According to viral news, the mother of little boy featured in the viral “Mummy Calm Down” video has reportedly died by suicide.
She lived in Benin city Nigeria with her husband and three children (The last boy just celebrated his first birthday in May)May her sould find rest........
RIP to the dead.
ReplyDeletePlease let us all be patient with ourselves , people around us and even the country. Things are getting tougher by the day but in all WE SHALL OVERCOME.
I hope she was not beaten to death and they lied its suicide? Hmmm... the way husbands are killing their wives is alarming. They should perform autopsy before burying her. That was how my neighbor almost strangled his wife overnight. Thank God for their gateman that came to her rescue. Had it been he succeeded in offing her he would have lied that she committed suicide. Wives be on guard ooh. Nagama..
DeleteJust as wives are killing their husbands, please men be on guard ooo😏😏
DeleteWetin happen nah?
DeleteSo sad
8:59 Thank you for this.
DeleteJeezzz! Hope she was not depressed. Maybe the calm down boy had seen shege from serious beatings.....just thinking. Suicide is never an excuse out of whatever situation. Hope she finds rest now
DeleteGet away, a woman died
DeleteKeep your inferior arguments about men away from here musigynist
Jess, what went wrong?
ReplyDeleteSuch a beautiful young woman.
May her soul rest in peace
Read the news last night and was so shocked. This life people are going through stuffs we don't know.
ReplyDeleteI stopped blaming suicide victims cos you really don't know how strong they have held it for too long. There are usually secret tears behind those smiles you often see some people display publicly.
At the very end, we'll all be gone someday irrespective of all we have acquired in this life.
May her soul find rest..
I understand your second paragraph, but don't you think it would have been better to speak out instead of opting for suicide, now look at the young children she left behind to suffer.
DeleteThere is no justification for suicide please, may her soul rest in peace
DeleteAnne K,
DeleteDo you say speak out? You wrote as if you don't know how judgmental Nigerians are. Take a look at the blog for instance. People are trolled on the blog for begging for money to feed or solve a pressing need. You're either called a liar or scam. When that person eventually give up, the same people who trolled him or her will spew thrash, ''why didn't he or she speak out'' as if they meant any good.
See let me tell you something. The fact some people don't ask for help online or from people doesn't mean they don't have problems. Na insults they're just avoiding..
After speaking out what next , gossips?, Very few people really cares about what you're going through,your problem is gist to many, some are even glad you have pr, May we not find ourselves in such situatio
DeleteThank you teejay for these comments, especially the second comment
DeleteA lot of people spoke out and they got shamed
DeleteA lot spoke out and got dragged and insulted
A lot spoke out and got called a liar, a fraudster and a weakling.
A lot spoke out and their personal issues and challenges was the gossip in family gatherings.
Besides, she might have been speaking out and getting some help that she later got embarrassed speaking out after some time due to the fact that she doesn't want to be called a begger or a nuisance. How many can even afford a psychologist?
I am not saying what she did is the solution but most times when people say speak out they need to know that people may not due to fear, humiliation and shame. Sometimes others may not listen because they have their own issues they are battling with that sometimes you could be speaking out to someone and feel they are not empathetic enough not knowing that what they are going through is even bigger than your own challenges.
Because sometimes it isn't financial.
A lot have committed suicide and some are probably contemplating it. God help everyone in that phase and give them peace that surpasses all human reasoning and understanding.
In all, People need to be kind with one another in words, thoughts, deeds and action and if you can't be kind try not to add to others pain.
A lot of people spoke out and they got shamed
DeleteA lot spoke out and got dragged and insulted
A lot spoke out and got called a liar, a fraudster and a weakling.
A lot spoke out and their personal issues and challenges was the gossip in family gatherings.
Besides, she might have been speaking out and getting some help that she later got embarrassed speaking out after some time due to the fact that she doesn't want to be called a begger or a nuisance. How many can even afford a psychologist?
I am not saying what she did is the solution but most times when people say speak out they need to know that people may not due to fear, humiliation and shame. Sometimes others may not listen because they have their own issues they are battling with that sometimes you could be speaking out to someone and feel they are not empathetic enough not knowing that what they are going through is even bigger than your own challenges.
Because sometimes it isn't financial.
A lot have committed suicide and some are probably contemplating it. God help everyone in that phase and give them peace that surpasses all human reasoning and understanding.
In all, People need to be kind with one another in words, thoughts, deeds and action and if you can't be kind try not to add to others pain.
Words on Marble.
So because of how judgmental Nigerians are I should commit suicide? Them never born them. The woman has been depressed and left unmanaged that’s why it led to suicide .
Delete9:51 No, no one is saying anyone should commit suicide because of how judgemental people are. Rather the so-called "speaking out cop out" may not be the best option besides it borders on victim-blaming.
DeleteNonetheless, seeing a psychologist, like I wrote earlier is the best option but how many people can afford that?
Words on Marble.
Speaking out is better than Hell fire o, hell fire is real believe it or not. Forget about the judgegina speaking out is way better it saves lives and puts your mind at rest.
DeleteI swear you guys have said it all. I spoke out on something bothering me to one person in my family and I was mocked and shamed by my own family. It became news for everyone.
DeleteOkay then keep quiet and SUFFER then.
DeleteWhose loss?
You are conveniently forgetting all the times people have spoken up and received ample help.
Some don't even speak and receive massive help.
Maybe grace no dey your head, or your star no good, or it's just not your time.
You can choose to find excuses or find a way.
It's all on you.
Many her soul rest in peace
Delete13:54 Back to the sender.
DeleteMay She rest well...
ReplyDeleteJesus 😳😭😭😭😭 what happened. Suicide is never an option whyyyy
ReplyDeleteIt's a pity,may her soul rest in peace.
ReplyDeleteWhat kind of problem would make one kill herself? I can't imagine
ReplyDeleteThis is heartbreaking 💔💔
ReplyDeleteMay her soul rest in peace 🙏
OMG ! I saw it yesterday but I was waiting to see it here to be sure 💔💔💔 Lord have mercy 😭 people are going through alot ..Kai
ReplyDeleteOh dear
ReplyDeleteOnly God knows what she was going through.. Rest in peace fine woman
May God have mercy on her soul. The past 9 years did great damage to families and individuals. Misrule resulted to much depression, frustration & suicide. Unfortunately, tribalism beclouded a lot of people in choosing the right leader. In this part of the West am residing, some normal Yorubas are searching for food inside dustbin late in the night. It is just pitiable & heart wrenching.
ReplyDeleteHmmm! May her soul rest in peace
ReplyDeleteHey God what could have happened...
ReplyDeleteChai! But suicide is never an option o no matter what.
This is terrible 😭😭 may God comfort her family
ReplyDeleteJesus!what happened,sad news
ReplyDeleteMay her soul rest in peace.
What will cause this woman to commit suicide?? OMG
ReplyDeletespeechless 🤐
What about your three kids, who will take care of them haba. Honestly people who commit suicide are selfish beyond measures. Very pained.
DeleteHmmmm!!
ReplyDeleteGod rest her soul
😭😭😭 may her soul find rest.pls let's share our worries with love ones rather than keeping it to ourselves.depression is real.
ReplyDeleteLord have mercy. What could have happened 🤷🏾♀️ . People are really going through a lot. May her soul rest in peace 🙏.
ReplyDeleteI heard it in radio yesterday, chaii may her soul rest in peace.
ReplyDeleteThis is heartbreaking.people are going through a lot. God rest her soul.
ReplyDeleteSuicide?
ReplyDeleteHaba why nah beautiful woman
Suicide is never an option ooo
The country is very hard which is affecting every one
But anything that can bring money even is 500 naira a day or two days just do am ...
This Life is too precious
May her sweet soul rest well..
may her soul rest in peace. She should have thought of her three children before doing this. No matter the situation suicide is never an option. May God console her family, her children and husband.
ReplyDeleteSo sad, please life is hard, we are all preoccupied with trying to meet our basic needs. All the same, let's never be too busy to check on, or give a listening ear to a family and friend in need.
ReplyDeleteAvoid comparing yourself with others, thereby putting unnecessary pressure on ourselves. Let us have a sense of contentment. Cut off any negative energy around us. Most importantly, let us be kind, kind, kind, to all around us.
You see that cutting of negative energy since I started cutting some negative people around me off I now have peace,may God console her family
DeletePainful. She could not confide in her husband or family. RIP lady. Your son saw the future ahead and was singing calm down mummy. May they receive heavenly comfort Amen
ReplyDeleteWhy commiting suicide, the lord is trying our faith. We just need to that may he never try us with the hardest tasks
ReplyDeleteOnly God's knows what humans don't know, only God knows what went wrong 😔
ReplyDeleteThis is so sad. RIP
ReplyDelete😔😔😔
ReplyDeleteIt is well with her soul. God comfort those she left behind especially her kids
ReplyDeleteChai 😭 She did not heed to her prophetic son.
ReplyDeleteMay her soul rest in peace
ReplyDeleteOh no. Lord have mercy.
ReplyDeleteMay her soul rest in peace. Amen.
This morning I was telling myself that nothing will ever make me commit suicide.. nothing!
ReplyDeleteI don't know what happened to her but no matter what, suicide is never an option.
Rest in peace to her and may God console her family.
Never Never an option
DeleteWhat could have pushed her to such an action?
ReplyDeleteSad !!!
ReplyDeleteWhat could have led to this ?
May God Console the family !
May her soul find rest.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteThis is so 😞
There is nothing too hard for God to do with patience and prayers.
ReplyDeleteMay God rest her soul.... people are going through a lot these days...May God ease our affairs
ReplyDeleteThis is sad
ReplyDeleteHow will I believe that it was a suicide when the report wasn't from the family member??? No picture to convince us .
ReplyDeleteHow will I believe that it was a suicide when the report wasn't from the family member??? No picture to convince us .
ReplyDeleteNigeria is too blessed for people to be this hopeless. Una no know wetin una get. No natural disasters, no extreme cold and extreme heat that can kill. No snow, hurricanes and wild fires. Good food, vast natural resources, plus social & community living. Our only 'curse' na our politicians. Evil leaders. Greedy thieves. For every Nigerian who dies due to hopelessness, it's mostly because of them. The girl that died in the elevator, I hear they have not fixed it yet. People are dying of hunger and hopelessness like never before. This is sad and unjust.
ReplyDeleteOur only curse is our behaviour. Our people are terrible, go to civil services and see government workers to confirm. We always take advantage of other because we love money more than other human
DeleteChai!!
ReplyDeleteThis is so sad.
Sometimes having it all is an illusion. Only the person living the life knows what it feels like. Getting out of hopelessness takes hard work. I wish this was not the end she chose, but I hope her soul is at peace on the other side.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm! For those of us passing through what our frail strength can bear, may God in his infinite mercy ease our burdens and come through for us.
ReplyDeletePls if you are going through alot, suicide is never the best way out.🙅🙅🙅🙅 Try as much as you can to speak out, swallow your pride and get mocked but fight to stay alive, you owe yourself that duty. I'm rooting for you. Much love!!!💕💕💕💕
They should carry out a thorough investigation, let it not be that her husband did it and lied that it was suicide. May her soul rest in peace
ReplyDeletePost partum depression and it's lingering effects in a country where people carelessly confess hopelessness and after many sudden and treacherous economical experiments in the last administration, people felt quite vulnerable. We don't know if home life was also an issue. May God be with her family.
ReplyDeleteThank God I overcome mine own suicide though.
ReplyDeleteMay her soul rest in peace
ReplyDeleteIt is well
ReplyDeleteOnly God knows what happene. Hmmmm
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