Hailings.....
Hows everyone doing?
There is a time to live, a time to laugh,love, cry, grow, reproduce , a time to know the right thing to and a time to acknowledge changes.... Live your life!
Enjoy the rest of the day!
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QUESTION FROM MONDAY SPONTANEOUS POST
My wedding is next Friday. Please brides and married women, is it compulsory we travel immediately after the wedding? If yes, how did you do it? He's insisting that we travel after the party and I am trying to consider the stress.
He says we have to sleep over in his parents house to start another round of celebration.
QUESTION FROM MONDAY SPONTANEOUS POST
My wedding is next Friday. Please brides and married women, is it compulsory we travel immediately after the wedding? If yes, how did you do it? He's insisting that we travel after the party and I am trying to consider the stress.
He says we have to sleep over in his parents house to start another round of celebration.
I am trying to consider the stress of travelling after my party just to start another party that same night.
FROM THE COMMENT SECTION
I asked for a separation, since husband wasn't ready to sign the divorce not accept the brideprice back. We have been separated for over 16years, my last baby is in varsity, two gradauted. They live with me but husband still pays their fees and upkeep.
FROM THE COMMENTS SECTION
What do you do to a fellow tenant who pretends to be cool with you but calling the landlord secretly and heaping lies on your head, telling him to evict you from the house. Landlord, being a God fearing person refused, he told her that he has not heard any complaint about us from any other tenant since we moved in. He now called us and told us everything, warned us to be careful with her.
Should we confront her or pretend like we didn't hear anything and just keep her at arm's length?
No need to comfront her at all...Just keep her at a distance....
FROM SATURDAY CHRONICLE POSTER
''Good morning SDK. Thanks for posting my story on Saturday chronicle. I learnt a LOT. The school is aware of my predicament, that I need an extra hand but turned deaf ears to it. A raise in my pay without an extra hand won't change much as I'll still be overworked. I will keep pushing it till July when they will go to a new class.
Now I'm looking towards going for a training in special needs kids in order to boost my CV and pay. Also, teaching that child makes me know that we need more trained hands in this area. I will make findings and save towards it.
Thanks to all who commented. I'm very grateful''.
''One day a Son goes to his Father and says, Father what is the value of my Life?And the Father gives him a stone and says; Son, If you want to know the value of your Life take this stone and go to the market and if anyone asks the price don't say a word and raise up two fingers.So the Boy does as his Father says and goes to the market.
He wanders around and suddenly an old woman approaches him and says.How much is this stone?
The Boy doesn't say a word just raises up two fingers and the old woman says: Two dollars? I'll take it!The Boy is surprised and runs back to his Father and says Father there was an old woman at the market who wanted to give me two dollars for the stone the Father says: Son; the next place I want you to go is the museum and if anyone asks the price, don't say a word and raise up two fingers.So the Son takes the stone and goes to the museum after about twenty minutes there is a middle aged Man who approach the Boy; He says ; Sir, How much is the stonr? The Boy doesn't say a word and raise up two fingers and the man says 200 dollars? I'll take it!
The Boy is surprised and runs home to his Father. Father! Father! A man in the Museum wanted to buy the stone for 200 dollars okay Son the last place I want you to take the stone is a precious stone store walk inside with the stone and if anyone asks the price don't say a word just raise up two fingers.
So the Son runs off to the precious stone store.
After finding it, He walks inside and there is an old man at the counter and as the old Man sees the stone he jumps up and screams.
Oh my God you have the stone I have been looking for my whole life! What do you want for it, how much is it?The Boy doesn't say a word and raises up two fingers and then the man says 200,000 dollars?I'll take it!
Life is all about where you place yourself you can decide if you want to be a two-dollar stone or a 200,000 dollars stone.
There are some people who love you and for whom you are everything and some people will just use you as a commodity and for them you will be worth nothing.
So it is up to you my Son to decide the value of your Life.
#Copied
My fellow women, please how can I go about it?
The family you are marrying into needs to welcome you same day..Preparations will be made..Please just try, it may not be as stressful as you think
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FROM THE COMMENT SECTION
I asked for a separation, since husband wasn't ready to sign the divorce not accept the brideprice back. We have been separated for over 16years, my last baby is in varsity, two gradauted. They live with me but husband still pays their fees and upkeep.
Technically, we are still married on paper, but no contact. He remarried but the lady somehow got to know we ain't divorced properly, she too moved out, there's another woman currently with him, that one barred my kids from coming to visit. I told them to avoid that house if they want to live long, that woman may harm them...
It's 5years today they last saw their dad. He has been in touch lately to speak with the children as they kukuma blocked him. They are adults already, and free to take decisions. I'm not not ready to be a mediator. Once my baby goes for nysc, we moving interstate.
Ihe wants mend the relationship, encourage them to embrace the Olive branch... You may not know it but your kids need to find closure on his behaviour
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FROM THE COMMENTS SECTION
What do you do to a fellow tenant who pretends to be cool with you but calling the landlord secretly and heaping lies on your head, telling him to evict you from the house. Landlord, being a God fearing person refused, he told her that he has not heard any complaint about us from any other tenant since we moved in. He now called us and told us everything, warned us to be careful with her.
Should we confront her or pretend like we didn't hear anything and just keep her at arm's length?
No need to comfront her at all...Just keep her at a distance....
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FROM SATURDAY CHRONICLE POSTER
''Good morning SDK. Thanks for posting my story on Saturday chronicle. I learnt a LOT. The school is aware of my predicament, that I need an extra hand but turned deaf ears to it. A raise in my pay without an extra hand won't change much as I'll still be overworked. I will keep pushing it till July when they will go to a new class.
Now I'm looking towards going for a training in special needs kids in order to boost my CV and pay. Also, teaching that child makes me know that we need more trained hands in this area. I will make findings and save towards it.
Thanks to all who commented. I'm very grateful''.
Well done..Shout out to all teachers, you guys rock!
AN EYE OPENER STORY
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AN EYE OPENER STORY
''One day a Son goes to his Father and says, Father what is the value of my Life?And the Father gives him a stone and says; Son, If you want to know the value of your Life take this stone and go to the market and if anyone asks the price don't say a word and raise up two fingers.So the Boy does as his Father says and goes to the market.
He wanders around and suddenly an old woman approaches him and says.How much is this stone?
The Boy doesn't say a word just raises up two fingers and the old woman says: Two dollars? I'll take it!The Boy is surprised and runs back to his Father and says Father there was an old woman at the market who wanted to give me two dollars for the stone the Father says: Son; the next place I want you to go is the museum and if anyone asks the price, don't say a word and raise up two fingers.So the Son takes the stone and goes to the museum after about twenty minutes there is a middle aged Man who approach the Boy; He says ; Sir, How much is the stonr? The Boy doesn't say a word and raise up two fingers and the man says 200 dollars? I'll take it!
The Boy is surprised and runs home to his Father. Father! Father! A man in the Museum wanted to buy the stone for 200 dollars okay Son the last place I want you to take the stone is a precious stone store walk inside with the stone and if anyone asks the price don't say a word just raise up two fingers.
So the Son runs off to the precious stone store.
After finding it, He walks inside and there is an old man at the counter and as the old Man sees the stone he jumps up and screams.
Oh my God you have the stone I have been looking for my whole life! What do you want for it, how much is it?The Boy doesn't say a word and raises up two fingers and then the man says 200,000 dollars?I'll take it!
The Boy can't believe it, He jumps up and runs to his Father and said, Father! Father! The old man in the precious stone store wanted to give me 200,000 dollars for the stone. And his Father said:
You see Son, do you understand now the value of your Life?
You see Son, do you understand now the value of your Life?
Life is all about where you place yourself you can decide if you want to be a two-dollar stone or a 200,000 dollars stone.
There are some people who love you and for whom you are everything and some people will just use you as a commodity and for them you will be worth nothing.
So it is up to you my Son to decide the value of your Life.
#Copied
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I honestly pray that a lot of Nigerians will normalize praising someone, without making others look bad.
ReplyDeleteLet me explain. What Hilda Baci has done, is truly amazing and she deserves all the support she's getting.
However, it's wrong to use Hilda's achievement, to belittle other women. Hilda is very beautiful and an amazing cook. But she's got her weaknesses. There are other women who do not like to cook or go near the kitchen, but they have their own strengths as well. It doesn't make them any lesser than Hilda. We are all strong in some aspects, and weak in others. No one has it all.
So while we celebrate this Amazon for putting Nigeria on the map, let's be careful not to throw others under the bus. Everyone is unique!
Congrats once again Hilda. You rock!❤️
Una Gud Afternoon...#ALiSpeaks
😤 I saw all the 'belittling' as cruise and clout chasing. After everything Nigerian men have said about and dragged Nigerian women, I doubt anyone of us take them serious anymore. If as a woman, especially a young unmarried Nigerian woman, you still take Nigerian men's 'dragging'/belittling to heart, my sister you still have a long way to go. Infact, you need urgent help.
DeleteAbeg, dem no reach! Die that matter.
Women pleaser , you're sighted. I like your Gabe,you know this is a female dominating blog,so in order to gain fans here,you need to tell them what they need to hear. Lmao.btw I'm a woman
DeleteI was on twitter and saw no one was put under instead I saw people praising her and chef sunny
DeleteNo cause for alarm bro. She's the raze of the moment. Let's give it to her.
Delete15:38, she is the rave* of the moment. We love what she did.
DeleteOnly you saw where they were belittling other women and us now using that assume everywhere on social media is like that. My timeline is filled with women and men alike praising her. She has done a very great thing and people acknowledge that.
DeleteThere are some people who love you and for whom you are everything and some people will just use you as a commodity and for them you will be worth nothing.
DeleteSo it is up to you my Son to decide the value of your Life.
What a wonderful story that explains the concept of self worth.
I don't see Ali B as a woman pleaser but someone sympathetic to the plight of women. There is a difference. 🧐
I am happy for Hilda Baci and her feat. But more so for the Nigerian spirit that showed in the people from all works of life who supported and cheered her on. I am reminded of the Dream Team, when Naija football was a wow... 😊
However Ali B is right. There are still the few who will try to spoil a good thing. I started seeing memes using Hilda's feat to compare and denigrate women. How sad. We are all not the same and we cannot all be Hilda. She is unique and has her strength and weaknesses as does everyone else. So let's be guided in not trying to spoil a good thing.
I don't know who's fighting against you secretly , but because you are serving a living God, shame and defeat will be their portion in Jesus name 🙏
ReplyDeleteGOOD AFTERNOON MY SDK FAMILY
Amen
DeleteAmen
DeleteAmen
DeleteGood day all
ReplyDeleteIHN is here.
ReplyDeleteUna good afternoon.
Greetings Sweetie 😘💖
DeleteHi dear
DeleteFidel; Ak, anyone, come and give me movie recommendations abeg. I'm bored. Been following 'silo', 'citadel' and 'class of 09' they're just okay movies, nothing spectacular. Abeg recommend interesting movies for me. Have you guys seen 'Guy Ritchie's The covenant' it's ghen ghen action movie, soldiers in Afghanistan and all that. Very interesting and I learnt it's based on true events. Check it out. Abeg no Asabawood recommendations o biko.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful eye opening story, thanks for sharing SDK.
Blessed week everyone.
'The Mother ' Jlo latest movie
DeleteThe recent films aren't all that jare. I am here counting down to the new season of The Witcher. The trailer alone has me hooked.
DeleteParis I've seen 'The mother'. Thanks boo.
DeleteHonestly Ak, they're just there.
Everything is boring abeg. I'm just managing my last episode of Power book II. Fear nor dey gree me watch am because what will I watch next?😭... Citadel is just there honestly. I paused at episode 2. E dey tire me🙄
DeleteAK, Witcher make sense? I couldn't watch after season 1. And I really forced myself to finish that season 1🤦
@Fidel, the first season of the Witcher started slow. Infact they were showing the past and the present simultaneously, so you really have to pay attention to understand what it was all about. Everything came to a head in the last episode. Season 2 was really good and I can't wait for season 3. It doesn't help that Henry Cavill is a delicious specimen😜😁. That man makes me dream dreams
DeleteSandra, have you watched Love and Death? Very interesting series.
DeleteLemme goan try one episode of witchers, thanks guys.
Delete17:28 thank you. I'll check it out.
The witcher is scrap. Very confusing.
DeleteNo matter the praise, I won't watch any other season of that confusion.
Fidel, watch "All the Queen's men "
DeleteAbout Power, I think Ghost is coming back. He is bargaining with STARZ.
Love and death is worth it
DeleteFatal attraction too
A whole lot of series
Let me go and look for their nameS
Push up (original)
Life is all about where you place yourself. A very good afternoon lovelies💕
ReplyDeleteWelcome IHN 💜
ReplyDeleteGreetings everyone
I'm happy for Hilda Baci ,shes done so well
I read somewhere she's Ghanaian? How can someone from akwa ibom be a Ghanaian?
Cruise catching.
DeleteHolla Espe 💞
DeleteDon't mind Ghanians claiming her by force,who no like better thing?she's from Akwa Ibom jare
Nigerians have stomped GWR page on Twitter to declare her winner if not 😂😂😂😂 GWR said they haven't checked
Moral of the story, place a great value on yourself.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon
stella seens calm today, nice.. .
ReplyDeletegoodafternoon people.
we serve a very very good God!!!!
SHEIN will not finish me financially in Jesus name. Every week, there are always things that I will see and order. I think I may have initiated my Mother in law sef. Abi I should just jejely delete the app
ReplyDeleteI have a full basket and still have not checked out, and that was from January🤣
DeleteDelete app
DeleteGood afternoon everyone
ReplyDelete❤️💕💞🥰
Afternoon darling Adaoluchi
DeleteAbout to wed lady
Listen to your man and follow his lead. Allow him make it as memorable as possible.
Also, try not to be directly involved in the preparation. That way you won't be too tired. Moreover, I think the adrenaline with the occasion will keep you going.
Also try not to keep a moody face or complaining during the travels (honeymoon nah once. Make it worthwhile for you both).
Just so you know, not all men take their brides for honeymoon. So he that wants to, encourage him.
Marriage is about shifting grounds.
The tenant woman. No need to confront her. The landlord expects you to be mature about it. Just completely cut her off and allow only greetings
Oh I just read the about to wed... again. My darling, every tribe have their unique cultures in wedding. Presuming you will be tired or you eventually become tired is not enough reason for the culture to be changed for you; especially since your man wants to follow through.
DeleteAlso, you sure don't want to start on a bad note with your in-laws (most are unforgiving)
Keep trusted people or wedding planner in charge of your event so you won't be too directly involved. So as not to be tired
The stone story for me sober. Hmmm
ReplyDeleteComment section about the wicked tenant, just ignore and keep her at arm's length. That type of pretender can poison you
The stone story got me sober*
DeleteBv Vinathan hope you are OK? i hope those yeye police have not arrested you or something, this one we have not seen your comment?
ReplyDeleteWhat about those kids? Did their mother come back?
So you actually believed that story? SMH
DeleteI thought of her yesterday and hoping the woman is back home to her kids
DeleteThere is time for everything.
ReplyDeleteI am so loving this weather. It shouldn't get colder than this though.
Bride to be, just relax. The celebration might not be too stressful.
Please, can anyone be kind enough to recommend any affordable but effective drugs that can boost my appetite?
ReplyDeleteI have lost some weight and I no fat at all before but I don't just like myself now. Like, I am now "Skinner".
I don't know if it's coupled with the work stress sef.
Teaching job can be stressful and the pay is not worth the stress.
Cyprivite cyrup. #500 the small size is 300
DeleteOraxin is 3k sha. But good for weight gain and appetite🥺
DeleteLearn to appreciate people who render help to you.. Thank you is more than enough if you are well mannered person.
ReplyDeleteI practice it and am happy when people acknowledge my sacrifice to ease their difficulty.
Multivitamin tabs
DeleteGood afternoon beautiful people 😍
ReplyDeletePrivate school teachers dey see something...
Imagine, my own boss telling me to take 3 subjects, mathematics, basic science and now want to add Agricultural science for senior class. On top 20k o
God punish poverty, if not that I am yet to collect my certificate.
I ll also keep pushing till July
Have a wonderful day 💗 y'all
Chai Una dey try ooo. I no envy Una at all
DeleteHahaha, wickedness of the highest order. If you put that effort in your business with good capital,I believe you'll make more than that,and be your own boss.
DeleteThe annoying part is she ll not give you shishi as bonus
ReplyDeleteIt's a cold noon. I love it!
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon Jewelu and Bvs.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone 🥰
ReplyDeleteIt may not be as stressful as you think,just go with the flow@ new bride
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday osundi dear🎂🎂🍹
Ms tee
Holla Sweetheart 😘❤️ how's KD today?
DeleteOsundi Momma ❤️❤️ happy birthday darling 🎉🥳🥳🎉🎊🎈 may lines fall in pleasant places for you 🙌🙌 have a blast 🥂 love you plenty 💜
Thank you so much my Paree nwa oma 😘 and I say amen to your prayers. God bless you 💕
DeleteI'm doing good, but I have relocated from KD.
Delete🥰😘😘@paris
Ms tee
20 things to know about Hilda Baci and her Guinness World Record Marathon Cooking
ReplyDelete1. Her real name is Hilda Bassey Effiong. She is a young Nigerian chef from Nsit Ubium LGA in Akwa Ibom State, She owns a food brand in Lagos called "My Food by Hilda"
2. She will be cooking for 4 days non-stop.
3. She must stand to cook, she is not permitted to sit while cooking.
4. She’s not allowed to take coffee, stimulants, or any energy drink to artificially boost her energy and bodily strength while cooking.
5. She's allowed to eat food, drink water or fruit juice, and take glucose.
6. The cooking is taking place at Amore Gardens, Lekki, Lagos State, Nigeria.
7. She cooks round the clock, no sleep (Morning, afternoon, evening, and night. So, for 4 nights, she won't sleep)
8. She has just 5 minutes rest per hour [meaning for every 1 hour, she is entitled to just 5 minutes rest or break, that's an hour break in every 12 hours].
Other sources claim
She gets a 30-minute break every 6 hours, she spends the 30mins in a medical van which is just close by, within which she can nap, use the restroom, and also get a medical assessment or checkup by the medical team available on the spot.
9. Whatever she cooks is shared to the people at the venue for FREE. She is not selling the food.
10. She cooks different meals simultaneously. She is at liberty to cook any meal she likes. There are no restrictions as to what she can cook or not cook. The World Record title is about cooking within a time frame, not about what is cooked. As long as she is cooking, she is on track.
11. Every meal cooked and every plate served is recorded. She has cooked over 115 meals so far with almost 3,000 portions if not more by the time you are reading this.
12. She started the cooking on Thursday and is expected to complete the target time frame by Monday 15th May, 2023 evening.
13. The current holder of the title Hilda seeks to break is an Indian chef Lata Tandon, who set a Guinness World Record for cooking for 87 hours and 45 minutes non-stop in 2019.
14. To break the record, Hilda Baci is attempting to cook for 96 hours, using extra 9 hours to break the world record as the first human on earth to spend such an amount of time cooking a marathon.
15. She tagged the cooking project "Cook-a-thon", a phrase literally coined from the word "marathon"
16. She appears exhausted already, but the people around her are cheering her on to boost her morale. And they are available with her as she cook 247, even at night.
17. Most of the food items, ingredients, utensils, etc she used for this project are provided by her sponsors. So, the money expended on this project is not 100% from Hilda or her Food brand.
18. Uber, one of her partners is offering a 40% discounted ride to the venue for people who wishes to join and cheer her up at the venue.
19. Hilda's mum is also a chef. She owns a food brand called "Calabar Pot"
20. She is 27 years of age.
Go Hilda! 🙌🏽
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That's my Akwa-Ibom sister there 🙌. Hilda be making us proud. Beauty with brains.
DeleteBut why did she tamper with her real names though? To fit in? Is she an actress or entertainer?
Italians and the rest bearing Baci no send her o.
Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie,Wole Soyinka, e.t.c are still bearing their native names and making waves the last time I checked.
Anyway, we still love her nonetheless.
Thank youv
DeleteChai Courage🤦
DeleteE nor reach like that na. Everybody with their own
Hilda making history.
DeleteWe are proud of her.
The intending bride, just play along with your man. It's just a day's thingy. After that, you can have all the rest you need.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon house.
ReplyDeleteIt's a cold afternoon here and I love the minimal sun.
Happy birthday Osundi. More beautiful years I wish you.
Happy Birthday Osundi 🎂 🥳 🎉 🎈
DeleteAge Gracefully
Good afternoon everyone 🥰🥰🥰
ReplyDeleteRain entered my room overnight, I've been moping since morning, thank God tomorrow is market day not today
ReplyDeleteSo sorry.
DeleteYou should try and fix whatever is causing the rain to enter your room. That is not healthy at all.
Sorry, chai i feel u babe
DeleteThis guy said he wants to marry me,but I said I'm not interested in marrying him,I've got kids already not interested in having more,and he wants kids. Now he's proposing that we keep dating that any woman he's marrying must recognise me first and get my approval,that he will warn her never to interfere and to always give me my regards, dude is rich and has been taken care of my needs.i don't know if this arrangement make sense o. Stella post not chronicle please
ReplyDeleteIf you're the other woman a man is giving this kind of condition to, how'll you feel?
DeleteLol
DeleteDey play! Just dey play
U wish..All u have written is allin ur head..Wake up from that dream..No dude told u anything..
DeleteCho!!! Anon 14:47,you don' cast!! Lol
DeleteGood afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteOh! I love the weather today.
Good afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteEnjoy the rest of your day
AmyViv
Good afternoon everyone 💞
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday to you bv Osundi..best wishes 🎉🎉🎉
Thanks dear. God bless you 💜
DeleteGood day everyone, yeah there's time for everything in this life.
ReplyDeleteBride to be, kindly flow with your husband to be family arrangement and it's for you to be welcomed into the family, shebi it's just that day.
Great lesson from the stone story.
Sign out meme is so true.
Good afternoon to you all💖💕💛💞💟💜💙💝💚❤💗💋😍
ReplyDeleteI love the story on the "value of your life" i have learnt a great lesson today.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon,lovelies.
ReplyDeleteI am back from my paroles and now relaxing.
Stay good!
No work?
DeleteMisophonia is a brain disorder that causes people to get angry at others for breathing, chewing or slurping.
ReplyDeleteI don't have any yeye brain disorder biko😂😂😂
DeleteGifty, do you get angry for the above reasons? Read the reasons again.
DeleteI only get irritated when a person chews loudly. How can a normal person get angry when a human being or even animal breathes? It's not normal
I hate it when people walk and I hear the sound of their shoe or slippers.
DeleteY'all have misophonia biko
DeleteBride to be, please just manage that one day stress, you'll rest afterwards. Please don't try to prove difficult to your in-laws. It'll be the beginning of trouble for you.
ReplyDeleteSpecial child teacher, your plan is really a good one. Get that training, it'll benefit you.
Tenant with the two faced neighbour. Face your front and don't give her face again. Me I don't even know how to pretend, I'm sure I'll be giving her serious attitude by now 🙄
Good afternoon all
ReplyDeleteTeacher with the autistic pupil, God will strengthen you and all other teachers in private schools where they pay peanuts and over-use their staff.
How una dey, posh haija I can relate with your story. Some private schools no just get joy. I was taking basic 4 last term, this term I was moved to secondary school. On top shikini money.
ReplyDelete@Tblack; when I read this your comment, I was shocked at first and wondered when I typed it. Then I saw the name and smiled. (I started reading comments from the bottom).
DeleteI was also in basic four last term but moved to the secondary school this term.
People wey I don bring come this blog, fit read your comment and think say dem don finally know my blog ID so. 😄😄😄
Bride try to convince your man not to do it
ReplyDeleteFriday wedding means you guys will be traveling to his parents at night after the wedding. Everyone will be rushing from your wedding to the next place. We did that with my sister. It is not worth it. If their house is close, it’s still different but traveling at night with all exhaust bit good or safe. Also they rushed through to the end of ours because we had to go catch up with the welcome that I think could have just waited till next day
Hilda Baci deserves all the accolades she's getting. I don't remember ever going beyond 24 hours without sleeping
ReplyDelete24 hours ke? If I cook indomie if you see how I dey congratulate myself ehn, hian!
DeleteGood afternoon everyone 😊
ReplyDeleteStella,any woman who marries a man who gets angry easily,insults her and her family hasn't married yet oh. Worst of it are those men who block you from his social media pages like WhatsApp,Facebook and calls after any little misunderstanding,they have stint of mental illness .Its such pettiness to block ur wife everywhere at any slight provocation.The abuse nko? Slaps and kicks here and there,the man need to go to psychiatrist hospital for mental evaluation.
ReplyDeleteI was married to one for 5yrs.I ran with my two kids and relocated abroad.The worst marriage any woman can be in.The man nearly turned me to a mad woman bcos I was always quarreling and fighting back.
Two years ago,I heard he remarried less than one year I ran away.Can u believe the second wife ran after 7 months of marrying that dem@n? She couldn't endure his madness . Everything he did to me,he did to her too..I heard they even fight in public bcos my ex husband has no shame at all.
Last year,he married a Northern woman from Plateau hoping that one will stay as a northerner that she is.Heard she has ran away from his house recently and went back to her state.He is now looking like a shadow of himself.I pray he stays alone and don't bring another woman into his life to frustrate her..Three marriages and none could stay..Some men are not husbands material and should have no business with marriage but they won't listen.Na these type of men like marriage pass food bcos they want to stay with a woman who will be cooking, washing and doing everything for them because they can't do anything for themselves.
His cheating spree nko? Story for another day.I treated infections taya !
I thank God I left when I did.
You didn't leave early enough but thank God you left with your life and your body parts intact.
DeleteMen who block their wives/girlfriends on WhatsApp or calls out of anger and sick.Any woman dealing with such should run.
DeleteMy ex boyfriend was constantly blocking me on Facebook WhatsApp and Telegram after any misunderstanding and I will beg him thinking it's normal till I found out he has mental problem He broke a taxi man's head in my presense one day for scratching his car.i made up my mind to walk away from that relationship..I pity any woman who will be unfortunate to marry him.
Na wa
DeleteMental health is underated in this part of the world
DeleteMine will insult me and my family anytime we have issues..He constantly insults my late father and I wonder what my family did to him.Cant we have issues and quarrel without insulting families? He is also in the habit of blocking me on WhatsApp too.Many are truly mad but few are roaming..I won't leave him though but when I am done with him,he will leave the house and run.We built the house together with out sweat..I am not leaving for any woman to come and reap..Last last I fit poison am and claim the mansion after his death..Our kids would be fine without him.
DeleteSmall chat that you are chatting with me, you are already asking "what are you wearing" ?
ReplyDeletePlease did you lost your own clothes?
🙄🙄
I just tire.
Delete🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteDid you lose
DeleteNot lost
I don land oooooooo
ReplyDeleteMadam wey wan wed, abeg, the thing n be stress oooo..that was how we did mine then.My wife has to go through that stress.. try and understand your man.
See gist for up there
Good afternoon lovers of SDK blog. Happy birthday blog visitor Osundi, may God grant all your heart desires.
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday Osundi
DeleteAmen. Thank you so much my people 💕🧡
DeleteHello SDK and bvs😁
ReplyDeleteBride, pls don't let this cause issues in your relationship, leave the reception early so that you can quickly travel down to the other side before dark. Also, eat and don't stress too much at the wedding. You will be fine. I wish you a successful ceremony
That story about value is the truth
Special needs teacher, I pray that God grants you success in this step you want to take. It's a good step.
Pretending and evil neighbour, pls be wary of her. She is dangerous. Now that they did not evict you, she may go diabolical on you, be prayerful.
True talk @suave, she may go diabolic. Be careful poster.
DeleteGood Afternoon Jeweluchi Stella nwanyioma and everyone on SDK blog. God Bless all teachers out there. Congrats Hilda
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon my blog people. How are you all?
ReplyDeleteIt's a beautiful day here, looks like it's going to rain again but I'm loving it.
I'm happy about the great performance of Hilda Baci, at least to douse the tension of the incessant deaths of celebrities over the weekend.
I pray more youths bring us glory and not shame.
The unwell youths that went digging for her bikini pictures to use and shame her on Facebook are totally shameless. A fellow youth is breaking records, they are trying to bring her down.
I basically can't deal.
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I quiet agree with you on the woman with the separation issue stella..she can try and mend the relationship between them and their father as long as he wasn't wicked to them
ReplyDeleteDifferent strokes. I'm still angry with my in-law for not having a welcome party for me after wedding. For them organising a party to welcome you,shows they are happy to receive you. Enjoy the party and be at your best behaviour, they did it for you
ReplyDeleteSuch is life
DeleteGood afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteThank God today
Stella you are right time for everything
Yesterday I couldn't go to church, one man
Kicked the bucket yesterday near my place the terrible thing is that he finished selling around 10 pm with his wife and children, two men came to buy drinks called out on him where he was sitting and relaxing. This Man has already gone without the family knowing, they thought he was relaxing as usual.
Time for everything, the time for death without sign is the worst of it
Enjoy life, no time
The divorced mum, pls encourage your kids to forgive their dad and stat talking to him. Since he has bee performing his duties to them, let them not cut him off. May God keep them for you.
ReplyDeleteNew bride to-be, people have said it all. Bear with your man and his people.
Bv with the snake for a neighbour, just be careful in relating with her. Don't confront her, don't collect anything from her. She is evil. Give her a long space but keep greeting her.
Let us be at peace with all men.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon
At bride to be, I got married in December. After reception, we went to hubby's parents house in the evening(same town in our case for prayers into the family and water pouring on feet yoruba thing), before we left for our hotel.
ReplyDeletePls relax about it and just see it as part of the ceremony. I wasn't as tired as I thought I'd be, but I had even started yawning there sef lol
Stella your memo is thought provoking.
ReplyDeleteA time to be born, a time to die
A time laugh, a time to cry
Life!
I'm just here thinking of how life after death looks like, if there is anything like that.
Let's live well till it's our time to go. Sighs.
New bride,please that's not stress but part of the ceremony.
ReplyDeleteGo with the flow,believe me you will enjoy it..
Congratulations in advance.
Pinky no story today
ReplyDeleteBride to be, plan with your hubby and leave the reception earlier and travel so that you will get to your in-laws on time and sleep on time for the next day's activities.
Cooperate with your man, it is normal.
The value of the stone got high when it was taken to the right place. Word on the marble.