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SURROGATE FOR BROTHER

My brother and the wife are trying to conceive.
Four years ago, she got pregnant but had complications and this led to the removal of her womb. Now they are looking for surrogate mother but the price is so high that they can not afford it.

I love my brother so much cos he sacrificed a lot for me when I was in school. And seeing how he loves children breaks my heart.

I am nursing the idea to be their surrogate mum with my egg and my brothers s#men, but I am afraid how they will see it if I tell them.
Fellow bvs, is it incest? .


God bless you for having such thoughts towards your brother but i dont think this is possible.... It is remote incest.... If it was your sister in laws eggs and your brothers s#men, it would have been OK but yours and his is a NO NO NO!

36 comments:

  1. No no no no no no no no no non no


    Please, look for another surrogate mother if you truly love your brother but not you.

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    1. Madam,you can't your eggs and your brothers semen na. That's tantamount to you and your brother having sex and having a child. They will use the wife's egg (or a donor's egg that is not rated to your brother) and your brothers semen to make the embryo and you will carry the pregnancy to term for them. It's a very noble gesture but be sure that you can handle the whole thing before you volunteer to do it.

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    2. You can’t use your egg because the child may have some defects, but if she has a sister, her sister can give hers and you be the surrogate mother.
      There’s nothing wrong in carrying the child for them.

      Also can’t they consider adoption ?


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  2. You can't use your eggs!

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  3. Does your sis in law not produce eggs anymore?

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    1. I thought eggs are produced in the ovaries, womb shouldn't affect egg production na. Medical personnel, abeg enlighten us on this.

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  4. Aww, so thoughtful of you. However, It is INCEST....not remote not glorified, it is absolutely incest. Ease let the couple use their egg and s*men.

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  5. Good intention but very wrong move. They can get a neutral person, not a family member like you.
    If you eventually do it, it will look like incest like Stella said and you will have so much connection with the baby than your brother and his wife. You might one day begin to see the child as your own which will not be good for your brother and his wife. He can adopt or get a neutral person to do it for them.

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  6. She should get some else's egg naaah.. not your own.

    You can carry the baby for them but not your egg please..
    She can use her sister's egg

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  7. It will likely lead to inbreeding. Research on this. You can be the surrogate but not with your eggs.

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  8. You can still carry the pregnancy but not your eggs you’ll just be the vessel

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  9. Your eggs and his sperms will lead to a myriad of genetic abnormalities because inbreeding.


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  10. You can carry the baby for them, but not your egg. You have a good a heart. May God bless you

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  11. It’s not incest. Incest is sexual
    But it’s inbreeding

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  12. I don't even think any ethical organisation will agree to this suggestion. This might be a hard question to broach, but will they consider adoption?

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  13. I don’t understand, dem remove your sister in law eggs too?

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  14. Like others have said, you can be a surrogate but not your eggs.
    I also love the love you have your brother.
    I love mine so very much as well, there's nothing I wouldn't do for him.

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  15. It is too risky if they are going to use your eggs, there will be a potential risk for a genetic disorder to develop. If they will use your bother’s sperm to fertilize your sil’s egg and simply use your womb to carry the fertilized egg then that is fine.

    Incest involves a sexual act, since your suggestion involves no intercourse then it is not incest. The only issue is if your eggs will be used, it cannot be because of the genetic component. But you can carry their embryo and give them their child, unless the doctors reject the suggestion. Please ensure that if you go down this road that there is a legal agreement in place, for both yours and their protection. They should finance your food, doctors visits, supplements, special clothes and such, and most importantly that they will take their child upon birth. Sometimes ppl will say and agree to anything in their desperation but not deliver at the appointed time. Though your brother sound like an upstanding person, do not get involved without a legal agreement in place.

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    1. It's inbreeding... She cannot be their surrogate at all if she's using her eggs.

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  16. You can be surrogate...yes but please NOT your egg,If your sister in law is not producing eggs again they should get donor egg then you help carry the baby

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  17. Poster God bless you for wanting to help out but let them look for donor egg if your sil can't produce egg

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  18. Did they remove her ovaries too? If not, she has eggs that can be used for the fertilisation, in order for you to be their gestational carrier!

    Using your eggs and his sperm = genetic issues/abnormalities. Have you seen the offspring of sibling-procreation? Please Google and see.

    Be their gestational carrier ONLY. Do not be their egg donor!

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  19. Donate your womb as that’s the only thing your sister inlaw lacks.They can use her eggs and your brothers sperm while you carry the baby for them.

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  20. Let someone from the wife family donate the egg, so that she will have a sense of belonging.

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  21. From a doctor’s perspective

    Poster, you didn’t say if it was a total hysterectomy (uterus, fallopian tubes and ovaries) that were removed or partial, in which case some reproductive organs are preserved, hopefully the ovaries in this case

    1. You can definitely be a surrogate for your brother.

    2. Being pregnant with your brother’s child does not amount to incest. It’s on the same scale as donating an organ to a sibling

    3. In the case your sister in law had her ovaries removed, her sister’s or mother’s egg will be the closest to her biological child they will have should you need an egg donor

    4. Your egg will not be straight up incest unless intercourse is involved but it may lead to same medical complications of incest births like genetic diseases and inborn errors

    Personally I see unpaid surrogates as heroes. They wear same capes organ donors wear in my eyes

    I wish your brother and his family all the happiness her desires

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    1. The way you Nigerians act as if, who nor born nor go enter heaven! I don't get it, at all. That's how you Nigerians populate the world 🌎 with demonic children!God Abeg o.
      Everything is to sex and procreate! Nothing about sole dedication to Christ and the things of God! If we live long on this earth, at most a 100 years! You all should be more concerned about where you will spend eternity!!!

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    2. Bottomline: she cannot use her eggs.

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    3. Thank you. Poster, read this.

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  22. You are such a kind soul. You have a good proposal but it's not going to yield positive result.
    A donor egg and your brother semen..

    God bless you abundantly.

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  23. Why are you the one going to give them your own egg, your egg and your brother's semen is like you having sex with your brother.

    Are you saying his wife cannot also produce eggs? If she cannot produce eggs you people should look for a donor or her sisters can assist on that one while you carry the pregnancy to term.

    I pray for twins or triplets, may God bless you for considering to help your brother and his wife.

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  24. May God bless you for even considering it but he sure to know you're going into being a surrogate but with another lady's egg o

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  25. Fa fa fa fowl( in chief zebudaya's voice)

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  26. Poster,
    Surrogacy doesn't mean it has to be your eggs,
    They took out your sis in laws womb and not her ovaries and if her ovaries are out, a donor egg will be used which ain't yours. You will only have IVF done, the fertilized embryo transfered to your womb and God Willingboro will implant and you give birth to your nephew or niece.
    There is nothing wrong in you being a surrogate for your brother, mother shave even been surrogates for their daughters.

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  27. It's also not advisable to do surrogate if you haven't had a child before. The doctors will not even agree

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    1. Exactly once she haven't had a child before she is already a minus, sometimes familial love can make us give our families the best wish to sie for them but there are levels we can carry them as a first timer you ll be so attached to the child that it might cause problem for the wife and everyone in the future let the wife s family come in or another person entirely
      I wish them a very resourceful end ,she will be a mother Amen

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  28. Poster you can still be the surrogate but find a different egg donor first

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