WHAT!!!:........This story will brek your heart this Morning....
Wednesday, October 18, 2023
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Share the food to beggers, store the rest in small containers in the freezer. Cut the cake in bits and freeze as well. Na when im eye clear you go show am
ReplyDelete‘Only God knows what the man has been seeing in that marriage… he had to run away for his peace of mind and mental health. No man would ever treat his wife this way except she had done something really bad to him’🌝
DeleteI also saw the story of the man who did a surprise birthday party for his wife and she disappointed also.
DeleteBut the one I saw that I liked is the story where the woman was a street trader selling food, with a baby strapped to her back whose husband came to surprise her with 'panranran' on her birthday on the road. She was just happy and blushing.😁😊
Sorry about what you are going through but you sha! Madam!
DeleteI believe there have been some cracks in the walls of your marriage before his birthday, ok, you thought organising a birthday party would mend it? I honestly feel you should have gone the route of a private dinner, so you can have time to talk things out.
He embarrassed you by not showing up for the "surprise party" ; you should have allowed your invitees believe the lies you told them about his cancelled flight, so they can eat and go home. I really don't know what you wanted to prove by calling and putting him on speaker!!! When will my gender learn?? I'm sorry if I sound harsh but you are naive.
The deed has been done but don't go about trying to cover up what has been exposed, just thank your invitees for coming and face front.
Oh well, try to fix your marriage by communicating, you both need to talk, get those you both trust and respect involved. Be prayerful and be positive but don't act out of desperation. Be strong and wise.
Wo, it is difficult to advise my gender jare.
Sorry madam, but from his reply, it's obvious that the marriage is not going very well. Rather than focusing on trying to present a wonderful image to the world, work on your marriage in private. What people think of your marriage is not as important as what you both know about your marriage. Pele🤗
Delete@numero uno (BBM), Its not always the case.
DeleteIf another lady is shacking him, that explains it.
And yes some women do jazz for men. If you don't agree na you sabi.
Ehya! Pele o
ReplyDeleteSo emotionally draining, I feel for her
Really heartbreaking 💔.
ReplyDeleteI can never force myself to be loved by any man. She should have noticed all these strange acts from him for sometime.
My point of view as well.
DeleteI can't force any love, no, I love me too much to stress over someone like this?
DeleteWomen put ur emotions in check.. Stop these unnecessary and unhealthy life oh, love yourself and enjoy your life.. Know the man u married before having plenty kids that u can't care for..
You're so right.
DeleteNa why I respect May. If the man is tired free him. No need to beg for love and loose your self esteem in the process
Deleteyes she keep forcing it. guy man don check out
Deletevery true. There must have been traces, but she chose to ignore and risk it. This kind of embarrassment is second to non abeg. God forbid
DeleteE'eeyah! The man just humiliated her before her guests. It's obvious that he has checked out of that marriage.
ReplyDeleteThe woman wanted the humiliation. Someone wants to play god in your life and you are allowing it. So what did she gain with this action now
DeleteShe humiliated herself. He didn't show up, you then called and put him on speaker.
DeleteReally?
Ahn!....this is really bad🥺
ReplyDeleteBut seeing the kind of person he is, she should have first stepped aside to call him personally and know if he would oblige speaking to the people before placing the call on speaker.
Ahn! The man no try at all, this is the height of disgrace
This is totally bad and heart break 💔.
ReplyDeleteLord nothing is impossible for you to do. I pray you restore this home and amend any crack in the marriage in Jesus name 🙏
Restore how? home is broken already i cant even advice my enemy to stay put.
DeleteSurprise birthday for yourself you mean, hope you surprised yourself enough? Sure you knew the outcme in many ways but your liw self esteem and attention seeking behaviour no gree you de your own. What did he do to warrant a surprise birthday from you in the first place? Oh! I forgot, he was cheating so you decided to reward him with a party? Continue to be in a marriage with yourself and think you can fake that all is well when it's not, the truth is coming to you in a bigger way. Oniranu MRS!
ReplyDeleteThis is very harsh for no reason. She is trying to make her marriage work, rightly or wrongly. Why are you blaming the victim, have some empathy!. Women are always being exhorted to "build their home '. The social pressure is too much to withstand sometimes. I pray this situation can be sorted out one way or the other and she can have peace of mind and joy🙏🏿
DeleteThis happened to me few years ago since then I just buy one small insignificant gift and face front never again.
DeleteAnons 8:50 it looks as if you No this person personally
DeleteEven at that she does not deserve this kind insult you dish out
Come on be Niceee
This woman is going through alot...haba nahh
Gbam! She thought the surprise birthday will make him love her again buahahahhah
DeleteTired of all these sob stories. Not everyone loves these surprise parties. You should know who you are married to.
ReplyDeleteAbeg.
We are tired of husband and wife wahala.
Madam this story is not complete.
ReplyDeleteDid you cheat on him?
What did you do that pushed him into the arms of another woman?
Now that he's gone, you are now trying to manipulate his emotions back.
When did we Nigerian women start throwing this magnitude of surprise birthday, we are known to only buy boxers or just post his pic on social media only.
You must have done something so terrible, and that's why you're doing this much.
He's gone, otilo. Next time appreciate a good man instead of frustrating him.
I am a mumu for my own husband, I submit totally, I stoop to conquer and I have never regretted it. He loves me like kilode and goes extra miles to make me happy. Why would I be fighting my husband for no reason and expect him to love me.
I'm glad I never took the advice of some of my friends to be tough to him, I look at them now and smile. One is separated, another is doing just like you are, trying to win her husband back, the rest are unmarried and dating people husbands
This is too harsh, I beeeggi
DeleteSo you that have a husband that you are mumu for feels you are in heaven. This is the kind of posts that make women remain in bondage in the name of marriage. Well, whatever makes you sleep well at night
DeleteStop floating over someone's pain. You don't know her story but you are quick to conclude that she is the cause of her problem.
DeleteJust thank God for his mercy and grace upon your life.
Hmmm na wa ooo. You better be careful of what you say. You don't know what your "husband " may do tomorrow.
DeleteHe might not be seeing another woman though.
DeleteYou asked valid questions. Some women are mean and manipulative.
After they have messed up terribly, they’ll want to make up with such surprises.
And if the woman didn’t do anything to deserve this treatment from him, then he is an idiot and that would be the end for me.
Sluttychic.
I hope your table won’t turn one day life is so unpredictable. Ire ooo
DeleteSee talk. Very wicked self righteous comment. Your own pepper too is loading. Just wait and see.
DeleteHolier than thou!!! Na your type dey chop shit inside marriage while trying to paint a picture-perfect marriage. So she did 'something' that made the man to humiliate her like that??? It has to be her fault. Be careful how you judge others because life has a way of humbling your type.
DeleteHow are you so sure the woman is Nigerian? This happens with other nationals too.
DeleteGlad you figured out what works for your marriage
Congratulations
DeleteSo u just believe she must hav offended the man for him to react this way? How did u come to such conclusions?
Yes there are women like this but u don't live with them and can't just assume.. Moreover going to this length means she wants to work on the marriage. But he's the trying at all?
Anonymous 9:41, no pepper is loading for me. We're always quick to blame men for everything when the honest truth is that most issues in marriage are caused by us.
DeleteI have been married for 16 years and have never had any major disagreement with my hubby. The irony is that due to the way I worship him, he allows me have my way without quarrel but I also respect myself and know my boundaries. No reasonable man would treat a woman who submits badly, in the beginning I was scared that I'll be a push over like everyone was saying, yes, he strayed a little too and I handled it maturely, but for 10 years now, I can say anywhere that my hubby has been faithful and loves me more than his life. You have to earn a man's love and commitment. I earned mine. If you want to continue fighting yours, you can go ahead
You’re very dense in your reasoning. This scenario happens to the best of us.
DeleteHahahahhaahahha. See them wailing here yet you made light of yesterday's chronicle poster. Na Dante fit una for this blog.
DeleteHahaha… Aboki don’t i just love you. Isn’t this similar to the ‘sarcasm’ they were dropping for last night’s chronicle poster? The women on here are full time cruise. 😂 crazy thing is, their opinions or sarcasm when it concerns a man doesn’t change the fact of real life occurrences.
DeleteMadam 16yrs marriage, pls keep doing you and yes, you are a wiiiiise woman. While The ones forming voltron on here keep lamenting every night while soaking their pillows due to loneliness caused by their foolishness and hatred for men.
Pride goes before a fall. It is by grace. Worship God and not human beings. High expectations can lead to disappointment.
DeleteAnonymous 12:57
DeletePride is when you don't respect your husband and think you're equal. If you cannot submit to him, then you shouldn't marry him.
Ephesians 5:22-33 ERV
Wives, be willing to serve your husbands the same as the Lord. A husband is the head of his wife, just as Christ is the head of the church. Christ is the Savior of the church, which is his body. The church serves under Christ, so it is the same with you wives. You should be willing to serve your husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives the same as Christ loved the church and gave his life for it. He died to make the church holy.
Serve, submit, reverence, worship can be used interchangeably.
I said earlier that my husband loves me more than his life, which is the same way Christ love the church, but y'all turned blind eyes to his love for me, and are more concerned about my submission to him. May God help you people for your own sakes.
Before you come and qoute the Bible wrongly about submitting to eachother, make sure you do a research on what submitting to one another under the reverence of Christ means, before going about embarrassing yourselves
Lol at he strayed a little
Delete13:20 rushing to reply everybody, did I refer to you? I spoke generally but in a bid to prove yourself, you go dey type epistle. You go explain tire. E no concern me ooo.You know nothing about me, my gender or knowledge of the Bible. If you like worship your husband na you sabi. My point is NOBODY should take the place of God in your life in worship, not even your husband or wife.
DeleteUna dey wet with sarcasms all over yesterday's Chronicle. Now una dey cry because the issue was raised that the woman caused her husband's waywardness or that the woman started the cheating.
DeleteHow are we sure this husband is not the man una praised for still finding a married woman with 3 children a worthy bedmate because her body still dey!
Even if it is not her husband. When the husband or lover of the woman this husband is sleeping sends a chronicle, una go still sarcasm on top of that man's chronicle.
Una see how life be?
People's response to that Chronicle really pained you. Na wa ooo. See you all over posts concerning women chanting sarcasm. Even on IHN. Continue your gender wars. Na only that one wey you sabi. The chronicle where almost all the ladies supported the man, you no mention that one. Biased person. Sha don't let it affect you in real life.
DeleteHaba mana! The least he could do was to just pick and talk via video call and they will continue celebrating without him. Some human beings are so wicked, like no conscience at all, as if they don't have blood and water running in the bodies.
ReplyDeleteMadam the pain and shame is too much but dust yourself and move on, life happens. You are better than him. Wicked and callous husband.
No wonder some of these ladies deny you guys access to their kids to pay for your wicked acts, lol not right shall.
Madam and other women here in her shoes. You knew he was not into you anymore, he didn't just start but you went ahead to organize a birthday party for him? How do you beg someone to love you? Is love by force.
ReplyDeleteDey your dey and let him dey his dey! Ignore him totally and face your job and kids (if you have).
I'm just angry that you wasted money that you should have used to pamper yourself. Nonsense
💔💔💔💔
ReplyDeleteit sometimes baffles me why some people make another human being a god in their lives. This can never be me, immediately I noticed your attitude I give you space no time. Some humans are not worth any energy or effort of pleasing them
ReplyDeleteExactly what the man did. The wif must have been displaying bad attitude at home hence his reason for running away.🌝
DeleteHow do they .arry men like this!
ReplyDeleteWhen a marriage has underlying issues that haven't been resolved, sometimes genuine acts of affection can become irritating. I am not holding brief for the husband but something must have happened to make him act the way he did. It must not neccessarily be the presence of another woman.
ReplyDeleteOr he just may not be the kind of person that birthday parties appeal to. He could however, have handled the situation more maturely.
I love your takes on issues. Unbiased and well written. Kudos 👍👍👍
DeleteYou are right
DeleteThis is very wrong of the man to treat her like that.
ReplyDeleteWhen there are issues in marriage, address it. Organizing parties when there are visibly unresolved issues is pure manipulation. Not every body is swayed by that. I'm a woman, if my husband offends me and refuses to address the issues, I won't accept any gift that he throws at me. You threw a surprise party in place of conflict resolution!
ReplyDeleteWell said!
DeleteEven if he's seeing another woman, is that a reason enough to be an Ass? Such a soulless MF.🥴🤯
ReplyDeleteRead from the comment above 👆, that's a take from a woman like you… the only difference between the both of you is wisdom.
Delete12:55 and what makes you the judge of what is wisdom? You are already biased against the female gender, as evidenced by your comment, so that already cancels your objectivity.
DeleteI meant 12:15
DeleteMost women lives in pretense and denial....some only step up their games when their partner walks away
ReplyDeleteOk oooo.
ReplyDeleteLaslas he will come back when he's had his fill with the other woman and una go use those guests do settlement and start doing love to pepper their papa. We know una way...
Surprise birthday indeed! Like she didn't know her husband. Not everyone wants to celebrate in a particular way
ReplyDeleteI agree totally with Anon 8:50, as for you Anon 8:53 as if you don't know that most men do not have any reason to cheat but do. So those who sleep with their maids did their wives cheat on them? What is wrong with you (some women) haba. Unless you know this person personally then your comment would pass for me. I only blame this woman for trying to buy back his love, the signs must have always been there. Who send you throw party? why call him and put it on speaker with everyone listening, seems you sef like disgrace
ReplyDeleteDid you know the chronicle poster yesterday before everyone assume that he is the cause of his wife cheating?
DeleteSome of us even went ahead to mock him, now that it is one of us, we all want to sympathize with her. I don't see the mocking comments like what happened yesterday when a man was hurting
My dear you are right 10:21. As usual people don turn this one again to gender war. In life, if your partner or spouse is not kind and is selfish you are in trouble. Nobody knows what really happened and everyone is assuming. But this is a reminder that some people are just wicked. That is the Peak that is in them, and they don't need a reason to treat others like trash and undermine others' efforts. It takes two to tango. If only one person is putting the effort the relationship or marriage will not work. We need to learn to genuinely support one another. I can't say what really happened in this case, but I hope she can pick up the pieces and love herself.
DeleteA friend of mine is going through same. Husband is seeing another woman from Byls. He so flaunts it in her face that she resorted to God will judge this man. They are Muslims, anyways, so it makes it difficult.
ReplyDeleteOf course she is staying because of the kids who are still underaged. God help us.
Madam,so sorry for his ill treatment,but am sure u did it to mend fences and let love grow again cos sometimes partying with friends and luved ones re-enkindles love .don't kill urself,dust urself off and face ur front.dont let urself drawn,get busy, channel ur energy into something worth while so u don't think about it.good luck
ReplyDeleteThis is really heartbreaking. No one deserves this level of humiliation. My heart goes out to her.
ReplyDeleteHf_beddings 09072300391
There is a disconnect, you took a risk
ReplyDeletebecause you already knew in your heart that he
may not be available.
Address and fix the underlying issues first,
If he is the one cheating and still trying to humiliate
and break you, pack him to one side and focus
on other positive things that make you happy.
The more you seek his attention, the more you
irritate him.
When trying to salvage your marriage and prove yourself a good wife goes wrong. Acts of desperation always backfire.
ReplyDeleteAnd if by some miracle he should return home to you and forget the other woman you would forgive all and carry your caveman along smiling from ear to ear for all to see pretending that you have something of value.
Cut the cake up and give to the homeless or donate it to an orphanage or old age home. Face front and focus on yourself and as long as you live never wish that man happy birthday, treat it like any other day and forget celebrating anything for him.
You are organizing suprised birthday party when you have not settled your differences.
ReplyDeleteNot everybody likes surprise that is why it is good to ask before doing ,no your boundaries it is not a crime it is called respect
ReplyDeleteTor.
ReplyDeleteSeriously he might be seeing someone else
ReplyDeleteBoth of you come across as manipulative.
ReplyDeleteRule #1: Don't believe women
ReplyDeleteIt is men you should believe? 😂
Delete