I repeat, not everyone is bothered about that.
Not everyone is bothered about being a 5th wife.
Not everyone is bothered about marrying a man with multiple baby mamas like Nick and P.Diddy.
She loves/loved him!
Eka, your question is like asking a whole grown up 400level student why she gave her school fee to her boyfriend in the same level.
DeleteIs that not stupidity.
I know someone that has been dumped like 10times and she is always the one coming back to apologise. Love can make some people do stupid things.
This aunty is making matters worse. Why would Alex let you know he had sex with fancy and which female friend did Fancy tell she had sex with Alex. If there is no problem why trying hard to cover up.? People don't go about bragging they had set. I tire.
ReplyDeleteLol I can't even vouch for my biological children in some issues
ReplyDeleteWho sleeps with a partner and start telling people?
ReplyDeleteWe all know that Alex can't get it up around a woman. If you like, fine like morning sun, stand naked b4 him, his gbola won't stand. We been know tey tey na.
ReplyDeleteThat’s not true this statement right here is false . Y’all be careful.
DeleteAnon, leave people who want to keeo living in denial. When i see them, i know them. If u hv been around the entertainment circle n know people, u will be shocked at things happening in lekki and Abuja alone not to talk of Nollywood. Alex own started right frol secondary school. I was very close with a cute dude back in Uni. He vehemently hated gays n could tell u who n who was gay and the gay celebs. If he wasnt in their circle how would he know? We started catching feelings n kiss n smooch. When we wanted to get down finally after several attempts, his thing was just rising and falling. Turns out this guy was confirmed gay. Going to lagos to do runs n cole back to school type. Now he's in the entertainment circle.
DeleteThing is, once a guy looks good, mindful of his appearance, uses moisturizers and doesn't philander, he's tagged gay. That's why It baffles me when they say men are polygamous in nature. If they weren't promiscuous, they would be called gay. So what better way to promote masculinity? Fire down guys! A girl would visit, seduce and guy turns her down respectfully, next thing she's telling her friends he's gay. Bruh!!!
ReplyDeleteAlex auntie is lying big time, there is no way Alex or Fency could have told her they had sex....pure lie. If you want to protect your brother, protect him but dont lie to cover nonsense
ReplyDeleteAuntie is a clownđ€Ąđ€Ą
DeleteSo what colour is the blood that gay runs through??
ReplyDeleteAunty ifeoma the hereditary/genetic expertđ
"Alex will not respond" funke doesn't respond " has killed alot of entertainers mentally
ReplyDeleteAunty is doing damage control. Honestly, I don't believe Alex is gay, once a guy is not promiscuous. He is tagged as gay. I don't see anything wrong with practising celibacy in a relationship. If Alex has slept with her na she go still say the guy use her.
ReplyDeleteBut he was sleeping with other women đ
DeleteAunty , this your lie no gel.
ReplyDeleteSo after they had sex in January, Alex informed you? You must think we are stupid.
Aunty isonu . So Alexx tells you whenever he wants to have sex with her girl, see your long mouth like funnel. @Gay doesn't run in their family my foot đđ. Aunty mugun
ReplyDeleteDo you have to insult her on top a matter that you don’t know the beginning and the end?
DeleteOnline commenters and "bandwagonism".Today is nail Alex to the cross, tomorrow crucify fancy she's not serious,now it's back to Alex kill him!!!...it's exhausting.First off, it's not our business what or who Alex is or does.Secondly Fancy is telling half truths,only her side of the story is being circulated online and there are 3 sides to a story.
ReplyDeleteIn the purported leaked chats, Alex pointedly wrote she kept breaking up with him.some say his ego was over the roof,try dating a confused, unstable person if u no go tire.Let them go their separate ways biko I don tire for the mata.
Hahaha! One thing is for sure, they are both better off apart.
DeleteHmmmm... Five years. Fancy knew about the rumours spreading that Alex was gay before they started dating. Along the line, they became official, and he still refused any form of intimacy with her, with the rumour flying around, she still remained in that relationship for good 5 years. They even got to the stage of planning wedding. Abeg, her narrative is hard to believe. It's just that Alex won't say anything, at this point I really want him to talk. Fancy be indirectly telling the world Alex is gay to ruin his Image. Let her say all she's been insinuating with her full chest. She's pained clearly and I get it but na who first throw the first dagger by going public. They both need therapy cos what's going on now will definitely mess them up mentally. Bitterness, resentment and unforgiveness can run so deep if not checked early and dealt with. In their case they need serious counselling and better closure. Their last attempt at closure no work.
ReplyDeletePs:
The Aunty said they've been back on since January last year. Hnnm.
Rhapsody, he has nothing to say. And we are all acting like we don't know that when a person (male or female) is in the threshold of love/lust, they listen to others.
DeleteYou are also assuming that she heard before they Started dating. Not everyone follows the lives of celebs.
My only knowledge of this man, as well as 3/4 of nollywood is the posts and comments from here.
I have never seen any movie of his though I have read here that he is good.
Secondly, people won't usually tell us certain things. I'm sure we know this.
How do I tell xxxxx that her husband has fathered a child with someone else when she's constantly praising him?
How do I categorically tell xxxxx that his child from xxxxx isn't his?
How easy do you think it is to tell your friends that hey, my partner isn't sleeping with me but he/she is sleeping with others?
How easy is it to say, guys, my partner prefers the cleaning lady/Gardner/cook to me?
She probably heard at some point, but as she stated, his sexuality doesn't bother her. Not all of us are anti whatever you want to be.
At the end of the day, a lot of us will believe who we want to.
The truth won't change though.
Rhapsody,
DeleteI forgot to add.
Sometimes, people cast their nets a little far out, hoping to catch fishes that aren't conversant with their past so that they can live a relatively easier life. (Both genders do this). Most especially women.
Alex in this case would never have thought this will happen from his innocent looking lady love. Though financially comfortable, She's clearly not as exposed as our baby girls here. Look at her wigs (lol). Alex found a relatively naive number, dialled in but BOOM!
I'm tired of these people abeg.
ReplyDeleteBia aunty Ifeoma zukwanuike !
ReplyDeleteYour attempt at clearing your brothers name is worsening this issue...no be today dem born us na, haba aunty rest joor
Which Aunty? Is Ifeoma not his sister? No be two of them dey UniCal together? When did she become his Aunty?
ReplyDeleteSeems aunty Ifeoma is protesting a teeny weeny too much.
ReplyDeleteWTH!!! Now, she has switched on the Halogen lamps on this young man's activities.