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Monday, August 14, 2023

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

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UNIQUE PRAYER

My mother in law to be called me some , she doesn’t call me oh, even when i call like this, she will always ask me” who’s calling and i will have to introduce myself “

I got engaged last year and did my introduction October to be precise.
After the introduction i asked bobo when is he looking at and he said December, okay let’s go and do court wedding, he will always give excuses, so i let him be.

Back to the mother’s call, she said that, she went to see a pastor and the pastor told her that powers from my father’s house doesn’t want me to be happy, married and even establish in anything. She went further to tell me that, the pastor said that even her son anything he tells me won’t manifest because of the powers. She said she called her son and the son also confirmed that anytime he’s planning good thing and he tells me it will spoil.........

 I was shocked.

Mind you the eldest sister of my guy is in poverty, the immediate younger brother stagnant, he himself has been planning to travel before he met me, no show.

I started dating this guy everything started working well for him, he bought a car, he made massive sales in his real estate business,
Because i told him that my elder sister’s wedding my family sponsored it maybe they want my family to do same.

My parents built 2houses this year, the house we live in is ours.
 I already did a prayer of separation before that if he’s the one let everything work out and if he’s not the one let the real man come for me.




So you think your in laws to be are trying to get your family to sponsor the wedding? Na wah..... This kind of poverty family, are you sure you want to marry into it? The problems is always too much oh and since he is the only one that appears to be doing well, they will never give him breathing space...... If he does not give them what they want, they will blame you.

Please dont marry this man, his mothers call is a red flag!

52 comments:

  1. "His mother went to see a pastor",that should tell you something.

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    1. Nothing wrong with seeing a pastor
      The real ish is he knows that’s why he’s cooling off on the marriage talk
      Imagine him saying he is stagnant with all the great things that have happened on his life since he met her

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    2. E don start

      Mao Akuh

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    3. Leave him,him never ready marry.

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  2. I have a “relative” that his family believes crap like his wife’s family is not allowing his progress
    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣he barely tries to work so how will he have money in his account

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    1. You have the answer to your prayer already, what's this chronicle for?

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  3. The mother is speaking the mind of his son. Everything she told you is a written script from your supposed fiance. See you see bundage in the name of marriage to an immature man. A man that cannot face his woman instead he is hiding under his mother. Keep your eyes on the ground. You will soon see his wedding invitation with another woman. The Lord is your strength

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    1. Poster you are more than a strange behaving man and family

      Don't be unequally yoked
      RUN O!

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  4. You even still get time to send chronicle on the man's matter.
    You met a man whose turn of good fortune you attribute to yourself. Meanwhile his mum says the man says you are badluck. And you wrote a chronicle about him?
    Women dey try on man matter sha. After una go belittle men as if man no get value for woman.

    Anyway, I be male, as some bvs fit class me here.

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  5. You: My Pastor said ****

    Me: 🏃🏃🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃🏃

    I dislike a situation where I have to keep explaining myself and for situations like this @Poster;it’s worse cos nothing you say will make sense to your prospective MIL..

    The pastor calls the shot and whatever they tell her and her son is Yes and Amen;don’t get entangled into this if you dislike unnecessary emotional and verbal stress..

    @MARTINS

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    1. No pastor said
      Na format to end the relationship cause what can you say if God says you’re not the one

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    2. Word !!!! 🙌🏽
      She should let him go. They probably aren’t meant to be. Poster, they will drain you financially, mentally and physically. They will blame you for every cough and catarrh or headache, including mosquitoe bites. Please tell him you need to slow things down and hear from God. Reason being that the mother and her pastor just made a valuable point that needs prayers and God’s intervention. Watch them change mouth. Please don’t continue with him. They are stressful honestly. Please pray o.

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  6. Listen to stella.. you will see shege banza if u marry him, the shege will start from his mother.

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    1. Poster there is no point to prove to superstitious "na wife fault" dense people

      Block them all, mourn the relationship and move on with your life

      Stop explaining to dense people, next time pray before any day starts , PRAY HARD FOR AGBAKO AND COMPANY NOT TO NEAR YOU AGAIN

      Mtschew miserable low thinkers family

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  7. Poster, I take God beg u, run from that family. Your fiancé probably doesn’t want the marriage anymore and has sent his mum to codedly hint you.

    The woman doesn’t even sound like she likes u. Don’t make the mistake of marrying into that family

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  8. This woman has used style to tell you she doesn't want you in her son's life. If you pretend not to understand, she go unalive you as dem dey talk for street. She and her coven members have seen that your star has liberated her son from where they tied him and it's now war between you two. Thank God she showed herself early. Leave her and her toy-son for her PLEASE 🙏. You never see man not to talk of husband. This is not about money or who will sponsor wedding o. RUN!

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  9. Hian!! Na wa oh Poster the part of always introducing yourself to her, well I can't really say much. She might not be tech savvy and some people don't bother to save contacts. Not making excuses just saying.

    In addition, why did you need to mention to him that your family sponsored your Elder sister's wedding. That was not necessary in my opinion. Maybe na why the guy dey drag leg so you sef go handle the wedding expenses.

    Once someone starts with my pastor said, I believe you don't have a mind of your own and logic with common sense is thrown out of the window.

    Use your tongue to count your teeth

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    1. Even if you don’t save numbers after a while you will know the voice

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  10. Please take your mind off this guy, introduction is not marriage, a broken engagement is better than a broken marriage, I once broke my engagement because of mother/sister interference as mouth piece, that happened to be the best decision I ever made.

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  11. Poster please don't marry this guy.
    The fact that his mum called you a bad luck is a huge turnoff and red flag.

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  12. Better doing off your slippers and run o.
    Run as if a pride if lions are chasing you with steaming acid.
    Awon 'my pastor said'...I shut down immediately. As far as I'm concerned, when you start conversations like that, you only confirm you don't have a functional brain, and I don't want to be dragged down to your level of mediocrity.

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    1. 😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁@first paragraph.

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  13. Poster hope you didn't sleep with him after introduction, I learnt something from a Nigerian movie there was a bet to get a lady because she was so beautiful, the guy did the introduction slept with her and dumped her and married the real girlfriend because of bet

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  14. Pastors have saved people from bad marriages so all this don’t listen to your pastor crowd are another extreme
    If you have a good pastor, Pay attention to what your pastor says but still use your brain to analyze matters

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  15. Run from this family. The Mother and son are working together to end the engagement..

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  16. You never see husband o. Please stop telling him stuff. Not always nice to fall in love and start spilling stuff about ur family. Learn to bridle your tongue.

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    1. Gbam. I learned the hard way. My husband still uses it against me till date.

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  17. Poster for that woman to tell you such story ehh, something is cooking and it doesn't look good.
    Maybe your prayer has been answered, you need to draw back and see what happens

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    1. Nothing to see
      MOVE ON POSTER, CUT THEM OFF. BLOCK THEM TILL THY KINGDOM COME

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  18. Pls u ppl, is it everything that u open ur mouth and tell ur partners? Even ur family secrets for God’s sake? What kind of gist were u gisting that was so sweet to the point of telling ur man that ur family sponsored ur sister’s wedding? Did u tell him to rubbish ur sister’s inlaws or what?
    Then later u guys wud be writing and be disturbing us that ur men don’t respect ur family.

    My people say ciki ba don kashi kawai akayi shi ba. Meaning: stomach no be only because of shit dem do am.

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    1. Abeg family paying for daughters wedding is the norm
      What’s there to hide

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    2. 17:19, it is the norm in ur family ko? Cos a man that is waiting for his in-laws to sponsor his wedding is not ready to be married.

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    3. It is the proper tradition in the traditional marriage ceremony.

      Thereafter the couple (especially the man) can go on to do whatever scale Oyibo church wedding.

      But Nigerians have turned everything upside-down.

      This is one of the reasons some women face disrespect in marriage. How does a woman expect her husband and his family only to fund the usual triple decker marriage ceremonies Nigerians celebrate.

      That said, the funding of the marriage ceremony is the lesser problem here.

      The Poster is not welcomed by the man's mother. And there is also a tinge of superiority complex in the Poster towards the man's family. So there is already a mutual dislike between the two women important to the man in the middle.

      Since Poster is sure of the favour on her, let her seek a man who will value the favour or go where that favour will be valued. Simple.

      And if we may ask, why do Nigerian women like wanting their favour to manifest through their husbands or claiming the success of a man during relationship or marriage?

      Can't Poster manifest her favour for the benefit of herself and her husband? Just asking.

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  19. Poster is your boyfriend a law graduate based in Abuja and from the Eastern side... You gave some clue that made me think he's someone I know... Answer so I can spill the rest.

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    1. I am not the poster but my story is perfectly similar to the one up there and the description on my man matches what you wrote. Please spill; help a sister...

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    2. In order to be sure... Does his native name starts with Ar while his English name starts with Em and into Real estate.

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    3. If the native name ends with ze, then he's the one..

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    4. Yes his native name ends with ze..abort mission...he has a fiancee abroad...I pray they dnt decode me.i will send stella a chronicle to explain everything.im stil in doubt if its the same person though.

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  20. Please jewelry leave the marriage and pray to take back your good things, your star and virtues from that man.

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  21. poster free that guy with his family cos if you force yourself into this marriage you will never have peace. Is better you are single and happy than married and unhappy. His family already sees you as the main problem instead of them seeking the face of God, if you both get married you will see fire from his mother. Allow that guy to go, you should move on already.

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  22. One of the tactics used by some men if they tend to let go of u...


    This guy ehn..hmmmm..it is well

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    1. If na tactics,na coward him be

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  23. Dear poster, are you sure your MIL to be actually consulted a Pastor?
    Many things cropped up with your narrative, but the main lesson here is. Don't ever ever marry the guy. Or else your chronicles of SDK will be on weekly basis.
    Shalom.

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  24. Gbam.The so called fiancé is a baby boy.

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  25. So what are you still doing in such relationship. You open your eyes wide and you are walking into endless sadness. Better quit.

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  26. Better listen to the woman. Your prayer has been answered. Free the guy. Once your in-law or boyfriend start to say my pastor says. Know that it is an attempt to give you a red card. But if u are desperate to marry. U can beg the guy to marry by sponsoring your wedding.

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  27. Dear poster. Your chronicle just mentioned several red flags
    * explaining who you are when you call, even after introduction. She does not like/accept you.
    * your Bobo deflecting the court wedding
    *going to the pastor. Who asked her to?
    *saying that there is something wrong with your family
    *saying that you are the cause of her son’s problems

    Read the writing on the wall. These are serious red flags that do not disappear. Neither will love cover or erase them. Open your eyes my dear. This is not man for you.
    This does not have to do with money or sponsoring your wedding. It is much more than that.

    Did you confront him? What did he say? Did he accept deny or deflect it again? Whatever he says, be wise. Marriage is a long term affair. Is this what you want in your marriage?

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  28. Pls do not hurry into marriage with him.i guess he hasn't even made up his mind yet concerning the marriage plans cos of his mother.
    Pray and God will direct you on the next step to take.
    Good luck

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  29. To avoid more chronicles in future, better run oo .

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  30. See red flag oooo. Hmmmmmm

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  31. Be very careful with that family before they will collect your bright star and give you bad luck in return.

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  32. God answered your prayer, just not the way you “secretly” wanted. Once you have in-laws or relations who visit “seers” even before you get married and tell you such things, please run for your future. Notice I didn’t say “pastors” but seers who use divination. If God shows you a problem, he already made a way out through prayer & fasting. Anyone who sees problems without solution is not from God because the blood of Jesus has already been shed for us. Wait for your own man. God will make a way.

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